I always love reading Joni Eareckson Tada. However, I felt, in some places, like Joni was a bit too pollyanna-ish when it came to not complaining. While it is probably a good idea not to complain about one's lot in life, complaining is part of the human condition. We do that. We have hard circumstances and we gripe. I believe God expects a certain amount of that from us, after all the Israelites were doing it heavily in the desert for 40 years. I have been in a wheelchair for most of the last 17 years, though I had the ability to get out of it, on a daily basis, to transfer myself to other positions. In that aspect, I didn't have it as rough as Joni does. However, I had a entire host of difficulties very different from Joni's experience. I think not complaining about those is great if a person can manage that, it is the ideal state. However, I didn't manage to not complain. I have a very close relationship with God too, and that probably stopped me from doing a whole lot more complaining than I've done. I guess what I'm trying to say here is, the way Joni said the parts about complaining, it made it look like she was a paragon of virtue, and maybe a bit holier than thou. I don't think God expects us to deal with severe hardships and not complain. I believe He looks more closely at our hearts. The line between complaining and venting (not to keep everything all bottled up) is a fuzzy one. I am glad she has a wonderful family to help her out with everything she needs, and supports her emotionally. I have not had that, not by a long shot. In fact, my family behaved quite the opposite. See look, I'm complaining again! It is a very slippery slope. The upshot of this book is that it can motivate people to try and accept their difficult circumstances (whatever those are) and improve on whatever level of complaining they were doing. She has a sound biblical perspective on it all.