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They Did It with Love
Secrets lurk under the smooth surface of a wealthy Connecticut neighborhood, until a murder reveals all
Sofie and her husband have left Manhattan in search of a more tranquil life in the suburbs. But when a member of Sofie's new neighborhood book club turns up dead, things get messy. She discovers that everybody has something to hide, including her own husband. Her neighbor Priscilla has been married to Gordon for fifteen years, but the love left their marriage a long time ago. Susan is Priscilla's biggest supporter until she has to choose between loyalty to her friend and telling the truth. Ashley is eager to fit in, but her youth and status as a second wife keep her on the outside. She may know more than they think she does, though. Julia seems to have it all: the perfect house, job and husband. But her untimely death has people questioning how perfect her life really was. Through this swamp of suburban secrets, Sofie must wade to find the truth behind Julia's murder and the state of her own marriage. They Did It with Love is a delightful, twisty, and twisted exploration of the things we'll do for love.
Sofie and her husband have left Manhattan in search of a more tranquil life in the suburbs. But when a member of Sofie's new neighborhood book club turns up dead, things get messy. She discovers that everybody has something to hide, including her own husband. Her neighbor Priscilla has been married to Gordon for fifteen years, but the love left their marriage a long time ago. Susan is Priscilla's biggest supporter until she has to choose between loyalty to her friend and telling the truth. Ashley is eager to fit in, but her youth and status as a second wife keep her on the outside. She may know more than they think she does, though. Julia seems to have it all: the perfect house, job and husband. But her untimely death has people questioning how perfect her life really was. Through this swamp of suburban secrets, Sofie must wade to find the truth behind Julia's murder and the state of her own marriage. They Did It with Love is a delightful, twisty, and twisted exploration of the things we'll do for love.
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First published December 18, 2007
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November 12, 2017
A delightful suburbian mystery that will appeal to fans of Agatha Christie. Kate Morgenroth describes the apparently uneventful lives of a rich neighbourhood in Connecticut and reveals that nothing is what it seems and "Nobody knows anybody- not that well".
At the beginning of the book, the author introduces the couples who live in the area but the number of characters turned out to be a bit complicated for me, so I wrote a list with some of the features mentioned in the first chapters to know who each person was. There are no spoilers on this list.
Sofie: saw both of her parents' dead corpses. Married to Dean.
Dean: really handsome and he knows it.Married to Sofie.
Priscilla: founder of a mystery book club. Married to Gordon.
Gordon: quite boring according to his wife Priscilla.
Susan: tries to please everyone, especially her husband Harry.
Harry: he's always home late, he's the CEO of a big company.Married to Susan.
Ashley: what many people would call a trophy wife. Married to Steward.
Steward: divorced and married again to pretty Ashley.
Julia: hates the country, the neighbourhood, the neighbours..... Married to Alex.
Alex: no information about him is given in the first chapters.Married to Julia.
There are other characters who don't play an important role:
Candy and Margaret (members of the book club). Pam who was Steward's first wife and Ruth who is a lawyer.
The plot is really entertaining with some twists that will surprise most readers.
At the beginning of the book, the author introduces the couples who live in the area but the number of characters turned out to be a bit complicated for me, so I wrote a list with some of the features mentioned in the first chapters to know who each person was. There are no spoilers on this list.
Sofie: saw both of her parents' dead corpses. Married to Dean.
Dean: really handsome and he knows it.Married to Sofie.
Priscilla: founder of a mystery book club. Married to Gordon.
Gordon: quite boring according to his wife Priscilla.
Susan: tries to please everyone, especially her husband Harry.
Harry: he's always home late, he's the CEO of a big company.Married to Susan.
Ashley: what many people would call a trophy wife. Married to Steward.
Steward: divorced and married again to pretty Ashley.
Julia: hates the country, the neighbourhood, the neighbours..... Married to Alex.
Alex: no information about him is given in the first chapters.Married to Julia.
There are other characters who don't play an important role:
Candy and Margaret (members of the book club). Pam who was Steward's first wife and Ruth who is a lawyer.
The plot is really entertaining with some twists that will surprise most readers.
November 29, 2016
This is the ultimate read for those who love a peek behind the curtains!
