I loved this book, I came out of it with an entirely new appreciation for the animals I love so much. I've been skeptical and entirely uneducated about the idea of using horses in human psychotherapy. There's an attitude in the professional equestrian world that horses are a lot of stress, work, money, and I've noticed a lack of sentimentality despite the deep reaching passion. It's true on a certain level that you have to be tough and thick skinned to work with and love these animals. Farm life is demanding, dangerous, and not for the faint of heart.
This book isn't just about the animals but our relationship to them. Turns out theres many ways to learn from their sensitivity to other members of their herd, the nuances of "pecking order", the astounding ability to pick up on human emotional incongruence, their prey physically that makes their perception of the world way sharper than ours, their epigenetic trauma as a working species before the industrial revolution, the relationship between our post industrial revolution which rapidly became female dominated after their utility ceased, and what that says about our coniscinding natures. Their mythological and literal representations of freedom and power.
A lot of history, philosophy, mythology, cultural, religious and spiritual wisdom packed in here. She prefaces the book with the disclaimer that she knows the stories from her practice will sound woo-woo to many in the traditional worlds of showing and racing, and it would likely discredit her in the eyes of many who have been taught they must rule their animals rather than collaborate with them. She includes anticdotal stories from a huge number of professionals in similar fields-the patterns in the stories are wild, sometimes hard to believe, but what can I say, I believe them. Dreams, intuition, visions, and synchronicity have proven very real to me in the last few years.
She says something a long the lines of, IQ tests are biased towards Europeans as the interpretations of intelligence in the animal world are biased to carnivores. Horses live in yin energy, and there's a reason so many women are drawn to them and heal from their presence, mirroring, and messages. This book brought up so many feelings about an old halflinger pony I adored as a kid and gave me a new perspective on our relationship. Really beautiful.