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313 pages, Paperback

First published May 1, 2003

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John O'Farrell

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John O'Farrell is the author of four novels: The Man Who Forgot His Wife, May Contain Nuts, This Is Your Life and The Best a Man Can Get. His novels have been translated into over twenty languages and have been adapted for radio and television. He has also written two best-selling history books: An Utterly Impartial History of Britain and An Utterly Exasperated History of Modern Britain, as well as a political memoir, Things Can Only Get Better and three collections of his column in The Guardian. A former comedy scriptwriter for such productions as Spitting Image, Room 101, Murder Most Horrid and Chicken Run, he is founder of the satirical website NewsBiscuit and can occasionally be spotted on such TV programmes as Grumpy Old Men, Question Time and Have I Got News for You.

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Profile Image for Beth.
92 reviews2 followers
June 10, 2016
I love this book. I may have to give it 5 stars actually, but for now, since the feeling is still so new, I am trying to hold my enthusiasm back. I found it to be so funny.

"This Is Your Life" is a satirical look at the lengths one guy goes to in order to become famous. This book is hilarious, but not only in the sense that you will smile knowingly at clever statements. This book is hilarious in that I laughed out loud many times while reading it. I have already saved my favorite paragraphs. The writing style of the author is just something that I enjoyed. His use of language seems to flow very naturally, and his dialogue as well.

This character of his, Jimmy Conway, fakes his way into being famous. He pretends he knew a dead celebrity, pretends he is a well-known stand-up comic, and ends up having everyone believe him. His thoughts and silent observations are very funny. Like when he describes his neighbor Doreen.

  This is a woman who loves miniature schnauzers. This was partly due
to the fact that she sported a bright yellow badge, the size of a
teaplate bearing the unequivocal declaration, 'I love miniature
schnauzers'. But there was another clue that was hard to overlook:
under her arms she was also holding a couple of panting miniature
schnauzers - their moustachioed doggy heads were almost permanent
features on either side of her colossal waist-high breasts. Doreen
was a figure from Greek mythology with a human head and body
but with two doggy heads coming out from under her arms. In case
you were in any doubt as to her feelings about miniature
schnauzers, the big badge was backed up with an extensive
collection of further schnauzer insignia: another thirty or forty
little metal badges in the shape of her favourite dog breed or
boasting membership of the Miniature Schnauzer Club of Great
Britain pinned all over the front of her green gilet.


I loved this book, and never saw what was coming. John O'Farrell, I am definitely a big fan! This is a book I will read again. Funny, witty, touching, and an extremely entertaining look at the celebrity-obsessed world in which we live.



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1,044 reviews
February 1, 2019
John O’Farroll (2002) THIS IS YOUR LIFE

London. Black Swan


⭐⭐⭐ 3 out of 5 stars


The sleeve reads, “Doesn't everybody want to be famous? Jimmy Conway certainly does. He's just a frustrated nobody from nowhere town who wants a better life. And then he stumbles on the perfect way to achieve this - he cheats. He invents an entire celebrity career for himself, even writing his own fantastic reviews. And soon Jimmy discovers that a show-business industry, desperate not to miss the Next Big Thing, isn't particularly bothered about checking that this new name actually deserves to become famous...”


Very funny in very many places though this is nowhere near the funniness that is “May Contain Nuts”. Great premise. I grew up watching Michael Aspel walking out of nowhere to greet a (usually) British celeb with a red book in one hand, a mic in the other and proclaiming, “So-and-so this is your life!” so the reference this book makes was not lost on me.


Can't go without drawing attention to the letter that James writes to his 13-year-old self at the beginning of Chapter 11 (the books final chapter)... It's the kind of simple yet profound letter we should all read and then write to our younger selves. IMO


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248 reviews109 followers
July 24, 2008
The book begins as Jimmy Conway is about to go on stage to do his stand-up routine before a live TV audience. There has been a lot of "buzz" generated over Jimmy, Britain's best new comic talent. He does have one problem: he has never done stand-up comedy before.

