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Nowhere but Up: The Story of Justin Bieber's Mom
Most people only know her as Justin Bieber's mom, but Pattie Mallette has had an incredible journey of her own. Many people have heard of her son's rags to riches triumph. A few know she was a teen mom who had to overcome a drug and alcohol addiction. Even fewer know the rest of her story.
Now, for the first time in detail, Pattie shares with the world the story of a girl who felt abandoned and unloved. Of a teenager who made poor choices. Of a young woman who attempted suicide and could hardly bear to believe that God would ever care for her. One who messed up, got pregnant, and got a second chance. Every reader will find themselves somewhere in Pattie's painful journey of redemption. They will be encouraged by her example that what was once broken can become whole.
Pattie's story will inspire readers to believe that even in the darkest of places, there's always hope. For those who feel unlovable, there's always love. And for those who believe they're a lost cause, there's always room for another chance.
Now, for the first time in detail, Pattie shares with the world the story of a girl who felt abandoned and unloved. Of a teenager who made poor choices. Of a young woman who attempted suicide and could hardly bear to believe that God would ever care for her. One who messed up, got pregnant, and got a second chance. Every reader will find themselves somewhere in Pattie's painful journey of redemption. They will be encouraged by her example that what was once broken can become whole.
Pattie's story will inspire readers to believe that even in the darkest of places, there's always hope. For those who feel unlovable, there's always love. And for those who believe they're a lost cause, there's always room for another chance.
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October 12, 2013
Wow.
I didn't expect to like this book so much, I'll tell you that.
Don't be put off by the mention of Justin Bieber, as a lot of people are, it's a very sad, emotional, heartwarming and inspiring true story of a woman that over came the demons of her past in order to create a better life for her son. It's beautiful.
Pattie Mallette has had a troubled life. Dealing with sexual abuse, drug addiction, alcohol addiction, an on and off relationship with her alcoholic boyfriend who turned out to be Justin's father, attempted suicide, a teenage pregnancy, anxiety and depression. She goes into detail about all these troubles throughout the novel but, what's interesting to see, is that without everything she has been through, Justin Bieber wouldn't even have existed. All the traumatizing events of her childhood that lead to her addictions and toxic relationship, at the end of it, produced, as Pattie says in her book, her heart: Justin. Her son.
And it seems like her son was the light at the end of a very dark tunnel.
Seeing how much this woman cares about her child is truly heartwarming; the baby photos she proudly shows us, the cute stories she tells, how she gushes with pride over every thing he did and does, she's simply a very proud mother.
One of my favourite quotes from the book:
' "Hi, Justin." I whispered, wondering how on earth two troubled teenagers could have created the most breathtaking baby in the entire universe.'
The love Pattie has for her son is a beautiful thing.
Whether you're a parent, a teen or just a person going through a hard time; I recommend this to you.
You will smile, laugh and most definitely cry. I know I did.
Though his book has an underlining theme of Pattie's faith, i feel as though it wasn't shoved down our throats. Whether you're christian or not, what I found the message to be was whether you have faith in god, in yourself or whatever, as long as you believe it can, things will get better.
Though some things may seem melodramatic and cheesy, Pattie achieves the message she is trying to send with this book:
No matter how bad things may get, they will get better, in the end.
I didn't expect to like this book so much, I'll tell you that.
Don't be put off by the mention of Justin Bieber, as a lot of people are, it's a very sad, emotional, heartwarming and inspiring true story of a woman that over came the demons of her past in order to create a better life for her son. It's beautiful.
Pattie Mallette has had a troubled life. Dealing with sexual abuse, drug addiction, alcohol addiction, an on and off relationship with her alcoholic boyfriend who turned out to be Justin's father, attempted suicide, a teenage pregnancy, anxiety and depression. She goes into detail about all these troubles throughout the novel but, what's interesting to see, is that without everything she has been through, Justin Bieber wouldn't even have existed. All the traumatizing events of her childhood that lead to her addictions and toxic relationship, at the end of it, produced, as Pattie says in her book, her heart: Justin. Her son.
And it seems like her son was the light at the end of a very dark tunnel.
Seeing how much this woman cares about her child is truly heartwarming; the baby photos she proudly shows us, the cute stories she tells, how she gushes with pride over every thing he did and does, she's simply a very proud mother.
One of my favourite quotes from the book:
' "Hi, Justin." I whispered, wondering how on earth two troubled teenagers could have created the most breathtaking baby in the entire universe.'
The love Pattie has for her son is a beautiful thing.
Whether you're a parent, a teen or just a person going through a hard time; I recommend this to you.
You will smile, laugh and most definitely cry. I know I did.
Though his book has an underlining theme of Pattie's faith, i feel as though it wasn't shoved down our throats. Whether you're christian or not, what I found the message to be was whether you have faith in god, in yourself or whatever, as long as you believe it can, things will get better.
Though some things may seem melodramatic and cheesy, Pattie achieves the message she is trying to send with this book:
No matter how bad things may get, they will get better, in the end.
January 30, 2013
I thought this was a FANTASTIC read!! One of the first few Chapters she really opens up about her abuse - that happened as a child.
So it's a little detailed in that aspect! I am a fan of her!! She quotes scriptures to back up her beliefs - some of the things mentioned amaze me, at how the Youtube clips she put up of Justin were JUST to show her Grandma, and then all of a sudden he's getting random comments saying "You're going to be famous!!". She does talk about Justin - but its mainly about her life, how she grew up, what she went through struggling as a single mother.
You come to understand that she converts to Christianity later on in life. I quite admire her for opening up about her life to the world. From what she writes, it wasn't easy. She was exposed to some stuff at too young an age. She shares horrible scenarios she went through as a child, severe depression & drugs as a teen, & trials she went through as an adult (and Mum). The horror of an ex sleeping around devasted her world, even when they were to be wed. Sadly, she had to end her relationship with Justin Bieber's dad - At one point he was doing well, but went back to his old ways.
Justin may have the singing voice - but she has a VOICE - People need to read this, for a reality-check about real lives - what happens in the REAL world, because she experienced just that!! She expresses that through the dark times, you need to look UP!! This is a book of HOPE.
Some quotes struck out to me - and you feel as if she is imparting wisdom and revelation onto you!!
It is well-written - so easy to read!! She knows how to captivate the reader from the start - I especially liked the opening illustration explaining a dream she once had.... This is what had me from the start!!
Well recommended - Finally read it after wanting to for a long time!!! Worth the read!! :)
So it's a little detailed in that aspect! I am a fan of her!! She quotes scriptures to back up her beliefs - some of the things mentioned amaze me, at how the Youtube clips she put up of Justin were JUST to show her Grandma, and then all of a sudden he's getting random comments saying "You're going to be famous!!". She does talk about Justin - but its mainly about her life, how she grew up, what she went through struggling as a single mother.
You come to understand that she converts to Christianity later on in life. I quite admire her for opening up about her life to the world. From what she writes, it wasn't easy. She was exposed to some stuff at too young an age. She shares horrible scenarios she went through as a child, severe depression & drugs as a teen, & trials she went through as an adult (and Mum). The horror of an ex sleeping around devasted her world, even when they were to be wed. Sadly, she had to end her relationship with Justin Bieber's dad - At one point he was doing well, but went back to his old ways.
Justin may have the singing voice - but she has a VOICE - People need to read this, for a reality-check about real lives - what happens in the REAL world, because she experienced just that!! She expresses that through the dark times, you need to look UP!! This is a book of HOPE.
Some quotes struck out to me - and you feel as if she is imparting wisdom and revelation onto you!!
It is well-written - so easy to read!! She knows how to captivate the reader from the start - I especially liked the opening illustration explaining a dream she once had.... This is what had me from the start!!
Well recommended - Finally read it after wanting to for a long time!!! Worth the read!! :)
October 29, 2012
Whether or not you're Christian, of any other faith or an atheist, I still feel as though Pattie Mallette gets her main message across: when you hit rock bottom, the only way is up. She found the strength to change in her faith (and her unexpected pregnancy). Others may find it in something or someone else. Whatever it may be, there is hope to change your life for the better and free yourself from the shackles of your past.
There were a few descriptions and situations in the book that made me roll my eyes (yes, I'm a terrible cynic), especially those that had to do with some unbelievable coincidences - or divine interventions, according to her. But who am I to say whether this really happened or not. Still, I took some of it with a grain of salt, even though I can relate to other matters concerning her faith.
More importantly, however, Pattie is living proof that you don't have to repeat the mistakes of your parents or be stuck in a vicious cycle of abuse or be a victim of circumstances. She could have just as easily raised her son to be a completely different person (at least here's hoping that what we see of Justin Bieber is not just pretense, but that he really is a young man with impeccable manners and a lot of grace and heart) by not facing her demons and giving in to weakness in times of hardships.
