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Nation First
Two decades after India's resounding victory at Kargil, stories and accounts of the war continue to be narrated with immense pride. Yet, one pertinent perspective has been largely overlooked - that of the army wives. In this remarkable book, Shikha Akhilesh Saxena, wife of artillery officer Captain Akhilesh Saxena, describes the turmoil endured by the families of military officers in the face of conflict.
As a young couple, Shikha and Akhilesh unexpectedly found themselves in the midst of war. Shikha deftly depicts her own experiences as well as those of Akhilesh, who took part in missions at Tololing, the Hump and Three Pimples. What does a soldier go through, when marching off to a near-suicidal mission? And what does it take to survive, even thrive, having sustained serious injuries in battle?
This detailed memoir shows the boundless bravery of the Indian troops, as well as the emotional tumult experienced by their families both during and after the war. Nation First is a story of grit, determination and heroic patriotism shown by the men and women who give their all to safeguard the country.
As a young couple, Shikha and Akhilesh unexpectedly found themselves in the midst of war. Shikha deftly depicts her own experiences as well as those of Akhilesh, who took part in missions at Tololing, the Hump and Three Pimples. What does a soldier go through, when marching off to a near-suicidal mission? And what does it take to survive, even thrive, having sustained serious injuries in battle?
This detailed memoir shows the boundless bravery of the Indian troops, as well as the emotional tumult experienced by their families both during and after the war. Nation First is a story of grit, determination and heroic patriotism shown by the men and women who give their all to safeguard the country.
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Published May 25, 2023
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April 7, 2024
This book is a memoir about the experiences of Shikha Akhilesh Sinha, wife of Captain Akhilesh Saxena, an Indian artillery officer who participated in missions at Tololing, the Hump, and Three Pimples during the 1999 Kargil War. Unlike most war books that focus on the battlefield, this one offers a unique perspective: the emotional turmoil of families with loved ones on the frontlines.
Shikha Akhilesh Saxena narrates her experience as a newlywed whose husband, Captain Akhilesh Saxena (artillery), is deployed to the harsh Kargil terrain. We see the war through Shikha's eyes, filled with the anxiety and emotional strain military families face during wartime, heightened by limited communication. Through Shikha's narration, we also get glimpses into Captain Saxena's bravery, offering a well-rounded picture of the war effort.
But "Nation First" goes beyond battlefield heroics. It's a story of unwavering spirit as they rebuild their lives after the war, even with Captain Saxena's injuries forcing a career change.
This book is a compelling read for anyone interested in the human side of war. It's a testament to resilience, the power of love, and the sacrifices made by both soldiers and their families.
Shikha Akhilesh Saxena narrates her experience as a newlywed whose husband, Captain Akhilesh Saxena (artillery), is deployed to the harsh Kargil terrain. We see the war through Shikha's eyes, filled with the anxiety and emotional strain military families face during wartime, heightened by limited communication. Through Shikha's narration, we also get glimpses into Captain Saxena's bravery, offering a well-rounded picture of the war effort.
But "Nation First" goes beyond battlefield heroics. It's a story of unwavering spirit as they rebuild their lives after the war, even with Captain Saxena's injuries forcing a career change.
This book is a compelling read for anyone interested in the human side of war. It's a testament to resilience, the power of love, and the sacrifices made by both soldiers and their families.
April 22, 2024
I absolutely love reading Memoir, as it's intense, brutally honest and we get a glimpse into the lives of real life heroes and this one was no exception.
The writing is stimulating and fast paced moreover it's presented beautifully as well making you turn the page at warp speed.
The unflinching spirit determination and passion for one's country, shone through the pages, as I read experiences of Shikha and other families of military officers amidst the crisis i felt their tribulations. As I read these tales l learnt so much, I got know about many challenges faced by Indian troops I felt inspired and motivated by their journey, it really struck a chord with me.
The memoir is remarkable, it captures the hurt, the despair with haunting intensity at same time evokes a sense of bravery, patriotism and hope.
The writing is stimulating and fast paced moreover it's presented beautifully as well making you turn the page at warp speed.
The unflinching spirit determination and passion for one's country, shone through the pages, as I read experiences of Shikha and other families of military officers amidst the crisis i felt their tribulations. As I read these tales l learnt so much, I got know about many challenges faced by Indian troops I felt inspired and motivated by their journey, it really struck a chord with me.
The memoir is remarkable, it captures the hurt, the despair with haunting intensity at same time evokes a sense of bravery, patriotism and hope.
April 13, 2024
Nation First by Shikha Akhilesh Saxena offers a heart-rending and powerful experiences of Kargil war of 1999. Here we delve into the author's own story. Bravery, sacrifices, patriotism, love everything has my heart. The book was written by the wife of Captain Akhilesh Saxena. It captures the heart-warming journey of an army wife during the war. It was a beautiful blend of love and suffering of the spouse.
It is a touching story about how the army officers prioritize the Nation above everything. The Author vividly potrays the life of army officers and the challenges they faced during the Kargil war.
This book is a powerful tribute to the courageous soldiers who protect our country. Shikha Akhilesh Saxena also shows what will happen after the war. Overall, I loved this book and would recommend it to all.
It is a touching story about how the army officers prioritize the Nation above everything. The Author vividly potrays the life of army officers and the challenges they faced during the Kargil war.
This book is a powerful tribute to the courageous soldiers who protect our country. Shikha Akhilesh Saxena also shows what will happen after the war. Overall, I loved this book and would recommend it to all.
February 10, 2026
'Nation First' by Shikha Akhilesh Saxena is a heartfelt memoir that stands out not just for its recounting of military heroism but for its beautiful portrayal of the sacrifices made by the families behind the soldiers.
The book centers on the Kargil War (1999), focusing on the experiences of Captain Akhilesh Saxena, an artillery officer who participated in critical operations at Tololing, and Three Pimples through the perspective of his wife.
What makes this book truly special is how she shares the raw emotional journey of being a young army wife thrust into the uncertainty of war.
The book centers on the Kargil War (1999), focusing on the experiences of Captain Akhilesh Saxena, an artillery officer who participated in critical operations at Tololing, and Three Pimples through the perspective of his wife.
What makes this book truly special is how she shares the raw emotional journey of being a young army wife thrust into the uncertainty of war.
April 26, 2024
The Kargil War has a prominent spot in our memory. Even today, when we think about it, each of us will have some story or moment flashing in our minds. I have read many stories about and around this war and have seen so many movies about it. But now, after reading this memoir and feeling the emotions of this author, I'm just speechless. Throughout her journey, I was reliving the war and its aftereffects.
I'm not a fan of autobiographies or biographies, but this book with simple language and deep emotions will be remembered with respect for the soldiers, uniforms, and army wives (or army families).
PS: The pre-wedding days and scenes of the author are super sweet and romantic.
I'm not a fan of autobiographies or biographies, but this book with simple language and deep emotions will be remembered with respect for the soldiers, uniforms, and army wives (or army families).
PS: The pre-wedding days and scenes of the author are super sweet and romantic.
