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The Boys and the Bees
The only interesting thing about Why Yell, Iowa, is its name, so when Mark Johansen left for college, he didn’t plan to return. But his family has other ideas: his father manipulates him into a job he hates and his mother uses him as a patch for coping with his siblings’ problems.
When Mark runs into Jamie Novotny after a particularly bad day at work, he’s surprised to find the quirky kid he knew in high school has grown into a driven ecowarrior. But the shock of finding Jamie working in the local co-op pales compared to his astonishment when Jamie confesses he’s had a crush on Mark for years.
Their first night together leaves Mark happy but disoriented, but their second leaves him bereft. He's unable to find Jamie because he refuses to use cell phones, fearing their environmental impact. Mark’s usual stoicism splinters, and he can’t stop himself from tracking Jamie down. When their lives collide, Mark makes room in his heart and his house for Jamie—but what Jamie really wants is for Mark to man up.
When Mark runs into Jamie Novotny after a particularly bad day at work, he’s surprised to find the quirky kid he knew in high school has grown into a driven ecowarrior. But the shock of finding Jamie working in the local co-op pales compared to his astonishment when Jamie confesses he’s had a crush on Mark for years.
Their first night together leaves Mark happy but disoriented, but their second leaves him bereft. He's unable to find Jamie because he refuses to use cell phones, fearing their environmental impact. Mark’s usual stoicism splinters, and he can’t stop himself from tracking Jamie down. When their lives collide, Mark makes room in his heart and his house for Jamie—but what Jamie really wants is for Mark to man up.
212 pages, Kindle Edition
First published November 27, 2012
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About the author
Mari Donne
4 books33 followersMari Donne was born and raised in New Jersey, but after more than 20 years in the Midwest has finally learned to relax and enjoy the slower pace of life. Although the appeal of tractor pulls still escapes her, she loves many other things about her adopted state of Iowa, not least that it is the first in flyover country to legalize same-sex marriage.
Fascinated by books and stories from an early age, Mari always wanted to be a novelist, but fell victim to the dreaded demon of Practicality. She worried that years of producing mundane, reality-based prose in an office environment would make it impossible to go back to fiction writing. But when she finally tried, she found it immensely liberating to be allowed to just make stuff up. Even more thrilling was the discovery that fantasizing about hot men was actually part of the job description instead of just a way to survive boring meetings.
Mari and her husband have two grown children and are empty-nesting happily together.
Fascinated by books and stories from an early age, Mari always wanted to be a novelist, but fell victim to the dreaded demon of Practicality. She worried that years of producing mundane, reality-based prose in an office environment would make it impossible to go back to fiction writing. But when she finally tried, she found it immensely liberating to be allowed to just make stuff up. Even more thrilling was the discovery that fantasizing about hot men was actually part of the job description instead of just a way to survive boring meetings.
Mari and her husband have two grown children and are empty-nesting happily together.
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December 18, 2012
Hmmm…*scratches head*…what am I missing?
This book is lauded and beloved by my GR community…and these are some tough people to please. So imagine my surprise when I turn the final page and realize…I’m bored…!!!
I liked "The Boys and Bees" just fine. The MC’s (Mark & Jamie), for the most part, are likable. The storyline of closeted big lug reuniting with the town gay and falling in love was sweet. And it’s a sold 3-star read.
Sure…
It could stand to cut out 50 pages.
It could stand to edit down the “hit-you-over-the-head-again-and-again” theme of fire-and-brimstone bigotry.
Mark could stand to stop being such a clueless martyr and do something/say something.
It could stand to eliminate 10 of the side characters (I get confused easily!)
But all in all, it’s sweet, sappy, and (*shocker*)/(*can’t-possibly-be-a-spoiler*) has a perfect little HEA.
But, for some reason, I just couldn’t taste the secret sauce that everyone else seems to be raving about…go figure…
December 1, 2012
This was an interesting and very likable story. I decided to give it a go as I had no other choice at the time, it was unexpectedly good. The pace is unhurried and it's a genuinely nice romance, there is a wonderful gradual, loving feel about it and the journey was well worth following. The thing I loved the most was that Mark finds some excitement and meaning to his life after meeting Jamie who is a fantastic influence, yay for weird and adorable Jamie an environmentalist who does his bit anyway he can. Over the top at times and perfect for keeping Mark off kilter.
Mark is the one who everyone runs to when in need, I don't think he realises how much of a drudge he is, trying to please anyone but himself. Especially with his family the numerous times he helps his loser of a sister and brother, babysitting the kids, paying for medical costs, moving house, etc he is a selfless guy who keeps on giving and receiving zilch in return. So when the "reveal" happens the family (despicable) take it badly, it eventually sparks something in Mark who turns his life around and moves on with Jamie, finally he is thinking of himself and what makes him happy. Recommended!
Mark is the one who everyone runs to when in need, I don't think he realises how much of a drudge he is, trying to please anyone but himself. Especially with his family the numerous times he helps his loser of a sister and brother, babysitting the kids, paying for medical costs, moving house, etc he is a selfless guy who keeps on giving and receiving zilch in return. So when the "reveal" happens the family (despicable) take it badly, it eventually sparks something in Mark who turns his life around and moves on with Jamie, finally he is thinking of himself and what makes him happy. Recommended!
December 2, 2012
This? Omg. Freaking wonderful. I LOVED it!
Unfortunately I now have to try to get some sleep since I leave for work in about 5 hours. I couldn't put it down it. I'll write a review later but so highly recommended. Everyone go read this book.
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Longest day ever!
**
The first thing I need to say about this book is how gorgeous the cover is, I love the composition of it and the title when it comes up in the story is completely dorky and adorable. So why did I hesitate to get it? The blurb really threw me off, tbh. The whole refusing to use cell phones just made me roll my eyes and dismiss this as too quirky and not something that I was in the mood for despite my infatuation with the cover.
(The cell phone thing turns out to be quite a sweet moment.)
I want to thank Vio and her review of this book which spurred me to get it and read it despite my hesitation with the blurb.