Sofie and Dean have moved from Manhattan to suburban Connecticut, an exclusive address, and one much to former bookseller Sophie’s delight, where there is a book club to join. Maybe if she knew what was going to happen next, she’d have reined in that enthusiasm a bit! Well to be fair she doesn’t seem too sure once she meets the other book club members, especially as the leader, Priscilla forgot to inform her that she needs a pair of shoes to be worn exclusively indoors, for book club meetings, on account of her white carpets and furniture complete of course, with a maid to serve cups of tea, which of course must on no account be spilled.
Priscilla is married to Gordon, a much mousier man than his bossy and controlling wife and within a moment of meeting her the state of her marriage is apparent:
Priscilla saw no hope. What she saw was her husband, Gordon sleeping beside her. Just looking at him she felt a surge of irritation. She’d reached the point where everything about him irritated her.
Susan is Priscilla’s best friend who has suspicions about what her own husband, Harry is up to but Priscilla is better at complaining about the neighbours than she is to being sympathetic:
‘Nothing,’ Priscilla repeated firmly. ‘If you kick up a fuss you’ll just drive him away. Besides, this kind of thing happens all the time.’
‘I know… but not to me and Harry,’ Susan said plaintively.
‘Apparently it does.’
Meanwhile Ashley second wife of Stewart has only been admitted to the Mystery Book Club because of her husband’s connections, they had preferred Pam the first wife! One of the newest members of the book club, before Sofie’s arrival is Julia, whose husband Alex has got some ladies in the neighbourhood hot under the collar.
And then there is a murder…
This was a far better read than I anticipated with the book club meetings and various social drinks and dinners underpinning the book which I read with half-shocked amusement both sexes puffed and preened and jostled for position. The book chapters are entitled by the month, and almost always start with anxiety not to meet Priscilla’s wrath for not reading her choice of book. Sofie is exempt, being a true-book lover and already having acquitted herself quite nicely with her quiet confidence around the subject of mystery novels, has been accepted, whether she likes it or not. Further prompts are given throughout the chapters about the characters appearing, which is helpful with so many Stepford wife types.
The murder of course means that the focus switches to the detectives and as each household is questioned more secrets are uncovered.
‘I remember the interview, but for the life of me, I can’t remember which one she was. All the women out here look the same to me – every one is blonder and thinner than the next. It’s creepy.’
The husband of the murder victim wants Sofie’s help as she has already provided some clues, he badly wants the detectives to stop focussing on him, and Sofie feels this is something worthy of her attention. After all she is intrigued and sees an opportunity to emulate her heroine Miss Marple, decides to find the truth. So alongside the official investigation we have the amateur detective chatting to the other neighbours to try to uncover the events that led up to the killing.
With red herrings and misdirection aplenty this moves from being a fairly amusing book about spoilt housewives with far too much time on their hands, to a tightly plotted tale which never loses its sense of humour as so many secrets escape and when the truth is out, it would seem like life in their exclusive street will never be the same again.
This is a hard book to categorise, it is I suppose a fairly gentle mystery, possibly edging towards a cosy, but whatever it is, it kept me thoroughly entertained. The inclusion of The Murder at the Vicarage by Agatha Christie means that imagining how Miss Marple would perhaps behave if she was transported to twenty-first century wealthy Connecticut, is perhaps inevitable.
Sofie and Dean have moved from Manhattan to suburban Connecticut, an exclusive address, and one much to former bookseller Sophie’s delight, where there is a book club to join. Maybe if she knew what was going to happen next, she’d have reined in that enthusiasm a bit! Well to be fair she doesn’t seem too sure once she meets the other book club members, especially as the leader, Priscilla forgot to inform her that she needs a pair of shoes to be worn exclusively indoors, for book club meetings, on account of her white carpets and furniture complete of course, with a maid to serve cups of tea, which of course must on no account be spilled.
Priscilla is married to Gordon, a much mousier man than his bossy and controlling wife and within a moment of meeting her the state of her marriage is apparent:
Priscilla saw no hope. What she saw was her husband, Gordon sleeping beside her. Just looking at him she felt a surge of irritation. She’d reached the point where everything about him irritated her.