July 21, 2023
An engrossing account of love and other close knit relationships during the times of war. A war is never fought on a single front, each soldier who fights on border is backed by someone who is also fighting with the stigma and mindset of people around. The book is a brilliant example of love, commitment and faith. In today’s world where people are losing faith in institution of marriage, this book rekindles the power of love and unconditional support.
A must read war account from an army wife’s perspective.
A must read war account from an army wife’s perspective.
July 2, 2023
I have always been curious about the lives of Armed Forces personnel. I used to wonder how they could be so dedicated and sincere. Who would be willing to sacrifice their life for their profession? Most of the time, they are on duty, and I often wondered how their families managed without them, especially during festivals and important family gatherings. This book has been an eye-opener for me, as it provided answers to many of my questions. The detailed descriptions of the culture and traditions of the Indian Army are seamlessly woven into the story. I couldn't help but get goosebumps while reading the chapters about the Kargil war. Normally, I find it difficult to finish a book, but I couldn't stop reading this one. I am glad that I bought it based on the reviews I read on Amazon. This book is packed with powerful details about the Army and the Kargil War. Thank you, Shikha Akhilesh, for sharing your memoir with us in the form of the book "Nation First."
July 2, 2023
An electrifying story of the Kargil War that showcases not just the fierce battles fought by the soldiers but the quiet courage shown by their families. A must-read!
The narration and flow is excellent . Will inspire every reader not to give up in any situation.
This story can only be told by a person who has lived this reality and Shikha does it with great heart.”
Very good flow ..I could finish in one sitting during my last weekend.
Inspiring and exciting.
The narration and flow is excellent . Will inspire every reader not to give up in any situation.
This story can only be told by a person who has lived this reality and Shikha does it with great heart.”
Very good flow ..I could finish in one sitting during my last weekend.
Inspiring and exciting.
August 9, 2023
Redemptive Courage of Indian Army Officer in 1999 Kargil War
When I first found that Hachette India was publishing "Nation First" by Shikha Akhilesh Saxena, I immediately wanted to read it. It brought to mind the 2004 Hindi film, "Lakshya," a fictional story concerning a young man's becoming an officer in the Indian Army, who is then posted to Kargil during the 1999 war with Pakistan.
I wanted to find out more about the Indian Army. About its ethics, values and culture and the similarities and differences between the operation of the military and the functioning of Indian civilian society, whose survival the Indian Army pledges to preserve.
In her book Mrs. Saxena comprehensively describes her husband's combat experience in the 1999 Kargil war and basically, she holds nothing back. Kargil, though a relatively short war, was brutally horrific with high casualties and the worst disabling injuries anyone could possibly imagine let alone experience.
This book is definitely not for the faint hearted. But it is a brilliant account of how an Indian Army officer served his country and both he and his wife courageously confronted the cruel insanity of war and refused to let it destroy their lives and their marriage or prevent them from fearlessly or despite any fears they had to put aside, construct a newly fulfilling and successful life independently and together, outside the military.
The most helpful and insightful point of view this account is written from, is that both inside and outside the military, the obstacles, barriers and sufferings that one might have to endure are not so different in some ways.
I found this book incredibly inspirational in how it reveals the best ways to triumph over an impossible and uncontrollable, un-confrontable experienced horror that usually most people never get over and are constantly reliving. Yet Mrs. Saxena demonstrates ways one can reorient their trajectory so that life can still be made fulfulling and enjoyable despite if the very worst-case scenario actually happens.
Very rare are her extremely wise observations about how to restart, reboot and restore an individually and shared promising life after it abruptly tilts towards oblivion or its proxy. This book is addressed to the people of India. But it also seems generously addressed to anyone who could benefit from its wisdom. India is a nation whose culture has survived for over 5,000 years and I think this book possibly reveals some of the values within the military and outside of it that have made this possible.
This book is a very unique contribution to the world literature concerning being proactive, resilient and perservering in recovering and reconstructing a successful and meaningful life after disaster. I highly recommend it to anyone who thinks they might benefit from its message.
My favorite passage from this book is Mrs. Saxena's advice for getting out of the mire of something one can't seem to escape out of: "Stay focused on the positive elements of life. When there is darkness all around, and you want to come out of the tunnel that sucks you in, focus on the ray of light at the end of the tunnel and keep walking towards it."
This book is such welcoming succor in these troubling times.
When I first found that Hachette India was publishing "Nation First" by Shikha Akhilesh Saxena, I immediately wanted to read it. It brought to mind the 2004 Hindi film, "Lakshya," a fictional story concerning a young man's becoming an officer in the Indian Army, who is then posted to Kargil during the 1999 war with Pakistan.
I wanted to find out more about the Indian Army. About its ethics, values and culture and the similarities and differences between the operation of the military and the functioning of Indian civilian society, whose survival the Indian Army pledges to preserve.
In her book Mrs. Saxena comprehensively describes her husband's combat experience in the 1999 Kargil war and basically, she holds nothing back. Kargil, though a relatively short war, was brutally horrific with high casualties and the worst disabling injuries anyone could possibly imagine let alone experience.
This book is definitely not for the faint hearted. But it is a brilliant account of how an Indian Army officer served his country and both he and his wife courageously confronted the cruel insanity of war and refused to let it destroy their lives and their marriage or prevent them from fearlessly or despite any fears they had to put aside, construct a newly fulfilling and successful life independently and together, outside the military.
The most helpful and insightful point of view this account is written from, is that both inside and outside the military, the obstacles, barriers and sufferings that one might have to endure are not so different in some ways.
I found this book incredibly inspirational in how it reveals the best ways to triumph over an impossible and uncontrollable, un-confrontable experienced horror that usually most people never get over and are constantly reliving. Yet Mrs. Saxena demonstrates ways one can reorient their trajectory so that life can still be made fulfulling and enjoyable despite if the very worst-case scenario actually happens.
Very rare are her extremely wise observations about how to restart, reboot and restore an individually and shared promising life after it abruptly tilts towards oblivion or its proxy. This book is addressed to the people of India. But it also seems generously addressed to anyone who could benefit from its wisdom. India is a nation whose culture has survived for over 5,000 years and I think this book possibly reveals some of the values within the military and outside of it that have made this possible.
This book is a very unique contribution to the world literature concerning being proactive, resilient and perservering in recovering and reconstructing a successful and meaningful life after disaster. I highly recommend it to anyone who thinks they might benefit from its message.
My favorite passage from this book is Mrs. Saxena's advice for getting out of the mire of something one can't seem to escape out of: "Stay focused on the positive elements of life. When there is darkness all around, and you want to come out of the tunnel that sucks you in, focus on the ray of light at the end of the tunnel and keep walking towards it."
This book is such welcoming succor in these troubling times.
March 1, 2024
Nation First by Shikha Akhilesh Sinha offers a poignant portrayal of the emotional journey of a soldier's wife during times of war. The author beautifully captures the struggles, fears, and resilience of those left behind as their loved ones serve on the front lines. Through her eyes, readers are taken on an emotional journey filled with sacrifice, resilience, and unwavering love. In this novel She offers readers a glimpse into the struggles of maintaining a sense of normalcy while constantly fearing for her husband's safety.
