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For Men Like Us
After his lover dies trying to lend him aid at Salamanca, hopelessness becomes Preston Meacham's only way of life. Despite his best efforts and with no pride left, he sells himself for a pittance at a molly house, the mindless sex giving him his only respite from the horrors he witnessed.
The Napoleonic War left Benedict Wilmot haunted by the horrific acts he's forced to commit, as well as torture at the hands of a homophobic superior. As the battle rages around him, a weak and beaten Ben is ordered to kill a fellow redcoat, else face a ghastly death himself. Even in his dreams, he can't escape the memory of the man he killed.
When their paths cross, Ben feels an overwhelming need to protect Preston from his dangerous profession, because, as he explains, "The streets are dangerous for men like us."
The Napoleonic War left Benedict Wilmot haunted by the horrific acts he's forced to commit, as well as torture at the hands of a homophobic superior. As the battle rages around him, a weak and beaten Ben is ordered to kill a fellow redcoat, else face a ghastly death himself. Even in his dreams, he can't escape the memory of the man he killed.
When their paths cross, Ben feels an overwhelming need to protect Preston from his dangerous profession, because, as he explains, "The streets are dangerous for men like us."
186 pages, ebook
First published September 11, 2012
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About the author
Brita Addams
32 books147 followersPrompted by her love of history, writer of historical fiction and historical romance, Brita Addams has tromped around old cemeteries and dusty town hall basements for over twenty years as a non-professional genealogist. She’s uncovered some juicy stories about her ancestors that may or may not have already found their way into her writing. For several years, she lectured on genealogy aboard cruise ships, as part of their Enrichment Programs.
Having grown up in blustery Upstate New York, Brita has lived in the sultry South for many years. She has a loving, supportive family, including her native New Orleanian husband, who makes killer gumbo and potato salad. After years in the Big Easy, she and her husband moved to the Frog Capital of the World (yes, that’s a thing,) to be closer to two of their three grown children.
For more information about Brita Addams, please visit her website: www.britaaddams.net or follow her on Facebook, Pinterest, or Goodreads.
A bit of trivia—Brita pronounces her name, Bree-ta, and not Brit-a, like the famous water filter.
Having grown up in blustery Upstate New York, Brita has lived in the sultry South for many years. She has a loving, supportive family, including her native New Orleanian husband, who makes killer gumbo and potato salad. After years in the Big Easy, she and her husband moved to the Frog Capital of the World (yes, that’s a thing,) to be closer to two of their three grown children.
For more information about Brita Addams, please visit her website: www.britaaddams.net or follow her on Facebook, Pinterest, or Goodreads.
A bit of trivia—Brita pronounces her name, Bree-ta, and not Brit-a, like the famous water filter.
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July 7, 2013
I will start off by saying that I often have issues with historical romance and that is why I don't read much of it. If you like historical romance, you might enjoy this one a bit more than I did. This book was a solid 3 star read for me, which means that I liked it but I had some issues with it which kept my rating from creeping any higher.
I actually was really excited about this book in the beginning. I went into it not knowing at all what to expect (like I usually do!). Now, reading the blurb, I can see that this book clearly states it is a rent boy story, but really, it is much more than that. I won't go into plot summary but "For Men Like Us" deals heavily with the brutal ways that gay men were treated in the 1800s.
What did I like about this one? I think that Brita Addams really got the atmosphere of the time period down pat. It felt authentic. I also thought that the first sex scene was surprisingly hot. It was kinky and totally unexpected. I could tell that the author is a talented writer, and I liked the way that she thoughtfully crafted her characters.
The bad? First of all, I have issues with the speech in historical romances. The way that the characters talk really pulls me emotionally out of a scene (which is why I don't read many of them!). I just have trouble feeling connected to the characters when they talk all old-fashioned-like! I also think that the pacing was a bit off. The plot really draaaagged in the second half. I knew exactly how everything was going to play out and the broody moody mumbo jumbo just felt tedious to me.
Lastly, and this might not bother everyone, but I personally don't find kinkiness to be a character flaw or something to be overcome. Hence, I didn't like .
Overall, I liked this one but I won't be revisiting it. I will be looking into more books by this author, though, because I think that I might connect more to another one of her books.
I actually was really excited about this book in the beginning. I went into it not knowing at all what to expect (like I usually do!). Now, reading the blurb, I can see that this book clearly states it is a rent boy story, but really, it is much more than that. I won't go into plot summary but "For Men Like Us" deals heavily with the brutal ways that gay men were treated in the 1800s.
What did I like about this one? I think that Brita Addams really got the atmosphere of the time period down pat. It felt authentic. I also thought that the first sex scene was surprisingly hot. It was kinky and totally unexpected. I could tell that the author is a talented writer, and I liked the way that she thoughtfully crafted her characters.
The bad? First of all, I have issues with the speech in historical romances. The way that the characters talk really pulls me emotionally out of a scene (which is why I don't read many of them!). I just have trouble feeling connected to the characters when they talk all old-fashioned-like! I also think that the pacing was a bit off. The plot really draaaagged in the second half. I knew exactly how everything was going to play out and the broody moody mumbo jumbo just felt tedious to me.
Lastly, and this might not bother everyone, but I personally don't find kinkiness to be a character flaw or something to be overcome. Hence, I didn't like .
Overall, I liked this one but I won't be revisiting it. I will be looking into more books by this author, though, because I think that I might connect more to another one of her books.
September 17, 2012
Review posted at The Armchair Reader.
4.5 stars
This is the first historical that I've read in a while. I find that they aren't usually my favorites and no matter how, looking back, I may have enjoyed them I always find it an uphill battle to become interested in one. I usually quit not too far into the story simply from lack of interest. That didn't happen here, and it was for one reason only. The usual reason is heat -- if the story is excessively smutty I can usually get into it, lol. This story has very little sex and then that is rarely explicit. Instead the mysterious secrets kept by Benedict Wilmot and his search into the life of Preston Meacham was what kept me interested. It might stand to reason that if I read more historical fiction that I might find this story unoriginal, I don't know. However, because I don't often read it, I found this story to be a new one to me and completely engaging and exceedingly well written. How I have several books by this author but had yet to read one I have no idea. I will be rectifying that mistake very, very soon.
