A story of two women who became friends, even though they grew up in very different circumstances. Ironically, both suffered many losses in life and that's probably what drew them to each other.
Mary Todd was determined from an early age--she even wanted to marry a President. She lost her mother at an early age and her step-mother was not kind. Mary's Mammy Sally and Grandma Parker were able to nurture her. She painted flowers on the fence so that Mammy Sally could help slaves get food and other needs met while trying to gain freedom. She was a good negotiator on behalf of her father. Her father was determined to give her a good education. She shopped to make her happy. She was influential in Abraham Lincoln's life. She had to deal with losing many people who were close to her.
Elizabeth was the daughter of a slave mother and her mother's master. She was given "special priviledges" that allowed her to work in the master's house, instead of the fields.
I ended up liking Elizabeth Keckley a lot. I liked the writing about Elizabeth better than the part about Mary.
Favorite quotes from Mary's Life:
"It isn't what happens to you in life that matters, it's how you take it." Madame Charlotte, Mary's boarding school teacher when Mary was sent away from her family. (p. 120)
Favorite quotes from Elizabeth's Life:
"The negroes in the quarters get up at four to the blowing of a conch shell by the head overseer, Big Red. They went to the fields when it was still dark and came home after sundown. Or as they say, 'From can't see to can't see.'" p 140 I've worked a lot of "can't see to can't see."
"'Learn your book. And grow up being extra special at something. Then have Massa hire you out and get paid for your services and save some money so you can buy your own freedom.' 'Buy my own freedom?' Never had I heard such a thing. 'Buy yourself' she said. 'How can I do it?' 'First you grow up,' she said. 'And then if'n you still want it bad enough, you'll find a way to do it.'" p 170-171
"But I was grown-up after that. Couldn't they see? I'd grown years that evening. If grown-up meant that you no longer trusted anybody. If grown-up meant that you trusted, even less, the part of you that was white. If grown-up meant knowing how stupid you'd been, thinking you were part of the family.
And if grown-up meant you knew you had one person in the world you could believe in, at least. Yourself." (P. 178-179)
"I shook my head, no, surprised at how easy hate came. Surprised at how hate gave you back your dignity and made them understand that you were a person." (P 181)
"But her parents once had money, and like everyone who'd once had money, she never let you forget it." (p 192)