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All the Lonely People
After losing her beloved mother to cancer, 37-year-old Jaime Collins must confront the ugly fact that she and her siblings don't actually like one another. At all. Fueled by grief and an epic argument at Thanksgiving dinner, Jaime decides to 'divorce' her siblings and posts an ad on Craigslist for a new family for Christmas.
What happens next is a heartwarming, funny, and surprising journey to forgiveness and healing. Is blood really thicker than water? And how far do we have to go to find our way back home again?
Dedicated to anyone who has ever wanted to unfriend a relative on Facebook, ALL THE LONELY PEOPLE is about family: those you make ... and those you make peace with.
What happens next is a heartwarming, funny, and surprising journey to forgiveness and healing. Is blood really thicker than water? And how far do we have to go to find our way back home again?
Dedicated to anyone who has ever wanted to unfriend a relative on Facebook, ALL THE LONELY PEOPLE is about family: those you make ... and those you make peace with.
276 pages, Kindle Edition
First published October 30, 2012
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Jess Riley
13 books107 followersWisconsin native Jess Riley spent much of her childhood being punished for lying and/or passing notes during class, both of which qualified her for a possible future as a novelist. She won her first short story contest in high school for a tale told through the point of view of a seven-year-old black boy living in Cabrini Green because as a middle-class white teenager, she knew a lot about that kind of life.
Jess has been a waitress, a blue cheese packager, and a school grant writer. She worked at a toy store during the Tickle Me Elmo craze and lived to tell about it. She's also worked at a medium-security men's prison, which was much less stressful. Jess graduated from UW-Oshkosh in 1998 with degrees in English and History. She shares a drafty old house in Oshkosh, Wisconsin with her husband and a neurotic dog that despises public radio.
Her debut novel, Driving Sideways, was released by Random House in 2008. Selected as a Target Breakout Book, it returned to press four times within three months of release. Jess drank lots of wine to celebrate. Her second novel, All the Lonely People, was released in 2012, and her third, Mandatory Release, was released in 2013.
Jess has been a waitress, a blue cheese packager, and a school grant writer. She worked at a toy store during the Tickle Me Elmo craze and lived to tell about it. She's also worked at a medium-security men's prison, which was much less stressful. Jess graduated from UW-Oshkosh in 1998 with degrees in English and History. She shares a drafty old house in Oshkosh, Wisconsin with her husband and a neurotic dog that despises public radio.
Her debut novel, Driving Sideways, was released by Random House in 2008. Selected as a Target Breakout Book, it returned to press four times within three months of release. Jess drank lots of wine to celebrate. Her second novel, All the Lonely People, was released in 2012, and her third, Mandatory Release, was released in 2013.
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November 9, 2012I’m so happy to finally add my second novel, All the Lonely People, to my author shelf. Dedicated to anyone who ever wanted to unfriend a family member on Facebook (and just in time for Thanksgiving), All the Lonely People is about family: those you make, and those you make peace with.
November 29, 2012
What I love about Jess Riley's books are that she has this amazing ability to create characters that seem absolutely real - and you want to meet every last one of them. This story was so engaging, covering a sensitive subject with humor and grief seamlessly woven together to create a highly entertaining story.
I would get so excited while I was reading that I would read lines out loud to my boyfriend - and while I couldn't get him to read a book to save his life, he would laugh in surprise at all of the little quips that made us feel closer to the author. The references to Jon Lajoie, Bob Ross, food babies and The Count's laugh almost made me feel like Jess was eavesdropping on some of our conversations... seriously, if she has the same sense of humor in real life I could definitely see us hanging out! Haha!
I can't recommend this book enough - I enjoyed it even more than Driving Sideways, and I can't wait for her next novel, Mandatory Release!
I would get so excited while I was reading that I would read lines out loud to my boyfriend - and while I couldn't get him to read a book to save his life, he would laugh in surprise at all of the little quips that made us feel closer to the author. The references to Jon Lajoie, Bob Ross, food babies and The Count's laugh almost made me feel like Jess was eavesdropping on some of our conversations... seriously, if she has the same sense of humor in real life I could definitely see us hanging out! Haha!