After mistaking his employers actions as advances, Preston is thrown out in fear of his life and left only to retreat with his earlier heartbreak and scars from the war and battle at Salamanca at a molly house. There, he escapes into his desires and memories of his fallen lover and comrade in the daily sale of his body. Benedict Wilmot has secrets of his own, ones that have broken him down into a scarred man with only his pride and conscience to drive him. That absolution lies in with Preston Meacham, who is unaware that his knowledge of his own history is incomplete. Seeking to protect and care for the man he inadvertently wronged, Ben finds his way to the molly house to make Preston's acquaintance, only to start a relationship with him that quickly moves past client and whore and towards lovers. Ben's obsession, however, with the appeasement of the guilt he's shouldered can lead only to the destruction of everything Preston has ever known about himself and their newfound relationship.
The strength of this story lies with the deliverance of information to the reader along with the pace. The story is perfectly timed in doing both and in it's resolution. I most often find that authors might not give timing and pace the same concern as plot, but then the latter cannot be successful without the former. I was happy to see that this author, who I had formerly not read, worked with this. I think part of it comes from the plot, yes, but also the inherent structure of a historical novella. While I would not call this a exploration of the Victorian novel, it does retain some reminiscent form, through the rigid and well placed structure of plot, timing and pacing.
I mistakenly went into this story expecting a BDSM relationship. While there is some level of kink, it isn't fundamental to the relationship in the way that most would expect. Without explaining why, as that is an inherent part of the secrets Ben holds, I think that readers who are looking for historical BDSM should be cautioned that they won't find it here. Not only in how it relates to the story and characters, but also in the fact that there's very little of it and what is part of the story is extremely small and unexplored.
This is definitely a story that I would recommend and I'm excited to read more of this author's work. I was pleasantly surprised with the level of writing and I thoroughly enjoyed the story.
4.5 stars
This is the first historical that I've read in a while. I find that they aren't usually my favorites and no matter how, looking back, I may have enjoyed them I always find it an uphill battle to become interested in one. I usually quit not too far into the story simply from lack of interest. That didn't happen here, and it was for one reason only. The usual reason is heat -- if the story is excessively smutty I can usually get into it, lol. This story has very little sex and then that is rarely explicit. Instead the mysterious secrets kept by Benedict Wilmot and his search into the life of Preston Meacham was what kept me interested. It might stand to reason that if I read more historical fiction that I might find this story unoriginal, I don't know. However, because I don't often read it, I found this story to be a new one to me and completely engaging and exceedingly well written. How I have several books by this author but had yet to read one I have no idea. I will be rectifying that mistake very, very soon.
After mistaking his employers actions as advances, Preston is thrown out in fear of his life and left only to retreat with his earlier heartbreak and scars from the war and battle at Salamanca at a molly house. There, he escapes into his desires and memories of his fallen lover and comrade in the daily sale of his body. Benedict Wilmot has secrets of his own, ones that have broken him down into a scarred man with only his pride and conscience to drive him. That absolution lies in with Preston Meacham, who is unaware that his knowledge of his own history is incomplete. Seeking to protect and care for the man he inadvertently wronged, Ben finds his way to the molly house to make Preston's acquaintance, only to start a relationship with him that quickly moves past client and whore and towards lovers. Ben's obsession, however, with the appeasement of the guilt he's shouldered can lead only to the destruction of everything Preston has ever known about himself and their newfound relationship.
The strength of this story lies with the deliverance of information to the reader along with the pace. The story is perfectly timed in doing both and in it's resolution. I most often find that authors might not give timing and pace the same concern as plot, but then the latter cannot be successful without the former. I was happy to see that this author, who I had formerly not read, worked with this. I think part of it comes from the plot, yes, but also the inherent structure of a historical novella. While I would not call this a exploration of the Victorian novel, it does retain some reminiscent form, through the rigid and well placed structure of plot, timing and pacing.
I mistakenly went into this story expecting a BDSM relationship. While there is some level of kink, it isn't fundamental to the relationship in the way that most would expect. Without explaining why, as that is an inherent part of the secrets Ben holds, I think that readers who are looking for historical BDSM should be cautioned that they won't find it here. Not only in how it relates to the story and characters, but also in the fact that there's very little of it and what is part of the story is extremely small and unexplored.
This is definitely a story that I would recommend and I'm excited to read more of this author's work. I was pleasantly surprised with the level of writing and I thoroughly enjoyed the story.
March 23, 2013
3.5 stars – A good regency era romance about two veterans from the 1812 Battle of Salamanca who meet in London three years after the war--young Preston who has fallen on hard times and sells himself, and Ben, a privileged estate owner who is wracked by guilt about what happened on the battlefield.
What I liked: At first, the set-up seemed very similar to another m/m regency romance The Gentleman and the Rogue, when a rentboy is taken in by a tortured, moody lord, but soon went into new directions. The horrors of the war that haunted both MCs definitely added weight to their stories, and both characters were very sympathetic as they tried to survive in a time where homosexuality was a crime, and things like trauma and PTSD weren't treated or recognized.
The darkness of their memories, and the heavy guilt over the secrets that Ben harbors definitely makes this less of a “regency romp.” The sexy times that pop up are sweet, desperate, and often hold the lingering darkness of their pasts. (For instance, Ben enjoys being flogged. For those who dislike BDSM elements, this is not a BDSM read. It only pops up occasionally, and honestly, I wouldn’t seek this one out if you’re a big BDSM fan.
I did appreciate how the sexy times were a good representation that this wasn’t just Top!Lord and Bottom!Rentboy though. Things shake up pretty early on, and this is a nicely versatile read. I also liked how Preston took on his role of occasionally mastering Ben, and one night, when Ben is hoping for a paddling, Preston decides that true torture would be some impromptu orgasm denial and just says, “Boy, I’m so tired! Time for bed!” And goes to sleep, to the great shock of hopeful, lusting Ben. I totally laughed at that moment.
What was harder for me: The story slows down about half-way through and never really regains speed, as the heaviness of secrets weigh things down, and then the inevitable reveal leads to more slowness as people move on to the familiar path of anger and Emo Separation Time. I kind of wish some more tension or excitement might have been peppered into the latter half to keep the pace up.
