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Extended Massive Orgasm, Updated and Illustrated: How you can give and receive intense sexual pleasure
Hunter House has a new year's resolution you can stick better sex!
Published just in time for the new year, the second edition of Extended Massive Orgasm offers even more in-depth information on how to achieve great sexual pleasure, so that your goals for 2013 can
1. Longer and more intense orgasms
2. More pleasure
3. A deepened relationship
The authors of this book reveal techniques that everyone can use to give and receive extended massive orgasms. Readers will learn how to produce an extended orgasm manually, with fingers and hands touching the genitals in a precise way. With a strong focus on how to pleasure a woman, the authors also discuss pleasing men. They describe how satisfying your partner in this way is an ecstatic experience for both parties and can enhance your relationship.
New updates in this edition
new techniques for focusing on pleasure
14 new diagrams and drawings for understanding techniques
new stroking techniques for the clitoris
expanded section on the male orgasm
expanded section on communication and relationships
Additionally, the authors have re-written some of the original material, with insights gained from the decade of teaching sexual ecstasy that has passed since the first edition was published. Rewritten parts
Positions for optimum orgasm
Detailed training techniques
The nature of orgasm and the capabilities of the human nervous system
The difference between sensuality and sexuality
Safe sex practices
Overcoming resistance to pleasure
Understanding how both partners benefit from extended massive orgasm
Filled with specific techniques, methods, ideas, and scientific and anatomical information phrased in an accessible and readable style, this book explores the nature of pleasure and why it is so difficult to achieve in our society. The authors discuss the differences and similarities between the sexes and how to exploit those to achieve a fantastic relationship. They also include information on how to seduce your partner, how to explore your own sexuality through learning how you enjoy being touched, and how to communicate your desires to your partner clearly and joyfully.
The benefits to both partners of an extended massive orgasm are immeasurable. Women who thought they were unable to experience orgasm at all have learned to become fully orgasmic through the techniques in this book. These women experienced such pleasurable intensity and sensation in their bodies for an extended time period that the preconceptions and limitations they had placed on themselves and their sexual potential were totally vanquished.
And this is available to anyone who reads the book and applies and practices the methods described in Extended Massive Orgasm .
Published just in time for the new year, the second edition of Extended Massive Orgasm offers even more in-depth information on how to achieve great sexual pleasure, so that your goals for 2013 can
1. Longer and more intense orgasms
2. More pleasure
3. A deepened relationship
The authors of this book reveal techniques that everyone can use to give and receive extended massive orgasms. Readers will learn how to produce an extended orgasm manually, with fingers and hands touching the genitals in a precise way. With a strong focus on how to pleasure a woman, the authors also discuss pleasing men. They describe how satisfying your partner in this way is an ecstatic experience for both parties and can enhance your relationship.
New updates in this edition
new techniques for focusing on pleasure
14 new diagrams and drawings for understanding techniques
new stroking techniques for the clitoris
expanded section on the male orgasm
expanded section on communication and relationships
Additionally, the authors have re-written some of the original material, with insights gained from the decade of teaching sexual ecstasy that has passed since the first edition was published. Rewritten parts
Positions for optimum orgasm
Detailed training techniques
The nature of orgasm and the capabilities of the human nervous system
The difference between sensuality and sexuality
Safe sex practices
Overcoming resistance to pleasure
Understanding how both partners benefit from extended massive orgasm
Filled with specific techniques, methods, ideas, and scientific and anatomical information phrased in an accessible and readable style, this book explores the nature of pleasure and why it is so difficult to achieve in our society. The authors discuss the differences and similarities between the sexes and how to exploit those to achieve a fantastic relationship. They also include information on how to seduce your partner, how to explore your own sexuality through learning how you enjoy being touched, and how to communicate your desires to your partner clearly and joyfully.
The benefits to both partners of an extended massive orgasm are immeasurable. Women who thought they were unable to experience orgasm at all have learned to become fully orgasmic through the techniques in this book. These women experienced such pleasurable intensity and sensation in their bodies for an extended time period that the preconceptions and limitations they had placed on themselves and their sexual potential were totally vanquished.
And this is available to anyone who reads the book and applies and practices the methods described in Extended Massive Orgasm .
240 pages, Paperback
First published November 7, 2000
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About the author
Steve Bodansky
31 books10 followersMy wife Vera and myself started teaching folks about pleasure and orgasm since the early 1980s. we were students together at More U and started teaching there. After receiving our doctorates in sensuality with an emphasis on female orgasm we branched out and formed our own group. We wrote our first book called extended massive orgasm in 2000 and have written 5non-fiction books and recently published our first novel also about sex called extended massive orgasm the novel. I guess I'm addicted to that title which is also the name of our website www.extendedmassiveorgasm.com
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September 15, 2009
okay- now i'm putting it all out there.
this is a book that teaches women and men about a woman's orgasm. It taught me so much about my body and receiving pleasure. we women are so good at giving but we need to learn to receive- in ALL parts of our life. This is a microcosm for that. enjoy.
this is a book that teaches women and men about a woman's orgasm. It taught me so much about my body and receiving pleasure. we women are so good at giving but we need to learn to receive- in ALL parts of our life. This is a microcosm for that. enjoy.
January 27, 2019
10/10. Best book I have read to make sexual life even more pleasurable for yourself and your partner.
