This is an old book so some of the advice is laughably dated. Palm pilot, anyone? Lol. And the long section about paper, is that still an issue for anyone? I would think digital clutter is a bigger issue for people and not piles of catalogs and magazines in your house. She has a section about how to read the thick Sunday newspaper. Oh wow, remember those days?! However, if you can get past these dated parts, then there is still helpful, timeless advice to be gathered from reading this. I am already doing some of what she suggests but I still found ways to tweak my behaviors.
I grabbed this at the library hoping to get some information that would help my neurodiverse college aged kids manage their time better. Time blindness and time management skills are big issues for ND people. Unfortunately, a lot of the advice is geared for typical brains and won’t be that helpful.
One of my biggest takeaways from the book was to combine your planner and your to-do list. I’d been doing them separately and it makes sense to have everything in one place.
I’m going to add a lot of screenshot quotes to help me recall the advice I want to remember.
One of the most common causes for not getting to important activities is that you haven't set aside a specific time in which to do them. If you think you'll pay bills or write a thank-you note when you are in the mood, think again. When you catch yourself thinking,"I'll have fun, or pamper myself in my spare time," stop! There is no such thing as spare time!
Some people suffer from chronic conditions that seriously deplete their energy stores. You could be slowed down by clinical depression or ADHD or any of a number of health problems.If your energy is limited, it becomes more important than ever to prioritize your to-do list: plan your days to start with what's most important, leaving smaller, less significant activities for later in the day (and only if you still have any energy left)
Sometimes what stands between our current, chaotic lives and the lives in which we make time for what's really important are psychological obstacles. We know what we need to do, but we resist taking action beca use the inaction serves us somehow by fulfilling some deep-seated need we may not even be aw are of. You might set your life up to be in constant disaster mode because, quite frankly, you are a wonderful crisis manager. You feel so good conquering the impossible that you keep creating it, just so you can rescue yourself.You pull it off every time although not necessarily without some “fallout" along the way. You learned to feel a certain comfort in crisis, and you felt good about your ability to handle chaos.
It could be that you are suffering from a fear of failure. It can be very frightening to go after your dreams and find out you are incapable of achieving them. Sometimes it's easier to avoid making the effort, blaming circumstances or the fact that you didn't get to try, rather than risking true failure. Being unwilling to risk failure will prevent you from attaining your goals, because you're forever afraid to take that first step. When failure has you paralyzed in its grasp ask, "What's the worst possible thing that could happen?" and then dare yourself to move forward.
Consider this: Saying yes to the person in the moment means you're saying no to someone else whom you've already promised that time to. If you're always staying late to help out a coworker, or say "sure" to every committee assignment that's offered to you, whom or what are you saying no to? Is it your spouse?Your kids? Your friends?
Time is completely invisible— it's something you feel, and it feels ... utterly amorphous. How long is a day? Well, that depends on your energy and how much sleep you had. How long is an hour? Well, if you're doing something you love, it whizzes by; but if you're caught up in something dreadful, it crawls painfully along.
just as a closet is a limited space into which you must fit a certain number of objects, a schedule is a limited number of hours into which you must fit a certain number of tasks. Each day is simply a container, a storage unit that has a finite capacity. You can only fit so much into it.
Each task is an object that you must find space for in your schedule. Just as every pair of shoes you place in your closet takes up a certain amount of room, each task takes up a certain amount of time. It
becomes critical to evaluate your to-dos in terms of their size (duration) in order to determine whether or not they will fit into your schedule.
If you consistently miscalculate, you'll take on more than you can handle.You'll start each day with tremendous ambition, only to feel defeated by the end of the day. Miscalculating tasks can also lead to procrastination- if you think a half-hour task will take two hours, you'll never get started.
asking the question "How long will this take?" of every single task you do is the number one gateway skill to good time management.
It takes different people different amounts of time to do the identical task. Why? We all have different skill sets, interests, concentration cycles, and energy levels. The key is to find out how long it really takes YOU to do the things you need to do and move away from wishful thinking.