Susan is Priscilla’s best friend who has suspicions about what her own husband, Harry is up to but Priscilla is better at complaining about the neighbours than she is to being sympathetic:
‘Nothing,’ Priscilla repeated firmly. ‘If you kick up a fuss you’ll just drive him away. Besides, this kind of thing happens all the time.’
‘I know… but not to me and Harry,’ Susan said plaintively.
‘Apparently it does.’
Meanwhile Ashley second wife of Stewart has only been admitted to the Mystery Book Club because of her husband’s connections, they had preferred Pam the first wife! One of the newest members of the book club, before Sofie’s arrival is Julia, whose husband Alex has got some ladies in the neighbourhood hot under the collar.
And then there is a murder…
This was a far better read than I anticipated with the book club meetings and various social drinks and dinners underpinning the book which I read with half-shocked amusement both sexes puffed and preened and jostled for position. The book chapters are entitled by the month, and almost always start with anxiety not to meet Priscilla’s wrath for not reading her choice of book. Sofie is exempt, being a true-book lover and already having acquitted herself quite nicely with her quiet confidence around the subject of mystery novels, has been accepted, whether she likes it or not. Further prompts are given throughout the chapters about the characters appearing, which is helpful with so many Stepford wife types.
The murder of course means that the focus switches to the detectives and as each household is questioned more secrets are uncovered.
‘I remember the interview, but for the life of me, I can’t remember which one she was. All the women out here look the same to me – every one is blonder and thinner than the next. It’s creepy.’
The husband of the murder victim wants Sofie’s help as she has already provided some clues, he badly wants the detectives to stop focussing on him, and Sofie feels this is something worthy of her attention. After all she is intrigued and sees an opportunity to emulate her heroine Miss Marple, decides to find the truth. So alongside the official investigation we have the amateur detective chatting to the other neighbours to try to uncover the events that led up to the killing.
With red herrings and misdirection aplenty this moves from being a fairly amusing book about spoilt housewives with far too much time on their hands, to a tightly plotted tale which never loses its sense of humour as so many secrets escape and when the truth is out, it would seem like life in their exclusive street will never be the same again.
This is a hard book to categorise, it is I suppose a fairly gentle mystery, possibly edging towards a cosy, but whatever it is, it kept me thoroughly entertained. The inclusion of The Murder at the Vicarage by Agatha Christie means that imagining how Miss Marple would perhaps behave if she was transported to twenty-first century wealthy Connecticut, is perhaps inevitable.
February 19, 2017
Giving this 3.5 stars. I thoroughly enjoyed this entertaining book! We follow the lives of a group of very well to do, but seemingly bored and dissatisfied women. Their friendship revolves around their monthly Mystery Book Club meetings- no gossiping, but strictly discussing the book of choice. All seems well and good until a murder occurs in the neighbour hood. Suddenly, everyone wants their part in solving the mystery. As readers, we are then ensconced in a quirky, entertaining, bizarre and comical story, as the plot unfolds, great twists and all! Highly recommend for a quick, good read.
March 31, 2020
A really excellent mystery with beautifully hidden clues for all the twists and turns. I loved that this was a mystery book group that worked on solving a murder of one of their own.
September 5, 2016
Another solid thriller by Kate Morgenroth. This one is very reminiscent of a Liane Moriarty novel. I'm still baffled as to why Morgenroth's novels haven't become more well known. She is a solid writer and weaves very dark and twisted tales, this one focusing on the dark secrets that lie underneath suburban America. None of the characters are truly likable and the ones you think are likable end up hiding even more secrets than the non-likable characters. Everyone in this book has a secret and everyone, with the exception of Susan, are likely suspects. That's one of the things I enjoyed most about this book, the killer could have been anyone. If I had to pick out something that bothered me, I would probably say that there were too many characters to keep track of. The person who was actually the killer was a bit farfetched, but entertaining nonetheless.
March 17, 2018
4'5 en realidad, pero le quiero dar el 5.
Tengo que empezar diciendo que no soy mucho de libros de misterio, así que venía con las expectativas a 0 y con bastante miedo. Pero la verdad es que me he llevado una gran y grata sorpresa. No esperaba para nada que me fuera a enganchar y gustar tanto. Desde empezar hasta terminar no he dejado de tener esa necesidad de seguir leyendo hasta terminarlo porque pasa algo nuevo en cada capítulo. Y no nos encontramos sólo con el misterio de quién será el asesino, no. Más bien vamos descubriendo nuevos misterios a medida que avanza el libro. Y como yo tenía que hacer una lectura analítica, pues ha sido muy divertido ir apuntando cada pista que se descubría e ir lanzando mis teorías para resolver cada uno de esos pequeños misterios y el gran misterio final de averiguar quién es el asesino.
