This has been transformative for me. I read it at the same time that I'm dealing with a number of emotional stressors and some chronic pain in my feet. I realized while reading this book that I routinely push my emotions down inside, because having a mother freak out seriously disturbs my children. I've heard this expressed on someone's blog as, "Nice, nice, nice, Furious!" I am guilty of not acknowledging some of my emotions even to myself; this author says that repressing emotions leads the brain to distract the conscious mind from those emotions, in an effort to help, by focusing the attention on some body part or other, by reducing blood flow to that part, which causes pain. I've also read elsewhere that physical problems are related to emotions in such a way that if we treat only the physical symptoms, such as by treating a skin rash with ointment, that the physical problem will retreat inward to some other body part, causing potentially much worse damage that is not so easily treated. So I'm making a conscious effort to recognize and acknowledge my emotions; it's harder than it sounds! My 16yo daughter has very little trouble expressing her emotions and for years has been disciplined for storms of temper and lack of self-control; looking at her, I don't want to express my emotions. At the same time, our communication suffers from perceived not caring (because I don't storm as she does) and perceived selfishness (because she doesn't restrain her reactions as much as I would like). There has to be a middle ground.