Es wird alles anders bleiben

by Valerie Wilson Wesley

Die Bibliothekarin und Künstlerin Eva Hutchinson hat Mann und Kinder und glaubt sich glücklich verheiratet. Sie hat eine vielversprechende Tochter, Charley, und - aus der ersten Ehe ihres Mannes - einen Sohn: Steven. Noch scheint es Eva, daß die Kinder den Erwartungen der Eltern entsprechen und alles in bester Ordnung ist, als es eines Abends plötzlich kracht: Das Unheil brach in einer Freitagnacht im Juni herein, eine Woche nach dem zehnten Hochzeitstag der Hutchinsons. Tagsüber war es heiß gewesen, und nachts wurde es noch heißer. Es war kurz vor elf, und Eva und ihr Mann Hutch gingen sich wie üblich auf die Nerven. Nach einer Viertelstunde stummen Wütens sprach Hutch aus, was er schon seit Wochen dachte: "Ich muß hier weg." "Es wird alles anders bleiben" ist die Geschichte einer Ehe, der Höhen, der Tiefen und der gefürchteten Durststrecken, aber auch die Geschichte einer Frau, die zu innerer Stärke findet. Ja, es ist die Geschichte einer ganzen Familie, die erst über innere Freiheit zu wahrer Nähe und tiefen Bindungen findet. Valerie Wilson Wesley versteht es meisterhaft, sich in alle Beteiligten einzufühlen. Es wird alles anders bleiben ist ein ebenso spannungsreiches wie seelenvolles Familiendrama, fein beobachtet und reich an Humor und Spannung.

Genres: Fiction, African American, Novels, Drama, Book Club, Mystery

Hardcover

First published October 1, 1999

About the author

Valerie Wilson Wesley is an African-American author of mysteries, adult-theme novels, and children's books,[1] and a former executive editor of Essence magazine. She is the author of the Tamara Hayle mystery series. Her writings, both fiction and non-fiction, have also appeared in numerous publications, including Essence, Family Circle, TV Guide, Ms., The New York Times, and the Swiss weekly magazine Die Weltwoche.

Reviews

[Nakia · Rating 4 out of 5]

This year, in an effort to prune my bookshelves, I challenged myself to read books that I've owned for years that are taking up space. Ain't Nobody's Business If I Do has been around forever (probably "borrowed" from my mom), tattered and used but never read, so I finally decided to give it a shot. Glad I did.

The story starts off with Eva's husband, Hutch, walking out on her in an effort to find joy (likely some kind of midlife crises). Eva is more angry than devastated, as Hutch has always been a kind, caring, and gentle husband during their ten years of marriage. Hutch doesn't know why he walked out on Eva, but he moves in with his philandering best friend in an effort to clear his head and figure out what he should do. Of course, that isn't a good idea, and signals the end for Eva, who suspects Hutch has been cheating. Both Eva and Hutch have grown children from previous relationships who choose sides, and have their own bit of drama to throw in the family dysfunction. And then, unexpected, very unconventional side pieces became devastating distractions, steering Eva and Hutch even further away from each other.

I initially thought this book was boring as hell and have no idea why I didn't put it down. However, midway through, every character did something outrageous that should've resulted in a good, hard slap upside the head, so of course I had to keep reading to see who would get mollywhopped. Soon I was hooked and the book turned into one of the most heartwarming reads I've read in a long time. Pink and purple hearts were floating out of my eyes and ears by the time I finished the last page.

This book took me back to the 90s, when we had our pick of well developed, entertaining contemporary stories about the highs and lows of Black family life and relationships by Terry McMillan and Bebe Moore Campbell, Connie Briscoe and Pearl Cleage. I enjoyed it so much and I'm glad I didn't let the beginning deter me from finishing. Geared to an older female audience, I think anyone interested in families falling apart and trying to piece it all back together again, will enjoy this one. I also think this would make an EXCELLENT film or miniseries *looks at Oprah*

[Megan Baxter · Rating 3 out of 5]

Ain't Nobody's Business If I Do is a fairly light comedy, less in the sense of being funny than in the Northrop-Frye sense of everything being resolved into its proper place and marriages cementing everything by the end of the book. As such, it's just okay. There are parts I liked a great deal, but then there were issues, and some of the dialogue was, quite frankly, clunky.