In the end, it was just an okay read for me, but if you love historicals in the m/m genre, especially in the regency period, this one may hit all your buttons very well indeed.
What I liked: At first, the set-up seemed very similar to another m/m regency romance The Gentleman and the Rogue, when a rentboy is taken in by a tortured, moody lord, but soon went into new directions. The horrors of the war that haunted both MCs definitely added weight to their stories, and both characters were very sympathetic as they tried to survive in a time where homosexuality was a crime, and things like trauma and PTSD weren't treated or recognized.
The darkness of their memories, and the heavy guilt over the secrets that Ben harbors definitely makes this less of a “regency romp.” The sexy times that pop up are sweet, desperate, and often hold the lingering darkness of their pasts. (For instance, Ben enjoys being flogged. For those who dislike BDSM elements, this is not a BDSM read. It only pops up occasionally, and honestly, I wouldn’t seek this one out if you’re a big BDSM fan.
I did appreciate how the sexy times were a good representation that this wasn’t just Top!Lord and Bottom!Rentboy though. Things shake up pretty early on, and this is a nicely versatile read. I also liked how Preston took on his role of occasionally mastering Ben, and one night, when Ben is hoping for a paddling, Preston decides that true torture would be some impromptu orgasm denial and just says, “Boy, I’m so tired! Time for bed!” And goes to sleep, to the great shock of hopeful, lusting Ben. I totally laughed at that moment.
What was harder for me: The story slows down about half-way through and never really regains speed, as the heaviness of secrets weigh things down, and then the inevitable reveal leads to more slowness as people move on to the familiar path of anger and Emo Separation Time. I kind of wish some more tension or excitement might have been peppered into the latter half to keep the pace up.
In the end, it was just an okay read for me, but if you love historicals in the m/m genre, especially in the regency period, this one may hit all your buttons very well indeed.
May 13, 2013
This is more like 2.75*
I'm of two minds regarding this book. The author clearly did some very commendable research and even managed to hit the "tone" of the era in a not too obtrusive manner. What facts there were, were indeed correct, and given a little more application this could very easily have been a solid 4-star-read.
However, too much detracted from this to be overlooked.
Quite plainly, there was too much, too unsexy sex. Half of those sex scenes would have been entirely sufficient, and a little more emotion of the participants, instead of a simple recounting of which limbs went where and did what might have infused some eroticism.
Then we have the curious situation that while the author used the homophobia and negative aspects of the era for a contrived conflict, she created a blanket of homo-ok for the characters in their private situation. So many people turned out to be gay that you'd think most of Regency Britain was homosexual. Not just that an aristocrat had an unheard-of friendly and equal relationship with his staff, which did not happen like that, no, a staff of two servants manages a whole country estate, maybe not the exact size of Downton Abbey, but close enough. Just to point this out: the usual staff of a manor of such size ran to several dozens, if not over a hundred!
Contrived conflict--there were real scandals galore at the time, including navy and army hangings of gay men, molly house scandals with pilloring and hanging and what not. But this book instead. As a result the story became rather unbelievable for me, especially as Preston was nearly saintly in his forgivenness. Add to that too many coincidences for comfort and an epilogue which was entirely unneeded and I ended up at less than 3*.
However, I would try another book by the same author.
I'm of two minds regarding this book. The author clearly did some very commendable research and even managed to hit the "tone" of the era in a not too obtrusive manner. What facts there were, were indeed correct, and given a little more application this could very easily have been a solid 4-star-read.
However, too much detracted from this to be overlooked.
Quite plainly, there was too much, too unsexy sex. Half of those sex scenes would have been entirely sufficient, and a little more emotion of the participants, instead of a simple recounting of which limbs went where and did what might have infused some eroticism.
Then we have the curious situation that while the author used the homophobia and negative aspects of the era for a contrived conflict, she created a blanket of homo-ok for the characters in their private situation. So many people turned out to be gay that you'd think most of Regency Britain was homosexual. Not just that an aristocrat had an unheard-of friendly and equal relationship with his staff, which did not happen like that, no, a staff of two servants manages a whole country estate, maybe not the exact size of Downton Abbey, but close enough. Just to point this out: the usual staff of a manor of such size ran to several dozens, if not over a hundred!
Contrived conflict--there were real scandals galore at the time, including navy and army hangings of gay men, molly house scandals with pilloring and hanging and what not. But this book instead. As a result the story became rather unbelievable for me, especially as Preston was nearly saintly in his forgivenness. Add to that too many coincidences for comfort and an epilogue which was entirely unneeded and I ended up at less than 3*.
However, I would try another book by the same author.
September 16, 2012
For Men Like Us by Brita Addams
4 Stars
Reviewed for www.heartsonfirereviews.com
Preston is a lost soul. His lover, Nick, was killed in action two years prior when they were both in battle at Salmanaca during the war. When Preston was injured and lay fallen on the ground. Nick stopped to check on him and was shot in the head, his dead body falling on top of Preston. He was fired from his accounting job when he mistakenly came on to his employer and is currently working in a molly house. Once again, acting on his desire for other men has left him in a terrible predicament. The memories of the horrors of war and the guilt over Nick’s death have caused him to slip back into his heartbreak and despair and the only time he finds respite is during the mindless sex the molly house.
Ben is a tortured soul. His family has all but forgotten about him. After catching him kissing a young man, his father sends young Ben to the military “to make a man out of him.” The abuse and torture he experienced at the hands of his superior officer has left horrendous physical and emotional scars but it is his actions during the battle at Salmanaca that have left him so guilt ridden and miserable that he has no peace. His only option is to seek out the man he has wronged and try to clear his conscience.
Ben seeks out Preston and then, to his surprise, utilizes his services. Sex with Preston allows Ben to find temporary relief from the horrors that plague him and their relationship quickly progresses from client and whore to lovers and companions. Ben does employ Preston as a companion and sex is not part of his duties but Preston genuinely finds comfort in Ben’s arms. Preston and Ben make a very interesting couple as they are both dealing with issues that have literally and figuratively brought them to their knees. The time that Preston spends with Ben helps him to heal the loss that he has suffered but Ben will not let go of his secrets and this drives a wedge between the men. Ben is terrified that his revelations will cost him the man he has come to love.