This book is a memoir about the experiences of Shikha Akhilesh Sinha, the wife of an Indian artillery officer, Captain Akhilesh Saxena, during the Kargil War in 1999 who took part in missions at Tololing, the Hump and Three Pimples. It focuses on the often-overlooked perspective of military families and the sacrifices they make. The author shares her personal story of fear, resilience, and unwavering patriotism as she navigates the uncertainty of war while her husband is on the front lines.
The prose vividly captures the challenges and uncertainties faced by military spouses during times of conflict. From the anxiety of deployment to the loneliness of separation, she provides a raw and honest account of the toll that war takes on families left behind. She skillfully navigates the highs and lows of military life, offering readers a glimpse into the unique challenges faced by spouses of deployed soldiers.
One of the most compelling aspects of this memoir is author's unwavering portrayal of the strength and resilience of military spouses. Despite facing uncertainty and loneliness, these women find solace in their bond with one another and their unwavering support for their partners. Readers will find themselves drawn into the intimate moments of connection between spouses, as well as the agonizing periods of waiting and worrying.
The writing style is characterized by its emotional depth and introspective narrative. The author employs a lyrical prose that evokes a strong sense of empathy and connection with the reader. Her language is vivid and descriptive, painting a vivid picture of the experiences and emotions of military spouses. The pacing of the memoir is well balanced for allowing readers to immerse themselves fully in the story without feeling rushed.
The author has crafted a moving tribute to the unsung heroes who stand steadfastly by their partners in times of conflict. This memoir is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and a reminder of the profound impact of war on those left behind. It is a must-read for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of the sacrifices made by military families and the enduring power of love in the face of adversity.
This book is a memoir about the experiences of Shikha Akhilesh Sinha, the wife of an Indian artillery officer, Captain Akhilesh Saxena, during the Kargil War in 1999 who took part in missions at Tololing, the Hump and Three Pimples. It focuses on the often-overlooked perspective of military families and the sacrifices they make. The author shares her personal story of fear, resilience, and unwavering patriotism as she navigates the uncertainty of war while her husband is on the front lines.
The prose vividly captures the challenges and uncertainties faced by military spouses during times of conflict. From the anxiety of deployment to the loneliness of separation, she provides a raw and honest account of the toll that war takes on families left behind. She skillfully navigates the highs and lows of military life, offering readers a glimpse into the unique challenges faced by spouses of deployed soldiers.
One of the most compelling aspects of this memoir is author's unwavering portrayal of the strength and resilience of military spouses. Despite facing uncertainty and loneliness, these women find solace in their bond with one another and their unwavering support for their partners. Readers will find themselves drawn into the intimate moments of connection between spouses, as well as the agonizing periods of waiting and worrying.
The writing style is characterized by its emotional depth and introspective narrative. The author employs a lyrical prose that evokes a strong sense of empathy and connection with the reader. Her language is vivid and descriptive, painting a vivid picture of the experiences and emotions of military spouses. The pacing of the memoir is well balanced for allowing readers to immerse themselves fully in the story without feeling rushed.
The author has crafted a moving tribute to the unsung heroes who stand steadfastly by their partners in times of conflict. This memoir is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and a reminder of the profound impact of war on those left behind. It is a must-read for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of the sacrifices made by military families and the enduring power of love in the face of adversity.
July 18, 2025
Why I Picked It:
The Kargil War has always stirred deep emotions in me not just for the battlefield bravery, but for the unseen battles fought at home. When I came across Nation First, a memoir written by the wife of a Kargil war veteran, I knew this was a story I wanted to read. A voice from the other side of the frontlines raw, real, and often unheard.
What I Read:
This is not just a war story it’s a deeply personal memoir that captures the life of Captain Akhilesh Saxena, a Kargil War hero, through the eyes of his wife, Shikha. Just two months into her arranged marriage, Shikha finds herself navigating the uncertainty, fear, and loneliness of being a military spouse as her husband heads to one of the fiercest wars in Indian history. The book beautifully unfolds from Shikha’s perspective her emotional rollercoaster, societal challenges in a conservative town like Moradabad, the wounds of war (both physical and emotional), and her evolution into a strong, resilient woman.
What I Loved:
• 🔸 A Unique Angle: Unlike most war narratives that focus on strategy and combat, this book highlights the emotional warfare of families left behind.
• 🔸 True & Powerful: It’s not fiction it’s a tribute born out of lived experience. You feel the authenticity in every word.
• 🔸 Simple Yet Poignant Writing: Shikha’s narrative is unpretentious, yet powerful. Her words paint visuals you live each moment with her.
• 🔸 Touch of Romance and Resilience: The love story of a newlywed couple, challenged by duty, injury, and separation, adds an intimate layer to the memoir.
• 🔸 Emotional Connect: It brings tears, hope, admiration, and most of all respect.
• 🔸 Foreword by Gen. V.P. Malik: Adds gravity and credibility to the account.
Why I Recommend It:
This book isn’t just about war it’s about courage, sacrifice, hope, and love. It offers a rare glimpse into the world of military wives, who show a different kind of bravery. Nation First deserves to be in every Indian reader’s personal collection. It honors not just soldiers, but the silent heroes behind them their families.
Whether you’re a history buff, a patriot, or simply someone who enjoys heartfelt, real stories this book will stay with you long after the last page is turned.
The Kargil War has always stirred deep emotions in me not just for the battlefield bravery, but for the unseen battles fought at home. When I came across Nation First, a memoir written by the wife of a Kargil war veteran, I knew this was a story I wanted to read. A voice from the other side of the frontlines raw, real, and often unheard.
What I Read:
This is not just a war story it’s a deeply personal memoir that captures the life of Captain Akhilesh Saxena, a Kargil War hero, through the eyes of his wife, Shikha. Just two months into her arranged marriage, Shikha finds herself navigating the uncertainty, fear, and loneliness of being a military spouse as her husband heads to one of the fiercest wars in Indian history. The book beautifully unfolds from Shikha’s perspective her emotional rollercoaster, societal challenges in a conservative town like Moradabad, the wounds of war (both physical and emotional), and her evolution into a strong, resilient woman.
What I Loved:
• 🔸 A Unique Angle: Unlike most war narratives that focus on strategy and combat, this book highlights the emotional warfare of families left behind.
• 🔸 True & Powerful: It’s not fiction it’s a tribute born out of lived experience. You feel the authenticity in every word.
• 🔸 Simple Yet Poignant Writing: Shikha’s narrative is unpretentious, yet powerful. Her words paint visuals you live each moment with her.
• 🔸 Touch of Romance and Resilience: The love story of a newlywed couple, challenged by duty, injury, and separation, adds an intimate layer to the memoir.
• 🔸 Emotional Connect: It brings tears, hope, admiration, and most of all respect.
• 🔸 Foreword by Gen. V.P. Malik: Adds gravity and credibility to the account.
