Loved this book!
I think everyone expecting a baby needs to read it. However, it’s definitely not a book everyone would be able to read, so maybe get the reader in the family to summarise for the other partner!
Good points:
• Well-researched facts about dads and their impact in families. It’s not just someone’s opinion, it’s actually backed up. The author is a university professor, so it is very informative and factual (this might make it hard to read if you’re not a big reader).
• It explains why dads are different to mums, and that that’s a really good thing. This is why I think all mums should read the book too. Dads aren’t supposed to be the same or do things the same way as mums, and that’s good for everyone to know.
• It explains some good points about kids’ needs, which other books haven’t really touched on.
• It’s about parenting both babies and kids, not just one or the other. It’s about dad’s involvement right from the start.
• It does talk about single parents too.
• It gives confidence to dads to be themselves.
Bad points:
• Not the easiest read if you’re not used to this style of writing (i.e. case study, research, facts).
• Mums are still important too, not just dads.
Recommended for:
• Dads-to-be
• Mums-to-be
• Dads with a baby or young kids who wants to be involved
• Mums with a baby or young kids
• It’s just as important for mums to understand the importance of their partner’s unique parenting style as it is for the partner.