Today’s men have become more lazy, more toxic, and more effeminate than ever. They sit up online complaining and bullying women about their appearance, social media accounts, and standards, like insecure, bitter high school girls. In first world countries, it can feel like real masculine, high-value men are hard to find nowadays. This, of course, does not apply to all men, but a hit dog will holler. This book uses 30 solid reasons to justify why women need to level up their standards, expectations and boundaries unless they want to be used and discarded. These days we are choosing not to deal with men who lack emotional intelligence, generosity, protectiveness, or care. We want men whose aspirations are greater than getting laid. Women have it hard enough. We must hold down jobs to take care of ourselves despite job and pay inequalities, and in relationships studies show we carry out most unpaid physical labor, emotional labor, and caregiving. And, some men are upset that doing less than the bare minimum isn’t acceptable anymore. They're mad they must put in real work (not PUA tactics and exercise) to improve themselves. Nowadays it feels like dating is dead and hookup culture has taken over. This culture mostly benefits men, as they enjoy shallow, fleeting encounters over authentic connections. It’s not that women have no interest in men, they have no interest in the shallow way men approach them for situationships, entanglements and hookups. The construct of marriage was never about love but maintaining wealth, power and property between families. Marrying only for love has been sold to women as wonderful and progressive. Sadly men are extremely fickle with their love. They love you with all their heart today and despise you tomorrow. They get bored with women easily because they don’t form real bonds, so they never get to know women as people. This is why many refuse to provide and protect, and how it’s so easy for them to use women. Women are ego boosts, nothing more. Some self-proclaimed “dating coaches” teach men toxic narratives that only divide people further. Ever wondered how your father could heartlessly leave your mom to struggle raising you alone, as he began life anew with his dream girl? Or why the boyfriend you “held down” was so cold and ungrateful afterward? Isn't it interesting how men know how to treat each other well but not you? They know better. They just don’t like or respect women much. Men aren’t as reliable or devoted as the fairy tales of our youth portrayed. This book teaches women how to protect themselves during and after relationships. Women possess the portal to enter this world. So we are tasked with the huge choice of which men should pass on their genes and continue their lineage. It’s crucial that we choose good partners. Good people who will lead to a better world for us all. This book uses real life examples, verifiable statistics and studies to prove how it does not benefit women to listen to those who demand they lower their standards or go 50/50. Ex. Men propose to women yet will complain that they “feel trapped” in marriages. In reality, women get the short end of the stick in marriage. Married men live longer, earn more, are healthier, and get a free personal chef, cleaner and caregiver. For women, it’s the exact opposite. This book is for those who refuse to settle. No one tells men to settle. You will learn how men truly think so you can mitigate the risks of dating them and reap tangible benefits like men do! This book was created to help you date smarter, more successfully, safer and happier If you have been through countless relationships that have left you broke, traumatized and terrorized, consider giving this book a read. And pass it on to any struggling women in your life too. Add this book to cart today.
After being a widow for four years, I ve experiencing living by myself for the first time. It has been so insightful and healing. Reading this book is a refreshing reminder to never lower your standards and only engaging in soul level relationships. Man is an option.
I initially heard of this book from a YouTube video & it piqued my interest. When I finally got it, I glimpsed through & thought it was your typical dating book. Although there were some "typical" things in here & maybe even some "common sense" things you would already/should know, there were some enlightening things I could learn from. As a woman in her 40's who's been through some dusty's myself, it all makes sense especially with how popular these "Red Pill" podcasts have become. I recommend this book to to any woman young & mature to remind yourself that we are & will always be the "Prize" and to not settle for our male counterparts no matter how much they threaten us because at the end of the day, it is all just projection.
No lies detected. #30 was my favorite. The line “Even bugs understand… if he brings nothing to the table, he will place himself on the table.” That made me actually laugh out loud. Several parts of the book made me chuckle if not agree out loud. Great book, a quick read. Solid listicle that’s digestible and true. Men have no excuse to be lazy and financially supported by their partner in this patriarchy we all live inside.
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She tells it like it is in a way that is easily understood and relatable. Every single woman in the dating world should read this! It’s helpful and entertaining; insightful and very educational!
When I decided to read the book I was hoping to learn something new, but 80% of the book has content that is very similar from the Female strategy handbook and their Reddit posts that you can access for free.
And all the reasons from 1 to 30 seemed similar from the Queen maker podcast.
Like the Dusty, the pickme, and how building a man is setting you up for disaster.
The female dating strategy posts explain how male birds are better and friendlier than the human male to their mate, and also mentions that the Bees get rid of the drones because they do nothing all day while the human female puts up with their crap for the sake of not being alone.
All women should read this. The chapters may seem repetitive but there are pointed nuggets of wisdom in each one. Even if you don't agree with every single chapter, the overall sentiment should resonate with any woman wanting to understand her worth.
Informative, but as a seasoned woman, I've learned in my younger years that I'm awesome and I value my time. This book is for a younger audience and I agree with some of it.