Jimmy always wanted to be famous. Instead, he is a teacher in a language school in a run-down seaside village. He manages to go to the funeral of a TV star and is mistaken for a famous person, himself. Because Jimmy is supposed to be famous, everyone claims to have heard of him, even to have seen his non-existent comedy act. As commercial endorsements follow magazine features, things get out of control, and Jimmy realizes he needs some talent, quickly.

This is a deft satire on celebrity and the way so many figures of the popular culture are famous merely for being famous. John O'Farrell shows how, so often, people are able to become famous without actually having any talent and that obsession with celebrity can crowd out genuine human feeling. Typical of O'Farrell's writing, it is full of wit and humor, delighting in the way everyday life is often awful and funny at the same time.


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312 reviews7 followers
October 21, 2025
After getting into a bad reading slump and dnf'ing a bunch of books I decided to read an old favourite.

I first read this in the early 00's when I was 16 and worked as a book girl at WH Smiths. For some reason at the time I was really into 'lad lit' and also loved a celebrity satire. I guess that's how I stumbled on this book that I bought with my staff discount after John did a signing in the store.
I read it and reread it many times as a teenager and now reading it again in my late 30s I was worried it might have aged badly but thankfully I still loved it.
Very funny with a touch of familiar cosiness and amusing Satirisation of Y2K celebrity that made for a nice nostalgic reread even if the target reader was most likely Dads, I as both a moody teenager and a now (I hate to say it) middle aged gal (who is still moody) give it the thumbs up.
And now I feel the urge to read more early 2000s fiction...
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727 reviews24 followers
January 9, 2024
This Is Your Life by British humor columnist John O’Farrell is an amusing evocation of the ease and speed with which an event or concept or object can be transformed into a meta-thing the reality of which is totally independent of - indeed unrelated to - the actual existence (if any) of that which precipitated it. The book contains some funny observations (e.g. “I’d lived in Seaford for thirteen years now, which was quite a short amount of time compared to how long it takes most of the local inhabitants to find the right change when they get on the bus.”) and of course we are ruefully aware of the validity of O’Farrell‘s premise*. Recommended for what it is - light humor.

Other dog observers may agree with me about the writer’s accuracy in describing his dog’s dietary practices: “Betty was quite picky about what she ate in the sense that it had to have been a foodstuff at some point in its history. … if it were food, or rather had possibly been a human dinner in any former incarnation, then she was very open-minded about its preparation. Here’s a favourite recipe from the Larousse Gastronomique de Betty: take one KFC chicken leg, strip most of the flesh and dump in a grass verge for several weeks until well rotted. The decayed bone should be sprinkled lightly with dirt and ants before serving and then it is customary to attempt to swallow the bone whole before gagging violently.”