Pasando al tema del 4'5 que quiero dejar en 5... El 5 es en general, porque me ha gustado todo sobre este libro, los personajes, las relaciones, los líos, los cotilleos... Pero la última página y media no me han convencido para nada, al menos no del todo. No sabría decir qué es lo que me chirría en concreto, pero algo hay, sí.
Pero, de verdad, recomiendo totalmente este libro. Es muy fácil y rápido de leer, el inglés no da ningún problema, y si lo leéis intentando resolver por vuestra cuenta todos los misterios, es incluso divertido.
Tengo que empezar diciendo que no soy mucho de libros de misterio, así que venía con las expectativas a 0 y con bastante miedo. Pero la verdad es que me he llevado una gran y grata sorpresa. No esperaba para nada que me fuera a enganchar y gustar tanto. Desde empezar hasta terminar no he dejado de tener esa necesidad de seguir leyendo hasta terminarlo porque pasa algo nuevo en cada capítulo. Y no nos encontramos sólo con el misterio de quién será el asesino, no. Más bien vamos descubriendo nuevos misterios a medida que avanza el libro. Y como yo tenía que hacer una lectura analítica, pues ha sido muy divertido ir apuntando cada pista que se descubría e ir lanzando mis teorías para resolver cada uno de esos pequeños misterios y el gran misterio final de averiguar quién es el asesino.
Pasando al tema del 4'5 que quiero dejar en 5... El 5 es en general, porque me ha gustado todo sobre este libro, los personajes, las relaciones, los líos, los cotilleos... Pero la última página y media no me han convencido para nada, al menos no del todo. No sabría decir qué es lo que me chirría en concreto, pero algo hay, sí.
Pero, de verdad, recomiendo totalmente este libro. Es muy fácil y rápido de leer, el inglés no da ningún problema, y si lo leéis intentando resolver por vuestra cuenta todos los misterios, es incluso divertido.
March 7, 2023
An interesting murder mystery, this story follows several couples, seemingly normal but not, in Greenwich, Connecticut as they interact in various and strange ways with each other. There are many suspects and many motives, and the real culprits are not revealed until the very end.
October 30, 2024
Not crazy about ending
August 4, 2013
I was attracted to this book by its cover (a red stiletto-heeled shoe lying forlorn in a leafy lane, but the proverb about not judging a book by its cover was right. The story starts out promising : Sofie, now a well-to-do woman after the death of her bullying father, is convinced by her charming husband to leave Manhattan for upscale Greenwich, Connecticut. Through a mystery book club, she meets a handful of other wives of Master-of-the-Universe types. Then one of the women, the beautiful but nasty Julia, is found dead, in a clumsy imitation of suicide. The mystery-loving women decide to investigate themselves, and it is Sofie, the quiet-river-that-runs-deep, who decides to cozy up to the widower, Alex. It is at this point that the reader realizes that there are no double layers in this book. The husbands who appear to be having affairs, are having affairs. The people who appear to be nasty, are nasty. The mystery in Alex’ background that is broadly hinted at, is exactly what one would expect. In the end, the psychology is unbelievable, especially when the two murderers who got off scot-free declare their love for each other and speed off into the sunset. At that point you can only roll your eyes and say “really?”.
January 28, 2009
I really liked this book. I'm not a big fan of reading the synopsis before I start a book, so I generally go into a novel with a clean slate. Unfortunately, I made the mistake of reading the back of the book shortly after I started reading. I wish I hadn't. It spoiled a bit of the fun for me... so, if you want to read this book, trust me when I say to just read it and ignore what people are saying. I think the story will be better if you don't know quite what you're in for.
I loved the quote "book clubs are the new social fabric of the suburbs." You just aren't happenin' unless you belong to a book club. I am part of a book club. It's my favorite night of the month and I rarely miss a meeting. I'm thankful that my book group is a bit more relaxed than Priscilla's group in the story... at least we get to alternate on who chooses the next book. Variety is the spice of life, afterall.