Why I Recommend It:
This book isn’t just about war it’s about courage, sacrifice, hope, and love. It offers a rare glimpse into the world of military wives, who show a different kind of bravery. Nation First deserves to be in every Indian reader’s personal collection. It honors not just soldiers, but the silent heroes behind them their families.
Whether you’re a history buff, a patriot, or simply someone who enjoys heartfelt, real stories this book will stay with you long after the last page is turned.
February 24, 2024
"Nation First" is a stirring tribute to the often-overlooked heroes behind the heroes - the army wives. Authored by Shikha Akhilesh Saxena, wife of artillery officer Captain Akhilesh Saxena, this poignant memoir sheds light on the untold stories of sacrifice, resilience, and unwavering patriotism that reverberate through the lives of military families.
Set against India's resounding victory at Kargil, Shikha's narrative offers a deeply personal account of the turmoil endured by those left behind when their loved ones march off to battle. Through her own experiences and those of her husband, who participated in harrowing missions at Tololing, the Hump, and Three Pimples, Shikha paints a vivid portrait of the emotional and physical challenges faced by soldiers and their families in times of conflict.
What sets "Nation First" apart is its raw authenticity. Shikha doesn't shy away from depicting war's brutal realities nor glosses over the toll it takes on the human spirit. Instead, she invites readers into the heart of the battlefield, allowing them to witness firsthand the boundless bravery and unwavering determination of the Indian troops, as well as the profound sacrifices made by their families.
But beyond the tales of heroism and sacrifice, "Nation First" is ultimately a story of resilience and hope. It is a testament to the indomitable spirit of the men and women who selflessly dedicate their lives to safeguarding their nation, even in the face of unimaginable adversity.
In summary, "Nation First" is a gripping and deeply moving account of love, loss, and the unbreakable bond of patriotism that binds us all. Shikha Akhilesh Saxena's powerful storytelling and unwavering commitment to honouring the unsung war heroes make this memoir a must-read for anyone seeking to understand the true cost of freedom.
Set against India's resounding victory at Kargil, Shikha's narrative offers a deeply personal account of the turmoil endured by those left behind when their loved ones march off to battle. Through her own experiences and those of her husband, who participated in harrowing missions at Tololing, the Hump, and Three Pimples, Shikha paints a vivid portrait of the emotional and physical challenges faced by soldiers and their families in times of conflict.
What sets "Nation First" apart is its raw authenticity. Shikha doesn't shy away from depicting war's brutal realities nor glosses over the toll it takes on the human spirit. Instead, she invites readers into the heart of the battlefield, allowing them to witness firsthand the boundless bravery and unwavering determination of the Indian troops, as well as the profound sacrifices made by their families.
But beyond the tales of heroism and sacrifice, "Nation First" is ultimately a story of resilience and hope. It is a testament to the indomitable spirit of the men and women who selflessly dedicate their lives to safeguarding their nation, even in the face of unimaginable adversity.
In summary, "Nation First" is a gripping and deeply moving account of love, loss, and the unbreakable bond of patriotism that binds us all. Shikha Akhilesh Saxena's powerful storytelling and unwavering commitment to honouring the unsung war heroes make this memoir a must-read for anyone seeking to understand the true cost of freedom.
April 5, 2024
"Nation First" by Shikha Akhilesh Saxena offers a poignant and insightful perspective on the often-overlooked experiences of army wives during times of conflict, particularly amidst the backdrop of the Kargil War. Through Shikha's adept storytelling, readers are immersed in the emotional turmoil faced by military families as they grapple with the realities of war. The book not only provides a gripping account of Captain Akhilesh Saxena's firsthand experiences on the battlefield but also delves into the sacrifices and resilience exhibited by soldiers and their loved ones. Moreover, the inclusion of Shikha's personal reflections adds depth and authenticity to the narrative, offering readers a comprehensive understanding of the profound impact of war on both the frontline and the homefront.
Among the compelling chapters of "Nation First," chapter "Last Survival" stands out as a poignant reminder of the resilience and courage displayed by soldiers in the face of adversity. The quote, "You have never lived until you have almost died, and for those who chose to fight, life has a special favor, the protected will never know," encapsulates the essence of survival and the profound experiences of those who have endured the rigors of combat. This chapter, like the rest of the book, offers readers a deeply relatable insight into the human experience, resonating with individuals navigating the challenges of daily life amidst moments of profound struggle and resilience. Overall, "Nation First" is a compelling read that not only honors the bravery of soldiers but also sheds light on the unsung heroes—their families—who stand steadfastly by their side.
Among the compelling chapters of "Nation First," chapter "Last Survival" stands out as a poignant reminder of the resilience and courage displayed by soldiers in the face of adversity. The quote, "You have never lived until you have almost died, and for those who chose to fight, life has a special favor, the protected will never know," encapsulates the essence of survival and the profound experiences of those who have endured the rigors of combat. This chapter, like the rest of the book, offers readers a deeply relatable insight into the human experience, resonating with individuals navigating the challenges of daily life amidst moments of profound struggle and resilience. Overall, "Nation First" is a compelling read that not only honors the bravery of soldiers but also sheds light on the unsung heroes—their families—who stand steadfastly by their side.
April 25, 2024
"Nation First" by Shikha Akhilesh Saxena offers a thorough documentary on the 1999 Kargil War, focusing on the emotional struggles faced by the military and their families.
The wife of Captain Akhilesh Saxena shares a moving collection of experiences that show the often overlooked aspects of army life.
I wanted to find out more about the Indian Army and its ethics, values and culture and the similarities and differences between the operation of the military and the functioning of Indian civilian society. The book explores such niche areas properly.
In this book Mrs. Saxena comprehensively describes her husband's experience in the 1999 Kargil war. She holds nothing back from the readers.
Kargil, though a relatively short war, was horrific with its high casualties. It was the worst disabling injuries of mankind in that time in India.
The memoir portrays the challenges and sacrifices endured by the army as well as the military families during wartime, challenging common perceptions of war and military life. It emphasizes on the bravery and sacrifices of those families whose heroics are worthy to acknowledge.
This poignant narrative stresses importance on the unsung heroes behind the soldiers, offering readers a deeper insight into the emotional impact of a war on families. "Nation First" is a memorable tribute to the resilience and sacrifices of military families, urging the readers to recognize and appreciate their vital role in supporting our soldiers and the nation.
The title and cover of the book are appropriate to generate readers' interest.
The wife of Captain Akhilesh Saxena shares a moving collection of experiences that show the often overlooked aspects of army life.
I wanted to find out more about the Indian Army and its ethics, values and culture and the similarities and differences between the operation of the military and the functioning of Indian civilian society. The book explores such niche areas properly.
In this book Mrs. Saxena comprehensively describes her husband's experience in the 1999 Kargil war. She holds nothing back from the readers.
Kargil, though a relatively short war, was horrific with its high casualties. It was the worst disabling injuries of mankind in that time in India.
The memoir portrays the challenges and sacrifices endured by the army as well as the military families during wartime, challenging common perceptions of war and military life. It emphasizes on the bravery and sacrifices of those families whose heroics are worthy to acknowledge.