But instead she turned her life around in order to raise her child in a more loving and secure environment than she herself had known.
I also appreciate that while she gushes about her wunderkind Justin like the proud mother that she is, this book doesn't exploit him. She put her own story out there and I admire the bravery to bare her soul like this for all the world to see in order to give someone out there a glimmer of hope. Unfortunately we live in a world where this means making yourself vulnerable for attack.
On a completely different note I feel like this book would have improved with a little more editing. The first half doesn't seem to follow any chronolgical order, while Pattie describes her childhood and early teenage years. It often seemed more important to stress a certain realisation or describe a recurring pattern than follow a timeline, but it momentarily ripped me out of the narration a few times.
(For the record: I have the Kindle edition of this book. Was just too lazy to add it.)
There were a few descriptions and situations in the book that made me roll my eyes (yes, I'm a terrible cynic), especially those that had to do with some unbelievable coincidences - or divine interventions, according to her. But who am I to say whether this really happened or not. Still, I took some of it with a grain of salt, even though I can relate to other matters concerning her faith.
More importantly, however, Pattie is living proof that you don't have to repeat the mistakes of your parents or be stuck in a vicious cycle of abuse or be a victim of circumstances. She could have just as easily raised her son to be a completely different person (at least here's hoping that what we see of Justin Bieber is not just pretense, but that he really is a young man with impeccable manners and a lot of grace and heart) by not facing her demons and giving in to weakness in times of hardships.
But instead she turned her life around in order to raise her child in a more loving and secure environment than she herself had known.
I also appreciate that while she gushes about her wunderkind Justin like the proud mother that she is, this book doesn't exploit him. She put her own story out there and I admire the bravery to bare her soul like this for all the world to see in order to give someone out there a glimmer of hope. Unfortunately we live in a world where this means making yourself vulnerable for attack.
On a completely different note I feel like this book would have improved with a little more editing. The first half doesn't seem to follow any chronolgical order, while Pattie describes her childhood and early teenage years. It often seemed more important to stress a certain realisation or describe a recurring pattern than follow a timeline, but it momentarily ripped me out of the narration a few times.
(For the record: I have the Kindle edition of this book. Was just too lazy to add it.)
October 21, 2012
Pattie Mallette is a True Believer. And, as I am some form of godless heathen, there were parts of this book that I found difficult to read.
I will commend Ms. Mallette for her honesty in describing the pain of her childhood sexual abuse, and for putting her story out to the world in a way that does not seem to seek to point fingers at other people, but to simply state the confusion, hurt, and self-loathing that many victims experience.... and to show that yes, there can be a way out of that. That it is possible to come through the other side of all of it, and be whole, even if it is a long and painful journey. She states in the beginning that she wanted to tell her story in order to convey a message of hope to others, and she succeeds at that goal, I think.
Yes, she gushes over her son for the last third of the book - and who can blame her? She is no more guilty of this than any other proud parent I have known. Even in this, she manages to give an important message: even if it seems you have nothing else to give to your children, you still have that all-important thing: love.
What sat uncomfortably for me was her reliance on God to make her choices. The near-constant "God works in miraculous and mysterious ways" message of the middle third of the book became a bit too much of a hard sell for me - however, it is her story, seen through her eyes, and told in her voice. Who am I to say that she was not blessed?
Overall, it's a quick read. Those looking for titillating details or salacious stories are not going to find them here. They will find a tale of a life of challenges overcome, often through hard work and perseverance, with mistakes and falls along the way. It is, in the end, a story of healing, and of hope. And that is not a terrible thing.
I will commend Ms. Mallette for her honesty in describing the pain of her childhood sexual abuse, and for putting her story out to the world in a way that does not seem to seek to point fingers at other people, but to simply state the confusion, hurt, and self-loathing that many victims experience.... and to show that yes, there can be a way out of that. That it is possible to come through the other side of all of it, and be whole, even if it is a long and painful journey. She states in the beginning that she wanted to tell her story in order to convey a message of hope to others, and she succeeds at that goal, I think.
Yes, she gushes over her son for the last third of the book - and who can blame her? She is no more guilty of this than any other proud parent I have known. Even in this, she manages to give an important message: even if it seems you have nothing else to give to your children, you still have that all-important thing: love.
What sat uncomfortably for me was her reliance on God to make her choices. The near-constant "God works in miraculous and mysterious ways" message of the middle third of the book became a bit too much of a hard sell for me - however, it is her story, seen through her eyes, and told in her voice. Who am I to say that she was not blessed?
Overall, it's a quick read. Those looking for titillating details or salacious stories are not going to find them here. They will find a tale of a life of challenges overcome, often through hard work and perseverance, with mistakes and falls along the way. It is, in the end, a story of healing, and of hope. And that is not a terrible thing.
July 20, 2013
Pattie Mallette also knows as i say my second mom she is awesome! I sat tht because i met her at a Justin Bieber concert. As you can see i LOVE JUSTIN BIEBER! Anyway I love how she explained her life here in this book, and the other book. I have both of her books! I am a huge fan! As you read this most inspirational best selling book you will learn how to live life the positive way and not the negative way. In this book she had Justin as an accident, and look, hes an inspirational singer, who says the most beautiful words to a girl! They are both awesome! I wish i can say the details of this book but i cant because then you guys would know what it is all about and wont end up buying it! LOL but iff you buy any book of her, the adult book, or the teenage book, they are both awesome and inspirational, and you will see how your life is gonna be changed! I promise you! Right now I am lving a happy normal life and i have been but i know tht she will change others, and just to let you guys know i was at the justin bieber concert July 17,2013 ! i had a blast. Thnak you Pattie And justin! from your #1 belieber! <333 Hope you guys like my review! And i would love to be an author as you can see here, I love to write! I read this book in 5 hours!
November 7, 2013
This is such an inspiring book that really gives you hope. Being a big Justin Bieber fan, I did know some of the things that his mom has been through but not nearly as much as is told in this book. Pattie is definitely so much more than just world famous pop star Justin Bieber's mom, she is a bright, beautiful and brave woman. This book had my jaw dropping and my eyes tearing the whole time. It really makes you realize that your little day to day problems are nothing compared to what others go through everyday for years. After reading this book you really feel like if she was able to get through all those things and come out on top, so can I. Pattie Mallette is an inspiration to all and I thank her for being so strong by putting her story out there. I am convinced that it will help many that have been or are going through similar things. I am so happy for her now because she is finally living the life that she has deserved to live all this time. I also want to thank you Pattie for raising Justin to be such a good man and allowing him to pursue his music career because he is my idol. He has helped me through so much. Thank you!
January 26, 2013
I love reading, and I love reading biographies. I was watching a talk show (I don`t remember which one), and they said that coming up in the coming week they would be talking to Pattie Mallette, Justin Bieber`s Mom about her new book. They mentioned that she raised him as a single Mom and had lots of struggles, but that she was a born again Christian and talks about her faith being what brought her through. That intrigued me.
At this point, I must confess, I am not a Justin Bieber fan. I don`t have anything against him or anything, I just am a little old to be in his fan base. I don`t listen to a lot of pop music anyways, so I really don`t know his story. I mean, I knew he was from Stratford, ON, he was a young kid, and that he rose quickly to stardom, but really that was the extent of my knowledge.
I received a gift card for Amazon.com and I purchased myself some great books, one of which I decided on was Nowhere but Up: The Story of Justin Bieber's Mom.
On Amazon the description of the book says:
Most people only know her as Justin Bieber's mom, but Pattie Mallette has had an incredible journey of her own. Many people have heard of her son's rags to riches triumph. A few know she was a teen mom who had to overcome a drug and alcohol addiction. Even fewer know the rest of her story.
Now, for the first time in detail, Pattie shares with the world the story of a girl who felt abandoned and unloved. Of a teenager who made poor choices. Of a young woman who attempted suicide and could hardly bear to believe that God would ever care for her. One who messed up, got pregnant, and got a second chance. Every reader will find themselves somewhere in Pattie's painful journey of redemption. They will be encouraged by her example that what was once broken can become whole.
Pattie's story will inspire readers to believe that even in the darkest of places, there's always hope. For those who feel unlovable, there's always love. And for those who believe they're a lost cause, there's always room for another chance.