*a familiar example of this is the near-universal acceptance of the “Christian” teaching that three kings traveled to Bethlehem where they found the newborn Jesus in the stable in which he was born, whereas the only historical record of the event flatly states that they weren’t kings and there weren’t necessarily three of them and they went to a different city and that by the time they found him he was neither in a stable nor an infant. Or, as a more modern source puts it, “When the legend becomes fact, print the legend.”
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180 reviews
April 9, 2025
I loved this, the comedy was consistent and witty throughout. As a book about a fake stand-up, the central character Jimmy cannot be an especially funny man but the narrator's style is very reminiscent of a stand-up performing to me. The setup of the jokes, the wordplay, the referencing. All good stuff, I got a lot of laughs out of this and unlike many comedy books where I find the humour can wear off mid-way to service the plot, I never found a dip in the comedy in this one. It was funny, casual and harmless fun, mostly based around poking fun of the protagonist, a proxy for the middle-class middle-aged man demographic who are probably the target of the book (but by no means to the exclusion of anyone else). Jimmy is a bit Mark Corrigan as a safe middleman who flies off the handle and goes crazy in the pursuit of fame. The central conceit of Jimmy faking his way up the comedy circuit makes for enjoyable reading, it feels faintly familiar of many 'comic misunderstanding' sitcom episodes while remaining novel in its commentary on the shallowness of celebrity-dom and Jimmy's particularly cynical take on all things fame. There is a message at its heart which is very cheesy at the end, but I would expect that from a comedy novel and I enjoyed watching it develop. As a sidenote, it was interesting when reading a book written in 2002, in 2025, how much our national culture has changed. Having a big group of mixed friends who meet at the pub to smoke and joke around - well I'm sure people still have that, but it's not our country as a whole anymore. A sad thought, as this book is dripping with love for that culture and how the simple things are enough.
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647 reviews17 followers
April 15, 2020
It's Covid19 lockdown, I've been trying recently to pick up some of my old-books-never-read, and fancied something, needed something, to make me laugh. This fit the bill quite nicely. There was nothing deep and meaningful about it, but I often found myself chuckling out loud and reading funny lines out loud to my husband, so that was the tonic I wanted today.
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176 reviews
May 3, 2020
Enjoyable if slightly far fetched book about a bloke who accidentally becomes famous and realises what is actually important. Would recommend as holiday read. Wouldn’t read twice but light hearted tale.
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101 reviews
November 26, 2019
Hmm. An interesting theme. And sometimes it really made me laugh, but it was not the big one I was hoping for. 2nd read btw. I did like the Happy Ending 😉
233 reviews
May 28, 2021
Enjoyable and amusing. Good cheery novel in the midst of a global pandemic. Not a book to change your life but it’s heart is in the right place.
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26 reviews1 follower
April 13, 2023
really funny and interesting read, kept me guessing and cheering on the main character
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163 reviews
July 28, 2023
I bought this on clearance for a dollar and I think I got my money's worth.
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160 reviews
October 26, 2017
Insospettabile. Oltre a essere spigliato e divertente, non avrei mai immaginato che fosse così ben scritto e strutturato e condito con inaspettate e interessanti riflessioni.
180 reviews24 followers
May 14, 2012
A funny book is this one, but possibly more in the peculiar than the outright ‘ha-ha’ sense if you catch my drift.

Written in a typical ’everybloke’ Hornby and/or Gayle – esque style, this novel questions concepts of fame, artificiality and life satisfaction in layman’s terms. From the viewpoint of the ultimate Mr Average, middle of the road-Joe protagonist Jimmy Conway dares chance his way into the fame game and celeb status by sheer fakery and pretence. As his efforts to embrace fame are accepted by media establishments and fans resulting in enhanced status and material wealth, Conway becomes more contemptuous towards this easy and false society where he begins to lose faith in himself and the distorted sphere within which he lives. This becomes a bit like Big Brother turned on its side with the warts of the ‘beautiful people’ and their incestuous lives becoming more exposed as the narrative progresses.

This book isn’t deep science, nor is it astrological physics. As a novel it serves a purpose in questioning a concept yet is it light, frothy and shallow and maybe too much of each. Theoretically, all these are acceptable in a humour book but, alas, it’s just not that funny and any jokes seem too predictable rather than instant and/or laugh out loud. It’s a shame.

I personally found that the second half (and especially the ending) of this book was an upturn where the protagonist starts to resolve his own issues with a bit of logic and sense for once. Other parts are too ‘chick-litty’ by far (and I won’t even bother to reverse the gender in this statement here). Not my cup of expresso that’s for sure.

I don’t mind a bit of humour and lightness interspersed in my reading now and then but ultimately this has been a lame and unsatisfactory read for me. No key quotes. No memorable belly laughs and no inspiration from the reading journey. Yes, it’s ‘ok’ in the general sense but am I relieved to have it off my bookshelves? Yes, yes and a resounding … YES.

PS - Note to self - War and Peace - MUST READ NEXT!!!
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897 reviews32 followers
February 7, 2017
Nothing wrong with dreaming big in life, planning your future from a young age, writing letters to yourself to be read when you become a grown up and are actually famous. There is only a problem of course when you don't become famous, when you don't achieve that greatness that you know you were destined to achieve. Instead you become a lowly teacher of English as a second language in an English backwater town, leading a pretty down at heel sort of wasted life. Single, broke, bored, disillusioned.

Poor Jimmy Conway, life was supposed to be such a different kettle of fish! And now his life has amounted to very little. He still harbours the desire to be a world famous stand up comic, the novel opening with him about to do a routine at the Royal Variety Performance, his childhood dream about to come true. But oh dear, it is all a lie, the result of a huge fabrication that Jimmy has himself created, aided and abetted by those who should know better. Bizarrely he becomes a victim of his own success!