This poignant narrative stresses importance on the unsung heroes behind the soldiers, offering readers a deeper insight into the emotional impact of a war on families. "Nation First" is a memorable tribute to the resilience and sacrifices of military families, urging the readers to recognize and appreciate their vital role in supporting our soldiers and the nation.
The title and cover of the book are appropriate to generate readers' interest.
February 24, 2024
‘Every citizen of the country is a soldier if he intends to be’.
This book is an inspiration for its kind. A wife sharing her experience of being the wife of a military man. It shows how a civilian girl gathered the courage to face the brutal truth of war and its repercussions in society. It showcases how an officer survived severe war injuries, and it also delves into the dilemmas faced by a disabled soldier. His brave victory over enemies and later conquering the corporate world.
Shikha has penned down every moment of her life and Capt. Akhilesh's life with such deep emotions. I cried reading the part where Capt. Akhilesh was reading letters received from all over the country to appropriate their bravery, the letters were written with blood to show their love, and rakhis were sent for the soldiers, it was such a heart-touching episode of soldiers' lives. The hospital episode where all the injured soldiers were having their meltdown moment will tear you apart. The letters included at the end are another feather in the cap.
Guys this is a must-read book to understand how soldiers keep us safe by facing the most hardship of their lives and also their families who live in fear of losing them every second.
Nation First is a story of grit, determination, and heroic patriotism shown by the men and women who give their all to safeguard the country. I salute all the soldiers and their families for keeping this country safe and making our lives easier.
This book is an inspiration for its kind. A wife sharing her experience of being the wife of a military man. It shows how a civilian girl gathered the courage to face the brutal truth of war and its repercussions in society. It showcases how an officer survived severe war injuries, and it also delves into the dilemmas faced by a disabled soldier. His brave victory over enemies and later conquering the corporate world.
Shikha has penned down every moment of her life and Capt. Akhilesh's life with such deep emotions. I cried reading the part where Capt. Akhilesh was reading letters received from all over the country to appropriate their bravery, the letters were written with blood to show their love, and rakhis were sent for the soldiers, it was such a heart-touching episode of soldiers' lives. The hospital episode where all the injured soldiers were having their meltdown moment will tear you apart. The letters included at the end are another feather in the cap.
Guys this is a must-read book to understand how soldiers keep us safe by facing the most hardship of their lives and also their families who live in fear of losing them every second.
Nation First is a story of grit, determination, and heroic patriotism shown by the men and women who give their all to safeguard the country. I salute all the soldiers and their families for keeping this country safe and making our lives easier.
February 24, 2024
This book talks about the importance of the nation and why love for the nation is so beautiful. This work skillfully weaves together personal stories with a broader historical context, offering a compassionate and engaging exploration of a crucial era in India's military history. The author had portrayed this book quite vividly because it talks about the true devotion and faith of the country.
Jingoism is a fervent nationalism fueled by aggressive foreign policy. It often prioritizes national interests above diplomacy and cooperation. This topic is detailed in the book. India, it's success stories, and how our nation dealt with Kargil. Reading the positive side of wars in the name of freedom is really mitigating.
How many times do we realise the role an army plays in a country's success? Almost most of the time but what about the army family? Well, that's the basic theme of the book. Here, the author talks about the pain and commitment underwent by the families of military officers. That's why I really enjoyed reading something new!
Shikha masterfully portrays the harrowing experiences of both herself and her husband Akhilesh, who bravely embarks on perilous missions in Tololing, the Hump, and Three Pimples. Through poignant storytelling, the book delves into the emotional and physical turmoil soldiers endure, shedding light on their resilience and determination to overcome the aftermath of battle, embodying the essence of survival and resilience amidst adversity.
Jingoism is a fervent nationalism fueled by aggressive foreign policy. It often prioritizes national interests above diplomacy and cooperation. This topic is detailed in the book. India, it's success stories, and how our nation dealt with Kargil. Reading the positive side of wars in the name of freedom is really mitigating.
How many times do we realise the role an army plays in a country's success? Almost most of the time but what about the army family? Well, that's the basic theme of the book. Here, the author talks about the pain and commitment underwent by the families of military officers. That's why I really enjoyed reading something new!
Shikha masterfully portrays the harrowing experiences of both herself and her husband Akhilesh, who bravely embarks on perilous missions in Tololing, the Hump, and Three Pimples. Through poignant storytelling, the book delves into the emotional and physical turmoil soldiers endure, shedding light on their resilience and determination to overcome the aftermath of battle, embodying the essence of survival and resilience amidst adversity.
April 21, 2024
Nation First: The story of a Kargil War Hero
By: Shikha Akhilesh Saxena
Length: 236 pages
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"The glory of the young legends that the Kargil range knows,
Where the wind softly sings and cool breeze blows.
They sing the stories of the brave lads of long ago,
The springs from the great glacier still gently flow."
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This memoir, "Nation First," delves into the personal journey of Shikha Akhilesh Saxena, wife of Captain Akhilesh Saxena, an Indian artillery officer who served in key missions during the 1999 Kargil War.
Through Shikha's narrative, the story unfolds and the readers witness her experiences as a newlywed grappling with the deployment of her husband to the rugged terrains of Kargil thereby showcasing the anxieties and emotional strains endured by military families amidst wartime, compounded by communication limitations.
Unlike typical war narratives focused on battlefield exploits, this book offers a distinct perspective—highlighting the emotional challenges faced by families with members deployed in combat zones.
"Nation First", beautifully depicts the couple's efforts to rebuild their lives post-war, navigating challenges such as Captain Saxena's injuries and subsequent career transition. This book offers a poignant exploration of the sacrifices made by soldiers and their families, making it a compelling read for those interested in the human aspects of war and the enduring power of love. The book is definitely worth your time.
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"The moments of happiness we enjoy take us by surprise. It is not that we seize them, but that they seize us."
By: Shikha Akhilesh Saxena
Length: 236 pages
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"The glory of the young legends that the Kargil range knows,
Where the wind softly sings and cool breeze blows.
They sing the stories of the brave lads of long ago,
The springs from the great glacier still gently flow."
.
This memoir, "Nation First," delves into the personal journey of Shikha Akhilesh Saxena, wife of Captain Akhilesh Saxena, an Indian artillery officer who served in key missions during the 1999 Kargil War.
Through Shikha's narrative, the story unfolds and the readers witness her experiences as a newlywed grappling with the deployment of her husband to the rugged terrains of Kargil thereby showcasing the anxieties and emotional strains endured by military families amidst wartime, compounded by communication limitations.
Unlike typical war narratives focused on battlefield exploits, this book offers a distinct perspective—highlighting the emotional challenges faced by families with members deployed in combat zones.
"Nation First", beautifully depicts the couple's efforts to rebuild their lives post-war, navigating challenges such as Captain Saxena's injuries and subsequent career transition. This book offers a poignant exploration of the sacrifices made by soldiers and their families, making it a compelling read for those interested in the human aspects of war and the enduring power of love. The book is definitely worth your time.
