There's this group of living essayists/critics that I'm grateful for, but that I can't quite get beyond gratitude to full-blown admiration. This includes Sven Birkerts, James Wood, Clive James, Cynthia Ozick, Joyce Carol Oates (20 years ago or so, certainly not now), William H. Pritchard, William Logan, and Donald Hall, Michael Robbins, Joan Acocela, Anthony Lane, among others. These writers worry about contemporary letters in a way that I find congenial, bracing, and commonsensical. In short I tend to agree with them, fret along side them, feel dismayed with them. And yet they always manage to disappoint me, flinching at the last second, resorting to some bit of contemporary correctitude or right-thinking. Having found a nice copy of Jonathan Franzen's Farther Away on the library discard shelf, I can now add him to my list as well. Glad to know he's out there fighting the good fight, siding with literature and stuff, not an academic (sorry Harold Bloom - it's too late to change your stripes now), not an assumer of doctrines (mostly), not an establishment rah-raher (David Orr, Seth Abramson, Dan Chiasson).
But, like I said, I cannot quite work up full-blown admiration for these critics the way I do for these dead old guys: Lionel Trilling, Randal Jarrell, W. H. Auden (sometimes, when he's not explaining things), T. S. Eliot, Kenneth Rexroth, James Dickey (a surprisingly good critic!), Robert Frost (who wrote very little prose, but could be killer-diller when he did; when he wasn't kissing Louis Untermeyer's ass, his letters are pretty good too) or Anthony Burgess. Perhaps it is the fault of our times - too much has been lost, decayed, massacred, too much freedom lost to doctrine, political correctitude, social media and fear. Maybe we just aren't educated enough. Or spend far too much time worrying about who's getting elected (don't you wish you could get back all that time you wasted on Al Gore and/or George W. Bush?)
As for this collection by Jonathan Franzen, he makes all the right moves for those readers who unfailingly describe themselves as "passionate readers." He defends, as Birkerts does, our dying print culture, bemoans the dire plight of literary fiction, the death of literary criticism, literary journals, literary salons, etc. etc.. Nothing wrong with this, and as far as it goes, I agree with him. But something is missing, something seems too facile, too, I don't know, too ahistorical, somehow besides the point. In a paradoxical way, as much as he complains about it, Franzen to me seems to embody the digital - he gripes about it, then mentions his Blackberry (what's that?). Nothing really connects with anything - literary trends, friendships, feuds, history - have been replaced with doctrine and a great deal of noise...and those of us (including Franzen, Birkerts, etc.) who worry and fret about it. Cutting through the noise is the critic's goal, and Franzen is hard to hear too much of the time. But I do respect the fact he is trying.
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David Foster Wallace suffuses this book, and for me this was what was most interesting about it. Professional critics have noted this (so I see from online reviews), as well they should, since it is the heart of this collection in a way. It is an interesting relationship Wallace and Franzen had - friends and rivals, the way all real literary friendships should be. This is a rare thing, and Franzen cherished it as much as he could comprehend it, and I enjoyed reading about it here, with reservations. So much of what passes for literary relationships has degenerated to professors being colleagues to each other - backbiting and squabbling, but mostly off the record, keeping within career bounds. It sucks and despite Wallace's professorial career track, he had enough clout outside academia to not sink into the sad sorry state of the failed academic writer. Franzen, of course, is financially successful, which makes him suspect, of course (keep Oprah at a distance, for God's sake!) but on the other hand it keeps him free from CV-scrounging.
Franzen does a good job describing the scarifying effects of such a friendship, he never quite brings himself to state the situation baldly: Wallace was a semi-realized genius, while Franzen is a quasi-"literary" hack with popular appeal. Maybe this is too harsh, but I really couldn't get through The Corrections for all the usual novely ways - all those people observed, gouts of over-writing, observations and descriptions that add up to...a really big novel. It's one of those quasi-profound doorstops that comes along every decade or so - Raintree Country comes to mind - or Gone with the Wind or James Michener or Leon Uris - bestseller and over-praised.