When you are calculating, you need to factor in a variety of hidden time costs. Acknowledging them will improve your estimating skills from the start.
• Travel Time, To and From
Take into consideration when and how you are traveling.Are you traveling at rush hour? Are you taking public transportation? How reliable is it? Do you have to leave extra time in case the train is late? What is the parking situation? If you are going to an office building with an elevator, remember to leave time for waiting for the elevator. walking down the hall and talking to the receptionist. If your appointment is for 10 a.m., and you've timed it so you walk in the door of the building at 10 a.m., you're going to be late.
• Setup Time
Do you need time to gather materials? Do you need to lay them out? Do you need to get yourself oriented to the project?Do you need to change your clothes (to work out, for example)?
• Cleanup/Wind-Down time
You need time to put everything away. Also, if you're leaving a task before it's completed, you need time to write a little note for yourself so when you go back, you know where you left off.
• Stewing Time
Some tasks require thinking time. You might need to think before you start, or you might need stewing time during the project. This time needs to be built in.
• Interruption Time
Is there a chance you'll be interrupted? If you'll be doing the task during a time of day when you're likely to be interrupted, or if you've got kids around, build in extra time so that an interruption or two doesn't throw your entire schedule off.
• Unexpected-Problems
Add a little cushion to deal with complications that arise. When in doubt about how much cushion time you'll need, factor in 20 percent.
• Refreshment Time
You need to break for moving around/stretching. You also need breaks for food, drink and bathroom breaks.
If you would like to boost your productivity, and increase your ability to calculate tasks accurately, you need to develop your tolerance for concentration. Start by blocking off fifteen minutes at a time, and force yourself to do only one task till the fifteen minutes are up. This is a huge behavior change, and it will be challenging.
Once you get into the habit of writing everything down in a single consistent location, you'll stop worrying that you're forgetting something-and you can actually concentrate on getting things done.
if you are always on time for some things, but late for others, you have the capacity to be on time. You own that skill. You are simply choosing (consciously or unconsciously) when to apply it.
some of us like to work in short concentrated bursts; others need a longer window of time. Some people like to work in isolation; other people can only get things done by working with others.
Some like last-minute pressure; others absolutely hate it. Predictable vs. Spontaneity, tight deadlines vs long lead times, busy vs slow schedule, One thing at a time vs multitasking, stewing on things vs quick decisions, silence vs background noise, dim lighting vs bright lighting
if you prefer a slower pace, you might limit your daily to-do list to three to four items. Stop trying to fight who you are.
if you're doing something at the wrong time of day when your energy level isn't quite right, you either won't do what you're supposed to or it'll take five times longer than it should.
Choose 2 or 3, NO MORE, as your big life goals
• Work
• Family
• Self
• Romance
• Friendship
• Finances
• Knowledge
• Home
• Spirituality
• Community
• Health
Are there any hours you can't account for? What do you think is going on during that time? Is there any structure to your week at all, or is every day completely out of control? Are you wasting any free time, or are your days so tightly packed that it gives you a headache? Are there tasks that might be deleted or moved to give you more hours to work with?
1. How do you spend most of your hours?
2. What departments of your life are completely neglected?
3. Is your schedule balanced?
4. Are there any surprises (i.e., you thought you spent more time with your kids than you actually do)?
5. Is there a structure to your week or is it somewhat random?
6. Are there any hours that you cannot account for?
7. Any patterns?
8. Are you happy with how you spend your time?
9. How do you decide what has to be done on a daily basis?
10. What throws your schedule off?
Pay attention to the areas that monopolize your time. Are those where your goals are the clearest?
Exercise, spending time with family, and job hunting are activities, not goals. The question is why do you want to do these things? What is the purpose of exercise? Motivation to take action comes when you see something on the other side of the activity that you really desperately want. Why exercise? To feel stronger. Why spend time with family? Because you want to feel a sense of connection.Be sure to distinguish between a big-picture goal -the point of it all - and an activity, which is what you use to get there.
life is nothing more than a series of decisions and corrections. There is no right answer.