I'm so very glad that I did because this was a gorgeous, gorgeous read that would not let me go. It was so well written. Mari Donne, where have you been all my life?! The characters, their voices, and the situations they were in were so real and layered. It was poignant and beautiful and yes, horribly ugly in places that made me so angry.
Mark Johansen is the peacemaker in his family. It's through him that they all communicate to each other and while at times it's a struggle for him to understand and agree with some of their actions he's always been there to support them, financially and emotionally, and they take advantage of that.
Jamie Novotny is an ecowarrior. He's a man who feels passionately about the world and the people in it, locally and globally. I thought that I wouldn't like him but he's such a strong, compassionate man very much like Mark in that respect. On the surface they come across as being opposites but they're actually very similar in that they have big, big hearts. Jamie's may be a bit more jaded than the more vulnerable Mark's but they're well matched both in bed and out of it.
Mark works in their home town of Why Yell, Iowa and Jamie has come back for a specific reason. They knew each other from high school and their paths cross at a local market. A wonderful meet-cute.
Don't go into this expecting any huge, complex storyline. This is just life...the good, the bad, and the ugly. I loved it. I needed to know how things would turn out for Mark and Jamie and I couldn't put this book down until I knew the outcome.
It's such a simple story but it's so charming and compelling, just like Mark and Jamie. I don't know when I've rooted for a pair quite so hard to work through their issues. I loved these men and felt dragged through an emotional wringer more than once during the read. Mark especially had a lot of family and personal problems that he struggled with and he just deserved so much, and by so much, I mean he deserved Jamie.
I don't want to spoil anything because this is such a rich read despite its very quiet storyline. I really can't recommend this book enough. I don't know that it will resonate as much with other readers as it did with me but just go into it expecting beautifully written characters, dialogue, and story and then just sit back and enjoy the ride. This is a gem that I know I'll go back to again and again.
Unfortunately I now have to try to get some sleep since I leave for work in about 5 hours. I couldn't put it down it. I'll write a review later but so highly recommended. Everyone go read this book.
**
Longest day ever!
**
The first thing I need to say about this book is how gorgeous the cover is, I love the composition of it and the title when it comes up in the story is completely dorky and adorable. So why did I hesitate to get it? The blurb really threw me off, tbh. The whole refusing to use cell phones just made me roll my eyes and dismiss this as too quirky and not something that I was in the mood for despite my infatuation with the cover.
(The cell phone thing turns out to be quite a sweet moment.)
I want to thank Vio and her review of this book which spurred me to get it and read it despite my hesitation with the blurb.
I'm so very glad that I did because this was a gorgeous, gorgeous read that would not let me go. It was so well written. Mari Donne, where have you been all my life?! The characters, their voices, and the situations they were in were so real and layered. It was poignant and beautiful and yes, horribly ugly in places that made me so angry.
Mark Johansen is the peacemaker in his family. It's through him that they all communicate to each other and while at times it's a struggle for him to understand and agree with some of their actions he's always been there to support them, financially and emotionally, and they take advantage of that.
Jamie Novotny is an ecowarrior. He's a man who feels passionately about the world and the people in it, locally and globally. I thought that I wouldn't like him but he's such a strong, compassionate man very much like Mark in that respect. On the surface they come across as being opposites but they're actually very similar in that they have big, big hearts. Jamie's may be a bit more jaded than the more vulnerable Mark's but they're well matched both in bed and out of it.
Mark works in their home town of Why Yell, Iowa and Jamie has come back for a specific reason. They knew each other from high school and their paths cross at a local market. A wonderful meet-cute.
Don't go into this expecting any huge, complex storyline. This is just life...the good, the bad, and the ugly. I loved it. I needed to know how things would turn out for Mark and Jamie and I couldn't put this book down until I knew the outcome.
It's such a simple story but it's so charming and compelling, just like Mark and Jamie. I don't know when I've rooted for a pair quite so hard to work through their issues. I loved these men and felt dragged through an emotional wringer more than once during the read. Mark especially had a lot of family and personal problems that he struggled with and he just deserved so much, and by so much, I mean he deserved Jamie.
I don't want to spoil anything because this is such a rich read despite its very quiet storyline. I really can't recommend this book enough. I don't know that it will resonate as much with other readers as it did with me but just go into it expecting beautifully written characters, dialogue, and story and then just sit back and enjoy the ride. This is a gem that I know I'll go back to again and again.
July 31, 2015
Seriously loved this book. It was a random purchase and it sounded simple and Id never heard of the author and noone else was reading it but I thought why not... guess what... Im so glad I took the time. This book's charm is honest to goodness the fact that it is aknost mundane in its near reality. I feel like a friend was telling me about a piece of time in his life over drinks one night.
Mark is such a damn good guy. He cares so much that he kinda fell into the role of door mat which his family was totally ok with running all over with muddy feet. Bastards. Jamie comes along and he is wild to Mark's boring. And he cares alot too but he is all about doing. An official "do-gooder". Together they just work.
I love that this story starts with two guys who had crushes in high school and now as adults find their way... and they take their time getting to know each other an their love grows. It isnt forced or instant and we get to see the journey all the way up to that blasted epilogue that left me all giddy in the end.
Theres no big angst or anything like that. No huge drama other than the family issues which suck but are achingly real. I kno families just like Mark's. This book just did it for me.
Can't wait for more from this author.
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Re-read: 7/30/15
Still think this book is fucking fabulous.
Mark is such a damn good guy. He cares so much that he kinda fell into the role of door mat which his family was totally ok with running all over with muddy feet. Bastards. Jamie comes along and he is wild to Mark's boring. And he cares alot too but he is all about doing. An official "do-gooder". Together they just work.
I love that this story starts with two guys who had crushes in high school and now as adults find their way... and they take their time getting to know each other an their love grows. It isnt forced or instant and we get to see the journey all the way up to that blasted epilogue that left me all giddy in the end.
Theres no big angst or anything like that. No huge drama other than the family issues which suck but are achingly real. I kno families just like Mark's. This book just did it for me.
