I had a hard time with this book. I almost decided to quit several times out of frustration, but I found there were some parts that really touched me. For the record, this is my first Kimmel book, and might be the last, except that so many here value her work so highly. I listened to this on audio, and mostly thought the narration too cutesy and cheery for the text, although she lent Rebekah an appropriate sense of innocence. The time frames were confusing and sometimes hard to follow, the multiple points of view were sometimes hard to follow as well. I found the overly-flowery writing annoying in the extreme most of the time, I didn't always care about the sound, smell, and sense of every tiny scene. Conversely, sometimes it was perfect. The constant digressions into religious philosophy made the book seem a bit like a soap box for the author's concepts, and although I don't disagree, I didn't want to hear all of that in the middle of a story most of the time. It didn't usually enlighten me as to who the characters were. The most annoying features for me were Hazel's weird dream interludes, and her blatant manipulation of her friends. Her personality and "voice" as a young woman are distinctly different from that as an older woman, and except for the name, I would never have realized the two characters were the same. That was immensely unsettling. Through the whole book, Hazel never mentioned hating her father, or the relationship between her father and mother, which turned out to be important. Vernon's personality also seemed completely out of keeping with certain of his actions as well, which left me very confused. The end of the book bugged me completely, I still don't know what happened with the baby at the end, how Hazel ended up in a relationship with Ruth, why she never told Rebekah..... A very confusing and unsatisfying ending. I also still can't figure out exactly who's gay and who's straight, and while I know that lines aren't always clear, there was enough attention paid to the issue that I would have appreciated a better understanding of what was going on. From the outset, I found that the story had a dreamy and annoying drifting quality, as though it couldn't pin itself down, and I almost didn't bother continuing. With all of the frustrations I still found enough moments of beautifully written and sometimes startling truth and clarity that I can understand Kimmel's following from that perspective. It really left me not knowing how to rate it, a 2 was sort of arbitrary. For the first time in a long time, I found I wanted to come to Goodreads to hear other opinions and try to understand this book from another perspective. And it does help shed a little light, thanks all!