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361 pages, Hardcover
First published May 7, 2013
"Because he goes to NC State, that’s why. NC State is thirty thousand farmhands who wanted to attain the … the heights of Chapel Hill but had to settle for Cow College U instead.”
“Southerners. Such literate, civilized folk, such charm and cleverness and passion for living, such genuine interest in people, all people, high and low, white and black, and yet how often it had come to, came to, was still coming to vicious incomprehension, usually over race but other things too—religion, class, money.”
“How often the lowest elements had burst out of the shadows and hollers, guns and torches blazing, galloping past the educated and tolerant as nightriders . . . . Oh you expect such easily obtained violence in the Balkans or among Asian or African tribal peoples centuries-deep in blood feuds, but how was there such brutality and wickedness in this place of church and good intention, a place of immense friendliness and charity and fondness for the rituals of family and socializing, amid the nation’s best cooking and best music … how could one place contain the other place?”
“It briefly appealed, being a Tar Heel who didn’t root for the Tar Heels … oh, but the exhaustion of that social stance wearied her in advance.”
“I cannot abide Raleigh! I get on that beltline and I’m like some ball on a roulette wheel: I’ll go round and round and round, never knowing where to get off or be able to get over to the rightmost lane to exit.”
That was the problem with Southern family gatherings: you came away judged, as to weight, as to economic progress, as to who was making good marriages, getting good promotions. And the most horrible old venomous shrews with wretched mislived lives were doing the judging too—that hardly seemed right.”
“Bo would privately tell trusted friends that Christianity in Charlotte possessed the aesthetics of the monster truck show at the Coliseum.”
“You are the one hiding behind some two-millennia-old road show that has only recently stopped burning witches and wiping out Jews and leading crusades and inquisitions. And believe me, if the North Carolina rednecks you’ll be preaching to had their way, there’d be inquisitions all over again.”