Can't wait for more from this author.
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Re-read: 7/30/15
Still think this book is fucking fabulous.
December 2, 2012
Nice story about selfless gentle giant Mark who falls in love with eco-warrior Jamie. These guys are both such sweethearts. I was worried at first about the whole coming out to the psycho-religious family storyline but the author handles it very naturally and avoids all the usual m/m romance pitfalls. Definitely re-read material.
November 15, 2014
I'll give you 3 clues to identify a Spanish movie instantly:
1. The actors' tone of voice is too dimwit to be actually Spanish.
2. There is a seedy sex scene.
3. There is a seedy bath scene.
4. (Well, 4 clues) Sometimes point 2 and 3 coincide at the same time.
I think they are trying to say Spanish movies are a real shit.
I'll give you 3 clues to identify a bad M/M book instantly:
1. Dull characters.
2. Dull sex.
3. Dull... bath scenes?
I think... I think...
I don't think.
I just can't find anything of substance here, this story is so nothing even to be criticized. I want my gazpacho made from real tomatoes, thank you very much.
My advice? Go rent a French movie.
1. The actors' tone of voice is too dimwit to be actually Spanish.
2. There is a seedy sex scene.
3. There is a seedy bath scene.
4. (Well, 4 clues) Sometimes point 2 and 3 coincide at the same time.
I think they are trying to say Spanish movies are a real shit.
I'll give you 3 clues to identify a bad M/M book instantly:
1. Dull characters.
2. Dull sex.
3. Dull... bath scenes?
I think... I think...
I don't think.
I just can't find anything of substance here, this story is so nothing even to be criticized. I want my gazpacho made from real tomatoes, thank you very much.
My advice? Go rent a French movie.
December 1, 2012
Everything about The Boys and the Bees is understated, very much like the main character, Mark. On its surface, the story is a simple romance about an Iowa farm boy who finds romance with another man who has little in common with him. Dig a little deeper and you find a story about self-discovery and inner strength.
Mark is a solid, dependable family-oriented man who has never really experienced true passion. He managed to bury his own personality, wants, and needs in order to be the son/brother his family and community needs him to be. He mediates family conflicts, trudges along in a job he hates as a mid-level manager, and maintains the level of responsiblity and respectability expected of him. His parents are deeply religious, and their conservative views are fairly inflexible and color many family interactions. Although he's had relationships, they've been ho hum, and he's currently alone and (deep down) lonely. He protects and works to please everyone but himself, without complaint.
Until one day, he meets Jamie, an avid environmentalist and political activist he once went to school with. The initial spark quickly turns into a slow ember, and Mark just doesn't want to stay away. In some ways, Mark is surprisingly strong. He likes Jamie, and he doesn't really try to hide that (except from his rigid family), even though Mark previously identified as 'straight'. He continues to make everyone but himself happy, a fact that drives Jamie crazy.
Unfortunately, Mark's family isn't as concerned with pleasing him. When they find out he is gay, Mark struggles to maintain his relationship with him. Through this, and his relationship with Jamie, he learns how to stand up for himself and when to think of himself first.
Given the slow, stolid tone of the story, it took a while to get into. As Mark himself seeks to avoid tension and conflict, this theme transfers onto the story itself. I became much more invested at ~60%, when the buried conflict came to a head. Still, the writing was strong, and the story enjoyable, particularly if you're looking for a steady, realistic, but sweet read. I will definitely be looking forward to reading more from this (new?) author. 3.8 stars.
Mark is a solid, dependable family-oriented man who has never really experienced true passion. He managed to bury his own personality, wants, and needs in order to be the son/brother his family and community needs him to be. He mediates family conflicts, trudges along in a job he hates as a mid-level manager, and maintains the level of responsiblity and respectability expected of him. His parents are deeply religious, and their conservative views are fairly inflexible and color many family interactions. Although he's had relationships, they've been ho hum, and he's currently alone and (deep down) lonely. He protects and works to please everyone but himself, without complaint.
Until one day, he meets Jamie, an avid environmentalist and political activist he once went to school with. The initial spark quickly turns into a slow ember, and Mark just doesn't want to stay away. In some ways, Mark is surprisingly strong. He likes Jamie, and he doesn't really try to hide that (except from his rigid family), even though Mark previously identified as 'straight'. He continues to make everyone but himself happy, a fact that drives Jamie crazy.
Unfortunately, Mark's family isn't as concerned with pleasing him. When they find out he is gay, Mark struggles to maintain his relationship with him. Through this, and his relationship with Jamie, he learns how to stand up for himself and when to think of himself first.
Given the slow, stolid tone of the story, it took a while to get into. As Mark himself seeks to avoid tension and conflict, this theme transfers onto the story itself. I became much more invested at ~60%, when the buried conflict came to a head. Still, the writing was strong, and the story enjoyable, particularly if you're looking for a steady, realistic, but sweet read. I will definitely be looking forward to reading more from this (new?) author. 3.8 stars.
December 16, 2012
4.5*
If you are looking for excitement, angst, near death experiences and people who see the error of their ways and quit being bigots, you will need to read a different book.
This is none of those things, this is a wonderful journey, one Mark takes to finally, finally be allowed to live his life instead of just existing and sustaining.
Mark would come across as a martyr if he weren't so totally clueless as to what a wonderful, giving and generous man he is, he gives his time, his love, his money and himself to his family.
His only ' pay-off ' is the time he gets to spend with his nieces and nephews which he loves and dotes on.
One day he runs into Eco-warrior Jamie, they went to school together, but Mark was a few years ahead of Jamie.
Jamie is very zealous in his convictions and has been since high school.I see how some readers might find him annoying and 'preachy' but I didn't, it was his heartfelt conviction and that's ok!
That is the day that literally not only changes Mark, but is what I would call ' the first day of the rest of his life '.
The story is told from Mark's POV and it was great, although there were times when I so wished I got a peak into Jamie's mind.
