I bought this book as a good example of a mother's fight for services. Holy hell is it.
Ann's sixth biological child, Becca, was born with a severe case of Noonan's Syndrome that gave her no life expectancy. Ann ended up being her daughter's primary nurse and an advocate for Becca's healthcare. She learned when to stand her ground and when to humor the doctors with god complexes. She also learned to listen to what Becca's body was saying (ex: Becca refused to swallow anything for years...it turned out that with her flabby throat muscles, it could have easily aspirated into her lungs and killed her).
Then, to give back for all the miracles they'd received during the years they struggled with Becca's medical issues, they tried to adopt six children.
The littlest boy turned out to be a sexual perpertrator and was removed from the home before the adoption was finalized.
The oldest daughter was later diagnosed with bipolar disorder, RAD, and FASD. She pushed Ann down the stairs, breaking her arm in multiple places and permanently damaging the nerves in her neck. It was a fall that easily could have been fatal. Suddenly, Ann was faced with another huge fight--to get Ann non-existent mental health services without disrupting the adoption (which would put her and her husband at risk for having ALL their children removed from the home...a move which would result in Becca's death because bureacracy would not be able to maintain the level of care Ann provided).
Ann was shocked to discover that while there are medical resources in place if you just know where to look for them, mental health resources are non-exsistent and violent but still salvagable children are pushed back on the parents at every turn.
Ann's story is all too common, from what I've read, ad it PISSES ME OFF.
One small note: the editor seems to have falle asleep in the last two sections of te book--the typos are rampant.