After reading this book, I have to say that I did relate to her on some of the aspects of her story. I also have to say as a Christian I loved reading her testimony of what God has done in her life. This is what being a Christian really is. Many people think that Christians think we are perfect, or hate everyone who doesn`t believe the same as us. That is because there are radical people out there who claim they are Christians but have no idea what Christ would really have them do. Ok stepping off soap box, sorry LOL
I love that Pattie doesn`t say that she became a Christian and all things went smoothly. Nope she talks about her doubts, how she still messed how, how she needed reassurances of God`s love and care for it. And she tells how he met her needs not always in her timing, but in his. How he provided food when she couldn`t figure out how, and blessed her with words of encouragement when she needed them. Having been a Christian all my life, I could relate to this part of her life too. I`ve needed the encouragement, and I have had times when people come up to me and say things they had no way of knowing about. Only God and myself knew and they would tell me things. It was cool, and I`ve been on the other end of it where I just knew that I knew I had to say something to someone, and thought they might think I was crazy. When I told them the look on their face told me it was God who told me to say it.
If you are looking for a tell all, dish out the gossip dirt flinging book, this is not the book for you. I like that she didn`t name names when telling about past experiences. While she did talk about Justin`s Dad and the troubles they had she also made it clear that it was mutual, and it was never in a digging sort of way. I felt like she handled it all in a very classy way. Also if you are just a fan of Justin looking for all the inside goodies, I feel like you might be disappointed in this book too. It has some things that I didn`t know but again I didn`t know much. She does tell some intimate stories, but most of the book is about her and her perspective.
If you are interesting in learning more about the woman who raised Justin, about a woman who had a tough life but tried to figure out life, who trusted God and is learning every day to be a better person. A person who was victimized, but has chosen to no longer be a victim, and about a God who is powerful and can make changes in the most hardened heart, then this book would be good for you. If you are in a dark place, and feel like there is no hope for you, or a teenage mom needing to feel like someone gets it, I highly recommend this book.
I thoroughly enjoyed this book, and found it to be such an honest and truthful look at how it is to be a Christian, broken, sinful, forgiven and loved.
Check out more of my giveaways at http://www.theknitwitbyshair.com
At this point, I must confess, I am not a Justin Bieber fan. I don`t have anything against him or anything, I just am a little old to be in his fan base. I don`t listen to a lot of pop music anyways, so I really don`t know his story. I mean, I knew he was from Stratford, ON, he was a young kid, and that he rose quickly to stardom, but really that was the extent of my knowledge.
I received a gift card for Amazon.com and I purchased myself some great books, one of which I decided on was Nowhere but Up: The Story of Justin Bieber's Mom.
On Amazon the description of the book says:
Most people only know her as Justin Bieber's mom, but Pattie Mallette has had an incredible journey of her own. Many people have heard of her son's rags to riches triumph. A few know she was a teen mom who had to overcome a drug and alcohol addiction. Even fewer know the rest of her story.
Now, for the first time in detail, Pattie shares with the world the story of a girl who felt abandoned and unloved. Of a teenager who made poor choices. Of a young woman who attempted suicide and could hardly bear to believe that God would ever care for her. One who messed up, got pregnant, and got a second chance. Every reader will find themselves somewhere in Pattie's painful journey of redemption. They will be encouraged by her example that what was once broken can become whole.
Pattie's story will inspire readers to believe that even in the darkest of places, there's always hope. For those who feel unlovable, there's always love. And for those who believe they're a lost cause, there's always room for another chance.
After reading this book, I have to say that I did relate to her on some of the aspects of her story. I also have to say as a Christian I loved reading her testimony of what God has done in her life. This is what being a Christian really is. Many people think that Christians think we are perfect, or hate everyone who doesn`t believe the same as us. That is because there are radical people out there who claim they are Christians but have no idea what Christ would really have them do. Ok stepping off soap box, sorry LOL
I love that Pattie doesn`t say that she became a Christian and all things went smoothly. Nope she talks about her doubts, how she still messed how, how she needed reassurances of God`s love and care for it. And she tells how he met her needs not always in her timing, but in his. How he provided food when she couldn`t figure out how, and blessed her with words of encouragement when she needed them. Having been a Christian all my life, I could relate to this part of her life too. I`ve needed the encouragement, and I have had times when people come up to me and say things they had no way of knowing about. Only God and myself knew and they would tell me things. It was cool, and I`ve been on the other end of it where I just knew that I knew I had to say something to someone, and thought they might think I was crazy. When I told them the look on their face told me it was God who told me to say it.
If you are looking for a tell all, dish out the gossip dirt flinging book, this is not the book for you. I like that she didn`t name names when telling about past experiences. While she did talk about Justin`s Dad and the troubles they had she also made it clear that it was mutual, and it was never in a digging sort of way. I felt like she handled it all in a very classy way. Also if you are just a fan of Justin looking for all the inside goodies, I feel like you might be disappointed in this book too. It has some things that I didn`t know but again I didn`t know much. She does tell some intimate stories, but most of the book is about her and her perspective.
If you are interesting in learning more about the woman who raised Justin, about a woman who had a tough life but tried to figure out life, who trusted God and is learning every day to be a better person. A person who was victimized, but has chosen to no longer be a victim, and about a God who is powerful and can make changes in the most hardened heart, then this book would be good for you. If you are in a dark place, and feel like there is no hope for you, or a teenage mom needing to feel like someone gets it, I highly recommend this book.
I thoroughly enjoyed this book, and found it to be such an honest and truthful look at how it is to be a Christian, broken, sinful, forgiven and loved.
Check out more of my giveaways at http://www.theknitwitbyshair.com
December 11, 2013
I never thought an autobiography could be so interesting and good!
Reading "Nowhere But Up" taught me about one of the world's best known moms: Pattie Mallette (Justin Bieber's mom). From the first page of the book, to the last, I was on the edge of my seat waiting to find out what happened next. Every chapter is a new journey that I was dying to read.
Pattie takes you from the very beginning of her life to where she stands today. Mallette shares some of her deepest secrets from her childhood, that you would've never guessed happened to her. Pattie really played with my feelings while I read this novel. At times she mad me cry because of the difficulties she had to get through and at other times she mad my smile gleam as she explained the memorable times she shared with Justin when he was just a little boy. I can honestly say this is probably the best autobiography I've ever read.
I never thought I could shed so many tears through one book. Reading this book gave me a different perspective on life. Pattie has many different Bible verses throughout this novel, that really gave you an understanding of life. She shares different times that she talked to God, and how she made it through the tough times.
" It doesn't matter where you find yourself today- how broken, hurting, wounded, or ashamed you are. If God can help me find my way up, I promise, He can do the same for you." -Pattie Mallette
Reading "Nowhere But Up" taught me about one of the world's best known moms: Pattie Mallette (Justin Bieber's mom). From the first page of the book, to the last, I was on the edge of my seat waiting to find out what happened next. Every chapter is a new journey that I was dying to read.
Pattie takes you from the very beginning of her life to where she stands today. Mallette shares some of her deepest secrets from her childhood, that you would've never guessed happened to her. Pattie really played with my feelings while I read this novel. At times she mad me cry because of the difficulties she had to get through and at other times she mad my smile gleam as she explained the memorable times she shared with Justin when he was just a little boy. I can honestly say this is probably the best autobiography I've ever read.
I never thought I could shed so many tears through one book. Reading this book gave me a different perspective on life. Pattie has many different Bible verses throughout this novel, that really gave you an understanding of life. She shares different times that she talked to God, and how she made it through the tough times.
" It doesn't matter where you find yourself today- how broken, hurting, wounded, or ashamed you are. If God can help me find my way up, I promise, He can do the same for you." -Pattie Mallette
January 7, 2014
Nowhere but up is about a single mother of one of the most famous popstars in the world today. The book talks about the many struggles Pattie Mallette went through growing up. Life really wasn't easy and wasn't good for her. A lot of people see her as Justin Bieber's mom, but before all the glamour she was just like any other person dealing with a lot of hard things. She dealt with a lot of things such as depression and abuse. This book she talks about how broken she was growing up and how she slowly found a way to be whole again.
I gave this book 4 stars because it was really good. I really enjoyed reading this book, it was very interesting and always kept me wanting to read more and more. I was drawn to this book because she was Justin Bieber's Mom, but when reading the book I realized it was talking about her life not justins. I only gave it 4 because even though I liked it, I felt like a person who could relate to patties troubles would have understood and liked it better. it amazes me how a mother of a famous person could be so down to earth. I would defiantly recommend this book to young girls dealing with hard times or a Justin bieber fan because it is really amazing book, it is so inspirational and I would read it again any day.
