The central character of this novel, Lady – seeking freedom, fiercely independent, somewhat unpredictable – could have been placed in any time period to see how she fared. Instead, Cathleen Schine placed her in the turbulent 1960’s. At the age of 24, she has become a guardian to her half-brother, age 11, whom she barely knows, upon the death of Fin’s mother. “Fin’s funeral suit was a year old, worn three times, already too small,” one of the opening sentences of the novel, reflects only some of the loss in Fin’s life. Within hours of his mother’s funeral, he moves with Lady from his grandparents’ farm in Connecticut to a stately apartment in Manhattan and then only weeks later, to an unfinished house in Greenwich Village
With little experience and a very different focus from parenting responsibly, Lady provides Fin with a family but without the structure in place that comforts and protects a child. Fin, in a sense, then becomes Lady’s guardian, anticipating her missteps and trouble. Seemingly impulsive, a free spirit, Lady moved from suitor to suitor: Tyler (whom Fin didn’t like,) Biffi (whom Tyler liked and consistently promoted,) to Jack (whom Fin really disliked) without warning. As much as he loved Lady, Fin was critical of what he perceived as hurtful behavior with her suitors, playing with their emotions. An elderly activist visiting their home once observed, “Lady is one of those people who likes a good enemy, needs one. The drama, I suppose…Yes, she really does like to bat them around a bit.” Later, he discovered her “cruelty” was fear and confusion.
Lady always said she was a “lousy guardian” to Fin, feeling she constantly disappointed and/or failed him in some way. Yet, Fin’s childhood was rich with experience. He was exposed to a range of books, many which would be considered too sophisticated for a child, carefully chosen by Lady, to offset what she thought was a non-education at the New Flower School he attended. She was capricious and yet, firm on issues such as a non-negotiable stance on no drugs for Fin.
Lady does indeed become involved in the social and political issues of that world seemingly coming apart but on her terms. New York City in the 60’s is a great match for her…liberation on many fronts, many levels…but she didn’t like losing her creature comforts and already had her own independence. Fin, on the other hand, embraced the times. Through Lady and her interests, he developed a social and political conscience and a commitment to activism. By 1967, however, Fin thought, “There was something menacing, too…not just the war…something more immediately foreboding like the kids on the street looking beleaguered and desperate and sad.”
Perhaps it was this sense of foreboding that caused Lady to flee to Capri, abandoning everyone at home (challenging me to suspend judgment about her responsibility to Fin…oh, Lady, don’t disappoint me now,) discovering a passion for photography, immersing herself in new relationships and experiences and discovering the great love of her life. Finally, Fin is summoned to come to Capri for the summer, learning about relationships and freedom despite harboring anger to Lady for the abandonment. Her lover’s consoling comment to Fin as Fin struggles with the move to Capri and what it means to their family, “It’s difficult to be in another country’s life.” This certainly summarizes Fin’s life with Lady. He discovers that her lover, Michelangelo, the great love of her life, provided Lady with shelter, what no one else realized she needed.
The sense of doom, which Fin had identified earlier, continues to play out. “Lady had waited all her life to fall in love. And now the god of love made her suffer for her sins.” Her lover, already married with a family living in Milan, can’t marry Lady and after much angst, she returns to New York City with 16 year old Fin, harnessing all the courage it took to raise a baby as a single woman (even in the 60’s) and discovering happiness and perhaps a sense of peace. “Maybe it took someone so completely dependent on her to give Lady real independence.”
An accident two years later claims Lady’s life. With the help and support of Biffi, the suitor Fin loved the most, and Mabel, their wonderful housekeeper/cook/friend, eighteen year old Fin becomes Lydia’s guardian. Trying to explain their life, their family, Fin offers to the very young Lydia, “A guardian means I shelter you…I had a guardian, too, ” and Lydia’s response, “You were lucky, too.”
With 18 pages remaining in the novel, the narrator of the novel is revealed as Lydia. By then, I was fully enchanted by Fin, Lady and now, Lydia and trying not to sob audibly. In Lydia’s words, in the epilogue to the now almost 60 year old Fin, “Fun, freedom and books…isn’t everyone’s life an adventure?” This little family had made it work and carried out the best of Lady’s legacy.
So, then, why were Lady and Fin placed in the midst of the 60’s? I think that time period was a great stage for all the players to develop and perform with the world reeling just a little bit behind their own shifting sands. Lady had a vision for life and the people she loved, knowing that might not meet with approval, and in the end, this was also a great love story exploring what it means to be a family