This was a nicely written book that stays true to the time period and shows the reader just how difficult and dangerous life could be for men who desire other men. I enjoyed this story and I was particularly happy to see both men get the HEA they deserve.
4 Stars
Reviewed for www.heartsonfirereviews.com
Preston is a lost soul. His lover, Nick, was killed in action two years prior when they were both in battle at Salmanaca during the war. When Preston was injured and lay fallen on the ground. Nick stopped to check on him and was shot in the head, his dead body falling on top of Preston. He was fired from his accounting job when he mistakenly came on to his employer and is currently working in a molly house. Once again, acting on his desire for other men has left him in a terrible predicament. The memories of the horrors of war and the guilt over Nick’s death have caused him to slip back into his heartbreak and despair and the only time he finds respite is during the mindless sex the molly house.
Ben is a tortured soul. His family has all but forgotten about him. After catching him kissing a young man, his father sends young Ben to the military “to make a man out of him.” The abuse and torture he experienced at the hands of his superior officer has left horrendous physical and emotional scars but it is his actions during the battle at Salmanaca that have left him so guilt ridden and miserable that he has no peace. His only option is to seek out the man he has wronged and try to clear his conscience.
Ben seeks out Preston and then, to his surprise, utilizes his services. Sex with Preston allows Ben to find temporary relief from the horrors that plague him and their relationship quickly progresses from client and whore to lovers and companions. Ben does employ Preston as a companion and sex is not part of his duties but Preston genuinely finds comfort in Ben’s arms. Preston and Ben make a very interesting couple as they are both dealing with issues that have literally and figuratively brought them to their knees. The time that Preston spends with Ben helps him to heal the loss that he has suffered but Ben will not let go of his secrets and this drives a wedge between the men. Ben is terrified that his revelations will cost him the man he has come to love.
This was a nicely written book that stays true to the time period and shows the reader just how difficult and dangerous life could be for men who desire other men. I enjoyed this story and I was particularly happy to see both men get the HEA they deserve.
March 20, 2013
This book didn't really click for me. I like Ava March's books so I was surprised to not enjoy this book more. I think the issues for me were the darkness of the book. It was so grim...the setting...the lives of gay men in those times...the war...the brutality of the bullying...even the love that the two MC's eventually have isn't enough to lighten the tone of the book. My other 'problem' with the book was the archaic language used...although probably more historically accurate, I found it kept me at arms length which didn't endear me to the story either. I have to admit that if I weren't reading this book for a challenge, I'd have probably DNF-ed it. Not my kind of book but not a bad book in & of itself.
December 13, 2012
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Another wonderful book from Brita Addams. This time a M/M historical, which I believe will appeal to those who don't ordinarily read historical M/M books.
Great storyline, flowed well, engaging characters, good ratio of sex to plot and character development. I had to see what would happen to the two MC's, and I never felt the book dragged at any stage.
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Another wonderful book from Brita Addams. This time a M/M historical, which I believe will appeal to those who don't ordinarily read historical M/M books.
Great storyline, flowed well, engaging characters, good ratio of sex to plot and character development. I had to see what would happen to the two MC's, and I never felt the book dragged at any stage.
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March 23, 2013
Another outstanding read from Brita Addams! "For Men Like Us" is a story about what reality may have been like for men of seeking pleasure from another, it's not pretty and at times just plain cruel but it is what is! I truly loved both Preston and Ben, both men are tormented from their pasts and strive to come through to the other end in one piece. I was extremely happy with their ending!
I encourage you to give "For Men Like Us" a try if you enjoy historical M/M reads.....a wonderful story!
I encourage you to give "For Men Like Us" a try if you enjoy historical M/M reads.....a wonderful story!
March 1, 2013
4.5 stars
I can’t imagine what it must be like to crave the affection of a man while living in fear of imprisonment for my desires, or beatings and death. That’s the reality the MCs, are living in. They’ve made it through a war but not without scars, inside and out. War affects men. It makes some men heroes who do things they never knew they could. For some it brings out their savage nature. This is the story of two men whose lives are forever altered because of such evil. Parts of this book weren’t easy to read but I just had to know the entire story.
For Men Like Us spans 1814-1820 in London and is told from the POV of Ben and Preston. Ben is seeking redemption and peace. He has lived through some truly horrible situations but he’s a survivor. Ben has some unfinished business with a man name Preston whom he finds at a whore house in London. He watches him from a distance but what started out as a need to atone quickly turns into an obsession. By accident they meet one night and Ben’s purpose becomes altered. He initially purchases Preston’s company in the idea of finally speaking with man about getting him out of that unsavory situation but once Preston turns on the seduction he can’t resist what the man is offering. Despite Preston’s claim he chose that profession he sees the sadness in the man and desperately wants to help him. Ben needs to save Preston from that life for his own Sanity.
Preston is numb after he watches his partner die in the war. The only thing that seems to break through is sex. After losing his clerk job he turns to a life as a selling his body for money. One night an older gentleman buys his company and he finds he is very attracted to him. He’s handsome and shows him kindness. He also has a kink for being punished, a skill that Preston excels at. When Ben asks for a weekly arrangement Preston agrees immediately and the two become close very quickly. The intimacy that grows with Ben helps Preston finally break free from his haze and realize he can care for someone again and in fact has feelings for Ben. Ben knows he shouldn’t be getting attached to Preston but he can’t help falling in love with him. The secret he keeps will surely drive Preston from him forever. After all, he can’t forgive himself, how could anybody else? Ben’s guilt is at war with his desire to cling to the happiness he’s found with Preston. The guilt and nightmares of his torture become too much to hide from his lover and Ben starts to pull away from Preston. Preston realizes it’s more than insomnia but thinks the reason for the nightmares are hidden those scars that cover Ben’s body. If he could just get Ben to talk to him about what’s wrong he could help but that’s the thing Ben is most of afraid of. He knows the truth will eventually catch up to them and he’ll lose Preston.