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"The moments of happiness we enjoy take us by surprise. It is not that we seize them, but that they seize us."
February 7, 2026
Nation First is one of those books that quietly settles into your mind and stays there long after you finish reading. While many books talk about war through strategy or heroism on the battlefield, this memoir stands out because it focuses on what happens away from the frontlines, inside homes filled with waiting, fear, and resilience.
Shikha Akhilesh Saxena writes with honesty and restraint, which makes the emotions feel real rather than dramatic. As a young wife suddenly facing the reality of war, her experiences capture the uncertainty, strength, and emotional endurance that military families live with but rarely speak about. The narrative moves smoothly between moments of hope and anxiety, giving the reader a fuller understanding of what service truly demands from both soldiers and their families.
What makes this book powerful is its emotional depth and the weight of lived experience it carries. The situations described are intense, often overwhelming, and never easy, reflecting the true cost of war beyond the battlefield. The author does not dilute the pain, fear, or strength involved, allowing the reader to fully grasp the magnitude of sacrifice made by both soldiers and those who stand behind them.
Beyond being a war memoir, it is a story about love, courage, and standing firm during the most testing times. A meaningful and heartfelt read for anyone interested in real stories behind history and uniforms
Shikha Akhilesh Saxena writes with honesty and restraint, which makes the emotions feel real rather than dramatic. As a young wife suddenly facing the reality of war, her experiences capture the uncertainty, strength, and emotional endurance that military families live with but rarely speak about. The narrative moves smoothly between moments of hope and anxiety, giving the reader a fuller understanding of what service truly demands from both soldiers and their families.
What makes this book powerful is its emotional depth and the weight of lived experience it carries. The situations described are intense, often overwhelming, and never easy, reflecting the true cost of war beyond the battlefield. The author does not dilute the pain, fear, or strength involved, allowing the reader to fully grasp the magnitude of sacrifice made by both soldiers and those who stand behind them.
Beyond being a war memoir, it is a story about love, courage, and standing firm during the most testing times. A meaningful and heartfelt read for anyone interested in real stories behind history and uniforms
February 24, 2024
"Nation First" is a tale encountering the bravery, courage, patience and resilience of the behind the scences heroes - the wives of the army officers. The author, Shikha is the wife of the artillery military officer Capt. Akhilesh, who was the part of the Kargil war.
This book takes reader on the journey that explores the lives of the army officers. Capt. Akhilesh is a war hero who participated in three dangerous mission - the Tololing, the Hump and the three pimples- of the Kargil war. Shikha paints a vivid picture of the horrors the soldiers have to go through during the war, bringing tears in one's eyes. I have cried reading what the opposition army had done to our soldiers who were captivated during the war.
Shikha belonging to the civilian world, enters into the environment which test her determination and courage at every step of her life. Just after two months of marriage she bids farewell to her husband, who is going for the war. Even after the war, when Capt. Akhilesh gets physically injured and starts loosing his moral, she courageously encourages him to embark on new journey in the corporate world.
This book is a memoir that every Indian should read. Reading this book has filled me with great appreciation and respect for our Indian soldiers. Salute to heroes who are fighting at the borders for the welfare of the nation.
This book takes reader on the journey that explores the lives of the army officers. Capt. Akhilesh is a war hero who participated in three dangerous mission - the Tololing, the Hump and the three pimples- of the Kargil war. Shikha paints a vivid picture of the horrors the soldiers have to go through during the war, bringing tears in one's eyes. I have cried reading what the opposition army had done to our soldiers who were captivated during the war.
Shikha belonging to the civilian world, enters into the environment which test her determination and courage at every step of her life. Just after two months of marriage she bids farewell to her husband, who is going for the war. Even after the war, when Capt. Akhilesh gets physically injured and starts loosing his moral, she courageously encourages him to embark on new journey in the corporate world.
This book is a memoir that every Indian should read. Reading this book has filled me with great appreciation and respect for our Indian soldiers. Salute to heroes who are fighting at the borders for the welfare of the nation.
April 15, 2024
"Nation First" is a special book that tells a story we don't often hear about - the experiences of army wives during the Kargil war. Written by Shikha Akhilesh Saxena, the wife of artillery officer Captain Akhilesh Saxena, this book gives us a peek into the lives of families of military officers during times of conflict.
Shikha shares her own journey as a young wife suddenly faced with the reality of war when her husband was called to serve. Through her words, we learn about the bravery of soldiers like Akhilesh who were part of dangerous missions during the war. We also get a glimpse into the challenges they faced, both during battle and in the aftermath of serious injuries.
This memoir is not just about the soldiers' bravery, but also about the strength and resilience of their families. Shikha paints a vivid picture of the emotional rollercoaster experienced by army wives and their families, highlighting the sacrifices made by those who serve to protect our nation.
"Nation First" is a powerful reminder of the unwavering patriotism and dedication of our soldiers and their families. It's a story of courage, determination, and the deep love for our country that drives them to give their all. This book is a must-read for anyone who wants to understand the true meaning of sacrifice and service to the nation.
Shikha shares her own journey as a young wife suddenly faced with the reality of war when her husband was called to serve. Through her words, we learn about the bravery of soldiers like Akhilesh who were part of dangerous missions during the war. We also get a glimpse into the challenges they faced, both during battle and in the aftermath of serious injuries.
This memoir is not just about the soldiers' bravery, but also about the strength and resilience of their families. Shikha paints a vivid picture of the emotional rollercoaster experienced by army wives and their families, highlighting the sacrifices made by those who serve to protect our nation.
"Nation First" is a powerful reminder of the unwavering patriotism and dedication of our soldiers and their families. It's a story of courage, determination, and the deep love for our country that drives them to give their all. This book is a must-read for anyone who wants to understand the true meaning of sacrifice and service to the nation.
April 19, 2024
"Nation First," written by Shikha Akhilesh Saxena, provides an intense and poignant look at the frequently disregarded viewpoint of army spouses against the turbulent backdrop of the Kargil War. Saxena gives viewers an intimate picture of the emotional turmoil faced by military families navigating the difficulties of war through her sensitive writing.
The brave journey of Captain Akhilesh Saxena, whose firsthand accounts on the battlefield give readers a visceral knowledge of the sacrifices made by soldiers, lies at the heart of the story. However, the narrative gains realism and depth from Shikha's introspective thoughts, which also highlight the tenacity and unshakable patriotism of those left behind on the home front.
Readers are pulled farther into the story with every page turn, where they are forced to confront the brutality of war and the steadfast devotion of those who serve their country. "Nation First" celebrates the bravery of the armed forces as well as the unsung heroes—their families—who personify the genuine meaning of selflessness and resiliency.
"Nation First" is essentially a moving and emotional examination of the human spirit in the face of hardship, paying homage to those who put their country before all else. In this moving story, Shikha Akhilesh Saxena's storytelling skill is evident and will stay with readers long after the last page is turned.
The brave journey of Captain Akhilesh Saxena, whose firsthand accounts on the battlefield give readers a visceral knowledge of the sacrifices made by soldiers, lies at the heart of the story. However, the narrative gains realism and depth from Shikha's introspective thoughts, which also highlight the tenacity and unshakable patriotism of those left behind on the home front.