I can't recommend this book enough - I enjoyed it even more than Driving Sideways, and I can't wait for her next novel, Mandatory Release!
December 5, 2012
All the Lonely People is a book about real people. It’s messy and funny and honest. Jamie recently lost her mother and is struggling to connect to her siblings. She takes a crazy chance and reaches out to find a new eclectic family via craigslist. The result is a relatable story woven in the quirky city of Madison, Wisconsin. I finished the book in two days with a sense of validation for my world.
This glimpse into Jamie’s life made me appreciate my husband more and want to learn everything I can from my mom. It helped me to understand my own sister who, like Jamie, collects lonely souls in in her own hodgepodge family. I know I’m not the only one that has a family that I love but don't like all the time and probably wouldn't talk to at all except that we share DNA.
Read this book. You’ll find new friends and kindred spirit. Maybe you’ll world will make a little more sense as a result.
This glimpse into Jamie’s life made me appreciate my husband more and want to learn everything I can from my mom. It helped me to understand my own sister who, like Jamie, collects lonely souls in in her own hodgepodge family. I know I’m not the only one that has a family that I love but don't like all the time and probably wouldn't talk to at all except that we share DNA.
Read this book. You’ll find new friends and kindred spirit. Maybe you’ll world will make a little more sense as a result.
November 7, 2012
I truly LOVED THIS BOOK! I found myself quoting it out loud to my husband, my dog, my kid, anyone who was around.
Jess Riley is a master at taking those uncomfortable life moments, making you cringe and peek through your fingers, then twisting it until you laugh your fanny off. And somehow making your heart pinch a little bit too. Real characters, real family pushing apart and pulling back together through all their imperfections, Jess made me feel like I knew these people. And maybe I didn't exactly like them, but I had to love how the heroine Jaime came out on top.
For those of us who somehow didn't manage to get one of those Perfect Family's for the holidays, this is a wish fulfilled. Go out and find your OWN family. Oh, but they probably won't be perfect either.
Jess Riley is a master at taking those uncomfortable life moments, making you cringe and peek through your fingers, then twisting it until you laugh your fanny off. And somehow making your heart pinch a little bit too. Real characters, real family pushing apart and pulling back together through all their imperfections, Jess made me feel like I knew these people. And maybe I didn't exactly like them, but I had to love how the heroine Jaime came out on top.
For those of us who somehow didn't manage to get one of those Perfect Family's for the holidays, this is a wish fulfilled. Go out and find your OWN family. Oh, but they probably won't be perfect either.
December 21, 2012
I received a copy of this book from the author in exchange for an honest review.
My interest was piqued by the premise of the book immediately. Advertising for a new family for the holidays on Craigslist?!? Definitely not something you hear about every day.
Jaime has been in a tough spot for the last few years. Her mom died of cancer 6 months ago and before she was diagnosed she and her husband, Erik, had been trying unsucessfully to get pregnant. Even without her mom's illness her family definitely has its issues. The unresolved feelings, resentments, issues etc. boil over in Jaime right in the middle of Thanksgiving dinner which results in a quick estrangement from her brother Clint. Her friends talk her in to this Craigslist ad and things kind of take on a life of their own once she gets responses from 4 other locals.
The people who respond to her ad couldn't be more different - both from each other and from Jaime and her husband. But Jaime is desperate for some connection and oddly enough she finds it in this motley group.
The book shares their first meeting at Christmas and up through the next 6 months and as Jaime gets to know each of them, she discovers more about herself and her feelings about her real family. I really enjoyed seeing how Jaime went from pointing the finger at her family to really taking time to examine her own role in their failing relationships. She took the high road and it wasn't easy but it was definitely admirable.
There are some pretty serious issues discussed - suicide, cancer, infertility, abusive relationships - and yet author Jess Riley is able to inspire chuckles with her witty descriptions and dialogue without ever being disrespectful to the topics.
There's definitely some "language" and off-color humor but it was in line with each of the character's personality and I didn't feel it detracted from the overall message of the book or my enjoyment of it.
