Is He Straight? The Checklist for Women Who Wonder offers a clear, concise perspective on the topic of straight/gay marriages based on one woman's experience of such a relationship and its aftermath and her counseling of thousands of women in the same situation. This is the only book of its kind to contain easy-to-use checklists that outline and reveal tell-tale signs and personality traits of potentially gay husbands as well as the women they consciously choose as wives. It also provides up-to-date information on how to find and start a local support group and offers a companion website on which to find answers and chat with others in a comparable situation. The revised edition (2004) expands the original gay husband checklist and offers additional information about the effects of these marriages on women's personal feelings of sexual and self-esteem.
This is the earlier edition of "The Gay Husband Checklist" and it's just as bad as that book. If you really, truly need a book like this to know who your husband is, you have much bigger problems than whether or not he is gay.
Don't excuse yourself or blame him for everything that's wrong by saying "he lies about everything, so how else can I know?" Ask yourself instead, if he lies about everything, why are you still there?