Two Become One: Releasing God's Power for Romance, Sexual Freedom and Blessings in Marriage

by Harold R. Eberle

Learn how love works. Find out how to make Gods law of binding forces can work for you instead of against you. Trigger the love buzz. Learn how to communicate. The keys to a thrilling, passionate, and fulfilling marriage will work for you, regardless of circumstances.

Genres: Personal Development, Relationships

153 pages, Paperback

First published October 19, 1995

Reviews

[Blue Tapp · Rating 4 out of 5]

A good marriage book from a Christian perspective. I've read several of Eberle's theology books, which I've really liked, and thought I give his marriage book a try. This is a nice, quick read but doesn't get too deep (I would like to delve a little deeper). A good beginning point though.

[Dave Johnson · Rating 5 out of 5]

I normally don't like marriage books, but this is the best i've ever read. i think most books about marriage arent very helpful or useful and they rehash a lot of the same ideas. typically these books--even if supposedly based on biblical principles--are usually based more on worldly psychological methodology. i guess that's fine to a degree, but it belies the basic reasons for writing christian marriage books in the first place, namely, "What does God say about marriage?"

the premise of this book is really about how marriage is all about oneness with your spouse. many books want to elevate communication, submission, or sacrifice--all good, valid topics--but the Bible seems to major on the oneness of marriage above everything else. now, because of this, i now realize that those other important topics are necessary, but it's no longer a burden. because i'm pursuing more oneness with my wife, the communication, love, support, submission, and sacrifice are more second nature. he said some absolutely spectacular truths in this book. what really got me was the chapter on the two ways to change another person, and how God has implemented each of those ways with man, but only one of them produced oneness and a loving relationship.

what i absolutely love about Eberle is that he makes you think. and not just because he asks provocative questions, but because he opens up the Bible and shows what God himself says about things. and because of that, it makes you examine yourself. i wouldnt consider myself a bad husband by any stretch, but this book challenged me to be a Christ-like husband. this is such an important book for married couples to read. i actually would say that this is the most important supplement for learning. it's just full of the word of God and godly wisdom.

[Margot · Rating 5 out of 5]

This is a very short and succinct book on relationships, viewed from a religious and spiritual perspective and written by a pastor. I found this book more spiritual than religious, and the religious influence didn't bother me (the more churchy things like waiting for sex until marriage, I take with a grain of salt. And Eberle doesn't come across as judgmental on these issues). Each chapter focuses on a different aspect of a romantic relationship, from the obvious things like sex to the subtler things like turning toward each other instead of away to foster emotional intimacy. Everything Eberle said about how to foster and strengthen your relationship was insightful, well described, and spot-on. And his ideas also completely jibe with the findings of John Gottman in The Science of Trust: Emotional Attunement for Couples, and others. I don't know why I waited so long to read this book, and I'm really glad I finally did.

[Tal · Rating 4 out of 5]

i think this is a very sound marriage book. there is an emphasis on Christ and the church - which is the biblical standard for marriage. there is a lot of hope and understanding to this book. it doesn't follow the format of a lot of marriage books that give you steps to do in order to improve your marriage. this is a good thing, even though i definitely see a place for that type of book. there are some directives though. husbands - give your wife the security and affection she needs. wives - give your husband support, do what you know to capture his heart and learn to just relax.

like i said, there was a lot in this book that you could take away and grow from.