There are references about everything from The Walking Dead tv show to Bob Ross and his "happy little trees" to the Brady Bunch. I found myself rereading paragraphs and chuckling again at Jaime's inner monologue.
This is a really fun book to read around the holidays. Definitely recommended!
My interest was piqued by the premise of the book immediately. Advertising for a new family for the holidays on Craigslist?!? Definitely not something you hear about every day.
Jaime has been in a tough spot for the last few years. Her mom died of cancer 6 months ago and before she was diagnosed she and her husband, Erik, had been trying unsucessfully to get pregnant. Even without her mom's illness her family definitely has its issues. The unresolved feelings, resentments, issues etc. boil over in Jaime right in the middle of Thanksgiving dinner which results in a quick estrangement from her brother Clint. Her friends talk her in to this Craigslist ad and things kind of take on a life of their own once she gets responses from 4 other locals.
The people who respond to her ad couldn't be more different - both from each other and from Jaime and her husband. But Jaime is desperate for some connection and oddly enough she finds it in this motley group.
The book shares their first meeting at Christmas and up through the next 6 months and as Jaime gets to know each of them, she discovers more about herself and her feelings about her real family. I really enjoyed seeing how Jaime went from pointing the finger at her family to really taking time to examine her own role in their failing relationships. She took the high road and it wasn't easy but it was definitely admirable.
There are some pretty serious issues discussed - suicide, cancer, infertility, abusive relationships - and yet author Jess Riley is able to inspire chuckles with her witty descriptions and dialogue without ever being disrespectful to the topics.
There's definitely some "language" and off-color humor but it was in line with each of the character's personality and I didn't feel it detracted from the overall message of the book or my enjoyment of it.
There are references about everything from The Walking Dead tv show to Bob Ross and his "happy little trees" to the Brady Bunch. I found myself rereading paragraphs and chuckling again at Jaime's inner monologue.
This is a really fun book to read around the holidays. Definitely recommended!
December 14, 2012
MY THOUGHTS
LOVED IT
Jaime, the youngest of three, has spent the last year caring for her mother who died from Ovarian cancer. Her oldest sister has always been perfect and dynamic, soaring quickly through law school and ignoring the fact that she has a family. Her older brother and his sarcasm has used Jaime as the butt of his jokes to the point of being cruel. The only reason she puts up with this oaf is because of his daughter, Hannah. So when even his religious wife can't contain his anger, Jaime loses it at Thanksgiving when he baits her one last time. She decides that she is fed up with her non feeling sister and ignorant brother and puts an ad on CraigsList for a new family to spend Christmas.
The four people that answer the ad are truly characters. An elderly lady that is an artist and truly has her act together but too far from her family. A single man with a passion for rescuing dachshunds! A transgendered person that is truly a wonder and full of understanding even though she has been abused constantly and now estranged from her extremely Christian family. A young college student who just lost the love of her life in a car accident. When all of these people come together for a holiday dinner, things get increasingly strange but they do form a bond that will leave life long emotions.
I really enjoyed the whole story and found it really believable. The characters were all people I seemed to recognize. Jaime realizes that her family will never be what she wants it to be and her husband, Eric doesn't have the family she needs/wants. I appreciate that he went along with the whole scheme with good humor and love. Even though it doesn't go exactly how Jaime wants it to go, I think she got just what she needed. I adored Riley's writing and the humor she captures in little things. If you enjoy Laurie Notaro's fiction works, you are going to love this one.
LOVED IT
Jaime, the youngest of three, has spent the last year caring for her mother who died from Ovarian cancer. Her oldest sister has always been perfect and dynamic, soaring quickly through law school and ignoring the fact that she has a family. Her older brother and his sarcasm has used Jaime as the butt of his jokes to the point of being cruel. The only reason she puts up with this oaf is because of his daughter, Hannah. So when even his religious wife can't contain his anger, Jaime loses it at Thanksgiving when he baits her one last time. She decides that she is fed up with her non feeling sister and ignorant brother and puts an ad on CraigsList for a new family to spend Christmas.