I really enjoyed this book. The characters are damaged and flawed but manage to keep living their lives. Neither Ben nor Preston feels worthy of love, which I think makes their love story that much more poignant. Preston’s presence feeds both guilt and happiness in Ben. He’s so conflicted. Preston gets to be happy in the relationship since Ben is holding all the secrets. Of course they can’t stay hidden forever.
I won’t say this book was all gloomy because there were some very sweet moments. For me to like a book the pain has to be worth pleasure and at this book hit that note for me. The sex was hot mainly because you could feel the strong connection between the guys. Overall I was left feeling very good because this is basically a story about what the human spirit can endure. Ben and Preston made it through and found their happiness. <3
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I can’t imagine what it must be like to crave the affection of a man while living in fear of imprisonment for my desires, or beatings and death. That’s the reality the MCs, are living in. They’ve made it through a war but not without scars, inside and out. War affects men. It makes some men heroes who do things they never knew they could. For some it brings out their savage nature. This is the story of two men whose lives are forever altered because of such evil. Parts of this book weren’t easy to read but I just had to know the entire story.
For Men Like Us spans 1814-1820 in London and is told from the POV of Ben and Preston. Ben is seeking redemption and peace. He has lived through some truly horrible situations but he’s a survivor. Ben has some unfinished business with a man name Preston whom he finds at a whore house in London. He watches him from a distance but what started out as a need to atone quickly turns into an obsession. By accident they meet one night and Ben’s purpose becomes altered. He initially purchases Preston’s company in the idea of finally speaking with man about getting him out of that unsavory situation but once Preston turns on the seduction he can’t resist what the man is offering. Despite Preston’s claim he chose that profession he sees the sadness in the man and desperately wants to help him. Ben needs to save Preston from that life for his own Sanity.
Preston is numb after he watches his partner die in the war. The only thing that seems to break through is sex. After losing his clerk job he turns to a life as a selling his body for money. One night an older gentleman buys his company and he finds he is very attracted to him. He’s handsome and shows him kindness. He also has a kink for being punished, a skill that Preston excels at. When Ben asks for a weekly arrangement Preston agrees immediately and the two become close very quickly. The intimacy that grows with Ben helps Preston finally break free from his haze and realize he can care for someone again and in fact has feelings for Ben. Ben knows he shouldn’t be getting attached to Preston but he can’t help falling in love with him. The secret he keeps will surely drive Preston from him forever. After all, he can’t forgive himself, how could anybody else? Ben’s guilt is at war with his desire to cling to the happiness he’s found with Preston. The guilt and nightmares of his torture become too much to hide from his lover and Ben starts to pull away from Preston. Preston realizes it’s more than insomnia but thinks the reason for the nightmares are hidden those scars that cover Ben’s body. If he could just get Ben to talk to him about what’s wrong he could help but that’s the thing Ben is most of afraid of. He knows the truth will eventually catch up to them and he’ll lose Preston.
I really enjoyed this book. The characters are damaged and flawed but manage to keep living their lives. Neither Ben nor Preston feels worthy of love, which I think makes their love story that much more poignant. Preston’s presence feeds both guilt and happiness in Ben. He’s so conflicted. Preston gets to be happy in the relationship since Ben is holding all the secrets. Of course they can’t stay hidden forever.
I won’t say this book was all gloomy because there were some very sweet moments. For me to like a book the pain has to be worth pleasure and at this book hit that note for me. The sex was hot mainly because you could feel the strong connection between the guys. Overall I was left feeling very good because this is basically a story about what the human spirit can endure. Ben and Preston made it through and found their happiness. <3
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January 22, 2013
- 4.5 -
Reviewed By BlackTulip for Confessions from Romaholics
Personally I've always been a sucker for damaged and tormented souls and if you're not afraid to have your heart trampled on ... Brita Addams definitely knows how to play with your feelings and emotions, she simply plays the game masterfully!
At first sight, you may think that you've already read a similar story but very rapidly you will discover that nothing could be more wrong …
The battle of Salamanca has ended with a complete victory for Wellington, but for our two protagonists, Preston Meacham and Benedict Wilmot who have lost everything ... They emerge both wounded but alive from this total insanity, only as mere shadows of their former selves ... broken, lost and alone with their minds.
Very tragically and irremediably connected by their past, they walk through life like ghosts unable to live it anymore.
Theirs is a long and arduous journey where pride can be a hindrance, courage and patience will be needed and certainties will crumble along the way. In time, comes acceptance, forgiveness and only then, healing is on its way.
The author makes us experience and feel with strong intensity their everyday private hell, different but also very much alike, through Benedict's destructive and exhausting nightmares and Preston's plaguing and haunting memories prevent them from moving forward and keep them in a dark and desolate place.
Ms. Addams has created a very detailed background for Benedict and Preston, which is rare enough for the length of a novella; it adds an extraordinary dimension and depth to the story. The interaction between them, and I don’t mean only the sex scenes, as well as the conflicts, are brilliantly achieved and utterly believable. In this book, the author shows an undeniable strength and skill at describing and translating emotional trauma. The way she cleverly and skillfully drip-feeds us smatterings of information can only be admired. I became addicted with the very first drop!
I love the constant and meticulous description of their state of mind, the way they struggle with their personal demons, their inner desire and physical attraction. Vulnerability, pride and guilt: all these elements combined to create a complex and captivating novella.
The BDSM theme is lightly used and this perfectly suits me because it's not really something I favor that much. My only niggle is that I felt once or twice that the sex scenes weren't always necessary ... even as well written as they are—but of course, it's only my very personal opinion!
This is a poignant tale of love, pain, sacrifice and redemption, harsh and sweet at the same time, beautifully written, realistic and with a fulfilling conclusion. I give For Men Like Us 4 stars but it's more like 4.5!
Reviewed By BlackTulip for Confessions from Romaholics
Personally I've always been a sucker for damaged and tormented souls and if you're not afraid to have your heart trampled on ... Brita Addams definitely knows how to play with your feelings and emotions, she simply plays the game masterfully!
At first sight, you may think that you've already read a similar story but very rapidly you will discover that nothing could be more wrong …
The battle of Salamanca has ended with a complete victory for Wellington, but for our two protagonists, Preston Meacham and Benedict Wilmot who have lost everything ... They emerge both wounded but alive from this total insanity, only as mere shadows of their former selves ... broken, lost and alone with their minds.