I gave this book 4 stars because it was really good. I really enjoyed reading this book, it was very interesting and always kept me wanting to read more and more. I was drawn to this book because she was Justin Bieber's Mom, but when reading the book I realized it was talking about her life not justins. I only gave it 4 because even though I liked it, I felt like a person who could relate to patties troubles would have understood and liked it better. it amazes me how a mother of a famous person could be so down to earth. I would defiantly recommend this book to young girls dealing with hard times or a Justin bieber fan because it is really amazing book, it is so inspirational and I would read it again any day.
August 24, 2015
Pattie didn't have an easy life growing up. She was abandoned be her father at 2, sexually abused, depressed and it lead to drugs and toxic relationships in her teen years. After a failed suicide attempt, she came to accept Christ into her life. (It's a bit more complicated than that but I'm not going to spoil the book completely.) Of course, this wasn't a fix to all her problems but it gave her strength and peace that most Christians are familiar with . . . it's something that can only come from God.
This book wasn't easy to read, emotionally. Spiritually, it challenged me and in a good way. I wish I had underlined so that I could write down the one liners that really stuck out to me. There's one that she mentioned about tithing that has weighed heavy on my heart ever since I read it and I want to post it here so I can always have it for reference: "You see, tithing isn't really about money. It's about being free from its control and trusting God will take care of you."
I recommend this book to all. Christian or not, everyone can learn something from it.
This book wasn't easy to read, emotionally. Spiritually, it challenged me and in a good way. I wish I had underlined so that I could write down the one liners that really stuck out to me. There's one that she mentioned about tithing that has weighed heavy on my heart ever since I read it and I want to post it here so I can always have it for reference: "You see, tithing isn't really about money. It's about being free from its control and trusting God will take care of you."
I recommend this book to all. Christian or not, everyone can learn something from it.
December 11, 2024
I picked this up hoping to gain some compassion for spoiled famous people who rub me the wrong way. The book was not groundbreaking at all, but a great reminder that there is a story behind every face.
November 10, 2012
Holy hell, I can't believe I'm adding this ;)
November 23, 2015
Great life story!!
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April 1, 2020thought this was gonna be fun lite ronaread but half of it is about CSA and the rest is about loving jesus lol. some of the chapters do have bad poetry which is kinda cool
December 4, 2012
Thoughts:
WOW!! I had heard bits and pieces of Patti Mallette's story here and there but to hear it told from start to finish left me in awe! Complete and total AWE!
Patti shares her life story from a very young age up to today. To say she had a rough childhood wouldn't even be close to the truth. She has experienced things that no person should have to go through, let alone a child at the tender age of 3-5 yrs. old.
From years and years of sexual abuse, plus abandonment issues and all that comes from that, Patti found herself lost in drugs and alcohol attempting to cover up the pain.
Everywhere she turned, it seemed those she felt she could trust, would prove her wrong again and again.
After years of doing things "Her way" and finding herself in and out of toxic relationships, Patti finds out she is pregnant. She is more than convinced that being pregnant is just not true and asks to do the test again. This stubborn mind-set continues to play in other circumstances that arise in her life. Like when she asks God for a sign, or maybe it's just that HE is giving her one and she is DETERMINED not to believe it could be from HIM. I had to laugh at these situations in which God most definitely met Patti right where she was, at that point in her life!! HIS Love for her is amazing, HIS patience is humbling, and HIS pursuit of her is just jaw dropping awesome! But isn't that just the way HE is for all of us!!
Patti's story is one that inspires and leaves you speechless at the same time. Truly, her decision to share her life story,will no doubt touch the lives of many! Whether you are a single mom or maybe someone who fights depression & addictions, or maybe you question your relationship with Christ....this book will give you hope and share the GRACE that God gives so freely! I can't help but think of the Scripture that says "What the enemy meant for harm, God turns it into good!"
Patti is such a precious person! I remember a part in Justin's "Never say Never" movie, where Patti and Justin's manager, Scooter Braun, set out to, "Go Bless Someone". Just before each concert, she and Scooter look for someone or maybe even a group to receive either "front row seats or back stage passes.' One lucky girl will also be the recipient of going on stage and have Justin sing right to her! Can you imagine??
The joy on Patti's face when she announces to those whom they have just blessed is priceless. Clearly, Patti learned the gift of giving, of paying it forward and is able to do so with many unsuspecting people out there. She has taught Justin to do the same but more importantly she taught him, WHO gave him his gifts and talents! She taught him God's Word and HIS Ways, and gave him a godly foundation. Truly Patti knows, life is hard, but when you have Christ with you - all things are possible, and when you are at the end of your rope, there is nowhere to go but UP!
This book is most definitely 5 ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥'s
Thank you Donna and Revell Publishing, A division of Baker Publishing Group, for allowing me this complimentary book in exchange for my honest review!
WOW!! I had heard bits and pieces of Patti Mallette's story here and there but to hear it told from start to finish left me in awe! Complete and total AWE!
Patti shares her life story from a very young age up to today. To say she had a rough childhood wouldn't even be close to the truth. She has experienced things that no person should have to go through, let alone a child at the tender age of 3-5 yrs. old.
From years and years of sexual abuse, plus abandonment issues and all that comes from that, Patti found herself lost in drugs and alcohol attempting to cover up the pain.
Everywhere she turned, it seemed those she felt she could trust, would prove her wrong again and again.
After years of doing things "Her way" and finding herself in and out of toxic relationships, Patti finds out she is pregnant. She is more than convinced that being pregnant is just not true and asks to do the test again. This stubborn mind-set continues to play in other circumstances that arise in her life. Like when she asks God for a sign, or maybe it's just that HE is giving her one and she is DETERMINED not to believe it could be from HIM. I had to laugh at these situations in which God most definitely met Patti right where she was, at that point in her life!! HIS Love for her is amazing, HIS patience is humbling, and HIS pursuit of her is just jaw dropping awesome! But isn't that just the way HE is for all of us!!
Patti's story is one that inspires and leaves you speechless at the same time. Truly, her decision to share her life story,will no doubt touch the lives of many! Whether you are a single mom or maybe someone who fights depression & addictions, or maybe you question your relationship with Christ....this book will give you hope and share the GRACE that God gives so freely! I can't help but think of the Scripture that says "What the enemy meant for harm, God turns it into good!"
Patti is such a precious person! I remember a part in Justin's "Never say Never" movie, where Patti and Justin's manager, Scooter Braun, set out to, "Go Bless Someone". Just before each concert, she and Scooter look for someone or maybe even a group to receive either "front row seats or back stage passes.' One lucky girl will also be the recipient of going on stage and have Justin sing right to her! Can you imagine??
The joy on Patti's face when she announces to those whom they have just blessed is priceless. Clearly, Patti learned the gift of giving, of paying it forward and is able to do so with many unsuspecting people out there. She has taught Justin to do the same but more importantly she taught him, WHO gave him his gifts and talents! She taught him God's Word and HIS Ways, and gave him a godly foundation. Truly Patti knows, life is hard, but when you have Christ with you - all things are possible, and when you are at the end of your rope, there is nowhere to go but UP!
This book is most definitely 5 ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥'s
Thank you Donna and Revell Publishing, A division of Baker Publishing Group, for allowing me this complimentary book in exchange for my honest review!
November 2, 2016
I enjoyed this book it has a very strong story and strong message to readers about speaking out and getting help from abuse for example.
The book “Nowhere But Up” talks about a girl named Pattie. When she was little, her dad left her and her mom for nothing. She did not know when she would ever see her dad again. She would always think to herself she was was ugly and always said she would also skip school; she lived in a broken home.
Pattie was also getting sexually abused by family members on her father’s side but no one knew about it because Pattie kept quiet. When she was 12, Pattie was on her way home she was walking to her house and saw her real dad talking with her mom on the porch and try to hug Her but she was just so mad at him. Her blood boiled inside of her, she soon forgave her dad but then when he leaves again she was heartbroken that he just came back into her life and leaves again but they stayed in touch writing letters each other weeks later her mom called her downstairs to talk to her. Her mom told her that her dad is died unexpectedly from some street violence, she was upset and she started to do bad things like drugs and alcohol. Her mom so did not care about her. Pattie turned to self harm, she started thinking to herself that she was worthless in the world. One-day Pattie was so upset she ran to the street and wait for a car to come by to commit suicide because she thought that everything would be better if she was gone. Soon a neighbor saw what she was about to do, and brought her back inside of her house and talk to her. Patties mom decided to put Pattie into a mental hospital for a few months to get some therapy and help.
As months went on Pattie had one visitor it was a student from her school that came to talk to her at the hospital about god. A few weeks later she met a boy named Jeremy,they had a on and off relationship and Pattie was also having fallbacks going back to drugs but she pushed herself and remembered what God has planned for her. Soon she had a son named Justin with Jeremy but Pattie realize that it would be just her and Justin and she would be taking care of Justin by herself. She promised to give Justin the best life she could.