Readers are pulled farther into the story with every page turn, where they are forced to confront the brutality of war and the steadfast devotion of those who serve their country. "Nation First" celebrates the bravery of the armed forces as well as the unsung heroes—their families—who personify the genuine meaning of selflessness and resiliency.
"Nation First" is essentially a moving and emotional examination of the human spirit in the face of hardship, paying homage to those who put their country before all else. In this moving story, Shikha Akhilesh Saxena's storytelling skill is evident and will stay with readers long after the last page is turned.
April 29, 2024
This book has been written from the perspective of the wife of a military personnel. We all knew the sacrifice made by the Military personnel but never got to understand the emotional turmoil their family goes through. This book gave an in-depth perspective of the grief, pain and sadness endured by any Military personnel’s family. There are many instances wherein I went quite for a moment as I felt emotional ! The author, Shikha Akhilesh Saxena shared some heartwrenching moments that would leave a forever foot print in the readers heart even after completing the book!
There are many historical wars took place in our country! One of them is Kargil War. Though, we would have heard a lot of brave and bold stories around this War, there is equally an another emotional side to it. It was focused well in this book by the author Shikha Akhilesh Saxena. It is really sad that we even fail to show the gratitude to the Army people and their family instead take them for granted!
To be honest this book has taught me to give due respect to the Army officials as well as their families. For me, once I started reading the book, I couldn't stop it anywhere inbetween. It was quite an inspirational book. It is a must read for everyone who would love to understand the struggles faced by any Army official and their family.
An emotional as well as an inspirational read !
There are many historical wars took place in our country! One of them is Kargil War. Though, we would have heard a lot of brave and bold stories around this War, there is equally an another emotional side to it. It was focused well in this book by the author Shikha Akhilesh Saxena. It is really sad that we even fail to show the gratitude to the Army people and their family instead take them for granted!
To be honest this book has taught me to give due respect to the Army officials as well as their families. For me, once I started reading the book, I couldn't stop it anywhere inbetween. It was quite an inspirational book. It is a must read for everyone who would love to understand the struggles faced by any Army official and their family.
An emotional as well as an inspirational read !
August 20, 2023
The book "Nation First" stands out as the best narrative of the Kargil War that I have come across. Having read numerous accounts of the war, mostly compiled by authors who gathered information from regiments or senior officers, this book offers a unique perspective. It is a firsthand account by Captain Akhilesh Saxena, who personally led three attacks during the Kargil War. The authenticity and depth of the story can only be conveyed by someone who experienced it firsthand.
Akhilesh shared his experiences with Shikha, his wife, who skillfully presented the true essence of the war in this book. It not only covers the military operations but also sheds light on the struggles and sacrifices of the soldiers who returned with disabilities. As an army wife, Shikha adds her own perspective, sharing the emotional journey of standing by her husband's side as he went to war just months after their marriage.
This book provides a comprehensive narrative that touches on every aspect of the Kargil War. It offers a complete picture of the challenges faced by the soldiers, the bravery they displayed, and the impact it had on their families. Reading this book was a truly captivating experience, and I highly recommend it to anyone seeking to understand the truth behind the Kargil War.
Akhilesh shared his experiences with Shikha, his wife, who skillfully presented the true essence of the war in this book. It not only covers the military operations but also sheds light on the struggles and sacrifices of the soldiers who returned with disabilities. As an army wife, Shikha adds her own perspective, sharing the emotional journey of standing by her husband's side as he went to war just months after their marriage.
This book provides a comprehensive narrative that touches on every aspect of the Kargil War. It offers a complete picture of the challenges faced by the soldiers, the bravery they displayed, and the impact it had on their families. Reading this book was a truly captivating experience, and I highly recommend it to anyone seeking to understand the truth behind the Kargil War.
February 24, 2024
Nation First tells the story of Shikha and Captain Akhilesh Saxen. The story moves from their marriage, military life in a peace station, and intense battle in which Akhilesh was badly wounded, to the experiences of a disabled soldier and rebuilding a happy life. The book is written from Shikha's point of view and thus, we can understand not only the plight of the soldiers but also the helplessness of their family. This is an inspiring story that also unravels the horror of the war. This book displays the willpower of the soldiers as well as that of their families. The patience, the soldier's family displays in desperate times also shows that while the soldiers are fighting for the country, the people at home are fighting their inner demons and anxieties. The desperate efforts they made to stay alive for the country and the people waiting for them show the terror of war. This is one of the reasons people hesitate to marry an army officer. Shikha married Akhilesh knowing about all the things she would have to face. But she was also helpless in front of the war. She could never stop him from leaving for war. A truly inspiring story that talks about the lives of people protecting the nation while sending messages to the world!
April 7, 2024
Nation First: The Story of a Kargil War Hero isn't a traditional war memoir from the soldier's perspective. Instead, it offers a unique viewpoint of the Kargil War through the eyes of Shikha Akhilesh Saxena, wife of Captain Akhilesh Saxena.
The book follows their experience as a newly married couple thrust into the harsh reality of war. Captain Saxena is deployed to the Kargil conflict zone, participating in crucial battles at Tololing, The Hump, and Three Pimples.
Shikha narrates the anxiety and fear she suffers with while Akhilesh is on the frontlines. The book delves into the emotional turmoil faced by military families during wartime. It also portrays Captain Saxena's bravery and the determination of the Indian soldiers fighting in brutal conditions.
Nation First is a powerful and poignant read. It offers a valuable perspective on the human cost of war and the unwavering strength of families who stand by their loved ones during these difficult times. If you're looking for a war memoir that goes beyond the battlefield and explores the emotional toll on those left behind, I highly recommend this book.
The book follows their experience as a newly married couple thrust into the harsh reality of war. Captain Saxena is deployed to the Kargil conflict zone, participating in crucial battles at Tololing, The Hump, and Three Pimples.
Shikha narrates the anxiety and fear she suffers with while Akhilesh is on the frontlines. The book delves into the emotional turmoil faced by military families during wartime. It also portrays Captain Saxena's bravery and the determination of the Indian soldiers fighting in brutal conditions.
Nation First is a powerful and poignant read. It offers a valuable perspective on the human cost of war and the unwavering strength of families who stand by their loved ones during these difficult times. If you're looking for a war memoir that goes beyond the battlefield and explores the emotional toll on those left behind, I highly recommend this book.
April 8, 2024
"The Army" holds a special place in our hearts, and this book isn't just a memoir — it's a touching story about what happens behind the officers on duty, how their families support them, and how they prioritize the nation above all else.
In "Nation First," written by Shikha Akhilesh Saxena, we dive into the author's own journey. She shares how she went from being an ordinary girl to the wife of an Army Officer, Captain Akhilesh Saxena, and how she adjusted to her new life. But soon, challenges arose. Captain Akhilesh Saxena, who had dreamed of joining the Army since childhood, found himself battling in the Kargil war.