Anyway, it was an uneven friendship - again, Wallace was a genius and Franzen...is not a genius - it makes for an awkward fit - in what might be Bellow's best novel, Herzog's Gift, this dynamic is explored in excruciating detail. Since I have personal experience in this area - I was once friends with a genius while I myself am most definitely not a genius - I admired Franzen's efforts to explore this dynamic, which for the non-genius, can be humiliating (among other things). Here, I will attempt a jocular, knowing tone, but the fact is, the humiliations, the disappointments, and the absolute thrill of being friends with a genius has probably affected me more than any other relationship in my life. My genius friend changed me, improved me, and possibly damaged me - to this day I hear his heh-heh-heh's in the background of my puny efforts and minuscule "successes." Feel his eyes glaze over when I spout off some inane "opinion" or another after a few drinks. Which is to say, years after he severed contact with me, he still undermines me - geniuses have a tendency to do that, if you'll let them. And yet I'd be a lesser everything without him, without that experience. I need undermining, both as "artist" and half-baked man. But like dialysis, I don't have to like it even if I need it.
One of the most humiliating aspects of friendship with a genius - and again, Franzen never quite says this, although he sort of implies it by some of his anecdotes - is the fact that a genius is bored most of the time, and that includes most of the time he is with you. Like I said, this is a humiliating realization. All those years I tried - the way Franzen admits that he did with Wallace - to be smart and funny - only to have my friend find far more of interest in the non-literary, the non-intellectual, the non-sober. Because, well, those people were intrinsically more interesting than my frantically patched-together quasi-intellectual-Bohemian posturings and half-baked, half-educated "opinions." It took me years to get over my own snobbery and bombast and bullshit that obscured the fact that, yep, a guy who is really good at vehicle electronics is almost always more interesting and enjoyable to spend time with than someone with an MFA full of bureaucratic (i.e. academic) or corporate ambitions - more interesting than me, I mean. Not forever, not to be roomies, but in the mere moment-to-moment encounters with other people, a genius finds those people with a grasp on the actual are far more...something. Real? Lovable? Interesting? Real lovably interesting? I don't know what, but to some extent, I do understand it now, if a bit late in the game.
A genius has ways of manifesting his boredom, often with displays of cruelty. Franzen tells an interesting anecdote about Wallace signing copies of his novels to Franzen:
"David and I had a friendship of compare and contrast and (in a brotherly way) compete. A few years before he died, he signed my hardcover copies of his two most recent books. On the title page of one of them I found the traced outline of his hand; on the title page of the other was an outline of an erection so huge that it ran off the page, annotated with a little arrow and the remark "scale 100%." (p. 40)
I bet Franzen's inscriptions to Wallace were sweated-over, heartfelt, disguised with carefully-deployed irony-cum-affection. And here's Wallace with a big dick joke. Vulgar but, I think, kinda funny, so long as it isn't your title page. But I also sympathize with Franzen, because, again, my own genius friend did similar things to me. Once, not long after I met him, I spotted my new genius friend in a car, while I was out running errands. We live in a medium-to-largish city, so such encounters are not really to be expected. I waved enthusiastically. My new genius friend flipped me off and laughed. Twenty-plus years on, that still stings, I still feel a little foolish, a bit uncool. He had a knack for that sort of thing. Some years back I sent him a YouTube link I thought was clever - big mistake; it wasn't clever at all, it was a typical online homemade video mishmash that he'd seen through years before (I've always been a slow adopter of online garbage; I'm just now turning on to funny cat videos). His smackdown was harsh and unambiguous - he just didn't have time for stupid shit emailed by stupid people. I'm not sure he could've made me feel worse over such a minuscule thing. Trivial, perhaps just another big dick graffiti moment, but thanks to what might be called his highly developed emotional intelligence, my friend was able to say the most devastating things, knowing just exactly where all the joints in somebody's armor might be. When drinking, he would use this gift in ways that can only be described as diabolical. He spared me, mostly, probably because he detected how compliant, fragile and slow-witted (not stupid - I am not especially stupid, but I am slow-witted) I was and generally what poor sport I would be in such an encounter, how easily hurt. This is just further evidence of how boring I must've been to him.