The four people that answer the ad are truly characters. An elderly lady that is an artist and truly has her act together but too far from her family. A single man with a passion for rescuing dachshunds! A transgendered person that is truly a wonder and full of understanding even though she has been abused constantly and now estranged from her extremely Christian family. A young college student who just lost the love of her life in a car accident. When all of these people come together for a holiday dinner, things get increasingly strange but they do form a bond that will leave life long emotions.
I really enjoyed the whole story and found it really believable. The characters were all people I seemed to recognize. Jaime realizes that her family will never be what she wants it to be and her husband, Eric doesn't have the family she needs/wants. I appreciate that he went along with the whole scheme with good humor and love. Even though it doesn't go exactly how Jaime wants it to go, I think she got just what she needed. I adored Riley's writing and the humor she captures in little things. If you enjoy Laurie Notaro's fiction works, you are going to love this one.
November 29, 2012
What would the holidays be without crazy family drama? Seriously…
I know mine would be a huge bore! All the Lonely People is the story of one young woman who cringed at the thought of spending the holidays with her heartless siblings, after their mother passed away, so she went and created a new family. After (daringly) putting an ad on Craigslist, she ends up with a group of folks looking for similar companionship. The author’s witty sense of humor and knack for people watching are clearly evident in this wonderfully written character driven story. With a style that's both wry and heartwarming, readers will absolutely recognize themselves and their own family members amongst the diverse cast of characters.
I absolutely loved the author’s sense of humor and flair for sarcasm. I may just have to invite her to spend the holidays with my family and me.
I know mine would be a huge bore! All the Lonely People is the story of one young woman who cringed at the thought of spending the holidays with her heartless siblings, after their mother passed away, so she went and created a new family. After (daringly) putting an ad on Craigslist, she ends up with a group of folks looking for similar companionship. The author’s witty sense of humor and knack for people watching are clearly evident in this wonderfully written character driven story. With a style that's both wry and heartwarming, readers will absolutely recognize themselves and their own family members amongst the diverse cast of characters.
I absolutely loved the author’s sense of humor and flair for sarcasm. I may just have to invite her to spend the holidays with my family and me.
February 10, 2017
There is something about Jess Riley's writing style that allows me to slip seamlessly into the narrative. Just like her novel "Driving Sideways", I found myself effortlessly breezing through each page until novel's end. I don't know why, but I constantly felt the need to carry this book around with me even when I wasn't planning on reading. "Maybe I'll be able to slip in a chapter in between toasting toast", I'd say. True story! If you do decide to give this one a chance, you too will be carried off into a world where chapters end quickly, thoughts drift momentarily, and tostios tortilla chips drown in a pool of salsa and sour cream. Wait, what's all this about nachos? Dammit! I guess the universe DOES want me to eat nachos right before bed after all...
July 22, 2013
cute concept, but it got a little old after the few chapters. it was predictable what was going to happen, and i spent a lot of the book wondering if something big was going to happen. i found chris's portrayal to be pretty transphobic throughout the book and i wanted there to be more to her character. there were some pretty heavy topics (domestic violence and a potential sexual assault, along with all of the underlying family issues) that were mentioned and then glossed over and never resolved. i wish the book had been longer or had more of a resolution, instead of just ending.
December 1, 2012
Hilarous and touching! I've already gifted the Kindle version to several family members of varying ages and every single one has enjoyed it, which is a first. If you're looking for something to lift your spirits, this is it.
August 4, 2015
I laughed out loud many times throughout this book! I've never read any of her other books, but I'm going to now. I certainly hope she writes more.
November 24, 2015
Awesome subject, smartly written and the main make character is my husband, I swear. :)
November 21, 2022
The plot had the makings for a fun story but it got boring quickly. Also I know it was written ten years ago, however the language around trans people does not read well in present day.
June 11, 2018
POTENTIAL TRIGGER WARNING: This novel touches upon the topics of cutting, depression, abusive relationships and attempted suicide.