The author also sheds light on the aftermath of the war and how their lives changed drastically as a result. The book vividly paints a picture of life in the Indian Army, sharing insights into its customs and traditions.
As I read about the challenges faced during the Kargil war, I was deeply moved by the bravery and sacrifices recounted.
"Nation First" is a powerful tribute to the courageous individuals who put their lives on the line to protect our country. It offers a glimpse into their world, where dedication and patriotism shine brightly, inspiring us all.
In "Nation First," written by Shikha Akhilesh Saxena, we dive into the author's own journey. She shares how she went from being an ordinary girl to the wife of an Army Officer, Captain Akhilesh Saxena, and how she adjusted to her new life. But soon, challenges arose. Captain Akhilesh Saxena, who had dreamed of joining the Army since childhood, found himself battling in the Kargil war.
The author also sheds light on the aftermath of the war and how their lives changed drastically as a result. The book vividly paints a picture of life in the Indian Army, sharing insights into its customs and traditions.
As I read about the challenges faced during the Kargil war, I was deeply moved by the bravery and sacrifices recounted.
"Nation First" is a powerful tribute to the courageous individuals who put their lives on the line to protect our country. It offers a glimpse into their world, where dedication and patriotism shine brightly, inspiring us all.
April 20, 2024
"Nation First" by Shikha Akhilesh Saxena is a deeply moving memoir that captures the poignant journey of a military couple during and after the Kargil War. Shikha's narrative powerfully portrays the emotional turmoil of a newlywed grappling with her husband's deployment to the war-torn Kargil region. Unlike traditional war stories, this book sheds light on the sacrifices and challenges faced by families of deployed soldiers, emphasizing the human aspects of conflict.
The memoir vividly depicts Captain Akhilesh Saxena's bravery and survival through severe injuries, followed by his triumphant career transition into the corporate world. Shikha's heartfelt storytelling reveals touching moments, such as the soldiers' emotional hospital experiences and the outpouring of support from fellow citizens through heartfelt letters and symbolic gestures.
This inspiring and beautifully written account honors the sacrifices of soldiers and their families, offering readers a profound understanding of resilience, love, and the enduring spirit of service. "Nation First" is a must-read for anyone interested in the personal dimensions of war and the strength of the human spirit.
The memoir vividly depicts Captain Akhilesh Saxena's bravery and survival through severe injuries, followed by his triumphant career transition into the corporate world. Shikha's heartfelt storytelling reveals touching moments, such as the soldiers' emotional hospital experiences and the outpouring of support from fellow citizens through heartfelt letters and symbolic gestures.
This inspiring and beautifully written account honors the sacrifices of soldiers and their families, offering readers a profound understanding of resilience, love, and the enduring spirit of service. "Nation First" is a must-read for anyone interested in the personal dimensions of war and the strength of the human spirit.
February 11, 2026
Nation First presents the Kargil War from a rare and intimate perspective that of a military spouse. Rather than revisiting battlefield strategies or political commentary, Shikha Akhilesh Saxena shifts the focus to the emotional terrain navigated by families waiting at home.
The narrative, inspired by real events and centered on a real war hero, carries authenticity and emotional depth. The book captures the uncertainty, fear, and quiet strength that define military family life during times of conflict. Particularly striking is the portrayal of a newly married woman stepping into the military world amid national crisis a perspective not often documented in mainstream war literature.
The language is straightforward and accessible, allowing readers to immerse themselves easily in the time and setting of 1990s India. At times reflective and nostalgic, the book resonates strongly with readers familiar with that era.
Overall, Nation First stands out for its human lens on war. It reminds us that behind every uniform is a family living its own battle. A sincere and emotionally grounded narrative.
The narrative, inspired by real events and centered on a real war hero, carries authenticity and emotional depth. The book captures the uncertainty, fear, and quiet strength that define military family life during times of conflict. Particularly striking is the portrayal of a newly married woman stepping into the military world amid national crisis a perspective not often documented in mainstream war literature.
The language is straightforward and accessible, allowing readers to immerse themselves easily in the time and setting of 1990s India. At times reflective and nostalgic, the book resonates strongly with readers familiar with that era.
Overall, Nation First stands out for its human lens on war. It reminds us that behind every uniform is a family living its own battle. A sincere and emotionally grounded narrative.
February 16, 2026
It's rare to find a book that hits this hard. Nation First isn't just another war story about the 1999 Kargil War; it’s a deeply personal memoir by Shikha Akhilesh Saxena, the wife of Captain Akhilesh Saxena.
While most military books focus solely on the battlefield, this one pulls back the curtain on the "quiet courage" of the families left behind. Shikha shares her journey as a newlywed whose husband was deployed to some of the most brutal terrains like Tololing and Three Pimples. You really feel the raw anxiety, the long waits for communication, and the emotional toll that comes with loving a soldier.
What moved me the most was the resilience shown after the war. It's an inspiring account of how they rebuilt their lives together following Captain Saxena’s injuries. The writing is incredibly honest and serves as a powerful reminder of the sacrifices made not just by those in uniform, but by their partners as well.
If you’re looking for a story about love, unwavering patriotism, and the strength of the human spirit, I can't recommend this enough. It's a gripping, emotional read that stays with you long after the last page.
While most military books focus solely on the battlefield, this one pulls back the curtain on the "quiet courage" of the families left behind. Shikha shares her journey as a newlywed whose husband was deployed to some of the most brutal terrains like Tololing and Three Pimples. You really feel the raw anxiety, the long waits for communication, and the emotional toll that comes with loving a soldier.
What moved me the most was the resilience shown after the war. It's an inspiring account of how they rebuilt their lives together following Captain Saxena’s injuries. The writing is incredibly honest and serves as a powerful reminder of the sacrifices made not just by those in uniform, but by their partners as well.
If you’re looking for a story about love, unwavering patriotism, and the strength of the human spirit, I can't recommend this enough. It's a gripping, emotional read that stays with you long after the last page.
February 24, 2024
Shikha Akhilesh Saxena’s “Nation First” is an inspiring story about the Kargil war and the life of an soldier through the eyes of an soldier’s wife. The story is about Captain Akhilesh Saxena - a Kargil war veteran, about what inspired him to join NDA, how he met his spouse and majorly about the Kargil war and how he fought to keep himself alive in the war situation. Similarly the author has very minutely described what all a soldier’s wife faces when her husband is on duty. The story is all about relationships, emotions and how Nation always comes first for every army personnel out there. The book also makes us realise how every day the army personnels strive out hard there despite the climate and war situations just to keep the citizens of India safe.
I loved the way Captain Akhilesh handled each and every situation, be it at home or his wife or his job. A truly inspiring and a must read for every Indian out there. This book has set high bars for every army personnel striving hard for our nation. Nation First is all about “Once a soldier, always an soldier.” “Jai Hind”
I loved the way Captain Akhilesh handled each and every situation, be it at home or his wife or his job. A truly inspiring and a must read for every Indian out there. This book has set high bars for every army personnel striving hard for our nation. Nation First is all about “Once a soldier, always an soldier.” “Jai Hind”
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