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97 pages, Kindle Edition
Published May 4, 2023
"Like many in my fraternity (or so I want to believe that I am not the only one), I have come across skin illnesses which have made me peel off my skin from frustration. Not to forget the incessant cases of hair fall that also have made me lose hair and a good night's sleep. There are so many cases, where despite knowing the diagnosis, I haven't been able to give them remedial cure or prescribe creams to alleviate their issues (Most patients with psoriasis and vitiligo are bobbing their heads up and down as they read this). And even if the creams did work, the diseases came back (My patients are most likely cursing me under their breath). And hold on… I am also talking about simple cases of dandruff that don't seem to go away! Ringing a bell with you now? Although I have been able to deal with skin diseases with a happy endings and forever-cured-afters… I have had my fair share of cases, whom I have let down. Even today, after 15 years of experience with skin diseases, I do have hard days when I know I could have done better."
"Hair is the most useless part of the skin to be honest. There is a reason why as we evolved from our ancestor langurs we shed the hair and kept it only the head and few other parts of the body. But it wasn't for protection, but for vanity. And if you ask me, I don't know how much of a beauty accessory it is. Because even baldness seems to have a certain appeal to most individuals. Dwayne Johnson, the Fast Furious dude Vin Diesel …. Cool looking, aren't they?
Moral of the story: Hair could be important but not as important as your personality in total."
"Epigenetics is the study of how your behaviors and environments alter the way your gene works. Simply put, even though a person may have the gene for psoriasis or, vitiligo or even acne, does not mean that the person will suffer from it. It is when the gene expression is triggered due to the influence of external stimuli is when diseases are manifested. So don't go blaming your parents please!"
"The four basic factors that influence our personalities are:
1. Nature – the genes we carry
2. Nurture- our upbringing as children
3. Culture- the values we are raised by
4. Environment- the physical surroundings we are exposed to"
"All the illogical thoughts are leading to distress that release stress hormones like ACTH, Adrenaline, and Cortisol. The system called the Neuroimmuno cutaneous endocrine (NICE) is getting activated thereby causing your skin disease. Dealing with your stress will help in regulating the NICE. And REBT shows you the way."
"The three basic values that REBT teaches are
A) Unconditional Others Acceptance (UOA)
B) Unconditional Self Acceptance (USA)
C) Unconditional Life Acceptance (ULA)
Core Logical Beliefs
A)UOA
- Others will treat me unfairly from time to time
- There's no reason why they must treat me fairly all the time
- Those who treat me unfairly are no more worthy and no less worthy than me or any other human being
B)USA
- I am a fallible human being; I have my positive points and my negative points.
- There is no reason why I must not have imperfections
- And despite my positive points and my negative points, I am no more worthy and no less worthy than any other human being
C) ULA
- Life doesn't always work out the way that I would like it to
- Even if life worked out the way I wanted it to, doesn't mean it will continue in the same way
- There is no reason why life must always go the way I want it to or whenever I want it to
- Life is not necessarily pleasant but it is never awful and it is nearly always bearable"
"The word hedonism is derived from the Greek hedone ("pleasure"), from hedys ("sweet" or "pleasant"). And although hedonism is only about seeking pleasure and immediate gratification, responsible hedonism is about seeking pleasure keeping my and others' interest at heart. It advocates moderation in seeking pleasure. And it introduces the concept of self-interest. Which is very different from selfishness. And a lot of people confuse the two as being the same."
"As the famous endocrinologist Hans Selye says, 'It's not the stress that kills us, it's our reaction to it.' Here I will add that Reactions = ANTs."
"If I were to pay me money for every treatment I gave me, I would be very rich!"
"The emotionally mature individual should completely accept the fact that we live in a world of probability and chance, where there are not, nor probably ever will be, any absolute certainties, and should realize that it is not at all horrible, indeed—such a probabilistic, uncertain world." ― Albert Ellis"