The golden ticket: Clients first.
All the nuances of what it look likes to put clients first. Essentially, that is what you will receiving when reading this book. You will also receive platitude after platitude.
The struggle I have is not in the importance of putting clients first, its the slight of hand that I felt coming across. I got a sense of this being some magic pill of just plugging numbers into the variable and working the equation.
I wouldn't argue with the authors on their three keys to success. But it's the way they "brushed off" elements of their work that, in my opinion, moved them from average to great when it comes to sales.
As you read along, you get the sense that it's more than competence. If you look deeper, it is hustle. This couple would work late into the night! Sorry, but I am not retired and I would like to go see a my beloved Cleveland Indians at the ballpark. This aspect of the book probably stands as my #1 objection to the book: They got where they are because they hustled. Plan and simple. Had they not hustled, they wouldn't be at the level they are at. Those Calloways don't spend money on advertising like "those people" they meet at conferences. No, those Calloways spend their time and energy.
Sorry, but you can have competence and care, but if you don't have the hustle of those Calloways, you won't get to that level. Plan and simple. I say all this not to shoot arrows at those Calloways. I say all this to save folks like me from trauma. Don't feel bad if you think, "But, I am doing all these things. Why are my results not to the level of theirs?" Because you don't stay up until midnight. Because you have kids to take care of. Because you are not empty nesters. Because you actually would like to visit museums, read books, have hobbies, have friends, and more.
Plus, some times, they would contradict themselves in the most egregious ways. When writing about working with that 5% who you can never please, the authors state they these folks are just price of the ticket to working with the cool people. Wow, for a couple who says they love everybody and puts clients first, I see a couple who treats people as stepping stones.
And if you think you are safe because you are kind and caring, you might think again. For those Calloways, you are just a stepping stone to their joy. That's the reason why they choose to work with you. They want to work with you because its their pathway to getting what they want: the feeling of joy and peace in their work and life. You can tell me, "Well, what's wrong with that? Everybody wins." What's wrong is that their is a price of admission to their party. You already have the ticket: you are kind and caring. Besides that, it's not YOU they want to work with. It's what you have that they want.
For me, this reminds me of elementary days of "friends" wanting to come over to my house to play. Come to find out, they only want to come over because I had Mario 3. Did we have fun? Yep.
But keep in mind, once you step into the realm of that 5%, they are just going to label you "just a ticket price of admission".