And how did this peculiar set of circumstances come about? How does a nobody find himself in the wings of the Royal Albert Hall, petrified out of his wits, the fool playing to the fooled? Through a chance encounter with a famous stand up comic who promptly dies of a heart attack, Jimmy finds himself plunged into the world of the rich and famous, his reckless joke making taking on a life of its own.

As much a satire on the game of fame, as well as a serious commentary on the price of fame, this is a novel that could so easily have spiralled out of control, yet remains totally held. Jimmy is actually very funny, and I am surprised he never has made it as a comic, because he is funny on paper! See, even I am beginning to think Jimmy is a real stand up comedian. A bit like The Emperor's New Clothes, Jimmy the Stand Up Comic is a complete fabrication. The joy of the novel is how he gets out of his potential fall from grace, how he loses friends and wins them again and best of all finds joy in his life, peace and contentment.
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386 reviews
November 11, 2013

To anyone who is new to his work let me start by saying how delighted I was when he failed in his recent quest to become an MP; Westminster's loss is very much the literary world's gain as I am sure he would have thrown himself so completely into the role that he would have stopped writing, and that would never do.

In “This Is Your Life”, John O’Farrell casts his critical eye over the cynical and shallow world of celebrity. We are led on the journey by would be comic, Jimmy Conway. As a spotty teenager, Jim had a dream that one day he would be a star, with all the riches and trappings that go with it. And to ensure that he keeps a sense of balance, young Jimmy writes his older self a series of letters giving advice on what he should and shouldn't be doing.

Fast forward 10 years. Jimmy is working as an English teacher in a sleepy seaside town, his earlier ambitions seemingly forgotten. Until, that is, the letters are discovered by his older brother who uses them to embarrass Jimmy in front of his friends.

With his dreams rekindled, Jimmy soon finds himself at the centre of a misunderstanding regarding his relationship with a local celebrity. But rather than correct the error, our hero builds on the lie, drawing him deeper and deeper into the glitzy world of showbiz.

But fame is not all it seems, particularly when you do not have the talent and experience you are claiming.

This is your life is something of a cautionary tale for anyone who has ambitions of stardom. It is also a very funny book, with O’Farrell’s trademark insight into the weaknesses and foibles of men.

The believability and the absurdity of the plot kept me engrossed from start to finish. Whilst part of me found the story unbelievable fantasy, I couldn't help feeling that there is probably some truth in much of the observations O’Farrell makes about the world of celebrity.

A thoroughly good read.
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199 reviews5 followers
September 27, 2014
This book is all about one man's quest to become famous. I feel like a lot of people can relate to this because how many of us haven't wanted to become famous? It is something that a lot of people can relate to. It also made me think about the lengths that people will go to to become famous and to live a certain lifestyle. It can be scary to think that people are willing to do almost anything to get recognised by others. In this book the main character, Jimmy, also doesn't actually do anything to become famous and yet gets recognised.

If I can just go off topic here for a second - This book also made me wonder about how many people we put on pedestals like this when they haven't actually done anything to be put there. Having said that, why is it that only people who are "famous" should get recognition? Surely ordinary people who do ordinary jobs in an extraordinary way also deserve to be recognised?

This book is quick and easy to read. I really enjoyed it. The story line was something different and didn't follow the usual pattern that a lot of books seem to follow these days. Having said that however, I must say that although this book wasn't always predictable (a lot of the time it was actually quite the opposite) there were certain things that I felt were a bit too predictable. That is not a criticism, merely an observation. I really enjoyed this book and I would recommend it to anyone who is looking for something different and something that is relatable and overall a very good read.