Very tragically and irremediably connected by their past, they walk through life like ghosts unable to live it anymore.
Theirs is a long and arduous journey where pride can be a hindrance, courage and patience will be needed and certainties will crumble along the way. In time, comes acceptance, forgiveness and only then, healing is on its way.
The author makes us experience and feel with strong intensity their everyday private hell, different but also very much alike, through Benedict's destructive and exhausting nightmares and Preston's plaguing and haunting memories prevent them from moving forward and keep them in a dark and desolate place.
Ms. Addams has created a very detailed background for Benedict and Preston, which is rare enough for the length of a novella; it adds an extraordinary dimension and depth to the story. The interaction between them, and I don’t mean only the sex scenes, as well as the conflicts, are brilliantly achieved and utterly believable. In this book, the author shows an undeniable strength and skill at describing and translating emotional trauma. The way she cleverly and skillfully drip-feeds us smatterings of information can only be admired. I became addicted with the very first drop!
I love the constant and meticulous description of their state of mind, the way they struggle with their personal demons, their inner desire and physical attraction. Vulnerability, pride and guilt: all these elements combined to create a complex and captivating novella.
The BDSM theme is lightly used and this perfectly suits me because it's not really something I favor that much. My only niggle is that I felt once or twice that the sex scenes weren't always necessary ... even as well written as they are—but of course, it's only my very personal opinion!
This is a poignant tale of love, pain, sacrifice and redemption, harsh and sweet at the same time, beautifully written, realistic and with a fulfilling conclusion. I give For Men Like Us 4 stars but it's more like 4.5!
September 28, 2012
What I liked . . . In the beginning of this story, there are hints of mystery surrounding Preston, a guy who works in a molly house prostituting himself after the Napoleonic War. In particular, the question arises as to why Ben—a well-to-do gentleman—is so intent on looking after him.
This was a neat hook, and one that made me want to read on for answers. Which was good, because the middle part of the story I found the most interesting and exciting. Slowly, we discover more and more of Ben and Preston’s background and how they connect, and it was in this late middle part that I was most engaged in the writing.
What I didn’t like so much . . . Reading the blurb, I expected to read a story rich in history and emotion. While there were both those things in this story, they were, in my opinion, overshadowed by erotica. However, if you love a bit of gratuitous sex and a glimmer of history, this book might just be for you.
Personally, I was after finding and establishing a connection with Preston and Ben and feeling their emotional, romantic story. I never quite got it though, and I’m trying to pinpoint why. The fact they jump into sex right off the bat could be part of the reason, but I think the bigger issue might be I found them falling in love with each other a little too easily.
The second half of the book does get much better though, and certainly helped me overcome a part of this feeling, though it never went away entirely.
All in all, I’d say this is an okay read.
This was a neat hook, and one that made me want to read on for answers. Which was good, because the middle part of the story I found the most interesting and exciting. Slowly, we discover more and more of Ben and Preston’s background and how they connect, and it was in this late middle part that I was most engaged in the writing.
What I didn’t like so much . . . Reading the blurb, I expected to read a story rich in history and emotion. While there were both those things in this story, they were, in my opinion, overshadowed by erotica. However, if you love a bit of gratuitous sex and a glimmer of history, this book might just be for you.
Personally, I was after finding and establishing a connection with Preston and Ben and feeling their emotional, romantic story. I never quite got it though, and I’m trying to pinpoint why. The fact they jump into sex right off the bat could be part of the reason, but I think the bigger issue might be I found them falling in love with each other a little too easily.
The second half of the book does get much better though, and certainly helped me overcome a part of this feeling, though it never went away entirely.
All in all, I’d say this is an okay read.
March 4, 2013
4.5 stars. Emotionally powerful and well written. The characters of Pres and Ben were beautifully drawn, and I entirely empathized with them both. Their inner turmoil and outward affection were presented very believably. I was completely captivated throughout the entire story. I look forward to reading more by the author.
November 29, 2018
I am finding that if the story is well written I enjoy a historical every now and then :)
September 13, 2012
KcLu's review posted on Guilty Pleasures
For Men Like Us is my first book by Brita Addams and I can honestly tell you it will not be my last. It is also one of the first historicals set in England that I have read that dared to go MM and have a bit of BDSM in it.
Preston Meacham’s life hasn’t been the happiest of tales. He was wounded while in the battle at Salamanca two years ago, and during that battle he watched his lover Nick gets shot in the head because he was checking on him. He lives with that guilt, and has lived a life hiding his longings for the touch of another man. He finds himself working as a male hooker, because he made advances on the wrong man after miss reading his signals. But did he really miss read them or did the other man panic??
When offered a large sum of money to go to the home of Ben, he feels in his gut that he will not be in danger with him. Ben submits to Pres, and Pres doesn’t feel like a whore with him. They make arrangements to meet regularly, but before their next planned meeting Ben ends up rescuing Pres not only from a dangerous situation but from that life too. He offers him a job as his companion and valet. He also gives him the option of sharing his bed nightly. As these two get closer there is still a secret that Ben holds back, will the truth tear them apart?
This is a beautiful story of two broken people finding love with each other. Ben makes a place for them and men like them where they can live happily. I loved this glimpse at how this sort of relationship would have been approached back then. I love that it was written to fit the time period, often times these types of books gloss over the fact that times were different back then. No these two men never would have come out as lovers but they still got their HEA. I hope you guys enjoy this one as much as I have! It was a great read!!
For Men Like Us is my first book by Brita Addams and I can honestly tell you it will not be my last. It is also one of the first historicals set in England that I have read that dared to go MM and have a bit of BDSM in it.
Preston Meacham’s life hasn’t been the happiest of tales. He was wounded while in the battle at Salamanca two years ago, and during that battle he watched his lover Nick gets shot in the head because he was checking on him. He lives with that guilt, and has lived a life hiding his longings for the touch of another man. He finds himself working as a male hooker, because he made advances on the wrong man after miss reading his signals. But did he really miss read them or did the other man panic??