The slow and sweet love that develops between these two was wonderful to read about, I loved that despite all the things going on in both of their lives, there really wasn't any drama or conflict or even big misunderstandings.
I liked these characters and was rooting for them, but I never doubted they would get the happiness they deserved.
Part of me ( I have a HUGE thing for groveling) really really wanted 'the family' ,and I use that term very loosely, to suffer for their treatment of Mark, financially, time wise and in all of the ways he made their lives better, but it's ok, they say being happy is the best revenge, and if that's the case, them Mark and Jamie have it in spades!
If you are looking for excitement, angst, near death experiences and people who see the error of their ways and quit being bigots, you will need to read a different book.
This is none of those things, this is a wonderful journey, one Mark takes to finally, finally be allowed to live his life instead of just existing and sustaining.
Mark would come across as a martyr if he weren't so totally clueless as to what a wonderful, giving and generous man he is, he gives his time, his love, his money and himself to his family.
His only ' pay-off ' is the time he gets to spend with his nieces and nephews which he loves and dotes on.
One day he runs into Eco-warrior Jamie, they went to school together, but Mark was a few years ahead of Jamie.
Jamie is very zealous in his convictions and has been since high school.I see how some readers might find him annoying and 'preachy' but I didn't, it was his heartfelt conviction and that's ok!
That is the day that literally not only changes Mark, but is what I would call ' the first day of the rest of his life '.
The story is told from Mark's POV and it was great, although there were times when I so wished I got a peak into Jamie's mind.
The slow and sweet love that develops between these two was wonderful to read about, I loved that despite all the things going on in both of their lives, there really wasn't any drama or conflict or even big misunderstandings.
I liked these characters and was rooting for them, but I never doubted they would get the happiness they deserved.
Part of me ( I have a HUGE thing for groveling) really really wanted 'the family' ,and I use that term very loosely, to suffer for their treatment of Mark, financially, time wise and in all of the ways he made their lives better, but it's ok, they say being happy is the best revenge, and if that's the case, them Mark and Jamie have it in spades!
December 3, 2012
Much like its protagonist, Mark, this book is full of of quiet strength and understated awesomeness.
There won't be acrobatic sex. Except for the first couple scenes, the man lovin' in this one are short but erotic, straightforward but sweet. Smut slut that I am, I appreciated that since Mark has other things going on in his life besides the awesome sex and I wanted to hear about those, too. Besides, there's only so much exhaustive descriptions of a guy's penis a woman can handle and it's nice to take a breather once in a while. I know. One cannot possibly have enough exhaustive descriptions of male anatomy, but I just recently braved a Cameron Dane book so I'm pretty much set when it comes to the annual quota of unapologetically dirty plot-forgetting sex. As much as Mark and Jaime here like to do the deed, they had to talk more and call me a tween girl, but I loved that.
As much fodder as there is for angst, it won't be overdone. Yes, Mark's family are either using him or being ignorant homophobes and Jaime's father is sick, but Mark treats these issues with hope and tolerance unadorned with the dreaded melodramatic brush of "Why God why?!". Sure, Mark can cling to hope pretty stubbornly that you sometimes want to sit him down for a long talk and then give him a small smack on the back of the head for his naivete, but that's Mark. He has faith in people he loves and he doesn't give up on them, not if there's still a sliver of a chance that things could still work. And he does all these without overdramatizing things or acting like a self-sacrificing martyr.
He sort of reminded me of Al Fletcher from Muscling Through, only geekier. They're both kind, gentle giants who don't ask much from life and of whom other people can take advantage unless someone can balance them out and show them they can be and deserve more. That's where Jaime comes in. He's pretty much Mark's Larry Morton. He loves Mark for Mark, recognizes the fact that Mark needs to be selfish once in a while, and proceeds to help Mark become more than just the pushover brother, the quiet son, or the tolerant boyfriend.
I also loved that the supporting characters were not just caricatures of whatever purpose they have to serve in the story, but felt like real people with real emotions. Special shout out to Mark's nephew, Luke, though 'cause that was one cool kid. Made me wish I had a nerd nephew to balance my three-year-old niece demanding Guns N' Roses be played at the house every time she comes visit. It's always "Patience" or "Sweet Chai Oh My". Not that her aunt is complaining, mind.
Anyway, there's nothing over the top with this book. It's a simple, engaging look at Mark's journey of self-discovery and testicles-growing and his good fortune in finding in Jaime someone who can help him with both. They might not be flashy people - nor is the storytelling loud or showy - but they're likable and funny and have a believable HEA.
Recommended.
There won't be acrobatic sex. Except for the first couple scenes, the man lovin' in this one are short but erotic, straightforward but sweet. Smut slut that I am, I appreciated that since Mark has other things going on in his life besides the awesome sex and I wanted to hear about those, too. Besides, there's only so much exhaustive descriptions of a guy's penis a woman can handle and it's nice to take a breather once in a while. I know. One cannot possibly have enough exhaustive descriptions of male anatomy, but I just recently braved a Cameron Dane book so I'm pretty much set when it comes to the annual quota of unapologetically dirty plot-forgetting sex. As much as Mark and Jaime here like to do the deed, they had to talk more and call me a tween girl, but I loved that.
As much fodder as there is for angst, it won't be overdone. Yes, Mark's family are either using him or being ignorant homophobes and Jaime's father is sick, but Mark treats these issues with hope and tolerance unadorned with the dreaded melodramatic brush of "Why God why?!". Sure, Mark can cling to hope pretty stubbornly that you sometimes want to sit him down for a long talk and then give him a small smack on the back of the head for his naivete, but that's Mark. He has faith in people he loves and he doesn't give up on them, not if there's still a sliver of a chance that things could still work. And he does all these without overdramatizing things or acting like a self-sacrificing martyr.
He sort of reminded me of Al Fletcher from Muscling Through, only geekier. They're both kind, gentle giants who don't ask much from life and of whom other people can take advantage unless someone can balance them out and show them they can be and deserve more. That's where Jaime comes in. He's pretty much Mark's Larry Morton. He loves Mark for Mark, recognizes the fact that Mark needs to be selfish once in a while, and proceeds to help Mark become more than just the pushover brother, the quiet son, or the tolerant boyfriend.