3.5 Stars
Thirty-seven year old Jaime Collins recently lost her mom to cancer. Now the holiday season is just around the corner and Jaime could not be less enthused. She has no interest in holiday shopping or putting on smiles around her insensitive brother and meddlesome sister-in-law. Things come to a head when she ends up having a blow-out fight with her siblings over Thanksgiving dinner. Riding the high emotions of that night, Jaime goes home and decides to place a Craigslist ad for a new family for Christmas. She requests responses from anyone else feeling alone or fed up with their own family situation. She crafts the ad while intoxicated, posts, and within 12 hours has 26 responses to sift through. The winners for her Christmas party include transgender Chris, daschund-loving Paul, welding artist Evelyn (who also happens to have a dander allergy) and Alyssa, a science major struggling through her own grieving process after recently losing her boyfriend in a car wreck.
While this story certainly has its laughs, it may not be for the more sensitive readers out there because plenty of hard-hitting topics are addressed over the course of Jaime's story. There's also a fair bit of crude language and dark / off-color / risque humor (ie. jokes about strap-ons) implemented in the process. In addition to witnessing our main character work through the grieving process over the death of her mother, we (the readers) are also informed of Jaime's father-in-law battling Alzheimer's, Jaime herself struggling with fertility issues (her journey through IVF treatments), as well as the plot also bringing up the topics of cutting, depression, attempted suicide, abusive relationships and struggles with gender identity.
Even though I can appreciate that important topics were brought to light in the unfolding of this story, and the story itself is solidly entertaining, it did go on a little long for me. By Chapter 17 I was feeling like the story could've been sufficiently wrapped up, all questions answered... a feeling that continued on right through Chapter 26... and even after that you get three more chapters! I also didn't always love Jaime. In fact, she struck me as a being a little petty with her dad near the end of the book.
In the acknowledgements, Jess Riley gives a shout-out to author friend Jen Lancaster.
3.5 Stars
Thirty-seven year old Jaime Collins recently lost her mom to cancer. Now the holiday season is just around the corner and Jaime could not be less enthused. She has no interest in holiday shopping or putting on smiles around her insensitive brother and meddlesome sister-in-law. Things come to a head when she ends up having a blow-out fight with her siblings over Thanksgiving dinner. Riding the high emotions of that night, Jaime goes home and decides to place a Craigslist ad for a new family for Christmas. She requests responses from anyone else feeling alone or fed up with their own family situation. She crafts the ad while intoxicated, posts, and within 12 hours has 26 responses to sift through. The winners for her Christmas party include transgender Chris, daschund-loving Paul, welding artist Evelyn (who also happens to have a dander allergy) and Alyssa, a science major struggling through her own grieving process after recently losing her boyfriend in a car wreck.
While this story certainly has its laughs, it may not be for the more sensitive readers out there because plenty of hard-hitting topics are addressed over the course of Jaime's story. There's also a fair bit of crude language and dark / off-color / risque humor (ie. jokes about strap-ons) implemented in the process. In addition to witnessing our main character work through the grieving process over the death of her mother, we (the readers) are also informed of Jaime's father-in-law battling Alzheimer's, Jaime herself struggling with fertility issues (her journey through IVF treatments), as well as the plot also bringing up the topics of cutting, depression, attempted suicide, abusive relationships and struggles with gender identity.
Even though I can appreciate that important topics were brought to light in the unfolding of this story, and the story itself is solidly entertaining, it did go on a little long for me. By Chapter 17 I was feeling like the story could've been sufficiently wrapped up, all questions answered... a feeling that continued on right through Chapter 26... and even after that you get three more chapters! I also didn't always love Jaime. In fact, she struck me as a being a little petty with her dad near the end of the book.
In the acknowledgements, Jess Riley gives a shout-out to author friend Jen Lancaster.
August 27, 2017
So many good things can be said about this book. The story line is so unique. I've never read a book like this. The writing style and language is spot on. I literally laughed out loud more than once. The characters in this book were some of the best characters I've met. They're all so easy to relate to; they're honest; they're real. Jess Riley made it easy for the reader to step into the shoes of the characters. The ending was heartbreaking and heart-warming all in one. The reason I'm giving this 4 stars instead of 5 is because overall, the book was fairly slow moving. All in all, though, I would definitely recommend this book.