Another similarity is Franzen's bird-watching, featured prominently in this collection. Although I don't bird watch, I collect things (right now I am in the midst of an ancient Roman coin obsession), which is pretty much the same thing (a hobby's a hobby's a hobby). Wallace, like my genius friend, had no use for such things, for knickknacks and photo collections and gluing stamps into albums.
"David wrote about weather as well as anyone who ever put words on paper, and he loved his dogs more purely than he loved anything or anyone else, but nature itself didn't interest him, and he was utterly indifferent to birds. Once, when we were driving near Stinson Beach, in California, I'd stopped to give him a telescope view of a long-billed curlew, a species whose magnificence is to my mind self-evident and revelatory. He looked through the scope for two seconds before turning away with patent boredom. "Yeah," he said with his particular tone of hollow politeness, "it's pretty." In the summer before he died, sitting with him on his patio while he smoked cigarettes, I couldn't keep my eyes off the hummingbirds around his house and was saddened that he could, and while he was taking his heavily medicated afternoon naps I was learning the birds of Ecuador for an upcoming trip, and I understood the difference between his unmanageable misery and my manageable discontents to be that I could escape myself in the joy of birds and he could not." (pp. 37-38)
This is an interesting passage, showing as it does Franzen's frequent slack moments ("who put words to paper" "magnificence" "saddened" "the joy of birds") as well as his half-veiled malice and resentments (Wallace's naps were "heavily medicated" and he loved his dogs "more purely" than "anything or anyone else"); whenever Franzen uses the word "love" in a DFW context, you can be pretty sure poor old dead Dave is going to get a drubbing. But as for the hobby, I get it; our hobbies, whether it be curlews or some variation in the legend of late Marcus Aurelius denarii from the Rome mint - for some of us, our hobbies go a long way to fill up the empty spots (well, until they don't). But there is a hierarchy of hobbies - Franzen is pretty pleased with his birds and with the idea of himself watching birds (as I am, sometimes, when I am winkling out some attribution from an obscure numismatic source). But I doubt Franzen would be so sympathetic to someone who works word search puzzles, or dominates a virtual battlefield in Call of Duty III. Harrumph! One of the great burdens of genius is boredom; one of the great gifts of mediocrity is the ability to be easily amused. In my mediocre way I am grateful, but I am pretty clear on the mediocre part of it all. Franzen still seems to think bird watching is a virtue.
Franzen brings up Wallace's lying and betrayals. This too was a humiliating aspect of my friendship with a genius. Many's the time I waited for him to show up to our little "writer's group" only to have him not. Something else came along. Or he forgot. Or, later on, he started drinking. The lying, not so much perhaps, but, perhaps more because of the drinking than anything else, it too came up. Dismaying! One of the most ruthlessly intellectually and emotionally honest people I've ever known would resort to lying and cheap excuse-mongering. His girlfriends suffered far more than I did from these things, but it was still dismaying.