I also loved that the supporting characters were not just caricatures of whatever purpose they have to serve in the story, but felt like real people with real emotions. Special shout out to Mark's nephew, Luke, though 'cause that was one cool kid. Made me wish I had a nerd nephew to balance my three-year-old niece demanding Guns N' Roses be played at the house every time she comes visit. It's always "Patience" or "Sweet Chai Oh My". Not that her aunt is complaining, mind.
Anyway, there's nothing over the top with this book. It's a simple, engaging look at Mark's journey of self-discovery and testicles-growing and his good fortune in finding in Jaime someone who can help him with both. They might not be flashy people - nor is the storytelling loud or showy - but they're likable and funny and have a believable HEA.
Recommended.
December 3, 2012
You know how sometimes you just love things for reasons that are completely unknown to you? That was me and this book. I loved it so so much that it made my teeth ache. It's not the type of thing I usually like, as it was a pretty straightforward romance with lots of family drama, and those things tend to bore me. But holy hell did I love Mark and Jamie. I can't explain why; maybe it's because Mari Donne is such a talented author, maybe I just needed something sweet and heartfelt in my life right now, maybe it was the all the pop culture sci-fi references. But I can honestly say that even from very early in the book I wanted things to work out for the two of them more than I have wanted anything in my entire life.
dnf
December 14, 2012DNF
Ouch!
Next time Sims - pay better attention to the blurb.
"Driven ecowarrior"
Yep, Jamie is a preachy pain in the ass in full eco-saint regalia including the halo!
Where were my alarm bells this is a full blown RL pet peeve.
Ugh...no thanks, I can`t stand these people, I don`t like Jamie, I can`t read this book...
Ouch!
Next time Sims - pay better attention to the blurb.
"Driven ecowarrior"
Yep, Jamie is a preachy pain in the ass in full eco-saint regalia including the halo!
Where were my alarm bells this is a full blown RL pet peeve.
Ugh...no thanks, I can`t stand these people, I don`t like Jamie, I can`t read this book...
January 27, 2014
The cover is very apt because reading this book was as about as exciting as watching honey pour from a spoon.
There were so many unnecessary scenes, particularly involving Mark's family, and so many side characters that by the time I got to the epilogue I thought, who the hell are these people and why should I care about them? It's not really a long book, but it felt long.
The MCs didn't grab me either. Mark was a huge pushover who needed to grow a pair, and Jamie was sort of obnoxious with his preachiness. Throw in Mark's over-the-top, hateful, hypocritical, bigoted family, and there was not much left to like. I can't stand reading about Bible-thumping assholes anyway, and Mark's family was particularly despicable.
And, finally, while I prefer steam in my books, I can enjoy a story that sizzles beneath the surface. This one didn't steam or sizzle, which is ironic considering the sex was supposed to be integral to Mark's realization that he's gay and wants to be with Jamie. Mark tells us he's never been particularly sexual, has never cared about sex, has never had that wow factor. And with Jamie, it's like, holy shit, I've been missing out all these years. Let's see this incredible chemistry:
Where's the passion? Seriously, don't TELL me it's amazing; show me.
There were so many unnecessary scenes, particularly involving Mark's family, and so many side characters that by the time I got to the epilogue I thought, who the hell are these people and why should I care about them? It's not really a long book, but it felt long.
The MCs didn't grab me either. Mark was a huge pushover who needed to grow a pair, and Jamie was sort of obnoxious with his preachiness. Throw in Mark's over-the-top, hateful, hypocritical, bigoted family, and there was not much left to like. I can't stand reading about Bible-thumping assholes anyway, and Mark's family was particularly despicable.
And, finally, while I prefer steam in my books, I can enjoy a story that sizzles beneath the surface. This one didn't steam or sizzle, which is ironic considering the sex was supposed to be integral to Mark's realization that he's gay and wants to be with Jamie. Mark tells us he's never been particularly sexual, has never cared about sex, has never had that wow factor. And with Jamie, it's like, holy shit, I've been missing out all these years. Let's see this incredible chemistry:
Instead, he rolled a condom on and lubed it. He grinned at my astonished expression when I realized what was about to happen. "You don't get to have all the fun."
"This is fun," I assured him when he lowered himself down on me. I think that's what I managed to say. It was amazing."
Where's the passion? Seriously, don't TELL me it's amazing; show me.
December 3, 2012
4.5 Stars - Loved Mark's down-to-earth, believable voice and his very real feeling story. Wonderful reviews already, take a look and enjoy the book.
February 22, 2013
A very enjoyable story about love, life and families.
Watching Jamie and Mark’s relationship grow was heart-warming. Jamie’s relationship to his father was wonderful to see, but my main focus was on Mark and his so called Family. I was so mad at them, even before they turned on Mark.
I hate they way they used Mark. My only regret was not seeing their reaction when they finally realised just how much Mark did for them. I’m used to hating a Mother, Father, Sister or Brother, but I think this is the first time I’ve despised a whole Family at once. I’d certainly love a little one on one time with Marks sister. Out of them all she angered me the most.
Despite my ranting, this really is a sweet love story. I just got caught up more in Marks family drama lol.
Watching Jamie and Mark’s relationship grow was heart-warming. Jamie’s relationship to his father was wonderful to see, but my main focus was on Mark and his so called Family. I was so mad at them, even before they turned on Mark.
I hate they way they used Mark. My only regret was not seeing their reaction when they finally realised just how much Mark did for them. I’m used to hating a Mother, Father, Sister or Brother, but I think this is the first time I’ve despised a whole Family at once. I’d certainly love a little one on one time with Marks sister. Out of them all she angered me the most.
Despite my ranting, this really is a sweet love story. I just got caught up more in Marks family drama lol.
