I started reading this book because I had read of some homeschooling methods that were based on Charlotte Mason’s books on education. She wrote Home Education in 1886, and as I read I was amazed at how much of what she says is still applicable today. There have been changes in science and in the world, but since the chief object of her book is how to educate your children; children are much the same as they ever were. They are born into the world and need to grow and learn about the world around them.
As I read, I found that my opinion of this book grew as well. I think it is one of the best parenting books I have read. So many of the books today are from a secular worldview, and the Christian books are usually only on spiritual ideas, without the honor and respect of science and natural laws that Mason has in her views. She is very good at starting her ideas at the basic, logical beginning, and working from there. She is also very good at not giving too specific of advice (as every child is unique, so techniques for handling each child would vary), yet her advice is helpful and very specific about some things.
The section on habits is worth reading, whether homeschooling or not. This section helps establish a way of thinking about the issues you are facing with your children, and why they are constant daily battles. If a child is in a habit of doing something, the only way to cure that habit is to replace it with a different, good habit. Good advice that I need to apply in my own life.
Some of my favorite quotes, from over 100 years ago and still true today:
“On fine days when it is warm enough to sit out with wraps, why should not tea and breakfast, everything but a hot dinner, be served out of doors? For we are an overwrought generation, running to nerves as a cabbage runs to seed; and every hour spent in the open is a clear gain, tending to the increase of brain power and bodily vigour, and to the lengthening of life itself.”
“All this is stale knowledge to older people, but one of the secrets of the educator is to present nothing as stale knowledge, but to put himself in the position of the child, and wonder and admire with him; for every common miracle which the child sees with his own eyes makes of him for the moment another Newton.”
“We were all meant to be naturalists, each in his degree, and it is inexcusable to live in a world so full of the marvels of plant and animal life and to care for none of these things.”
Mason is very strong-minded about children spending as much time outdoors in nature as possible, and today in the world we live in I feel it is even more important! I realize that although I spent a great deal of time outside when I was a child, it is so easy for my children to only see the wonders of nature second-hand from television. The problem is that it isn’t real and that it is curated to show only what the nature program is trying to show. The real, natural world is entirely different and immersive. Our world is so science-minded these days, yet, without spending time outdoors in nature a great deal, the wonders of science will always remain locked to children, and uninteresting.
In that same vein:
“Power will pass, more and more, into the hands of Scientific Men. — It is infinitely well worth of the mother’s while to take some pains every day to secure, in the first place, that her children spend hours daily amongst rural and natural objects; and, in the second place, to infuse into them, or rather to cherish in them, the love of investigation.”
On habits:
“What remains to be tried when neither time, reward, nor punishment is effectual? That panacea of the educationist: ‘ One custom overcometh another.’ This inveterate dawdling is a habit to be supplanted only by the contrary habit, and the mother must devote herself for a few weeks to this cure as steadily and untiringly as she would to the nursing of her child through measles.”
“The education of habit is successful in so far as it enables the mother to let her children alone, not teasing them with perpetual commands and directions — a running fire of Do and Don’t; but letting them go their own way and grow, having first secured that they will go the right way, and grow to fruitful purpose… The mother who takes pains to endow her children with good habits secures for herself smooth and easy days; while she who lets their habits take care of themselves has a weary life of endless friction with the children.”
“Half the clever talk we hear today, and half the uneasiness which underlies this talk, are due to a thorough and perfect ignorance of the Bible text.”
“But let the imaginations of children be stored with the pictures, their minds nourished upon the words, of the gradually unfolding story of the Scriptures, and they will come to look out upon a wide horizon within which persons and events take shape in their due place and due proportion. By degrees, they will see that the world is a stage whereon the goodness of God is continually striving with the wilfulness of man; that some heroic men take sides with God; and that others, foolish and headstrong, oppose themselves to Him.”
“Let all the circumstances of the daily Bible reading — the consecutive reading, from the first chapter of Genesis onwards, with necessary omissions — be delightful to the child; let him be in his mother’s room, in his mother’s arms; let that quarter of an hour be one of sweet leisure and sober gladness, the child’s whole interest being allowed to go to the story without distracting moral considerations; and then, the less talk the better; the story will sink in, and bring its own teaching, a little now, and more every year as he is able to bear it. Once such story will be in him a constantly growing, fructifying moral idea.”