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345 pages, Hardcover
First published January 1, 1933
And as a result of all this non-devotion, you’ve brought Pat up damned well. “A child should be—how can I put it?—not too much concentrated on…An only child supporting the whole weight of the mother’s emotions—and sometimes the father’s as well—he leads the most exhausting life on earth. It’s what might very well have happened to Pat, if you’d been another kind of woman. My dear Lesley—you know all this better than I do, of course—a child doesn’t want to absorb a life, he wants to inhabit one. Make a happy life for him to inhabit, and you make your child happy too.—I’ve never tried it myself,” admitted Sir Philip, “but that’s the theory.”
"A child should be - how can I put it? - not too much concentrated on. That's the real advantage of a large family. An only child supporting the whole weight of the mother's emotions - and sometimes the father's as well - he leads the most exhausting life on earth"
"Because you don't try to possess him," (...) "You don't want to."
"I think of all the mill-stones round a child's neck gratitude is the worst.
...Lesley suddenly realised that she no longer minded doing so.
She was beginning to be beloved, and she was already essential.