October 7, 2015
Not at all what I was expecting. The book kept popping up on a lot of my "recommended to read" lists with very high ratings, but after reading the blurb I was picturing a book that would make me feel guilty about all the things I need to be doing to help our planet, our kids, myself,,, see tired head just from writing that..who wants to pay and read that book. I guess me becasue I broke down and bought the book. BEST DECISION EVER. (well that day). I loved the book. It is funny and romantic and cute, with most of the people around Jamie -the recyclopath- acknowledging that his heart is so in the right place. I love Jamie and Mark.
The best thing I can write about "The Boys and the Bees" is it is about 500 pages too short and why hasn't Mari Donne written anything else for me to read.. you guys know I hate discoving new talented writers on thier first book. I take it personally. A really good story about a really great couple.
The best thing I can write about "The Boys and the Bees" is it is about 500 pages too short and why hasn't Mari Donne written anything else for me to read.. you guys know I hate discoving new talented writers on thier first book. I take it personally. A really good story about a really great couple.
December 2, 2012
I really love this book! I love Mark so much, he is such a great guy. I loved how the story developed and you can see the love between Mark and Jamie. The author did a great job developing the secondary characters I felt attached to some of them like Jamie's father, Luke etc. Mark's parents and siblings reactions to his coming-out were sad especially after everything he has done for them. I highly recommend this book.
December 14, 2012
That was one of the sweetest love stories I've ever read. Nothing exciting happens in this book, just two guys falling in love, dealing with normal stuff like sick or idiotic family members, jobs and some communication issues but the way the author portrayed all that made it an absolutely compelling read.
February 10, 2013
Oh, what a wonderful Book. May I have more, please?
July 8, 2013
~THESE BOYS ARE AWESOME!~
Ever read a book you wish you could go back and unread so you can experience it for the first time again? That is how I feel about The Boys and the Bees; I loved every word of it and would not change a thing. I found it perfect and the message resonated strongly with me.
Mark Johansen lives in a small town called Why Yell, Iowa which is like pretty much a description of Mark's character. He's a gentle giant whom goes through life making the motions and living to help others. He has a job he doesn't love all because his parents told him to take it, he can't seem to make a connection to the opposite sex or even of that of a same sex relationship. He's just there helping with a slew of nieces/nephews and immature siblings. Mark finds himself at local co-op picking up groceries with plans of making himself a fabulous meal when he runs into Jaime. He remembers Jaime from high school as being out and proud, and 100% himself (a quality he always liked) since he's practically uncomfortable in his skin. Accidentally Mark leaves behind his wine, and Jaime brings it too him. Jaime admits he had a crush on Mark in high school, Mark invites him to stay for dinner and the sexy time commences. For the first time sex becomes something for Mark, he feels a connection to Jaime and wants too see more of him.
The book gives the slow progression to Jaime and Mark's relationship, and you get to know their characters in-depth. Both their lives are filled with this richness of family, but also with heartache that comes with it. Jaime must care for his ailing father, which puts a strain in their budding romance, and Mark must deal with the reality that he might lose his family for being gay.
Mark's family is a big part of the story and a strain to read because they are just a draining bunch, but is it’s with them I realized how strong Mark is. It boils down to the fact, that Mark does not need them, they need him. He seems like a pushover because of his selflessness but Mark can walk away and thrive, even with his coming out and facing their harsh dismissal (he was the glue).
Mark and Jaime together are so sweet; it makes my heart super happy. They are both so different but provide a wonderful balance for each other. Jaime the fanatic for the environment, and Mark who’s willing to put up with his crazy ways. I just loved the development of their relationship, the pacing and timing is so perfect that you will just believe in their love.
As I said, I really love this book and it will be going on re-read shelf (I wanna go read it again right now). It's a very romantic read, with some hard-hitting realistic elements (unaccepting parents and the religious crazies that fuel them) and unforgettable characters; Mark is going down as one of my faves. I loved his gentle ways, and he seems one dimensional on the surface, but you find out he’s brave and just loves with all his heart.
Should You Read It? Yes, do not even walk to get it run and get it. I am looking forward to more from this author, because The Boys and the Bees is really something special.
Ever read a book you wish you could go back and unread so you can experience it for the first time again? That is how I feel about The Boys and the Bees; I loved every word of it and would not change a thing. I found it perfect and the message resonated strongly with me.
Mark Johansen lives in a small town called Why Yell, Iowa which is like pretty much a description of Mark's character. He's a gentle giant whom goes through life making the motions and living to help others. He has a job he doesn't love all because his parents told him to take it, he can't seem to make a connection to the opposite sex or even of that of a same sex relationship. He's just there helping with a slew of nieces/nephews and immature siblings. Mark finds himself at local co-op picking up groceries with plans of making himself a fabulous meal when he runs into Jaime. He remembers Jaime from high school as being out and proud, and 100% himself (a quality he always liked) since he's practically uncomfortable in his skin. Accidentally Mark leaves behind his wine, and Jaime brings it too him. Jaime admits he had a crush on Mark in high school, Mark invites him to stay for dinner and the sexy time commences. For the first time sex becomes something for Mark, he feels a connection to Jaime and wants too see more of him.
The book gives the slow progression to Jaime and Mark's relationship, and you get to know their characters in-depth. Both their lives are filled with this richness of family, but also with heartache that comes with it. Jaime must care for his ailing father, which puts a strain in their budding romance, and Mark must deal with the reality that he might lose his family for being gay.
Mark's family is a big part of the story and a strain to read because they are just a draining bunch, but is it’s with them I realized how strong Mark is. It boils down to the fact, that Mark does not need them, they need him. He seems like a pushover because of his selflessness but Mark can walk away and thrive, even with his coming out and facing their harsh dismissal (he was the glue).
Mark and Jaime together are so sweet; it makes my heart super happy. They are both so different but provide a wonderful balance for each other. Jaime the fanatic for the environment, and Mark who’s willing to put up with his crazy ways. I just loved the development of their relationship, the pacing and timing is so perfect that you will just believe in their love.
