今年五月份在岭南大学的一个会议上,遇上好久不见的研讨会稀客钟晓阳,我不禁走上前挽着她说:“见到你真温暖。”她却回答说:“刚才坐在小思身旁,那种感觉才叫温暖呢。我现在始知什么叫‘亲炙’。”她说的我当然明白,也当然同意。At a conference of the Lingnan University in May of this year, I met a rare seminar visitor whom I haven't seen for a while, Zhong Xiaoyang, and I couldn't help myself approaching her, holding her in the hand, and said to her, "What a warmth it is to see you!” But she "When I was sitting beside Xiaosi, that is what I call warmth. Now I realise what is ‘personal tutoring.’" I understood what she said, of course, and I have agreed for sure.