February 15, 2022
Such an interesting premise: a woman gets in a fight with her family, and decides to advertise for a new family to celebrate Christmas with. The characters are interesting, and the story is entertaining. It does get a little bogged down in the middle, but overall I enjoyed it.
October 27, 2016
Entertaining and heartfelt!
A great book to curl up with. Made me laugh and cry. The characters are relatable. A lost girl who finds more than a family.
A great book to curl up with. Made me laugh and cry. The characters are relatable. A lost girl who finds more than a family.
November 24, 2021
When you're own family disappoints a new family can be the answer. I know how important my friends are. This is a funny...newsy kind of story that makes you think about people in one's life.
November 28, 2012
Originally posted on hello, chelly.
***
The good: I love my family, I really do but there are moments when they drive me totally and completely crazy. I'm pretty sure that's a sentiment we can all agree on. All The Lonely People explores this feeling and takes it one step further. After the loss of her mother to cancer, it's becoming achingly clear to Jaime that she doesn't get along with her older siblings - Gwen and Clint. Gwen is pretty much MIA and despite her efforts with Clint, she gets the distinct impression that he can't stand her. So after a disastrous Thanksgiving dinner which leads to her getting kicked out of her brother's house, she decides to find herself a new family. How? By posting an ad on Craigslist, of course.
Throughout the book, we're introduced to all the people who have been a part of Jaime's life and all the new people who come into it because of the ad. It's these wonderful, real and kind of kooky characters that make this story so great. First there's her husband, Erik, who I loved. He's got this dry sarcastic humor and he's kind of a big kid at heart. But he's reliable and he loves Jamie and he actually goes along with her crazy idea to meet/create a new family. I think her sometimes irrational frustrations with him were easy to relate to also. Like, why are you being so calm and logical when I'm yelling! (I hate when guys do this because it makes me feel like a crazy person.) Then there are her three best friends from college. I enjoyed that through all the marriages, kids, new jobs and changes in their lives - they were able to maintain their friendship. It's not as easy as it used to be but they all hold onto it and I enjoyed the glimpse into that. Again, felt very true to life. And I can't not mention her new "family" of lonely people. I loved them! They were all such characters but they all had good hearts. As crazy as the circumstances were, there was something beautiful about these different people finding each other.
Based on what I've written so far, it might seem like Jaime's idea was so easy to accomplish. Need a new family? Done. But it's not and I'm glad the book went into that. Because these new set of people came with their own set of problems that Jaimie inevitably got sucked into. There's a balance you have to maintain between your husband, old friends, new friends, etc. And no matter how much you may think you hate your family.. you can't change the fact that they'll always be your family. This theme was explored really well throughout the book, with humor and lots of realistic moments.
(Very minor) reservations: There's this one scene featuring Jaime's sister Gwen that felt a little out of left field. She suddenly recalls a childhood memory (a rather important one!) and it feel a little brushed off. For something like that to come up, I expected a conversation or some acknowledgement between the two sisters.
Do I recommend?: If you're the mood for a heartwarming book that will make you laugh, deals with family and Christmas - I definitely recommend this!
***
The good: I love my family, I really do but there are moments when they drive me totally and completely crazy. I'm pretty sure that's a sentiment we can all agree on. All The Lonely People explores this feeling and takes it one step further. After the loss of her mother to cancer, it's becoming achingly clear to Jaime that she doesn't get along with her older siblings - Gwen and Clint. Gwen is pretty much MIA and despite her efforts with Clint, she gets the distinct impression that he can't stand her. So after a disastrous Thanksgiving dinner which leads to her getting kicked out of her brother's house, she decides to find herself a new family. How? By posting an ad on Craigslist, of course.
