Balancing Act has two stories – All She Can Be and Free Spirit.
The first story – All She Can Be - is sweet and positive story about recently divorced romance writer, about her finding herself again through finding new love. It’s a heartwarming story, easy to read.
The second story – Free Spirit - is about young successful woman, who decides to move in with her boyfriend, but not just move in but to move into another city, quit her job and go back to school. But … she is not strong enough to dive into so many changes all at once and so she will almost lose herself.
This story made me really angry – big problem for me is probably this, that I have grown up with different family values and traditions, so it is difficult for me to understand this men’s need to keep their woman home and be the only provider of the family and women’s need to decorate their home and cook constantly and give birth to one children after another.
So when Dory finally comes to her senses and moves back to her old life, then I understood, that this was the point of this book, to remind all the woman in America, not to settle, not have kids with hope to bind their men to them, but be strong, be themselves and enjoy their life. I’m not saying it’s true for everybody, some enjoy their domestic living, but quite often we do not give ourselves enough credit for the things we do, and the people we do the things for often take them for granted and so we lose ourselves into worrying have we done enough.
Both of these stories are sort of wake up calls – yes we all have difficult moment in our lives and all of us hit the rock bottom few times of our lives, but these moments are the ones that help us to see our lives from different prospective, they give us new directions and without them we would not recognize the moment when we have risen up to the top again, so we could be truly happy.