It’s been a long time since I read a high fantasy novel, and I’m glad this book brought me back into it. Vows and Honor is two novels, really – The Oathbound and Oathbreakers – both following Tarma and Kethry, a warrior and a mage, on their adventures.
These stories are written as though they are glimpses into Tarma and Kethry’s life. It’s clear at all times that there’s a whole world outside of what we see. Sometimes the characters would make an inside joke about an adventure which took place off-screen, and as much as I would have liked to read about that adventure, not having seen it added to the sense of realism and immersion for me. On the other hand, sometimes Tarma or Kethry would pull out a skill or piece of knowledge which had never been referenced before, making their success feel a bit unearned. Any frustration I felt about this, though, was outweighed by how much I liked the characters and wanted them to succeed – even if by Deus ex Machina.
A lot of the joy of reading these books is watching Tarma and Kethry interact. Their care for each other is clear in every word, joke, and reassurance. Their relationship is completely platonic, and yet it is the most important relationship in the story world, which I absolutely loved to see. Even when a romantic interest enters the story for Kethry, he is well aware that he ranks behind Tarma in importance in Kethry’s life. They are planning on building a future together, and they have a truly beautiful bond.
Vows and Honor is in many ways a revenge fantasy. Kethry’s sword, Need, compels her to defend women in danger – and that danger is usually rape and murder. Be forewarned – sexual assault is both discussed as a part of characters’ backstories and presented in-scene. Pedophilia, drugging, and addiction are also here. On the one hand, it’s satisfying to see these real-world issues confronted and overwhelmingly defeated. On the other hand, the book has an unfortunate way of presenting things like rape as a natural part of life, something that will always be used against women, rather than something that could one day be removed from society. It doesn’t blame the victims, exactly, but it still feels icky to me. (On a related note, literally every male character in the books comments on how attractive Kethry is, either in the narration or in dialogue, to the point of extreme creepiness.) (There’s also some incredibly bizarre gender-essentialist/transphobic language regarding what it means to truly be a woman, which is difficult to explain without spoiling the main conflicts of The Oathbound, but it would be neglectful of me to not mention it.)
Tarma is explicitly asexual, though it’s an outdated use of the term. The book conflates lack of sexual desire with lack of romantic desire, as well as with being agender or “neuter.” Her asexuality also has a cause – a vow she made to her deity – instead of her being born that way (people who experience their asexuality as having a cause may find this representation valuable, but it does not line up with my own experience). Nevertheless, there’s a lot that I love about how Tarma’s asexuality is portrayed. Her friends accept it as who she is and place no expectation on her to change. At one point, a side character claims that he would be able to awaken her sexual desire, and he is firmly rejected by everyone else in the book. The narrative also makes a clear statement about how asexual people still can and will have important, loving connections with other people.
Mercedes Lackey’s prose is a delight to read. I underlined many interesting turns of phrase, as well as details which made me think about what details I should consider highlighting in my own fantasy novels. This is a story of women supporting each other, of awesome horses and magical creatures, and of interesting twists on well-known fantasy tropes. Though we have in many ways moved on from its brand of feminism, Vows and Honor deserves to be called a classic.