Love is a choice. Not a feeling.
One of the most inconceivable people in the Bible who sees all the red lights and pursues a woman from the Red Lights writes about the feeling of love,
"Your declarations of love last no longer than morning mist and predawn dew. That's why.. my words cut you to the quick: to wake you up." Hos 6:6-7
What about a green light?
Jud Wilhite of Central in Las Vegas writes in his book, "Pursued: God's divine obsession with you," that
"The story of Hosea and Gomer is the second most powerful picture of God's love in the Bible. Other than Christ's death, there is no greater picture of love."
Jesus, hated for no good reason, made a foolish "choice" that looked full of red lights. He would say in his last meal, the night before being betrayed and killed,
"Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. Ye are my friends, if ye do whatsoever I command...
Love one another."
John 15:13,14,17