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How to Overcome Trauma and Find Yourself Again: Seven Steps to Grow from Pain

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'Reassuring, validating and deeply inspiring' - Suzy Reading, bestselling author of The Self-Care Revolution

'Compassionate wisdom in an easy to use format to help you build back and grow after trauma' - Dr Emma Hepburn, clinical psychologist, author of A Toolkit For Your Emotions

'Reading this book will heal what happened to you' - Dr Martha Deiros Collado, clinical psychologist


Free yourself from pain, understand your trauma and find inner peace in this life-changing guide, from the author of The Imposter Cure


So many of us experience trauma throughout our lives. Left unaddressed, it can have a long-term impact on our physical, mental and emotional health, restricting our personal growth and leaving us feeling empty and unwell.

In this book, Dr Jessamy Hibberd unriddles the effects of trauma. Using a combination of psychology, neuroscience and her own experiences as a chartered psychologist treating people with trauma, Dr Hibberd unpacks a tough subject and opens up the space for self-healing. This book centres on the concept of 'post-traumatic growth', a term used to describe the remarkable way that painful experiences can lead to a valuable reassessment of life and a newfound discovery of meaning.

Through her revolutionary, seven-step programme, readers will learn how to process past events and move forward with a deeper level of self-awareness, a greater sense of purpose and a renewed self-acceptance. Grounded in research and brought to life with real stories, How to Overcome Trauma and Find Yourself Again will give you the tools to move beyond the hurt and lead a more fulfilling, joyful life.

320 pages, Kindle Edition

First published January 1, 2023

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May 21, 2023
For such a complex issue that can be so different for each individual this book is surprisingly easy to read. Dr Jessamy offers 7 steps to getting back control of your life after experiencing trauma. Steps that are not necessarily tackled in sequence but that need, each, to be recognised for getting back control of your life. To illustrate the approach described in the book 6 examples of individuals' experiences are set out in some detail, and the lessons that can be drawn from them.
Well done Dr Jessamy!
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October 17, 2023
If you suffered a trauma -physical or otherwise, this is a wonderful book describing how you can mentally recover from and move on with your life. I suffered a physical issue and have to have periodic treatments for the rest of my life. The processes and stories described in this book were very helpful in identifying non-helpful behaviors and thought processes, while providing solid advice on how to live with, not look back, and move on. In other words, how not to become depressed by your situation. The stories were especially inspiring and provide positive role models on how courageous people adjusted and moved on with their lives...
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July 27, 2025
Probably my favourite self help book by far. The personal stories were so inspiring. Lots of great tools on how to move though it. I need to go back and do some exercises. Listened to the audiobook which was great but recommend the book to be able to pause and do the necessary work to move forward
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July 19, 2023
Interesting and accessible book on trauma and tools to help reclaim your story and life.
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January 5, 2024
Excellent book. Accessibly, empathetically yet authoritatively written, it offers some great guidance.
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