A Time Map works similarly to a school schedule. By carving out distinct times for each of the departments of your life, you can relax and enjoy each moment. Your Time Map guides you, helping you determine whether you have time to handle an unexpected task, how much time you will devote to it, and when you will do it. When you don't have a Time Map, you have no idea what to do when. Every day is a total free-for-all. You just say yes to whatever screams loudest, with no perspective on how to prioritize incoming requests or when you should be doing things.With a Time Map, you know where each request fits into your overall plan.
A Time Map is your default template. It's the framework into which you place all the tasks that you do. It is your anchor and your compass in the storm of activity demands, and opportunities swirling around you.This kind of structure doesn't enslave you, but propels you toward your life goals and liberates you to feel good about how you spend every day.
one option is to layer activities. You can make bill-paying time more restorative by playing some fabulous classical music, spraying some aromatherapy mist into the air, and enjoying a frothy chai tea. You schedule phone calls to friends and family while washing the dishes.Don't feel like you should always layer your activ-ities. Sometimes it's nice to keep your time simple and focused.
Some people have a fear of structure, they are certain that routinizing their days would squelch their creativity and spontaneity. Others believe the concept is wholly unrealistic. By managing time better, by creating routines, I actually had more creative energy to devote to higher goals.
• A big-picture goal is a destination, what you want to achieve. (For example, fitness)
• An activity is how you get there. (For example, exercise)
• A task is a specific component of an activity. (For example, running on the treadmill, resistance training, hiking)
Seeing the connection between every item on your to-do list and your big-picture goals is essential to managing your time from the inside out. Question each and every task so that you are conscious of why you would even consider doing it. You should never put anything on your schedule that you cannot connect to one of your big-picture goals.
Sometimes we forget why we want to do certain things, especially things we don't enjoy. You can convert the have-tos into want-tos. In fact, in order to feel good about your days, you must do that. Connecting your choices to your goals gives you energy and power. You're in control.
Life doesn't always present easy choices. But once you make up your mind, take ownership of it. Connect to your choice. You'll suddenly realize how much control you really have. Attitude is everything.
Here's the bottom line: A "to-do" not connected to a "when" rarely gets done. There are so many distractions and demands on our time that if you don't carve out the specific day and time to do what's most important to you, twenty other things will fill that space.
lack of productivity that results if you do things only when you are "in the mood." The fact is that
you may never be in the mood for many of the tasks on your list. Are you ever really in the mood to go to the dentist, pay your bills, or write up an expense report? You must “assign a home” to the task, that is, schedule it
Procrastination is the biggest enemy of a successfully planned day.When you get a late start, one activity spills over into the time allotted for the next, causing a domino effect that leaves many items on your todo list undone. You compound the problem when you procrastinate by puttering around on totally meaningless tasks not related to your big picture goals
If you procrastinate about everything, it's likely that your motives are psychologically based.
If you find the idea of getting places early and waiting fills you with dread, respect that feeling. If you are late because of a fear of downtime, you'll never trick yourself into being early. Have something great to do while you wait.Fill any time you spend waiting with a highly absorbing, totally engaging task. Plan to get places early so that you can call a friend, catch up on a novel, listen to music, journal or people watch.
Prepare snacks ahead of time and eat before you start. Rather than going without food for long stretches, or running to the vending machine for a candy bar to tide you over, invest a few minutes in preparing some snacks before you start a long project.Bring a bottle of water to your desk
Keep your planner accessible at all times for jotting down thoughts that come to mind. When you don't have a single, consistent place to record the new todos that you think of or ideas you want to follow up on, it's really tempting to jump up and do them right away.
Plan to take a ten-minute break every hour to stretch
Decide which activity most effectively recharges you (going to the gym, getting a massage, making love) and make time for it. It will give you the strength you need to get through the crisis. Take care of yourself: Eat well, get enough rest and exercise.
The time and energy you spend feeling guilty can extend a less-than-productive morning into a less-than-productive day.
You are the master of your own life, and while you can't control all the events around you, you
can control your reactions to those events. Instead of dwelling on what you haven't achieved, give yourself credit for what you have been able to do.