Then there's love. Wallace, apparently, didn't know what love is, just like that singer from Foreigner:
"The people who knew David least well are most likely to speak of him in saintly terms. What makes this especially strange is the near-perfect absence, in his fiction, of ordinary love. Close loving relationships, which for most of us are a foundational source of meaning, have no standing in the Wallace fictional universe. What we get, instead, are characters keeping their heartless compulsions secret from those who love them; characters scheming to appear loving or to prove to themselves that what feels like love is really just disguised self-interest; or, at most, characters directing and abstract or spiritual love toward somebody profoundly repellent - the cranial-fluid-dripping wife in Infinite Jest, the psychopath in the last of the interviews with hideous men. David's fiction is populated with dissemblers and manipulators and emotional isolates and yet the people who had only glancing or formal contact with him took this rather laborious hyperconsiderateness and moral wisdom at face value." (p. 39)
Franzen can really huff and puff when he feels threatened, and this passage is a good example of this. So what is it, exactly, this "ordinary love" he mentions? These "close loving relationships" that are a "foundational source of meaning"? Sounds like the kind of love found in Jonathan Franzen novels. As for the fact "David's fiction is populated with dissemblers and manipulators and emotional isolates" the same could be said about Flannery O'Connor, Dickens or Kafka or Jane Austen. Elsewhere Franzen puts it: "...it was still hard not to feel wounded by the part of him that had chosen the adulation of strangers over the love of the people closest to him." (pp. 38-39) Yes, but what is this "love" of the people closest to him, exactly, and how was it going to save David Foster Wallace? Franzen is in love with love, he is a true believer - throughout these essays, he mulls over his failed first marriage and the promise of love. Love is the thing that saves us, absence of love (or in Wallace's case, apparently) the rejection of love is what destroys us. This all strikes me as a bit too easy-squeezy. Franzen throws love about - how great it is, how it can save us - pretty much the way a schlocky novelist predictably does. Love is the deus ex machina we should let into our lives. Love is all things. "All you need is love," sang the Beatles, even as John Lennon was being a really unloving father and husband to Julian and Cynthia. Love, love, love.
"He (Wallace) was loveable the way a child is lovable, and he was capable of returning love with a childlike purity. If love is nevertheless excluded from his work, it's because he never quite felt that he deserved to receive it. He was a lifelong prisoner on the island of himself..." (p. 40)
More bad novel stuff here (or cheap "literary" psychology - "island of himself"). Another dismaying thing about my friendship with a genius was that my friend was a genius at love - I don't mean girlfriends, which he accumulated by the score (on top of genius, my friend looked like an out-at-the-elbows John F. Kennedy Jr., which is to say he was arguably even more appealing than John-John who somehow always looked as if his mother still dressed him) - that was only a small, sexual part of his lovableness. Beyond sex, my friend had a knack, an astonishing warmth that made my own dutiful affections towards family and friends seem shallow and, well, merely dutiful. My friend had a heart bigger than Nebraska whereas I had one eye on the bank account, another on the clock, and a vast store of cheap sentimentality I could call up on a dime. Fortunately for my self-esteem, my friend was a drunk, so he would do horrible things, giving me the opportunity to feel superior, self-righteous, virtuous and be more demonstrably virtuous and "lovable" in general. But the fact was, despite the horribleness, he had a talent for love that I don't. In my younger years this dismayed me and fuelled secret resentments - why are people so drawn to my genius friend when it was universally acknowledged that I was the "nice guy"? I'd put a lot of work into the nice guy thing, a lot of honing and pruning to pull it off. But my sloppy, often cruel, big-hearted friend was the sun, I was an orbiting satellite, a half-failed planet, chilly and mostly inert. That he was my friend became one of my biggest accomplishments, something for which I was envied - pretty much the only thing I was envied for. The Franzen-Wallace friendship is, of course, on a much larger stage - they were successful and famous while me and my friend were not. But the dynamics are similar, I'd bet. My guess is that Franzen, for all his agonizing about ex-wives and how we fail 'em, recognizes down deep that David Foster Wallace's "childlike purity" is what actual, non-botched, non-intellectualized, non-examined, love really is. Most adults discard "childlike purity" and the non-negotiable aspects of love because these things make you vulnerable, make you stupid, make you ineffective. Then we spend our adulthoods covering up the sell-outs we are (that's a good subject for a novel, eh?). One of the great cover-ups is sentimentality - one of the hallmarks of a genius is a terrifying lack of sentimentality. This is one of the reasons the company of a genius can be pretty scarifying for us mediocrities.