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From Me To You: A bittersweet and heartwarming memoir
In 2010 Alison Hitchcock made an unusual offer to an acquaintance, Brian Greenley, who had been diagnosed with cancer – she offered to write letters to cheer him up while he was undergoing treatment.
She had no idea what possessed her – she barely knew Brian and didn’t imagine there was much humour to be had out of cancer. But two and a half years later Brian had defied the statistics and was cancer free, Alison had embarked on a writing career inspired by her letters and they had become best friends.
While Brian battled 3 bouts of cancer, was given a 10% chance of survival and struggled with the general unpleasantness of a colostomy bag, Alison was a 42 year old woman in search of a new career, a new love-life and purpose, distracting herself by writing witty letters to a man she barely knew.
Although she was putting on a brave face, she was feeling life wasn’t working out, personally or professionally, and as she dithered and dabbled, it was writing to Brian, and following his own radical changes, which eventually led her to her writing.
While the letters were only ever meant to amuse Brian, and his journal entries were only ever for himself, together they tell their story of friendship, following a passion, battling to stay alive and, above all, seeing the funny side.
In a final twist to the story, at the end of 2016, with Brian celebrating 4 years cancer-free, the two were recorded by Radio 4, telling the story of the letters, Brian’s recovery, and their friendship.
The positive response led to them setting up the charity, From Me to You, which inspires people to write letters to friends, family and strangers suffering from cancer; keeping them connected at a time they feel most disconnected.
The charity’s Donate A Letter programme has attracted thousands of letter writers from around the world, writing anonymous letters to cancer patients which the charity delivers to hospitals across the UK. This year alone the charity will distribute over 10,000 letters, supported by on-line and in-person workshops, presentations and collaborations with partner charities. With a very engaged online community, the charity has close to 10,000 of its own connected social media followers and many more through the extensive radio, TV and press coverage it has received.
Promotion on podcasts such as The Allusionist, the BBC’s Me You & The Big C and Davina McCall’s Making The Cut have hugely helped in making From Me to You an international campaign, along with features in magazines and newspapers such as Prima and The Daily Telegraph .
A Point of Light Award from the Prime Minister extended further the reach of the charity
From Me To You ,is their bitter-sweet story told through Alison’s letters and Brian’s journal entries.
She had no idea what possessed her – she barely knew Brian and didn’t imagine there was much humour to be had out of cancer. But two and a half years later Brian had defied the statistics and was cancer free, Alison had embarked on a writing career inspired by her letters and they had become best friends.
While Brian battled 3 bouts of cancer, was given a 10% chance of survival and struggled with the general unpleasantness of a colostomy bag, Alison was a 42 year old woman in search of a new career, a new love-life and purpose, distracting herself by writing witty letters to a man she barely knew.
Although she was putting on a brave face, she was feeling life wasn’t working out, personally or professionally, and as she dithered and dabbled, it was writing to Brian, and following his own radical changes, which eventually led her to her writing.
While the letters were only ever meant to amuse Brian, and his journal entries were only ever for himself, together they tell their story of friendship, following a passion, battling to stay alive and, above all, seeing the funny side.
In a final twist to the story, at the end of 2016, with Brian celebrating 4 years cancer-free, the two were recorded by Radio 4, telling the story of the letters, Brian’s recovery, and their friendship.
The positive response led to them setting up the charity, From Me to You, which inspires people to write letters to friends, family and strangers suffering from cancer; keeping them connected at a time they feel most disconnected.
The charity’s Donate A Letter programme has attracted thousands of letter writers from around the world, writing anonymous letters to cancer patients which the charity delivers to hospitals across the UK. This year alone the charity will distribute over 10,000 letters, supported by on-line and in-person workshops, presentations and collaborations with partner charities. With a very engaged online community, the charity has close to 10,000 of its own connected social media followers and many more through the extensive radio, TV and press coverage it has received.
Promotion on podcasts such as The Allusionist, the BBC’s Me You & The Big C and Davina McCall’s Making The Cut have hugely helped in making From Me to You an international campaign, along with features in magazines and newspapers such as Prima and The Daily Telegraph .
A Point of Light Award from the Prime Minister extended further the reach of the charity
From Me To You ,is their bitter-sweet story told through Alison’s letters and Brian’s journal entries.
354 pages, Paperback
Published March 13, 2023
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November 14, 2024
This is funny, moving and inspiring. It's the origin story of an amazing charity that gets people to write letters to cancer patients in hospital. (I've been a contributor of letters for a while).
This is how it all started with Alison writing letters to someone who was not much more than an acquaintance initially, Brian who is diagnosed with Stage III bowel cancer. From this comes an amazing friendship and leads to the setting up of the frommetoyouletters.co.uk charity.
The book interleaves Alison's letters (often hysterically funny) with extracts from Brian's journal he kept at the time which is by turns, raw, funny, touching and, that word again, inspiring.
You are quickly drawn into the world of these two people (and a cast of supporting characters) and it ends up being a real page turner.
I highly recommend this book to anyone who has had cancer or knows someone who has.
This is how it all started with Alison writing letters to someone who was not much more than an acquaintance initially, Brian who is diagnosed with Stage III bowel cancer. From this comes an amazing friendship and leads to the setting up of the frommetoyouletters.co.uk charity.
The book interleaves Alison's letters (often hysterically funny) with extracts from Brian's journal he kept at the time which is by turns, raw, funny, touching and, that word again, inspiring.
You are quickly drawn into the world of these two people (and a cast of supporting characters) and it ends up being a real page turner.
I highly recommend this book to anyone who has had cancer or knows someone who has.
August 30, 2023
I couldn’t put this book down. It’s about a very sad topic; cancer and loneliness but covered in a very humours way. Brian’s journey from diagnosis, through numerous rounds of treatment and surgery, ti the all clear is told through Alison ‘s letters and Brian’s diary entries.
By producing this book Brian and Alison provide an informative window into the life of someone diagnosed with cancer, a window most of us shirk from.
By producing this book Brian and Alison provide an informative window into the life of someone diagnosed with cancer, a window most of us shirk from.
August 2, 2023
This is definitely my book of 2023, I absolutely loved reading it.
July 15, 2023
Absolutely loved this book. Honest snippets of living through a cancer diagnosis and treatment interspersed with letters capturing the hilarity and struggles of everyday life.
Would 100% recommend, especially to anyone with a loved one going through cancer treatment.
Thank you Brian and Alison for sharing your story.
Would 100% recommend, especially to anyone with a loved one going through cancer treatment.
Thank you Brian and Alison for sharing your story.
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