Note: The rest of this review has been withdrawn due to the changes in Goodreads policy and enforcement. You can read why I came to this decision here.

In the meantime, you can read the entire review at Smorgasbook

[Mahoghani 23 · Rating 4 out of 5]

This book spoke of the cycle that we repeat because of the way we were raised. This book was funny and adds spice to the cliché, "What goes around, comes around." Donald was taught the worst lessen. Hutch needed space to realize what he needed was already at home plus learning to speak the truth. Steven needed to see that his father was human and not a superhero. Eva needed to learn to let go her pent up anger. Charley just needed to live her life for herself and not for someone else. Good book to read and once I got into it, I couldn't put it down. Valerie, you wrote this one really well.

[Belkys · Rating 4 out of 5]

Love all her books

[Ronald Wise · Rating 3 out of 5]

This story is about the disintegration of a middle-class Black family in New Jersey. There is a wide variety of characters and the author does a superb job of representing each of them fairly through some creative encounters and dialogs. I learned of this book from the list "African American Fiction: She Say" in Nancy Pearl's Book Lust.

[Tiff · Rating 4 out of 5]

I liked this one! My copy and a lot of typos though, so sometimes it was hard to stay focused lmao, but I enjoyed this one, it was cool. I saw good character development, and I like the mentioning of the music and location during that era. A LOT of it related to some things today as well!!! It was cute though

[Mshirluke]

excellent

[Stasha · Rating 4 out of 5]

Really funny,except for the fact that the mom went after her daughter's ex-bf!

[Tyesha West · Rating 5 out of 5]

Just started but it's a refreshing change to the murder mysteries I have been reading

[Diana Townsend · Rating 4 out of 5]

I actually enjoyed this book. It was very entertaining, if not a bit predictable. The characters were well developed and the story had a nice amount of drama to keep it going.

[Lupita · Rating 4 out of 5]

loved it!

[Dahlia · Rating 3 out of 5]

It was okay, but I liked the Tamara Hayle series and Always true to you in my fashion a lot more

[Shamekia · Rating 4 out of 5]

This was my favorite non mystery book by Valerie Wilson Wesley. I wasn't disappointed as this book kept me laughing. Great read!

[Cle Buckley · Rating 5 out of 5]

Great read from what I can remember.

[Yolanda Knight- Palmer · Rating 4 out of 5]

I really enjoyed this story,the characters were well developed., It kept me laugh ing throughout the book.

[Anthony · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book started my interest in reading outside of required or how-to instructional reading. It was a great experience. I felt I was there in those moments with the characters, both male and female, knowing and experiencing all of their reality and comprehending if not in every instant, eventually, their motivations. In that respect, it was a truly creative work, and masterful.

[Malaliel · Rating 4 out of 5]

This was a nice easy read.

I will say that apart from the start of the book where we are introduced to Eva and Hitch “getting on each other’s nerves”, I wasn’t really convinced that these two hated each other.

I did think there would be no going back the moment Hutch started sleeping with Raye, but I guess I was wrong.

Overall, it wasn’t bad.

[Larhonda Boone · Rating 2 out of 5]

A SCRIBBLER'S Review

"Ain't Nobody's Business If I Do" is a fun, light, entertaining read that examines relationships on every level: marriage, friendship, mother-daughter, father-son, and everything else in between. Eva Hutchinson, our protagonist, is bitter after her husband Hutch one evening picks up and leaves. His explanation is as muddled as her desire to have him back, and the pain and fun breeze on from there. Entertaining read!

*For the Scribbler

What struck me most with this novel (apart from the entertainment factor), was the dialogue. Wesley has a way of capturing conversations that ring true and are importantly believable. If, as a writer, you struggle with dialogue and would like to see how fluid it can and should be, how natural your characters should sound, then by all means pick up this book. Heck, pick it up anyway, if not for just a fun distraction.