If Only was a book that God brought across my path during a time of great desperation to attribute all of my problems to my upbringing making all of my problems the fault of those around me. It is a book about feeling sorry for yourself instead of taking life by the horns and making meaning and purpose of your life in light of God's unexcusable faithfulness and mercy. If you need to "get off the couch" and become proactive with your life, this book is for you!