The book “Nowhere But Up” talks about a girl named Pattie. When she was little, her dad left her and her mom for nothing. She did not know when she would ever see her dad again. She would always think to herself she was was ugly and always said she would also skip school; she lived in a broken home.
Pattie was also getting sexually abused by family members on her father’s side but no one knew about it because Pattie kept quiet. When she was 12, Pattie was on her way home she was walking to her house and saw her real dad talking with her mom on the porch and try to hug Her but she was just so mad at him. Her blood boiled inside of her, she soon forgave her dad but then when he leaves again she was heartbroken that he just came back into her life and leaves again but they stayed in touch writing letters each other weeks later her mom called her downstairs to talk to her. Her mom told her that her dad is died unexpectedly from some street violence, she was upset and she started to do bad things like drugs and alcohol. Her mom so did not care about her. Pattie turned to self harm, she started thinking to herself that she was worthless in the world. One-day Pattie was so upset she ran to the street and wait for a car to come by to commit suicide because she thought that everything would be better if she was gone. Soon a neighbor saw what she was about to do, and brought her back inside of her house and talk to her. Patties mom decided to put Pattie into a mental hospital for a few months to get some therapy and help.
As months went on Pattie had one visitor it was a student from her school that came to talk to her at the hospital about god. A few weeks later she met a boy named Jeremy,they had a on and off relationship and Pattie was also having fallbacks going back to drugs but she pushed herself and remembered what God has planned for her. Soon she had a son named Justin with Jeremy but Pattie realize that it would be just her and Justin and she would be taking care of Justin by herself. She promised to give Justin the best life she could.
May 15, 2014
It's difficult to review a book like this.
On one hand, I give Pattie Mallette props for having survived abuse, depression and the struggles that go along with being a teenaged mother. On the other hand, I felt the book was a bit generous in the "God sent me a sign" department. Don't get me wrong--I have respect for people who live their lives with faith, I just have a difficult time believing that members of the church suddenly stopped her on the street to tell her stories of a "Jewish man who will come into her life" who turned out to be Scooter Braun.
Some things I found were annoyingly inaccurate and others just seemed like fabrications. I found it absolutely unbelievable that a mother who was living on less than $10,000 would drive an hour and a half to a big city like Toronto and allow her son to busk. She said her friend drove her (these "friends" always turn out to be male) but it still didn't ring true to me. I felt like she left out a part of the story. Had she told what I suspect was the truth, she may have said: "A male friend who really wanted to have a relationship with me agreed to drive Justin and I almost 2 hours away so that he could busk on a street corner". THAT would have sounded better and is probably closer to the truth.
This was an easy read and although I'm not a huge Justin Bieber fan, it was fun.
On one hand, I give Pattie Mallette props for having survived abuse, depression and the struggles that go along with being a teenaged mother. On the other hand, I felt the book was a bit generous in the "God sent me a sign" department. Don't get me wrong--I have respect for people who live their lives with faith, I just have a difficult time believing that members of the church suddenly stopped her on the street to tell her stories of a "Jewish man who will come into her life" who turned out to be Scooter Braun.
Some things I found were annoyingly inaccurate and others just seemed like fabrications. I found it absolutely unbelievable that a mother who was living on less than $10,000 would drive an hour and a half to a big city like Toronto and allow her son to busk. She said her friend drove her (these "friends" always turn out to be male) but it still didn't ring true to me. I felt like she left out a part of the story. Had she told what I suspect was the truth, she may have said: "A male friend who really wanted to have a relationship with me agreed to drive Justin and I almost 2 hours away so that he could busk on a street corner". THAT would have sounded better and is probably closer to the truth.
This was an easy read and although I'm not a huge Justin Bieber fan, it was fun.
January 21, 2014
"Best book i have ever read" i told myself as i finished the last few pages or Pattie Mallettes book. Pattie shows us that everyone has troubles in there lives but there is always a way to fix every mistake. Dont be fooled by the name Justin Bieber, Pattie tells her life of having money troubles and life with living with a child at a young age. She went through so much and she truly puts her whole heart into this book.
This book has taught me that everyone can have hope even when you think nothing can fix your mistakes. Pattie has a good heart in caring for Justin and helping him, and herself through being poor to having no one with her. Just me and Justin she says in her book, Her mom barely even knew she existed and had only people at her church to talk to and get help. This book is amazing and shows me that Pattie went through so much through her life and i still dont know how she did it. If you read this book trust me when i saw it is the best book i have ever read and it changes my ways on looking at Justin and Patties lives.
This book has taught me that everyone can have hope even when you think nothing can fix your mistakes. Pattie has a good heart in caring for Justin and helping him, and herself through being poor to having no one with her. Just me and Justin she says in her book, Her mom barely even knew she existed and had only people at her church to talk to and get help. This book is amazing and shows me that Pattie went through so much through her life and i still dont know how she did it. If you read this book trust me when i saw it is the best book i have ever read and it changes my ways on looking at Justin and Patties lives.
March 31, 2013
I very much enjoyed reading this book, though in my opinion, some of the things she claims happened to her seem a little too far fetched to be real. I'm not referring to the abuse-just some of the answers to her prayers.
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October 9, 2021Hard to read about so much trauma in a person's life, but then how amazing to see what God has done.
July 8, 2013
Really enjoyed reading this. Nothing touches me more than true life stories, and what a story Pattie tells here. Highly recommend. She's literally risen from underneath the ladder to the highest rung and what a pleasure it is to see her up there. She deserves it. Very touched by this book and this amazing woman's story. Thank you Ms. Mallette.
Noteworthy quotes and moments in book:
Church wasn't a drag, a boring chore like washing the dishes or cleaning your room. Church was, well, fun. I liked this kind of fun. This was fun that I wanted. I wondered why my family never went to church.
From what I could tell from the Bible stories and the cool-looking pictures, I like Jesus. I wanted Him to be my friend. And I was even more tickled to hear that Jesus was waiting to be my friend first. Imagine that! So I accepted Jesus into my heart as a Sunday school teacher nodded approvingly beside a flannel board of colorful felt Bible characters.
When you true self-who God created you to be-is broken into unrecognizable fragments, you become fertile soil for lies. As those untruths get buried deeper and deeper into your heart, it's almost impossible to get rid of time. They are so securely lodged there that they become a part of you that you cannot imagine living without.
I was bound by so many lies by the time I was a teenager. At best, I had a skewed idea of love, worth, and self-respect; at worst, I had none. Instead of believing in myself, I knelt at the merciless feet of deceit, hanging on to every taunting thought of my own that surfaced in my mind.
"The LORD is close to the brokenhearted; he rescues those whose spirits are crushed" (34:18 NLT)It's my testament. I wouldn't trade my pain away, for I know how deep my faith has grown as a result.
I used to believe the lie that I was unlovable; now I know the truth that I am loved (Rom. 8:39). I used to believe I was full of shame; now I know I am forgiven (Rom, 8:1). I used to believe I was worthless; now I know I am valuable (Ps. 139:14). I used to believe there was no point to my existence; now I know the future is full of hope (Jer. 29:11). I used to feel rejected; now I know I am a daughter of God and my Father looks at me with eyes of approval (Zeph. 3:17). I used to believe I was a mistake; now I know I'm chosen (1Pet. 2:9). Whenever I felt depressed or anxious, I hammered these truths into me (I still do when I need to). I didn't allow myself to get caught up in old feelings that only served to reinforce emotional damage. I focused on hope. I focused on healing. I focused on truth. The truth really does set you free.
I had to love myself enough to grieve what I needed to grieve. I had to value myself enough to sift through the emotional wounds but not stay there.
Those who are hardest to love need it the most.
One definition of forgiving is letting go of your right to get even. It doesn't mean the injustice was okay. While I didn't have a choice in how I was hurt or broken, I had a choice to forgive. I had a choice to let the pain define me or to heal from its wounds. I made the choice to heal. I mad the choice to move one without those wounds crippling my journey. I made the choice to live. To really live. It has not been easy, but it has been worth it.
It's not just teen moms who struggle or need to find Hope.
Whether you're a single mom, an addict, or a victim of abuse...whether you're on the verge of bankruptcy or the brink of divorce...whether you're in a dysfunctional family or the product of a broken home...whether you battle depression or struggle with anxiety...whether you live in fear or hide in shame...whether you've been abandoned, rejected, or ignored-there is hope.
It doesn't matter where you find yourself today-how broken, hurting, wounded, or ashamed you are. If GOD can help me find my way up, I promise, He can do the same for you.