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September 14, 2020Don’t let the title scare you. This book is the second edition. We added a few more drawings and updated a few pages. The information is easily usable for the beginner and also informative if you think that you know everything already. It gives you vital exercises that you can do for self pleasuring and how to train your partner. It is written in the form of an orgasm, in such that the information included starts off at a low energy and slowly evolves to a higher frequency and then brings you down again. Enjoy the ride, it can change your life to one of way more pleasure. Steve
May 24, 2010
a must read for every woman on the planet
May 23, 2023
This book just didn't work for me... The information feels dated... More for people who have not begun the journey of self-discovery and prioritising their own pleasure. Lots of waffling-on, could tell the author is a philosopher... Felt like it was written for the repressed - people with religious and conservative upbringings and social circles. So I liked that it encourages women to seek out and prioritize their pleasure. Also the emphasis on good and open communication.
Just a heads-up the title is a misnomer - it's extended pleasure/foreplay, not orgasm.
The techniques suggested for clitoral stimimation made me cringe, I've spent my entire sex life trying to discourage direct, abrasive stimulation of my clit... Soft and indirect works better, like SOOO many other women. This book insinuates that this is the best, nay the only way to have the most amazing orgasm... Sadly all I could think was Argh my clit goes numb with over-stimulation, this is a big no from me...
Then in the masterbation section it opens with the insinuation that your orgasms can only be "best" with your partner, not inpendantly... Such crap, the best orgasms I've experienced have been self-induced and they've been frikkin fabulous!
There was also a flippant, gross generalization that vibrators cause your clit to go numb. No reference to where this dodgy assumption came from, felt like gaslighting. If you use a vibrator then good for you, you've found what works. I love my vibrator and it certainly doesn't cause numbness the way I use it. Instead they could have addressed ways to use a vibrator that pleasures women or for use in couple play... Or better yet - deferred to a reputable source if the topic is unknown to them... Don't just assume.
To people who are no longer "new" to seeking pleasure for themselves but are still seeking learning - I recommend OMGyes website. It is much more focused on women with all their nuances and with a modern, inclusive mindset. No talking at you and trying to niggle away at your self-reliance and confidence.
Just a heads-up the title is a misnomer - it's extended pleasure/foreplay, not orgasm.
The techniques suggested for clitoral stimimation made me cringe, I've spent my entire sex life trying to discourage direct, abrasive stimulation of my clit... Soft and indirect works better, like SOOO many other women. This book insinuates that this is the best, nay the only way to have the most amazing orgasm... Sadly all I could think was Argh my clit goes numb with over-stimulation, this is a big no from me...
Then in the masterbation section it opens with the insinuation that your orgasms can only be "best" with your partner, not inpendantly... Such crap, the best orgasms I've experienced have been self-induced and they've been frikkin fabulous!
There was also a flippant, gross generalization that vibrators cause your clit to go numb. No reference to where this dodgy assumption came from, felt like gaslighting. If you use a vibrator then good for you, you've found what works. I love my vibrator and it certainly doesn't cause numbness the way I use it. Instead they could have addressed ways to use a vibrator that pleasures women or for use in couple play... Or better yet - deferred to a reputable source if the topic is unknown to them... Don't just assume.
To people who are no longer "new" to seeking pleasure for themselves but are still seeking learning - I recommend OMGyes website. It is much more focused on women with all their nuances and with a modern, inclusive mindset. No talking at you and trying to niggle away at your self-reliance and confidence.
April 20, 2021
Dit boek heb ik gevonden door Regena Thomashauer, die van de mama Gena-boeken. Zij is docente geworden en leert dus koppels hoe zij een E.M.O kunnen beleven. Ook leuk werk! Zo veel te doen en zo weinig tijd ;-) Wat ik zo mooi vind aan het boek is dat het orgasme volgens Steve en Vera al begint bij de allereerste aanraking. Als je die leert ervaren alsof je nooit eerder zo bent aangeraakt en als de volgende aanrakingen telkens weer een beetje anders zijn en dat er dan steeds verder gegaan wordt en dan en dan.... Maar wat ik minder aan dit boek vind is dat het heeeeel moeilijk is om samen met je partner en dit boek in zijn hand in bed te liggen/zitten en dat hij jou dan zo'n orgasme moet gaan bezorgen. Dat werkt gewoon niet. En zonder boek mis je echt iemand die instructies geeft. En om nou iemand erbij uit te nodigen.. ;-)
April 24, 2023
great!!
I agree with the ending of this books read it for yourself and see where you are in life with your sensuality. At the end of the book you can have your own conclusion about: a life of fun?! Or a life of boredom?!
Your choice .
I agree with the ending of this books read it for yourself and see where you are in life with your sensuality. At the end of the book you can have your own conclusion about: a life of fun?! Or a life of boredom?!
Your choice .
July 12, 2019
Great information. There's a second edition of this book, but of the 3 the best "version" is the illustrated guide. Definitely worth a read through.
October 3, 2019
Great book a lot of teaching
January 9, 2022
Must read, but they def need to flush out certain concepts more for beginners.
September 20, 2025
A must-read for couples who want to deepen their bond. It’s not just about orgasms, but about understanding your partner and creating closeness. Practical, empowering, and surprisingly tender
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August 4, 2015i want to iprove my ability
June 27, 2016
Mostly for men to read.
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July 17, 2019
Good information, but get/read the illustrated guide instead. This 2nd edition says it's illustrated now, but it's really not.
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