Throughout the book, we're introduced to all the people who have been a part of Jaime's life and all the new people who come into it because of the ad. It's these wonderful, real and kind of kooky characters that make this story so great. First there's her husband, Erik, who I loved. He's got this dry sarcastic humor and he's kind of a big kid at heart. But he's reliable and he loves Jamie and he actually goes along with her crazy idea to meet/create a new family. I think her sometimes irrational frustrations with him were easy to relate to also. Like, why are you being so calm and logical when I'm yelling! (I hate when guys do this because it makes me feel like a crazy person.) Then there are her three best friends from college. I enjoyed that through all the marriages, kids, new jobs and changes in their lives - they were able to maintain their friendship. It's not as easy as it used to be but they all hold onto it and I enjoyed the glimpse into that. Again, felt very true to life. And I can't not mention her new "family" of lonely people. I loved them! They were all such characters but they all had good hearts. As crazy as the circumstances were, there was something beautiful about these different people finding each other.
Based on what I've written so far, it might seem like Jaime's idea was so easy to accomplish. Need a new family? Done. But it's not and I'm glad the book went into that. Because these new set of people came with their own set of problems that Jaimie inevitably got sucked into. There's a balance you have to maintain between your husband, old friends, new friends, etc. And no matter how much you may think you hate your family.. you can't change the fact that they'll always be your family. This theme was explored really well throughout the book, with humor and lots of realistic moments.
(Very minor) reservations: There's this one scene featuring Jaime's sister Gwen that felt a little out of left field. She suddenly recalls a childhood memory (a rather important one!) and it feel a little brushed off. For something like that to come up, I expected a conversation or some acknowledgement between the two sisters.
Do I recommend?: If you're the mood for a heartwarming book that will make you laugh, deals with family and Christmas - I definitely recommend this!
February 25, 2017
Not good
I remember enjoying the first book by Jess Riley, but his was not good.
I'm not sure of the flow of the book, I gave up after 55% (that took me 2 weeks to read that far) and skimmed til the end.
Don't waste your money.
I remember enjoying the first book by Jess Riley, but his was not good.
I'm not sure of the flow of the book, I gave up after 55% (that took me 2 weeks to read that far) and skimmed til the end.
Don't waste your money.
May 1, 2015
Every once in a blue moon, I read a book and think, "I really wish that I had written this myself". Jess Riley's novel, "All the Lonely People", falls right into that category.
Riley's novel centers around Jaime and Erik, a middle-aged, childless couple who are struggling with their definition of family. The novel starts slightly over a year after Jaime's mother has died and Jaime is left fighting with her distant and dysfunction siblings. Her husband, Erik, is an only child, whose only relative is his elderly father who lives in an nursing home and suffers from Alzheimer's.
Christmas is approaching and Jaime decides to advertise on Craigslist for a new family. It turns out that there are plenty of isolated people in need of new relatives and willing to take a chance on a stranger.
Riley is just a fantastic writer. The sense of humor that she infuses into her characters and their situations is razor sharp, a bit wicked and often completely hilarious. However, what I love most about her writing, is that she balances the humor with a sensitivity towards painful subjects (grieving over a loved one, family resentment, personal heartache) and creates a story that is truly touching.
On many levels, I found this book to be affecting and ridiculously relatable. I rarely cry when reading a book, but this one got to me. It feels real, because not everything was neatly resolved and although most of the characters were endearing, they all had a plethora of flaws.
The theme of family and what constitutes a family is of great interest to me. Does blood relation really matter? Is a childless couple just as valid of a family as those with children? What happens when you are left without family or left with a family whose actions are unacceptable? Riley doesn't give broad answers to these social questions. Each of her characters struggles with their own ideas and ultimately the reader is left to draw their own conclusions. This book gets personal.
"All The Lonely People" is so loaded with discussion topics that it would be an excellent choice for a book group!
This was my first book by Riley and I can't wait to read her others. I obviously really loved this book and highly recommend it!
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Riley's novel centers around Jaime and Erik, a middle-aged, childless couple who are struggling with their definition of family. The novel starts slightly over a year after Jaime's mother has died and Jaime is left fighting with her distant and dysfunction siblings. Her husband, Erik, is an only child, whose only relative is his elderly father who lives in an nursing home and suffers from Alzheimer's.
Christmas is approaching and Jaime decides to advertise on Craigslist for a new family. It turns out that there are plenty of isolated people in need of new relatives and willing to take a chance on a stranger.