Noteworthy quotes and moments in book:
Church wasn't a drag, a boring chore like washing the dishes or cleaning your room. Church was, well, fun. I liked this kind of fun. This was fun that I wanted. I wondered why my family never went to church.
From what I could tell from the Bible stories and the cool-looking pictures, I like Jesus. I wanted Him to be my friend. And I was even more tickled to hear that Jesus was waiting to be my friend first. Imagine that! So I accepted Jesus into my heart as a Sunday school teacher nodded approvingly beside a flannel board of colorful felt Bible characters.
When you true self-who God created you to be-is broken into unrecognizable fragments, you become fertile soil for lies. As those untruths get buried deeper and deeper into your heart, it's almost impossible to get rid of time. They are so securely lodged there that they become a part of you that you cannot imagine living without.
I was bound by so many lies by the time I was a teenager. At best, I had a skewed idea of love, worth, and self-respect; at worst, I had none. Instead of believing in myself, I knelt at the merciless feet of deceit, hanging on to every taunting thought of my own that surfaced in my mind.
"The LORD is close to the brokenhearted; he rescues those whose spirits are crushed" (34:18 NLT)It's my testament. I wouldn't trade my pain away, for I know how deep my faith has grown as a result.
I used to believe the lie that I was unlovable; now I know the truth that I am loved (Rom. 8:39). I used to believe I was full of shame; now I know I am forgiven (Rom, 8:1). I used to believe I was worthless; now I know I am valuable (Ps. 139:14). I used to believe there was no point to my existence; now I know the future is full of hope (Jer. 29:11). I used to feel rejected; now I know I am a daughter of God and my Father looks at me with eyes of approval (Zeph. 3:17). I used to believe I was a mistake; now I know I'm chosen (1Pet. 2:9). Whenever I felt depressed or anxious, I hammered these truths into me (I still do when I need to). I didn't allow myself to get caught up in old feelings that only served to reinforce emotional damage. I focused on hope. I focused on healing. I focused on truth. The truth really does set you free.
I had to love myself enough to grieve what I needed to grieve. I had to value myself enough to sift through the emotional wounds but not stay there.
Those who are hardest to love need it the most.
One definition of forgiving is letting go of your right to get even. It doesn't mean the injustice was okay. While I didn't have a choice in how I was hurt or broken, I had a choice to forgive. I had a choice to let the pain define me or to heal from its wounds. I made the choice to heal. I mad the choice to move one without those wounds crippling my journey. I made the choice to live. To really live. It has not been easy, but it has been worth it.
It's not just teen moms who struggle or need to find Hope.
Whether you're a single mom, an addict, or a victim of abuse...whether you're on the verge of bankruptcy or the brink of divorce...whether you're in a dysfunctional family or the product of a broken home...whether you battle depression or struggle with anxiety...whether you live in fear or hide in shame...whether you've been abandoned, rejected, or ignored-there is hope.
It doesn't matter where you find yourself today-how broken, hurting, wounded, or ashamed you are. If GOD can help me find my way up, I promise, He can do the same for you.
September 20, 2012
YES OKAY?!?! I read this today. Whenever I'm at the bookstore and I pass the table full of celebrity biographies, housewife tell-alls and celebrity cook books I always think to myself, "Who reads that stuff?" Today, I was reading that stuff.
In my (feeble) defense, I saw Ms. Mallette on the Ellen show and after hearing that she was a sexual abuse survivor and former drug user, my social work ears perked right up. Justin Bieber's mom used drugs AND had a baby at 18 AND was abused?? Interesting... The book took me just the afternoon to read, and it was on sale at my 86th St. store, so I can't say I killed too many brain cells. In fact, from what little I've skimmed of celebrity penned memoirs, they're written as though someone transcribed a poorly worded interview. Ms. Mallette takes the high road, and had an actual writer help her out. Despite the often melodramatic descriptions of her emotions, and the toothache inducing sweetness of a famous mother talking about her talented, naturally gifted son with immense star power, the writing wasn't awful.
Ms. Mallette has indeed survived some difficult ordeals in her life, including almost seven years of sexual abuse as a child from three different perpetrators. Her history of trauma, as well as a fractured relationship with her parental figures led her to a life of alcohol, drugs and premarital sex. Although tasteless of me to say, not using a condom was the best thing Pattie ever did. (And she'll agree with you, although for different reasons and put less crudely.) The relationship between Justin's father and herself was a rocky one, but I have to admit I enjoyed watching the two of them work out their differences (they were just children after all), and how being a mother helped Ms. Mallette to find her self-worth and a life full of direction. Both her and Justin are very religious, and this book is FULL of the author's redemption and coming to Jesus (she has been a born again virgin for more than ten years). With a life of trauma like hers, I find that I can't fault her for needing something concrete to hold onto in a chaotic life. The religious stuff is easy to ignore since it tends to be heavy handed (and because I myself am not a religious person, per se.)
If this book helps shed light on victims of sexual abuse, then it has done its job in my opinion. I would share this book with clients for the simple fact that it's easy to read, understand and it does a good job of reminding those who suffered similar trauma that it's okay to repair and rebuild. For that, Ms. Mallette, I commend you. And would also like to tell you that Justin is your spitting image, cover up that 80s hair in the photo album and you have a Biebs.
In my (feeble) defense, I saw Ms. Mallette on the Ellen show and after hearing that she was a sexual abuse survivor and former drug user, my social work ears perked right up. Justin Bieber's mom used drugs AND had a baby at 18 AND was abused?? Interesting... The book took me just the afternoon to read, and it was on sale at my 86th St. store, so I can't say I killed too many brain cells. In fact, from what little I've skimmed of celebrity penned memoirs, they're written as though someone transcribed a poorly worded interview. Ms. Mallette takes the high road, and had an actual writer help her out. Despite the often melodramatic descriptions of her emotions, and the toothache inducing sweetness of a famous mother talking about her talented, naturally gifted son with immense star power, the writing wasn't awful.
Ms. Mallette has indeed survived some difficult ordeals in her life, including almost seven years of sexual abuse as a child from three different perpetrators. Her history of trauma, as well as a fractured relationship with her parental figures led her to a life of alcohol, drugs and premarital sex. Although tasteless of me to say, not using a condom was the best thing Pattie ever did. (And she'll agree with you, although for different reasons and put less crudely.) The relationship between Justin's father and herself was a rocky one, but I have to admit I enjoyed watching the two of them work out their differences (they were just children after all), and how being a mother helped Ms. Mallette to find her self-worth and a life full of direction. Both her and Justin are very religious, and this book is FULL of the author's redemption and coming to Jesus (she has been a born again virgin for more than ten years). With a life of trauma like hers, I find that I can't fault her for needing something concrete to hold onto in a chaotic life. The religious stuff is easy to ignore since it tends to be heavy handed (and because I myself am not a religious person, per se.)
If this book helps shed light on victims of sexual abuse, then it has done its job in my opinion. I would share this book with clients for the simple fact that it's easy to read, understand and it does a good job of reminding those who suffered similar trauma that it's okay to repair and rebuild. For that, Ms. Mallette, I commend you. And would also like to tell you that Justin is your spitting image, cover up that 80s hair in the photo album and you have a Biebs.
April 16, 2013
Whether you're a single mom, an addict, or a victim of abuse . . . whether you're on the verge of bankruptcy or the brink of divorce . . . whether you're in a dysfunctional family or the product of a broken home . . . whether you battle depression or struggle with anxiety . . . whether you live in fear or hide in shame . . . whether you've been abandoned, rejected, or ignored--there is hope.
It's amazing how someone who went through five years of sexual abuse, being a drug addict, alcoholic, and suicidal can come out strong and inspiring. It had upset me reading about her past and how her "friends" abandoned her through her darkest moments. She was literally alone. I can somehow relate to her past (only a little). My story is different but during my darkest times I felt God abandoned me, as well. But He didn't. However, I'm not about to dive in my story because this review is about Pattie's life and inspiring message: when you hit rock bottom, you have nowhere to go but up.
I have to say, I honestly did not expect a story so deep and moving from the mother of Justin Bieber. You'd think she live an okay life before Justin's fame, but after you read this you'll realise how wrong you are. She was a struggling single mother at age eighteen with a past that constantly haunted her. Though she found God, she still felt a little alone and afraid but eventually pulled through it.
Pattie, I admire you. Truly, I do. You worked so hard to give Justin food and love. You never left him though you were going through a hard time. You gave him all the love you could possibly give even when you felt you had no one that loved you; you stayed strong even when your past constantly struck you unexpectedly. Whenever you felt like giving up, you pushed harder. You forgave the people who abused you when I probably would not. You have a good heart and I thank you for not only sharing your story with me, but to the world and the people who are in desperate need for this book.
