Roarke irritated me in this one a good bit, honestly. It's funny, reading the reviews for this series, I think I'm not as gaga for Roarke as most people seem to be. I think it's because as a woman working as a high-end professional in a male-dominated field, I don't find the way he inserts himself into Eve's work, going over her head to her bosses (he did it for the second time a few books back, and I nearly quit the series over it tbh) to be cute, funny, or AT ALL acceptable. And it bugs me how self-absorbed he can be - when he wants a thing or to do a thing, he doesn't give a single fuck about what anyone else (including Eve) thinks or would be harmed by it, he just plows in.
That, imo, is a supremely shitty quality in a partner.
A nice thing about this series is both Roarke and Eve have some terrible childhood experiences that they still struggle with. Stuff from one or the other of their pasts comes up with some regularity in the series, and they have to deal with it. It generally works well. But the thing is, usually when something comes up, the other person is there to support the one whose baggage it is, and they get stronger as a couple because of it. It's generally pretty gratifying, honestly.
So a couple books ago, we had the arc with Roarke's mother. He made some mistakes and was shitty in that book, but in a totally understandable way because he was dealing with something that really kicked his legs out from under him. Eve supporting him through that was lovely, but it was Roarke who was hurting - it was his past, his trauma, and so the action (and Eve's actions) were about what Roarke needed. Her needs were secondary.
In this book, it is Eve's past that rears up. Now, I'm going to be frank here and say that while Roarke definitely had some horrible childhood experiences, Eve had it way worse. Roarke had friends who became family, and Summerset who became a father to him. Eve was alone, unloved, and wasn't just smacked around by an abusive parent, she was horribly and hideously violated repeatedly. It is frankly impressive she didn't become a sociopath. But anyway, Roarke pissed me right the fuck off in this book because he made it all about him. This is Eve's past, her trauma, horrible shit that he quite frankly can't even imagine. And he just heaped on her, because he decided that the most important thing is how HE feels about it, what HE feels has to happen.
He can fuck right off with that, frankly.
For sexual assault survivors - I say this frankly AS a sexual assault survivor - respecting the agency of the victim/survivor is paramount. EVE gets to choose what happens in regards to what was done to her. EVE gets to decide what she needs. Roarke pulling this shit just robbed her of the support and love that she had finally found, and left her to deal with all her trauma alone while he was off in Selfish Asshole Land because somehow he is the biggest victim of HER trauma?
Nope. Just a hard hell no.
The only reason this book didn't end up at one star is because Roarke finally pulled his goddamn head out of his ass and decided to support the actual victim and give her what she needs to move forward, putting his own emotional response to it as secondary. As it absolutely should be. But up until then, I wanted to punch him right in the junk for being such an asshole to her. Leaving her utterly alone, yet again, with her trauma because Mr. Big Man feels like him feeling some kind of way about it is way more important than her actual experience.
If Eve had done the same in the books about Roarke's trauma, all the Roarke fangirls out there in review-land would have burned her in effigy. But no. Eve is used to - too used to - putting her own needs in second (or third, or last) place... so much so that in books after the Roarke mother book, Eve refrained from even mentioning her own memories of her mother to Roarke for fear it would hurt him by making him think more of his own mother. Roarke is honestly NEVER that careful with Eve.