I've given this book 4 stars, not because I "liked" it or really enjoyed it, but because I think there are important messages in it. Accad writes about several young women in Tunisia, one of whom is the main character Hayate. Although set in Tunisia, Hayate is from Lebanon, but cannot return because it isn't safe. Hayate has studied and work in the USA and is on a grant to study in Tunisia.
One important message (to me), is the expression of the hatred the people in the Arab countries in the Middle East have for the USA. This book was published in 1996, so it was before Desert Storm/Shield, the war in Afghanistan, the extended war in Iraq, etc. The mistrust and hatred even extends to Muslims who live in or are educated in the USA. As an American citizen, I see this as very sad evidence that they are being misled by their political and religious leaders, similar to the way in which the Japanese people were misled by their leaders at the end of WWII. Of course, this is a problem that I can't fix and do not even attempt to completely understand. Suffice it to say that I have strong beliefs about what I see as the historical mistreatment of Palestinians that occurred when Western countries dispossessed them of their land. That doesn't mean that I am anti-Jewish or anti-Israeli. The establishment of a Jewish homeland just wasn't done very well, and I feel sympathy for all who have been involved in that debacle!
The strongest emphasis in the book is on Feminism in the Middle East. The struggle as depicted in this book is so different from the current experiences of females in the USA, that it is really hard to use the term "Feminist" as applied to both countries. Feminism in the USA is (now, not historically) a struggle for equality of opportunity in jobs, wages, political power, social standing, and other areas that are not essential to sustaining life. Feminism in the Middle East is a struggle for physical, emotional, and mental safety, for independence in thought and behavior, for equality in laws, and in many other areas that ARE essential to sustaining life. I believe that it can be hard for the two geographical areas to exchange ideas for growth because we are starting in such different places. I don't know -- this is just my opinion.
The third important message that this book brings to me is the importance of making connections between people. Family, friends, co-workers, co-worshippers, and co-believers in a cause provide an essential support system. Instead of putting each other down, we should be lifting each other up.
So, I didn't really enjoy this book, but I think I learned from it and that deserves 4 stars!