They Did it with Love is Desperate Housewives meets Murder She Wrote, and I loved it.
I loved the quote "book clubs are the new social fabric of the suburbs." You just aren't happenin' unless you belong to a book club. I am part of a book club. It's my favorite night of the month and I rarely miss a meeting. I'm thankful that my book group is a bit more relaxed than Priscilla's group in the story... at least we get to alternate on who chooses the next book. Variety is the spice of life, afterall.
They Did it with Love is Desperate Housewives meets Murder She Wrote, and I loved it.
August 2, 2008
This is one wierd mystery. Sophie is an intuitive mystery buff who moves from NYC to somewhere in Connecticut where apparently everybody is richRICHrich, crazy, pushy and (mostly) bitchy. That's the women. The men are bringing home the expensive smoke cured bacon, doing business in the city and having affairs. The bored wives have a mystery bookclub that uber-bossy Priscilla runs like a suburban Stalin in her ice-white living room that you aren't allowed to wear street shoes in. Thus, all the other Stepford wives bring their Jimmy Choos that have never been worn outside. I told you these people are crazy. Anyway, when there's a murder in the neighborhood, Sophie starts helping the police with their investigations, trying to clear the prime suspect. I'm telling you, if this is how the super-rich live, I'll stay middle class.
May 14, 2016
I really loved this mystery. It was so different from the typical mysteries I've read from Harlan Coben, James Patterson, and Dean Koontz. This book is rather soap-opera-ish with high class privileged women in a book group when they discover one of their book group members has been killed. They then set out to solve the mystery themselves. It was full of twists and turns that kept me guessing and unable to put the book down.
I loved almost everything about this book except for the fact that the "f" word was used two or three times. :( Also, if you are sensitive to reading about couples having affairs, this book might bother you since it does have cheating husbands and wives. But there were no inappropriate scenes that made me uncomfortable. I really loved this book and now that I know the ending I almost want to read it again with a different perspective.
I loved almost everything about this book except for the fact that the "f" word was used two or three times. :( Also, if you are sensitive to reading about couples having affairs, this book might bother you since it does have cheating husbands and wives. But there were no inappropriate scenes that made me uncomfortable. I really loved this book and now that I know the ending I almost want to read it again with a different perspective.
February 15, 2009
Well I was introduced to this book being told it was Agatha Christie meets Desperate Housewives. I have to say it was WAY more of the latter than the former. Also, I am a fan of Agatha Christie and when in the book, The Murder of Roger Ackroyd was mentioned, it was like telling me exactly how this book was going to end. And I was right.
It also gets a two for poor writing: I have never seen a book start SO many sentances with the words And or But. Wow. Also, while the ending was most likely supposed to be a terrific shock, because of the before mentioned Christie referance, it was more of a roll-my-eyes, really?, moment for me. Too bad. I still love Agatha Christie. I did not love this book.
It also gets a two for poor writing: I have never seen a book start SO many sentances with the words And or But. Wow. Also, while the ending was most likely supposed to be a terrific shock, because of the before mentioned Christie referance, it was more of a roll-my-eyes, really?, moment for me. Too bad. I still love Agatha Christie. I did not love this book.
October 7, 2014
When Sofie's husband persuades her to leave Manhattan for a life in the Connecticut suburbs, she does not expect the biggest excitement to come when one of the women in her book group is murdered!
This is a delicious book, which started out a little slowly but gained in complexity as it continued, with a very clever ending. I had read the author's YA novels, and enjoyed them, but this I couldn't wait to recommend.
This is a delicious book, which started out a little slowly but gained in complexity as it continued, with a very clever ending. I had read the author's YA novels, and enjoyed them, but this I couldn't wait to recommend.
May 16, 2009
Suburban neighborhood in Greenwich, Conn..........the women in this neighbornood have a mystery book club somewhat controlled by Priscilla. Two of the women go for a walk a discover the body of one of the book club members hanging from a tree. They go on to try to prove this was murder and not suicide but uncover all kinds of secrets among the book club members (and their husbands). All kind of affairs and liasons. I'd say the book was a waste of my time to read.
