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Coming of Age

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Book by Hewett, Lorri

232 pages, Paperback

First published July 1, 1996

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21 reviews
December 24, 2012
I read this years and years ago while in early high school. I loved it then and to this day think fondly of this coming to age story. I suggest other young readers pick this up.
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580 reviews38 followers
February 26, 2016
Attention! Attention! The following review may contain large amounts of sarcasm and hatred for the book-that-must-not-be-named! So if you want to read a more or less objective review don´t read this one. And while I really didn´t like Coming of Age I don´t mean to offend anyone by my review; it´s just my personal very freely expressed opinion.

I want a medal for managing to finish this poor excuse of a book despite:
- the characters beeing annoying as hell.
- Ruthie beeing an unbelievable, know-it-all, better-than-you character with an old soul. Urgh.
- nothing beeing resolved at the end. I mean, seriously, what was even the point? But of course they all more or less get their HEA. Just screw the fact that NOTHING GOT RESOLVED! I want developement! I want change! And I want it to be shown and not to be told that "I had some kind of epiphany bc of...ah, who cares! well, I had some kind of epiphany and now I´m gonna change my life and everything will be okay and I´ll not end like my stupid bitchy friends that
I all of a sudden don´t like anymore" (I am looking at you, Erika).
- Ruthie´s parents apparently beeing some kind of saints that
- it beeing racist. It already starts on page one, line fifteen. *stares accusingly at the book-that-must-not-be-named*
- it beeing okay with cheating, even encouraging it.
"So what´s wrong?"
"Everything! He has a girlfriend, what about her?"
I shook my head. "Ruthie, it´s not like they´re married. If everything was so great between you and AJ, then maybe that´s what´s meant to be!"

- all of the main characters having some tragic past/inner conflict. Jesus. Why can´t there be just ONE normal kid in this book-that-must-not-be-named? Ruthie has a crisis of identity (). AJ has Erika too has a crisis of identity? I don´t know. She is said to be one of the main characters but throughout most of the book-that-must-not-be-named she was just the "mean bitch". No character development. But whom am I kidding? I don´t even care.
- the slang. Although it was authentic it was annoying as hell and I skimmed through parts of the book-that-must-not-be-named in order to prevent getting a headache.
- it beeing predictable.

Before I end this rage rant review I want to thank my English teacher for making us read this crappy book-that-must-not-be-named. Not. And good luck to my classmates! *winks at Sakura and Unarosa*
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131 reviews
December 6, 2024
Okay this book is a mix of the most basic story, the most boring characters and literally no character arc. I had to read it in my class. Its probably not that bad but I just developed hatred for this book because of Masoum
Profile Image for Kerry.
3 reviews
March 24, 2020
This book appears to have a lot of detractors but my assumption is that many of those folks are reading this far into their adulthood. I read this book when I was 14 and absolutely loved it. That is the person it was written for. The teenager or pre-teen fascinated by love and relationships and still developing their understanding of that world from their Junior High or High School aged mentality and vantage point.
46 reviews1 follower
March 12, 2017
3,5 / 5 Sternen

It didn't happen much, but it was the everyday happening from 3 black folks, which was quite interesting towards the end!
47 reviews3 followers
March 10, 2019
Ich habe es für die Schule lesen müssen und es ist bei weitem das Beste Schulbuch das wir je gelesen haben!
Es ist nicht unbedingt herausragend, aber es lässt sich gut lesen und die Story ist auch recht interessant.
14 reviews
January 12, 2019
Sehr vohersehbar und dass auf diesen ganzen Rassismus nicht eingegangen wurde hatte mich gestört.
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8 reviews
December 18, 2020
Es ist einfach wie alle Bücher, die man in der Schule liest 😪😑 🙆‍♀️
23 reviews
January 3, 2022
Musste es für die Schule lesen und es war sehr vorhersehbar
Profile Image for Helene.
1 review
February 12, 2023
War ganz gut aber die Storyline war ziemlich voraussehbar, also man wusste gefühlt von Anfang an, dass AJ und Ruthie zusammen kommen
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Profile Image for Ece.
38 reviews
March 13, 2023
The first school book that actually meant something in my honest opinion, found ruthie a bit annoying but overall a nice book
Profile Image for Sophia Thewißen.
184 reviews
June 1, 2025
Listen it’s great that this book talked about topics like indentity and racism and all of the other things but I personally just thought it was kind of boring. I mean yes it could’ve been worse and I’m probably being harsh but I just could not bring myself to care about anything that was happening to the characters because I cannot connect with them and I’m so sorry that I can’t say more positive stuff about it but it is what it is


I’ve read it again now because we’re writing the class test in two days (I’ve reread it in the span of the last five days that’s what I call locking in for school for real)
And I can only say it’s actually a really good book and it shows that we should never judge people based on appearance or such things and start being more open minded.
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21 reviews1 follower
October 2, 2014

One of the three narrators is a bit of a Mary Sue and as a whole I find the book slightly too didactic - clearly aimed at helping some o the readers self-improve. On the other hand, it's, I assume, a very accurate and authentic portrayal of the experience of African-American teenagers just before graduation. The voices of the first-person narrators ring true but that's also what makes it slightly boring: It's basically a not very exciting diary. Yes, there is a love story and some plot, but while some events are earth-shattering for the average teen this doesn't necessarily mean a very entertaining read.
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34 reviews5 followers
February 21, 2015
Had to read it as part of my English class and didn't have any high expectations, really. Surprisingly enough, it read alright and it wasn't too cumbersome flipping through the pages, but besides being frickle entertainment it's nothing much more. Plot was just too preditable, character development, while being existent, was pretty obvious and all going along the same pattern and the story was just very happy-go-lucky overall, not creating much of a realistic or moody atmosphere. 3/5, was alright reading but could have bared without.
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Author 1 book
September 22, 2008
This is the book that made me want to become a writer. I read this book as a sophomore in high school. I loved it because it was the first time I read a book set in my city. I could picture setting, every scene. It really hit home to me and I passed it along to my BFF and it became her favorite as well. I re-read this book often. It causes me to be very nostalgic.
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21 reviews
January 8, 2013
Good read. Love when authors show characters evolving throughout the book.
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