When offered a large sum of money to go to the home of Ben, he feels in his gut that he will not be in danger with him. Ben submits to Pres, and Pres doesn’t feel like a whore with him. They make arrangements to meet regularly, but before their next planned meeting Ben ends up rescuing Pres not only from a dangerous situation but from that life too. He offers him a job as his companion and valet. He also gives him the option of sharing his bed nightly. As these two get closer there is still a secret that Ben holds back, will the truth tear them apart?
This is a beautiful story of two broken people finding love with each other. Ben makes a place for them and men like them where they can live happily. I loved this glimpse at how this sort of relationship would have been approached back then. I love that it was written to fit the time period, often times these types of books gloss over the fact that times were different back then. No these two men never would have come out as lovers but they still got their HEA. I hope you guys enjoy this one as much as I have! It was a great read!!
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September 4, 20124.5 stars
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Great read!!! Review to post soon on www.guiltypleasuresbookreviews.com ....
January 6, 2015
Loved it. Absolutely loved it.
June 10, 2013
Could have been so much better. Some wonderful moments, but a lot of confusing scenes and missed chances. It dragged in places.
April 10, 2018
Unbelievable, illogical and badly structured.
February 25, 2018
Hhmmm.... its good to see M/M Regency Romance as a mainstream sub-genre now, but, well, K.J. Charles' books handled the same themes seen here much better.
I just couldn't get myself to care about the main characters because who they were was keep as the "mystery" for too long while the relationship was rushed.
April 22, 2021
“Memory is constantly being shaped by our feelings, knowledge and beliefs, so the memories we pull out often look nothing like the individual pieces we put in.” ~ Dr. Sadie Dingfelder
Memories can be useful tools - guiding us, helping us learn from the past, but in 'Men Like Us' by Brita Addams, Benedict Wilmot and Preston Meacham put too much credence in their memories. The problem is that memories are not always recalled as events actually happen. Due to this phenomenon, both men suffer unnecessarily, reliving a past that isn't completely valid.
Preston is a sad character. Devastated by his lover's death in the Napoleonic Wars, he can't get his life back together. Because his lover was shot while coming to his aid, he carries a horrendous amount of guilt, which is destroying him. Preston doesn't care what becomes of him anymore. Because of this apathy, he engages in demeaning behavior, partly as a self-punishment. As time goes on, he begins to realize that his love affair in the war is not as romantic as he remembers, that he's idolized someone who didn't deserve to be held in such high esteem. He loves Ben and greatly appreciates his help. Ben is grateful to have the means to help him, almost embarrassed that he's wealthy, but it gives him the ability to help others like him and Preston.
Ben is a kind man, considerate, and terribly guilty about events that took place when he was at war. Ben has a secret that he can't tell Preston, but one which makes him feel responsible for placing him in the position he's presently in. I felt sorry for Ben, because, as good as he seemed to be, I couldn't imagine him doing something so horrendous that Preston wouldn't forgive him. It made my heart ache when he castigated himself. As the secret is revealed to us, I was on pins and needles waiting to see what would happen when Preston learned Ben's secret. Ben and Preston are so well-suited for each other and definitely deserved happiness.
Although set in the Regency period, there wasn't a whole lot of history involved, but it did represent a panoramic overview of the time period—manner of speech, customs, dress, and mindset. It is suspenseful, well-written in a lyrical style, and moves along at a good, even pace. The characters are exceptionally well-drawn and carried me right along with them, evoking a great deal of emotion. I'd recommend this book to those who want a solid, exciting, intense, passionate, suspenseful story with lots of twists and turns and a very satisfying ending. Thank you, Brita, for the great story about redemption, hope, and love.
Memories can be useful tools - guiding us, helping us learn from the past, but in 'Men Like Us' by Brita Addams, Benedict Wilmot and Preston Meacham put too much credence in their memories. The problem is that memories are not always recalled as events actually happen. Due to this phenomenon, both men suffer unnecessarily, reliving a past that isn't completely valid.
Preston is a sad character. Devastated by his lover's death in the Napoleonic Wars, he can't get his life back together. Because his lover was shot while coming to his aid, he carries a horrendous amount of guilt, which is destroying him. Preston doesn't care what becomes of him anymore. Because of this apathy, he engages in demeaning behavior, partly as a self-punishment. As time goes on, he begins to realize that his love affair in the war is not as romantic as he remembers, that he's idolized someone who didn't deserve to be held in such high esteem. He loves Ben and greatly appreciates his help. Ben is grateful to have the means to help him, almost embarrassed that he's wealthy, but it gives him the ability to help others like him and Preston.
Ben is a kind man, considerate, and terribly guilty about events that took place when he was at war. Ben has a secret that he can't tell Preston, but one which makes him feel responsible for placing him in the position he's presently in. I felt sorry for Ben, because, as good as he seemed to be, I couldn't imagine him doing something so horrendous that Preston wouldn't forgive him. It made my heart ache when he castigated himself. As the secret is revealed to us, I was on pins and needles waiting to see what would happen when Preston learned Ben's secret. Ben and Preston are so well-suited for each other and definitely deserved happiness.
Although set in the Regency period, there wasn't a whole lot of history involved, but it did represent a panoramic overview of the time period—manner of speech, customs, dress, and mindset. It is suspenseful, well-written in a lyrical style, and moves along at a good, even pace. The characters are exceptionally well-drawn and carried me right along with them, evoking a great deal of emotion. I'd recommend this book to those who want a solid, exciting, intense, passionate, suspenseful story with lots of twists and turns and a very satisfying ending. Thank you, Brita, for the great story about redemption, hope, and love.
April 19, 2013
4.5 stars
I can’t imagine what it must be like to crave the affection of a man while living in fear of imprisonment for my desires, or beatings and death. That’s the reality the MCs, are living in. They’ve made it through a war but not without scars, inside and out. War affects men. It makes some men heroes who do things they never knew they could. For some it brings out their savage nature. This is the story of two men whose lives are forever altered because of such evil. Parts of this book weren’t easy to read but I just had to know the entire story.