Side note: can I say I simply adore Pattie and Justin's mother-son relationship:
Okay I'm done.
MUST. GET. HANDS. ON. JUST GETTING STARTED.
It's amazing how someone who went through five years of sexual abuse, being a drug addict, alcoholic, and suicidal can come out strong and inspiring. It had upset me reading about her past and how her "friends" abandoned her through her darkest moments. She was literally alone. I can somehow relate to her past (only a little). My story is different but during my darkest times I felt God abandoned me, as well. But He didn't. However, I'm not about to dive in my story because this review is about Pattie's life and inspiring message: when you hit rock bottom, you have nowhere to go but up.
I have to say, I honestly did not expect a story so deep and moving from the mother of Justin Bieber. You'd think she live an okay life before Justin's fame, but after you read this you'll realise how wrong you are. She was a struggling single mother at age eighteen with a past that constantly haunted her. Though she found God, she still felt a little alone and afraid but eventually pulled through it.
Pattie, I admire you. Truly, I do. You worked so hard to give Justin food and love. You never left him though you were going through a hard time. You gave him all the love you could possibly give even when you felt you had no one that loved you; you stayed strong even when your past constantly struck you unexpectedly. Whenever you felt like giving up, you pushed harder. You forgave the people who abused you when I probably would not. You have a good heart and I thank you for not only sharing your story with me, but to the world and the people who are in desperate need for this book.
Side note: can I say I simply adore Pattie and Justin's mother-son relationship:
Okay I'm done.
MUST. GET. HANDS. ON. JUST GETTING STARTED.
October 25, 2013
When most people think about an Auto-Biography they think words like “boring”, “dull”. Not this one. This is the story of Justin Biebers mom. Pattie Mallette. This one of the BEST books I’ve read in my whole life. The way she introduced the book. The way she described things made me feel, the way she wanted the reader to feel. When moments were sad, I was sad. In fact I cried at least 2 times during this book. This book has its sad moments, but also exciting and, heartwarming ones.
Pattie takes you back to the beginning of her life, from the very start. Pattie didn’t live a fairytale life like most people think. She had a very rough childhood, her father left when she was 2. Reading that part of the book, broke my heart. She was too young to understand what was going on, so she didn’t realize what was going on. At age 9 her father came back they got close once again.. and about a month later, he died of a heart attack. How freaking sad. Imagine that happening to you. All the pain she must’ve felt.
At age 5, Pattie started to get molested by her babysitter. She was constantly being molested, and of course she was just a child, she didn’t know what to do. She didn’t even know what was going on. I was in complete tears when I read this part of the book. She was only 5! Just a little innocent girl, whose innocence was being taken by the dirty man who did these things to her.
This book touched me and so many other people because it’s a true life story. She went through so much crap and crazy stuff in her life, but look where she is today. No lies, ALL real. Some people may think after they read the book, how could all of these events happen in such a short period of time? Oh it all happened. Who knew she published this amazing book, she’s the mother of the most famous teenager on the planet, and I hope she’s having the time of her life.
I recommend this book definitely to all my beliebers out there! <3 and even of your not a belieber I still think you should read it! If you like a good book, this is for sure a book for you! This book never stays the same, it’s always something new every chapter. Seriously like one of the best books ever.
Pattie takes you back to the beginning of her life, from the very start. Pattie didn’t live a fairytale life like most people think. She had a very rough childhood, her father left when she was 2. Reading that part of the book, broke my heart. She was too young to understand what was going on, so she didn’t realize what was going on. At age 9 her father came back they got close once again.. and about a month later, he died of a heart attack. How freaking sad. Imagine that happening to you. All the pain she must’ve felt.
At age 5, Pattie started to get molested by her babysitter. She was constantly being molested, and of course she was just a child, she didn’t know what to do. She didn’t even know what was going on. I was in complete tears when I read this part of the book. She was only 5! Just a little innocent girl, whose innocence was being taken by the dirty man who did these things to her.
This book touched me and so many other people because it’s a true life story. She went through so much crap and crazy stuff in her life, but look where she is today. No lies, ALL real. Some people may think after they read the book, how could all of these events happen in such a short period of time? Oh it all happened. Who knew she published this amazing book, she’s the mother of the most famous teenager on the planet, and I hope she’s having the time of her life.
I recommend this book definitely to all my beliebers out there! <3 and even of your not a belieber I still think you should read it! If you like a good book, this is for sure a book for you! This book never stays the same, it’s always something new every chapter. Seriously like one of the best books ever.
April 10, 2016
Wow, this was such a great read! Pattie Mallette has such an inspirational story, and I truly admire both her bravery and strength in being able to share her story with the world.
This is truly a story designed to give you hope. Being a fan of her son, along the way, I had learnt about some of the things that Pattie had gone through, and I really appreciate how detailed she had told her story.
Reading this book via Audible, and having Pattie herself as the narrator was great. Not only did it mean that it was an easy read for me, it made me feel as if she was actually talking to me. She knew how to keep me from not wanting to stop reading. I was constantly on the edge of my seat waiting to find out how the rest of her story would continue. It made me smile, laugh and cry!
I really adored how she portrays her son, Justin to be her light at the end of the tunnel. She really cares about her son dearly, and being a fan of her son, I loved hearing about the stories of when he was little. There is no denying the fact that she is one proud mother, who loves him very much.
“Those that are the hardest to love, need it the most.”
It doesn't matter where you find yourself today- how broken, hurting, wounded, or ashamed you are. If God can help me find my way up, I promise, He can do the same for you." -Pattie Mallette
Whether you are a parent, teen, or someone going through a hard time, I can assure you that this book is one for you. She is the example of proof that no matter what you go through in life, you can get through anything. I am so glad that I have read this book, just by reading her book, it has helped me a lot, so thankyou. Five stars well deserved! I will definitely be wanting to read this over again at some point in the nearer future.
This is truly a story designed to give you hope. Being a fan of her son, along the way, I had learnt about some of the things that Pattie had gone through, and I really appreciate how detailed she had told her story.
Reading this book via Audible, and having Pattie herself as the narrator was great. Not only did it mean that it was an easy read for me, it made me feel as if she was actually talking to me. She knew how to keep me from not wanting to stop reading. I was constantly on the edge of my seat waiting to find out how the rest of her story would continue. It made me smile, laugh and cry!
I really adored how she portrays her son, Justin to be her light at the end of the tunnel. She really cares about her son dearly, and being a fan of her son, I loved hearing about the stories of when he was little. There is no denying the fact that she is one proud mother, who loves him very much.
“Those that are the hardest to love, need it the most.”
It doesn't matter where you find yourself today- how broken, hurting, wounded, or ashamed you are. If God can help me find my way up, I promise, He can do the same for you." -Pattie Mallette
Whether you are a parent, teen, or someone going through a hard time, I can assure you that this book is one for you. She is the example of proof that no matter what you go through in life, you can get through anything. I am so glad that I have read this book, just by reading her book, it has helped me a lot, so thankyou. Five stars well deserved! I will definitely be wanting to read this over again at some point in the nearer future.
April 3, 2013
Nowhere But Up by Pattie Mallette is such an inspiring biography on her life. Pattie describes her life and struggles from when she was a little girl. This book focuses mostly on her teenage years and how she over came drug and alcohol addiction while being 18 and pregnant with her son, Justin Bieber. How does Pattie get through her through childhood while being pregnant? Read the book to find out how.
This biography is very powerful in a sense of hope and also religion. She focuses on how she found God and how she got through some of the most terrible and harsh realities of being a teenager. I found this book to be more of and inspiration than just a book. It made me realize how difficult being 18 and pregnant can be along with having to get over drug and alcohol abuse. I thought this book would talk about her life and how she came to be Justin Bieber's mother but no, it was about the struggle of a broken girl who had a terrible childhood due to being sexually assulted. Pattie describes her experiences in the most safe and secure way possible. There were no moments where I felt freaked out or uncomfortable. This book made me realize how being sexually assulted as a child can really affect someone in the long run. The only part of the book I didn't like was how she talked about God a lot. It's not that I don't like God but she referenced it a lot and it took some of the meaning of the book away from me. Overall I found this book very interseting and relateable to being as I am a teengage girl who can put myself in her shoes to experience this novel by her side.