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752 reviews
July 15, 2018
I read this book about a year after its 2002 publication, after I was given it as a present. It's light reading, and mildly amusing, and makes some good points about our celebrity culture and self-worth, but it didn't have much impact. Since then I have seen that O'Farell has written a number of similar-looking novels (all with similar covers), as if he's trying to produce a little light-hearted and witty treatsie on a range of issues facing our society today. This novel, however, isn't good enough to be the final word on the subject. It's diverting and makes some poignant observations, but it doesn't go further than that. Reading the Amazon review, though, reminds me that the non-existent 'fish routine', a running gag (or not, as it happens) in the book really is quite inspired. Also, I saw a comparison to The Emperor's New Clothes, which does add some interest. Certainly not a bad book but, unlike his protagonist and narrator in this story, I think O'Farrell would make a better stand-up than he does a novelist.
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674 reviews14 followers
March 2, 2014
After posing as close friend and running partner of recently-deceased comedy legend Billy Scrivens, nondescript, underachieving Jimmy Conway procures himself an invitation to the high-profile funeral, where he convinces a gullible journalist that he is the latest underground comedy sensation, when, in fact, he has never done standup in his life.

Jimmy inexplicably becomes an overnight celebrity and soon finds himself buried in bluffs and outright lies told to protect his deep, dark secret. This Is Your Life is a side-splittingly hilarious leap up the rungs of fame at a quip-a-minute. It may even have you biting your nails each time Jimmy talks himself into corner after corner, and further alienates his real friends. In between the lines are not-so-nonchalant jabs at society's obsession with and the hollowness of celebrityhood and the resilience of friendship, making it as smart and touching as it is funny.
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2,722 reviews14 followers
December 15, 2014
A highly entertaining satire on our celebrity-obsessed culture - Jimmy Conway lives in a run-down seaside town on the South Coast: single, teaching English as a second language to reluctant students but has always dreamed of being famous. So, when local celebrity and famous comedian, Billy Scrivens, collapses and dies of a heart attack, Jimmy is for once in the right place at the right time to tell TV reporters of his feelings at this sad event. Telling them that he was a good friend of Billy sets off a chain of events that results in Jimmy being mistaken as a celebrity stand-up comedian and Jimmy gets carried away by the runaway train that is 'media hype'.
Great read - funny but with a serious message for today's celebrity-obsessed society. 8/10.
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August 6, 2011
A book about fame and how it affects the common man, and the lengths people will go to to achieve their dreams of super stardom.

The book would probably be a great holiday read, it is light and easy to read, what saves it from just being a holiday read is that you really start believing in the characters. They are real people who have ended up where they are almost by chance. It is also very funny. I laughed out loud many times while reading this book. I don't often laugh out loud while reading.

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233 reviews2 followers
May 22, 2012
This is the 2nd book I've read of John O'Farrell and I was a little trepidatious because I thought nothing could be as good as "May Contain Nuts". Boy was I wrong. Flat. out. hilarious. I laughed and laughed and then... much to my surprise I cried in the end. I love nothing more than characters that lie themselves into a horrible situation they can't seem to get out of. This book did that along with making me take a look at the way I view fame and those that are famous. Great book, a light hearted read with real depth. Side note: I did still like "May Contain Nuts" better.
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15 reviews1 follower
July 8, 2013
This is a difficult book to read because one ends up squirming with embarrassment at the situation the main character (Jimmy)gets himself into. Jimmy wrote a series of letters to himself when he was a teenager because he was sure that he would one day become famous. They are painful to read. However because of a chance encounter he finds a way to get into the news and get that star billing. What we know as readers is that it is undeserved. The whole book is a very funny look at our celebrity obsessed culture.
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149 reviews
February 11, 2014
I loved his first novel 'The Best A Man Can Get' a few years ago and I was looking forward to this book.

However, even though I have given it three stars, it was very lucky to get it. The book started off very promising and I was really enjoying it. Until the middle part of the book seemed to get disjointed and lost its way.

Despite this, I felt it was a good read, not as great as his first book.

Bit of a disappointment.
1,602 reviews5 followers
June 18, 2012
Hykerryttävän hauska kirja, jossa satiiria riittää. Idea on vanmha tuttu jo Keisarin uusista vaatteista asti, mutta naurattaa silti. Kirja irvailee julkisuudelle, julkkiksille, maineelle ja niille, jotka nousevat kuuluisuuteen tyhjästä, tekemättä itse mitään sen eteen. Vitsit naurattavat ja lukijaakin nolottaa, kun Jimmy kerta toisensa perään nolaa itsensä. Erittäin hyvä kirja.
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