August 5, 2009
This is like a Desperate Housewives murder mystery. I wanted to like the premise -- the members of a mystery novel book club need to solve the murder when one of them is found hanging from a tree in her front yard -- but it was challenging when the characters were both unlikeable and hard to believe. There were a few editorial errors that had me clawing my eyes out as well, which added distraction.
March 6, 2009
A stupid murder mystery with twists and turns. It reads much more like a soap opera than a mystery. Everyone is having affairs. The characters are shallow, vapid, and unlikable. It was difficult to like any of them. I would not recommend this book to anyone.
May 18, 2010
Though I just KNEW somehow Sofie had been the murderer, it just took too long to get there. Plus, all of the who liked who and why and the whole rich suberbia take on things wasn't my cup of tea. I was a bit disappointed because I was really looking for a good mystery....alas, not this one for me.
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March 6, 2008
If James Patterson wrote an episode of Desperate Housewives, it would be this book.
September 29, 2010
This is a very quick read. A mystery novel about women living in the suburbs. I read it in two days. A page turner!
September 3, 2014
Suburban marriage secrets and murder who dun it! Wicked characters and a fun fast read! What they do for love!!!!
November 25, 2014
This was a different mystery than I typically read, but I really enjoyed it! Considering the subject matter it was light and quick to read.
July 26, 2017
Great murder mystery. I loved the tie in with a mystery book club. I was trying to figure out who did it, and was brought with twists and turns. The ending totally shocked me!
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May 5, 2010I'm not sure I have ever read a worse book in my life. TERRIBLE. Don't waste your time.
February 22, 2025
Whaaaat! This book was craaazy! I need to read murder mysteries more often. This is a fun one because it’s a murder mystery book about a murder mystery book club that becomes involved in its own murder mystery. And all the book club members are rich suburban trophy wives whose lives revolve around their book club and their frenemy drama, because for some reason none of them have a job or kids, and all their husbands are kinda the worst. So there’s lots of drama and scandals and, of course, a murder. I’m telling you, this book was crazy.
Like other reviewers have said, it’s like Desperate Housewives meets Agatha Christie. Which, in my opinion, is a very entertaining combination. I was hooked the whole time and was shocked when the murderer was revealed at the end!
Like other reviewers have said, it’s like Desperate Housewives meets Agatha Christie. Which, in my opinion, is a very entertaining combination. I was hooked the whole time and was shocked when the murderer was revealed at the end!
September 3, 2018
Twisty, turny plot that keeps the reader guessing. Not quite a cozy, but hardboiled wither. A contemporary mystery novel set in a wealthy enclave of Connecticut. The reader is shown the lives of four women that belong to a book club and the interplay with their spouses and each other. Not sure the characters are likeable, but they are interesting and internally consistent, which is key in a mystery. Definitely recommended.
August 17, 2017
I was given this book by a friend, she thought I would enjoy it, and she was right. Though I had part of it figured out pretty early on, there was still plenty that caught me off guard. They story moves very quickly, but still well defined. Clues are dropped that you may or may not pick up and it builds to a wonderful conclusion. I will look for more books by this author.
May 21, 2018
2.5 for poor writing and although it was a good thought for a plot, it lacked a great execution. I love a good mystery as much as the next person, but the Housewife business is too much for me. It was cheesy and obnoxious, and I cannot imagine living in one of the most wealthy parts of the country and the Stepford lifestyle I would have to assume to do so. Mediocre read for me.
November 19, 2019
Probably 2.5 stars. The twist ending wasn't a twist -- it was pretty clear from the first few pages of the book. The writing was ok, at least for the portions of the book that were about the book club members. The attempt at dialog between the two detectives was extremely awkward and stilted, and a little painful to read. Nonetheless, I did end up finishing the book.
September 8, 2023
Sofie, Dean, Alex, Julia, Priscilla, Gordon, Susan, Harry, Ashley, Stewart, Detective Peters, Detective Ackerman, Ruth
This started off so slow. It really only started to get good after 150 pages. Which is half way. I reread a lot of sentences because of the struggle to get into the book.
“Nobody knows anybody - not that well.”
This started off so slow. It really only started to get good after 150 pages. Which is half way. I reread a lot of sentences because of the struggle to get into the book.
“Nobody knows anybody - not that well.”
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