This biography is very powerful in a sense of hope and also religion. She focuses on how she found God and how she got through some of the most terrible and harsh realities of being a teenager. I found this book to be more of and inspiration than just a book. It made me realize how difficult being 18 and pregnant can be along with having to get over drug and alcohol abuse. I thought this book would talk about her life and how she came to be Justin Bieber's mother but no, it was about the struggle of a broken girl who had a terrible childhood due to being sexually assulted. Pattie describes her experiences in the most safe and secure way possible. There were no moments where I felt freaked out or uncomfortable. This book made me realize how being sexually assulted as a child can really affect someone in the long run. The only part of the book I didn't like was how she talked about God a lot. It's not that I don't like God but she referenced it a lot and it took some of the meaning of the book away from me. Overall I found this book very interseting and relateable to being as I am a teengage girl who can put myself in her shoes to experience this novel by her side.
August 25, 2013
I don't mind Justin Bieber's music but I wouldn't say I'm a fan. But I enjoy reading bios/autobios and I was curious to see his story along with his mom's.
Pattie is the youngest of three kids (though one died just before she was born). Her dad left the family when she was two and died less than ten years later just after reconnecting with them. Her mother eventually remarried but Pattie remained distant to her stepdad. She was sexually abused during her childhood and felt unlovable. She fell in with the wrong crowd and drank and did drugs. She ended up pregnant at 17 and though Justin's father was/is in his life, they didn't stay together.
Pattie raised Justin as a single mom. Times were tough but she indulged and encouraged Justin's love of music and sports. He was a hyper kid so these kept him occupied and out of the trouble she had gotten into. She was definitely a protective mom and I found her likable.
It was an interesting story of a woman who turned her life around. It was a lot more detailed in the beginning and then sped up after Justin was born. The writing style was easy to read.
Pattie found God when she was 17. Her faith is strong, she quotes a lot of scriptures from the Bible and it seems like she depends on God a lot to make her decisions (I'm not religious at all).
I'd recommend this book if you like autobios/bios or are a Bieber fan.
Blog review post: http://www.teenaintoronto.com/2013/08...
Pattie is the youngest of three kids (though one died just before she was born). Her dad left the family when she was two and died less than ten years later just after reconnecting with them. Her mother eventually remarried but Pattie remained distant to her stepdad. She was sexually abused during her childhood and felt unlovable. She fell in with the wrong crowd and drank and did drugs. She ended up pregnant at 17 and though Justin's father was/is in his life, they didn't stay together.
Pattie raised Justin as a single mom. Times were tough but she indulged and encouraged Justin's love of music and sports. He was a hyper kid so these kept him occupied and out of the trouble she had gotten into. She was definitely a protective mom and I found her likable.
It was an interesting story of a woman who turned her life around. It was a lot more detailed in the beginning and then sped up after Justin was born. The writing style was easy to read.
Pattie found God when she was 17. Her faith is strong, she quotes a lot of scriptures from the Bible and it seems like she depends on God a lot to make her decisions (I'm not religious at all).
I'd recommend this book if you like autobios/bios or are a Bieber fan.
Blog review post: http://www.teenaintoronto.com/2013/08...
June 16, 2015
This is the personal story of Pattie Mallette, mother of teen idol Justin Bieber. There are certain recognizable patterns to those who experienced childhood sexual abuse, but it is highly personal how people deal with it in their own lives. Her attitude to the people who harmed her during her lifetime are charitable at best. Pattie’s story can’t avoid hitting our hot buttons. If this were me, I would have done this. However, it’s not about me. This is the way that Mallette sees the events of her life at this time.
I find her story only sporadically insightful. I found myself deeply touched from the time she becomes pregnant to the moment that she gives birth. I get the picture of the really confused, scared teenager.
I would have liked to see more of an account of the environment, Stratford, in which she grew up. It is scarce on details. I want to know more about the positive and negative influences in her life, about her mentors and saviours. What did she do in school? Who were her workmates and how was their relationship? What did she like to do and what brought her joy? I want to hear more about where her forgiveness comes from? I am sure that her conversion to God has been important, but I want to hear more about the people who helped her towards a place of self-understanding and healing.
For me, there is still a disconnect between the person we see today through the media and the person that she was. In her book there is so much that is still unsaid and I imagine she has lots still to process.
I find her story only sporadically insightful. I found myself deeply touched from the time she becomes pregnant to the moment that she gives birth. I get the picture of the really confused, scared teenager.
I would have liked to see more of an account of the environment, Stratford, in which she grew up. It is scarce on details. I want to know more about the positive and negative influences in her life, about her mentors and saviours. What did she do in school? Who were her workmates and how was their relationship? What did she like to do and what brought her joy? I want to hear more about where her forgiveness comes from? I am sure that her conversion to God has been important, but I want to hear more about the people who helped her towards a place of self-understanding and healing.
For me, there is still a disconnect between the person we see today through the media and the person that she was. In her book there is so much that is still unsaid and I imagine she has lots still to process.
December 10, 2012
I found this memoir to be very well written, and not just a story of, "look at what happened to me." There's a purpose here, and it's to show that there is hope. God can take our brokenness and turn it into something beautiful. He redeems, restores, and makes things new. It's beautiful to read how God worked in Pattie Mallette's life, and so inspiring -- a truly remarkable story, by a truly remarkable woman.
Pattie's voice is easy to read, and it took no time at all to get through the book. She's honest, sincere, and puts herself in a vulnerable place sharing intimate details of her life. It was like sitting with a friend, talking over coffee. There were times when I smiled from ear to ear, and other times when I couldn't help but shed a tear. I also enjoyed the family photos that were included, and found myself turning to them several times as I read the book.
Pattie's story is one that needs to be heard, and I'm thankful she shared it. Though no one's experience is ever identical, I'm sure there are many people who can relate to Pattie's life journey in some way. It's inspiring and encouraging to think of her story having a positive impact on someone's life.
God's love, redemption, and grace are truly amazing, and Pattie Mallette's story is a perfect testimony to that. It's a story worth reading, and I highly recommend it!
**Thank you to Revell for providing me with a free copy of this book, in exchange for my honest opinion.**
Pattie's voice is easy to read, and it took no time at all to get through the book. She's honest, sincere, and puts herself in a vulnerable place sharing intimate details of her life. It was like sitting with a friend, talking over coffee. There were times when I smiled from ear to ear, and other times when I couldn't help but shed a tear. I also enjoyed the family photos that were included, and found myself turning to them several times as I read the book.
Pattie's story is one that needs to be heard, and I'm thankful she shared it. Though no one's experience is ever identical, I'm sure there are many people who can relate to Pattie's life journey in some way. It's inspiring and encouraging to think of her story having a positive impact on someone's life.
God's love, redemption, and grace are truly amazing, and Pattie Mallette's story is a perfect testimony to that. It's a story worth reading, and I highly recommend it!
**Thank you to Revell for providing me with a free copy of this book, in exchange for my honest opinion.**
October 3, 2013
Recently, I have read Nowhere But Up: The Story of Justin Bieber’s Mom, an autobiography by Pattie Mallette. Her purpose in writing this was to inform the readers of her life journey and her road to success with her son, Justin Bieber. The experiences Pattie Mallette went through in her early life were extremely harsh and she tells how she still struggles with them today.
All of the obstacles she went through in her life help to make a very meaningful theme that all readers can relate to. The theme of this autobiography is basically to never give up because you can go nowhere but up. Pattie Mallete’s rough life pushed her to keep going and to stay strong through the good times and bad times. Now look where she is, she is living a wonderful life with amazing friends, family, and success.
This book is an autobiography narration. She tells the readers about events in her life and how she felt at certain times. Because of the style this book was written, it makes it very easy for the reader to understand what is going on and the emotions of Pattie.
Overall, I loved this book. Nowhere But Up truly told the reader about the events that were going on before we knew who Pattie Mallete was and how hard her life was before her fame. I would highly suggest this book to all readers because you will feel driven to achieve goals that may seem unreachable. This book is similar to an autobiography about Dara Torres.
All of the obstacles she went through in her life help to make a very meaningful theme that all readers can relate to. The theme of this autobiography is basically to never give up because you can go nowhere but up. Pattie Mallete’s rough life pushed her to keep going and to stay strong through the good times and bad times. Now look where she is, she is living a wonderful life with amazing friends, family, and success.
This book is an autobiography narration. She tells the readers about events in her life and how she felt at certain times. Because of the style this book was written, it makes it very easy for the reader to understand what is going on and the emotions of Pattie.
Overall, I loved this book. Nowhere But Up truly told the reader about the events that were going on before we knew who Pattie Mallete was and how hard her life was before her fame. I would highly suggest this book to all readers because you will feel driven to achieve goals that may seem unreachable. This book is similar to an autobiography about Dara Torres.
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