For Men Like Us spans 1814-1820 in London and is told from the POV of Ben and Preston. Ben is seeking redemption and peace. He has lived through some truly horrible situations but he’s a survivor. Ben has some unfinished business with a man name Preston whom he finds at a whore house in London. He watches him from a distance but what started out as a need to atone quickly turns into an obsession. By accident they meet one night and Ben’s purpose becomes altered. He initially purchases Preston’s company in the idea of finally speaking with man about getting him out of that unsavory situation but once Preston turns on the seduction he can’t resist what the man is offering. Despite Preston’s claim he chose that profession he sees the sadness in the man and desperately wants to help him. Ben needs to save Preston from that life for his own Sanity.
Preston is numb after he watches his partner die in the war. The only thing that seems to break through is sex. After losing his clerk job he turns to a life as a selling his body for money. One night an older gentleman buys his company and he finds he is very attracted to him. He’s handsome and shows him kindness. He also has a kink for being punished, a skill that Preston excels at. When Ben asks for a weekly arrangement Preston agrees immediately and the two become close very quickly. The intimacy that grows with Ben helps Preston finally break free from his haze and realize he can care for someone again and in fact has feelings for Ben. Ben knows he shouldn’t be getting attached to Preston but he can’t help falling in lo
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I can’t imagine what it must be like to crave the affection of a man while living in fear of imprisonment for my desires, or beatings and death. That’s the reality the MCs, are living in. They’ve made it through a war but not without scars, inside and out. War affects men. It makes some men heroes who do things they never knew they could. For some it brings out their savage nature. This is the story of two men whose lives are forever altered because of such evil. Parts of this book weren’t easy to read but I just had to know the entire story.
For Men Like Us spans 1814-1820 in London and is told from the POV of Ben and Preston. Ben is seeking redemption and peace. He has lived through some truly horrible situations but he’s a survivor. Ben has some unfinished business with a man name Preston whom he finds at a whore house in London. He watches him from a distance but what started out as a need to atone quickly turns into an obsession. By accident they meet one night and Ben’s purpose becomes altered. He initially purchases Preston’s company in the idea of finally speaking with man about getting him out of that unsavory situation but once Preston turns on the seduction he can’t resist what the man is offering. Despite Preston’s claim he chose that profession he sees the sadness in the man and desperately wants to help him. Ben needs to save Preston from that life for his own Sanity.
Preston is numb after he watches his partner die in the war. The only thing that seems to break through is sex. After losing his clerk job he turns to a life as a selling his body for money. One night an older gentleman buys his company and he finds he is very attracted to him. He’s handsome and shows him kindness. He also has a kink for being punished, a skill that Preston excels at. When Ben asks for a weekly arrangement Preston agrees immediately and the two become close very quickly. The intimacy that grows with Ben helps Preston finally break free from his haze and realize he can care for someone again and in fact has feelings for Ben. Ben knows he shouldn’t be getting attached to Preston but he can’t help falling in lo
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May 21, 2013
4.5 stars
I enjoy historical fiction, but I can be a little picky. I like the author to do some research so that readers aren't hit with anachronisms that pull us out of the story. Brita Addams did a good job with that. The story takes place in the early 1800s and there are some references to the Battle of Salamanca (although you don't need to know history for those references to work).
I appreciated the unique plotline and the likable characters. The book covers a span of time, allowing the characters to grow and change, as well as solve a bit of a mystery about the connection the two of them share from their past.
If I have any quibble, it's very subjective: I felt the final sex scene could have been skipped. I didn't think it moved the plot or characterizations forward, and the details didn't seem necessary to show the men's affection for or commitment to each other. It instead felt a bit like the author wanted to end the novel with a bang, literally. The epilogue was a great idea, but that particular scene felt a bit discordant with the rest of that chapter. I hasten to add, however, that the amount and type of sex is a very individual thing, so many readers will love how the book ends.
I enjoy historical fiction, but I can be a little picky. I like the author to do some research so that readers aren't hit with anachronisms that pull us out of the story. Brita Addams did a good job with that. The story takes place in the early 1800s and there are some references to the Battle of Salamanca (although you don't need to know history for those references to work).
I appreciated the unique plotline and the likable characters. The book covers a span of time, allowing the characters to grow and change, as well as solve a bit of a mystery about the connection the two of them share from their past.
If I have any quibble, it's very subjective: I felt the final sex scene could have been skipped. I didn't think it moved the plot or characterizations forward, and the details didn't seem necessary to show the men's affection for or commitment to each other. It instead felt a bit like the author wanted to end the novel with a bang, literally. The epilogue was a great idea, but that particular scene felt a bit discordant with the rest of that chapter. I hasten to add, however, that the amount and type of sex is a very individual thing, so many readers will love how the book ends.
November 11, 2014
I've never read a gay romance. It's not something I usually care to read, but this story had a lot of great recommendations -- from women. At the time I bought it the book was 0.99 cents. After reading it, I would have paid more.
The story takes place after the Napoleanic Wars, the battle of Salamanca. Preston's lover was brutally killed during battle right in front of him. Afterwards, in recovery, he meets Ben who makes him feel safe.
The characterisations of each man is crafted well and I was woven into their plight quickly. I also learned what I have never thought of before was how dangerous at that time it was for when men loved each other. It could literally mean hanging!
It is a very good book with an engaging story. You can't go wrong!
The story takes place after the Napoleanic Wars, the battle of Salamanca. Preston's lover was brutally killed during battle right in front of him. Afterwards, in recovery, he meets Ben who makes him feel safe.
The characterisations of each man is crafted well and I was woven into their plight quickly. I also learned what I have never thought of before was how dangerous at that time it was for when men loved each other. It could literally mean hanging!
It is a very good book with an engaging story. You can't go wrong!
April 20, 2013
Strong characters, good level of angst - enough for an enjoyable read but not enough that the storyline got unbelievable. I didn't find the language or the speech tiresome, it was well-written and appropriate. I most certainly didn't find the plot nonsensical or boring. My kudos to Addams for writing some well-woven character connection.
October 15, 2012
A quick Regency romp that was somewhat predictable but sometimes that's just what I want.
August 1, 2015
What can I say? Brita weaves a great historical and makes you feel like you are stepping back into time. Excellent!
February 18, 2015
Enchanting love story
January 17, 2013
Very very good book! Great twist at the end that really brins the story and the MCs story full circle.
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