Coming to this companion journal was an accident. Searching the library portal, I saw that the county library had "Falling Upward..." in both eBook and paper format and promptly chose the latter, my preference. The book covers were otherwise the same, and my quick scanning failed to notice that the latter also had the words "A Companion Journal" appended to the title.
Only realizing my mistake when I opened the book and found many pages of blank lines intended for journaling, after a moment I decided to embrace this. Read this before the real book. Use it as a kind of reverse logic for prompting thought. Use the thought exercises as a departure point for self exploration _before_ getting the context.
The experience allowed me to generate a shortlist of zen koans for self realization:
- Watch for heightened responses to others that might be out of proportion to the moment.
- Think about situations where you have received greater peace by making room for another’s view of things.
- Write about your desires to hoard, possess and collect.
- Consider how you are like, rather than unlike, people you tend to oppose.
- How would you describe your “True Self”?
- Describe what you have observed in nature that you would describe as “necessary suffering” Most of nature seems to totally accept major loss, gross inefficiency, mass extinction and short life span as the price of life at all.
- When has suffering in your life opened up new spaces for learning and loving?
- Do you agree that even our sin/error has something to teach us? Could there be such a thing as “necessary transgressions”?
- Think of times when you’ve gravitated toward the never-broken, always applicable rules and patterns of life.
- The best word for God is “Mystery”
- Name the Loyal Soldier in you. What is he or she trying to protect or obtain?
- How would you define unconditional love? Name someone who loved you that way and how it made you feel.
- Think about a necessary fall that you experienced – loss of job, reputation, self-image, relationship, or a moral failure you had to own up to. Did that experience teach you more about balance?
- How would you describe the difference between your current life situation and what Fr. Richard calls your “real life”? Do you have a sense that there is a deeper movement beneath the surface of your everyday tasks? Can you describe what Fr. Richard describes as “what you are doing while you are doing what you’re doing”?
- As you reflect on your life, do you see deeper meaning in your youthful experiences than you did when they were happening?
- Think about your childhood faith. What do you remember believing? How has your childhood faith changed?
- How do you respond to the idea that the cure for loneliness is solitude?
- Identify someone in your life whom you would call soulful, someone who reflects a sense of abundance, grace, and freedom.