This is a live discussion session that Chodron gave back in 2007 or so, but I’m counting it as a book because I checked it out on my Hoopla library app, and it was 8 hours long. I found the teachings incredibly practical and actionable, and her humor was so appreciated. Each of her little chuckles accentuated the lightheartedness of the teaching. Here are some of the things she spoke of that impacted me.
1. Remaining like a log, in all things. Always moving in the direction of de-escalation.
2. Cultivating joy in the joy of others, first for those it is easy to love, moving toward folks we don’t even really know, and then, of course, like tonglen, moving toward being happy in the happiness of others, even those who we may count as enemies, or people who frustrate us.
3. Not separating ourselves. In the path of the Bodhisattva, in Chodron’s interpretation, there is little room for going off, alone, and meditating singularly. She highlights the necessity and value of practicing these teachings in the context of community.
All in all, if you have the Hoopla app, I highly recommend borrowing this one and giving it a listen. It’s incredibly approachable, too, even if you haven’t read Buddhist teaching in the past.