As I said, I really love this book and it will be going on re-read shelf (I wanna go read it again right now). It's a very romantic read, with some hard-hitting realistic elements (unaccepting parents and the religious crazies that fuel them) and unforgettable characters; Mark is going down as one of my faves. I loved his gentle ways, and he seems one dimensional on the surface, but you find out he’s brave and just loves with all his heart.
Should You Read It? Yes, do not even walk to get it run and get it. I am looking forward to more from this author, because The Boys and the Bees is really something special.
March 25, 2017
4.2 Stars
You know, I'd gladly slog through 10 mediocre books (or 5 really shitty ones) to accidentally stumble on one this good. A new-to-me author, too.
I don't even know how to review this other than it's low angst, very light on the smut (it's there, just judiciously used IMHO) and was an enjoyable story of a very ordinary, stuck-in-a-rut closeted (but lovable) guy and a social justice/environmental warrior (that won't use a cell phone because he's not sure they're not related to Colony Collapse Disorder)...dealing with everyday life in a small Iowa town. Their struggles with family were THE most interesting parts; I loved how the different events were dealt with within such diverse families and I was really happy to see these boys breaking out and making their own.
The T-Shirt slogans were top notch; sometimes funny, occasionally poignant, and frequently geeky - while they weren't as punny as Ty's in any Cut & Run novel, there's just something adorable about a shirt that admonishes us to "Spay or Neuter your Tribbles." (Trekkie humor.)
I really hope more people read it...
You know, I'd gladly slog through 10 mediocre books (or 5 really shitty ones) to accidentally stumble on one this good. A new-to-me author, too.
I don't even know how to review this other than it's low angst, very light on the smut (it's there, just judiciously used IMHO) and was an enjoyable story of a very ordinary, stuck-in-a-rut closeted (but lovable) guy and a social justice/environmental warrior (that won't use a cell phone because he's not sure they're not related to Colony Collapse Disorder)...dealing with everyday life in a small Iowa town. Their struggles with family were THE most interesting parts; I loved how the different events were dealt with within such diverse families and I was really happy to see these boys breaking out and making their own.
The T-Shirt slogans were top notch; sometimes funny, occasionally poignant, and frequently geeky - while they weren't as punny as Ty's in any Cut & Run novel, there's just something adorable about a shirt that admonishes us to "Spay or Neuter your Tribbles." (Trekkie humor.)
I really hope more people read it...
December 3, 2012
Very well written, the story just went on and on and did not feel stretch or prolonged beyond necessary.
The MC, Mark, had always been the stoic, peacekeeper and loyal helper to his f*cked-up family which consisted of the older brother , a sister , a serious bigot parents who seemed to have all the winning qualities of white trash bible-thumper Americans. The type that drove gay kids to suicide that is. Mark was pretty much under the thumb of his families due to various family problems that were preventable if only the culprits step up to take the responsibilities. I will say that Mark was content with his life when the book begins and then he met Jamie who pretty much open Mark's eyes to all the possibilities and lead him on the route to happiness.
To counteract all the negative people in Mark families, were Jamie's family, the Novotnys. They were warm and kindhearted people who accepted Jamie and eventually accepting Mark into their family as well.
I also felt that Ms. Donne did a great job on how the family dealt with the death of debilitating family members. How they were sad but also relief and then felt guilty when death finally happens. I knew that well since it happens to my grandma. She suffered stroke 20 years ago and had never been the same since. She gradually getting worst overtime until she finally succumbed. I was very sad that she passed away but, at the same time, glad that she was finally free from the prison that was her body.
Although Mark and Jamie relationship started rushed, the pacing went on and on at leisure pace afterward. For me, this make the story felt organic, realistic and believable. It also make the relationship progress at believable pace, although it was easy to see how Mark fell hard and fast for Jamie since the beginning.
I highly recommended this book.
The MC, Mark, had always been the stoic, peacekeeper and loyal helper to his f*cked-up family which consisted of the older brother , a sister , a serious bigot parents who seemed to have all the winning qualities of white trash bible-thumper Americans. The type that drove gay kids to suicide that is. Mark was pretty much under the thumb of his families due to various family problems that were preventable if only the culprits step up to take the responsibilities. I will say that Mark was content with his life when the book begins and then he met Jamie who pretty much open Mark's eyes to all the possibilities and lead him on the route to happiness.
To counteract all the negative people in Mark families, were Jamie's family, the Novotnys. They were warm and kindhearted people who accepted Jamie and eventually accepting Mark into their family as well.
I also felt that Ms. Donne did a great job on how the family dealt with the death of debilitating family members. How they were sad but also relief and then felt guilty when death finally happens. I knew that well since it happens to my grandma. She suffered stroke 20 years ago and had never been the same since. She gradually getting worst overtime until she finally succumbed. I was very sad that she passed away but, at the same time, glad that she was finally free from the prison that was her body.
Although Mark and Jamie relationship started rushed, the pacing went on and on at leisure pace afterward. For me, this make the story felt organic, realistic and believable. It also make the relationship progress at believable pace, although it was easy to see how Mark fell hard and fast for Jamie since the beginning.
I highly recommended this book.
July 11, 2013
I wanted to love this book, I really really did. I went into it expecting to love it, actually. Maybe that was my mistake, because I ended up feeling disappointed. But how could I not expect to love it when it had all the ingredients I usually love? when almost all my GR friends who have read it rated it 4 and stars? Even friends who are hard to please, who do not usually like fluffy/mushy books, fell in love with it. So of course I thought it was the perfect book for me because I do like those kind of books (with moderation, of course). But I finished this book thinkin "Well, that's that.", and moved on to another book. It wasn't bad at all, but I also didn't feel anything towards the book. Or, what I did feel towards it was at the opposite from what I wanted to feel. I felt bored, I felt disappointed because my expectations weren't met and I felt confusion, trying to find what clicked with everyone else but didn't with me. I can't bring myself to rate this under three stars, though, because while I didn't love it I also didn't dislike it. It was still adorable and I fell in love with Jamie Novotny, and him alone made this book worth reading in the end.
