When our children become adults, we can't hold them on our laps and protect them like we used to. We need new strategies for caring for them. And the most important strategy of all is to lift up our adult sons and daughters in prayer and place them in the heart of God. When we do so, God's love is unleashed--in them and in us. God can replace our worries and discouragement with refreshment and hope. This book is a real treasure, one that parents and grandparents will want to read again and again.
Each chapter ends with a series of questions for reflection and introduces a "prayer skill" that will enable parents to persist in prayer and try new ways of praying for their adult sons and daughters.
Excellent examples of how to pray for our adult family. Many varieties of pray forms described. Well worth the read. Let go of worrying about our children, turn them over to Jesus, pray for them!
I will keep this book for future reference. The Bouchers share their personal experience and advise ways to handle the angst of parenting adults. They guide the reader through how to lay your child in God's hands and trust that, in prayer, it will all be okay, even though God's answer to your prayers may be different than you imagined. The talk a bout being an immediary when your adult child is not in communion with God. They point out that there are different ways to express faith and that our adult children may be living out their faith but in a way we older people don't recognize. There are many gems in here, along with prayers, Bible quotes, probing questions for your journaling, meditation guidance, and more. At the end is a good list of websites and other resources.