I expected this book to discuss about the different shades of white and its various uses, but it has taught me so much more. It discusses about how “emptiness” and “subtlety” are so ingrained in the Japanese culture that it influences every aspect of the Japanese way of living, from its religious rituals, art, architecture, to language and communication.
As a fellow learner of the Japanese language, I often struggle to keep up with conversations between natives who leave out the 主語 (subject). They don’t do it intentionally, it’s just a common understanding shared between them. And once you’ve missed it, you find yourself backpaddling in the air, trying to piece bits of information together to form a picture. (And there’s a chance that your guesses are wrong. So don’t be shy, just ask!)
I remember being a part of a conversation about “someone” causing “some unspecified trouble” that resulted in “that same person or someone else” being sent to the hospital. That discussion went on for 10mins. My confusion outlasted that.
“KY” was a popular internet phrase that is short form for 空気読めない (Kuuki Yomenai), which literally means the inability to read the air or to understand the situation. In other words, it is the lack of awareness of the “emptiness” and subtleties in Japanese communication. Even though this is not the main point of this book, it has certainly helped me in recognizing that.