August 28, 2014
At almost the half mark, I gave up. Mark needed a backbone and Jamie needed a life.
I was getting irritated with the characters and the pounding for eco values, diet and the humane treatment of animals, including urban chicken and bees, and the usual check mark against prejudiced and small-minded Christians, pastors, church and religion, any conservative values, life in bigoted small towns, Fox news, and on and on...
I did like the relationship between the characters -and if there had been more of that, I'd probably would have finished, especially because the writing style was good, and probably with a bit of trimming and editing, I'd have liked it much more.
I was getting irritated with the characters and the pounding for eco values, diet and the humane treatment of animals, including urban chicken and bees, and the usual check mark against prejudiced and small-minded Christians, pastors, church and religion, any conservative values, life in bigoted small towns, Fox news, and on and on...
I did like the relationship between the characters -and if there had been more of that, I'd probably would have finished, especially because the writing style was good, and probably with a bit of trimming and editing, I'd have liked it much more.
February 12, 2013
4.5 Stars
This was such a nice romantic story. I loved it. When I am in the mood, I really enjoy having a story that has a slow build up without major things thrown in to create drama and this story definitely fits that. If you are looking for a sweet love story, which a little self discovery and family issues thrown in, then this would be a perfect book.
This was such a nice romantic story. I loved it. When I am in the mood, I really enjoy having a story that has a slow build up without major things thrown in to create drama and this story definitely fits that. If you are looking for a sweet love story, which a little self discovery and family issues thrown in, then this would be a perfect book.
December 9, 2012
I absolutely loved this book. It escaped my attention during my daily look at DreamspinnerPress's releases, but fortunately I discovered it through my friends here on goodreads.
The story is slow and sweet, there is some angst mostly due to Mark's family but there is also a lot of humour thanks to Mark's voice, which I loved. The story is told in his first person point of view and it worked perfectly.
Mark is a super nice guy, a perfect son, brother, friend, partner. He always does everything he can to make other people happy and most of the times he doesn't even realize how much of himself he sacrifices to meet other people's needs and demands. Enters Jamie, with his battle to save the world, to which he adds the battle to make Mark see the light about himself and to finally push him to do what he wants instead of what's expected from him.
Their love story is very romantic and sometimes funny, because of Jamie's beliefs, like the fact cell phones may cause the death of bees. They're quite different in many aspects, but deep down they want the same thing: love and be loved.
But this book isn't all about the love story between the two main characters. It's also about family: Mark's parents are very religious and while they forgive time and time again the screwups of Mark's siblings, they have a hard time dealing with Mark's homosexuality. On the other hand, there's Jamie's family, who loves him and embraces Mark as one of their own.
There was no part of this book I didn't like, everything contributed to making it a great and emotional read. I believe this is the first book by Mari Donne but I sure hope it won't be the last.
The story is slow and sweet, there is some angst mostly due to Mark's family but there is also a lot of humour thanks to Mark's voice, which I loved. The story is told in his first person point of view and it worked perfectly.
Mark is a super nice guy, a perfect son, brother, friend, partner. He always does everything he can to make other people happy and most of the times he doesn't even realize how much of himself he sacrifices to meet other people's needs and demands. Enters Jamie, with his battle to save the world, to which he adds the battle to make Mark see the light about himself and to finally push him to do what he wants instead of what's expected from him.
Their love story is very romantic and sometimes funny, because of Jamie's beliefs, like the fact cell phones may cause the death of bees. They're quite different in many aspects, but deep down they want the same thing: love and be loved.
But this book isn't all about the love story between the two main characters. It's also about family: Mark's parents are very religious and while they forgive time and time again the screwups of Mark's siblings, they have a hard time dealing with Mark's homosexuality. On the other hand, there's Jamie's family, who loves him and embraces Mark as one of their own.
There was no part of this book I didn't like, everything contributed to making it a great and emotional read. I believe this is the first book by Mari Donne but I sure hope it won't be the last.
December 30, 2014
I just reread this today and was very sad (again) that this author doesn't write more. She has this effortless style in her writing and a wry sense of humour that click very well with me. I love her style of writing a lot. A whole lot. But I also get that some might not appreciate it, it's not too descriptive and at times unemotional. But I love it.
The romance and characters are also unique and a genuine breath of fresh air. There's no alpha ultra toned muscles or relentless repetitions of gasping at huge members.
It's just pure, sweet, slow-roasting, simple (but in no way simplistic or diminutive) journey to happiness of two very different souls that fit perfectly together, sans stylistic gimmicks. The best kind of romance story this genre has to offer.
The romance and characters are also unique and a genuine breath of fresh air. There's no alpha ultra toned muscles or relentless repetitions of gasping at huge members.
It's just pure, sweet, slow-roasting, simple (but in no way simplistic or diminutive) journey to happiness of two very different souls that fit perfectly together, sans stylistic gimmicks. The best kind of romance story this genre has to offer.
December 4, 2012
Wow. The best book of the year, bar none. And I am very very stingy with my 5 stars. Or maybe just that it felt really good to read a realsitic story after the non stop deluge of weres/vampires/insta love. The story had no plot holes which is a major peeve of mine. Though the only minor issue I have , as with all such books, is that it had only one MCs POV.
And surprisingly this is one book that I really liked but I am not clamoring for a sequel. The story feels complete.
And surprisingly this is one book that I really liked but I am not clamoring for a sequel. The story feels complete.
February 5, 2013
I was really looking forward to this book when I read about it and I really liked it. Usually I'm not in favor of first person perspective but Iliked it just fine. I do feel a little like Jamie myself at times to my familys dismay but really you should think about what you eat and where it is produced!
December 17, 2012
This was surprisingly really good. It's one of those that creeps up on you and before you know it, you don't want to put it down. I have read some mediocre stories recently but this one will be a definite re-read for me.
August 6, 2016
In ways, this book is a good deal sadder than I was expecting, plus more established (developing?) relationship than I like, and all of that makes it not really my cup of tea, but it was warm and lovely and well-written. I look forward to seeing more from the author in the future!
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