It took three years for me to find out and accept the truth about him. Three years of lies, controlling behavior and outrageous denials of his cheating. I endured and excused his messed-up comments, accusations and constant dismissals of my thoughts and feelings and I totally lost myself in the process. Time and time again he’d reel me back in with his charming and seemingly sincere regret and promises of change. Despite everything he’d put me through, the thought of leaving for good was gut-wrenching and every day I doubted whether it was the right decision. What if he could change? What if it could be how it used to be? Then I finally plucked up the courage to leave and told him... And suffered the consequences… BIG TIME! According to the National Library of Medicine, “204 inmates participated in a study that found 49.5% to have a diagnosis of personality disorder, the most frequent narcissistic.” If you’re in a relationship with someone that is highly narcissistic it could be very dangerous. My confidence was destroyed, my sense of identity was lost and my breakup was ugly… …and I was one of the lucky ones. Since the demise of my ‘relationship,’ I have spoken to hundreds of survivors and heard countless horror stories. Narcissistic abuse is way more common than you think… “I was in an abusive relationship, and it makes you forget who you are. It made me feel like I’d never be the same person again.” ~ Stacey Solomon “Leaving those situations isn’t easy because you’re wrought with self-doubt, particularly if someone damages your self-esteem.” ~ Reese Witherspoon In “The Trap” you will “The Trap” clears the fog about your partner's behavior, helps you set healthy boundaries and gives you all the tools you need to help you make the right decision about your relationship. So, if you want to find out if you are dating a narcissist and avoid narcissistic abuse then scroll up and click the " Add to Cart button" now.