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288 pages, Hardcover
First published January 29, 2013
Can you feel me physically cringing away from this book?![]()
Big hair, big tits, big trouble, but the one you come home to is...not screaming for attention because she knows she's good enough...
Good food makes me want to hit a punching bag like, Dat's right motherfucker. You done did it there.And there were moments where I kind of laughingly rolled my eyes at him (there were moments that he was full of himself, but in kind of a funny way).
People ask me what my greatest strengths are and I say perspective.But ultimately, this book was NOT for me...and if I had to say why...it is the ego thing.
He didn’t understand that I didn’t hate white people. I hated whiteness.He felt like a very mean person, the kind of makes "jokes" cause they like taking digs at you and if you get offended, they throw up their hands and say you are too sensitive.
If you like our food, great, but don’t come tell me you’re gonna clean it up, refine it, or elevate it because it’s not necessary or possible. We don’t need fucking food missionaries to cleanse our palates.This rant (carried throughout the book) became stale after the second joke.
Somehow, food has become a social equalizer.but spends so much of the book ragging on people who try to cook "his" food.
What they didn’t understand is that after you have the money and degrees, you can’t buy your identity back. I wasn’t worried about degrees, but I cared about my roots.In the grand scheme of things, if someone tries one of your recipes and then changes it a bit - it shows that they are interested and learning. Food and culture is something to be celebrated - not hoarded and penalized.
To this day, I wake up at times, look in the mirror, and just stare, obsessed with the idea that the person I am in my head is something entirely different than what everyone else sees. That the way I look will prevent me from doing the things I want; that there really are sneetches with stars and I’m not one of them. I touch my face, I feel my skin, I check my color every day, and I swear it all feels right. But then someone says something and that sense of security and identity is gone before I know it.Overflowing with slang and pop culture references, Fresh Off the Boat is not the easiest read. But the author’s voice is unique and authentic, and his journey from troubled youth to restaurant owner is extremely unusual and interesting. Recommended, especially for anyone who is struggling with the feeling that they have not figured out ‘what they want to be when they grow up.’