Riley is just a fantastic writer. The sense of humor that she infuses into her characters and their situations is razor sharp, a bit wicked and often completely hilarious. However, what I love most about her writing, is that she balances the humor with a sensitivity towards painful subjects (grieving over a loved one, family resentment, personal heartache) and creates a story that is truly touching.
On many levels, I found this book to be affecting and ridiculously relatable. I rarely cry when reading a book, but this one got to me. It feels real, because not everything was neatly resolved and although most of the characters were endearing, they all had a plethora of flaws.
The theme of family and what constitutes a family is of great interest to me. Does blood relation really matter? Is a childless couple just as valid of a family as those with children? What happens when you are left without family or left with a family whose actions are unacceptable? Riley doesn't give broad answers to these social questions. Each of her characters struggles with their own ideas and ultimately the reader is left to draw their own conclusions. This book gets personal.
"All The Lonely People" is so loaded with discussion topics that it would be an excellent choice for a book group!
This was my first book by Riley and I can't wait to read her others. I obviously really loved this book and highly recommend it!
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December 27, 2012
This story is set around Jaime a 37 year old who has recently lost her mother to Cancer. She has a brother and a sister and the book starts by introducing the reader to the family. Jaime's sister Gwen and brother Clint are closer to each other but have no relationship with Jaime. Clint is certainly portrayed as an unkind character and I took an instant dislike to him.
Jaime lives with her husband Erik in her mother's old house which the siblings are waiting for them to sell and move out. Erik is a lovely husband and quite understanding towards Jaime's quirky ways but when Jaime wants to put out an advertisement for a new family to celebrate Christmas with then surely Erik won't agree to that?
I don't want to give too much of the story away but you do get to meet some very interesting people.
The story also covers some aspects of her mother's illness and this is dealt with tastefully but left me sobbing in parts.
There are also plenty of light hearted and funny parts too which keeps the story nicely balanced.
I thoroughly enjoyed this book and I would recommend this to anybody who feels like a good cry and a laugh too.
I rate this book 4.4 stars and look forward to reading more of this author's work soon.
Becky Sherriff
(The Kindle Book Review)
The KBR received a free copy of this book in exchange for a fair and honest review. We are not connected with the author or publisher in any way, nor are we otherwise compensated for this service by Amazon or any other party
Jaime lives with her husband Erik in her mother's old house which the siblings are waiting for them to sell and move out. Erik is a lovely husband and quite understanding towards Jaime's quirky ways but when Jaime wants to put out an advertisement for a new family to celebrate Christmas with then surely Erik won't agree to that?
I don't want to give too much of the story away but you do get to meet some very interesting people.
The story also covers some aspects of her mother's illness and this is dealt with tastefully but left me sobbing in parts.
There are also plenty of light hearted and funny parts too which keeps the story nicely balanced.
I thoroughly enjoyed this book and I would recommend this to anybody who feels like a good cry and a laugh too.
I rate this book 4.4 stars and look forward to reading more of this author's work soon.
Becky Sherriff
(The Kindle Book Review)
The KBR received a free copy of this book in exchange for a fair and honest review. We are not connected with the author or publisher in any way, nor are we otherwise compensated for this service by Amazon or any other party
January 3, 2013
jess rileyI was provided a copy of ALL THE LONELY PEOPLE by Jess Riley in exchange for an honest review.
I was immediately hooked when I read this: "WANTED: a whole new family to share holidays with. Please have a good heart and be a thoughtful, polite person. No sociopaths, no pedophiles, no fans of the Kardashians. We're not weirdos, I promise. I love old Steve Martin movies, new Steve Martin banjo tunes, Indian food, and reruns of Bob Ross painting happy little trees. So if you're looking for something other than the typical family dysfunction this Christmas, drop us a line." After losing her dear mom to cancer, Jaime realizes that her death has not brought her and her siblings any closer, it only makes her realize that they don't actually like each other. So, in lieu of being able to spend time with her family for Christmas, she decides to post an ad on CraigsList asking for a new family. But, will Jaime actually get what she is looking for?
I found this novel surprisingly funny. I mean, what does Jaime expect to happen when she solicits a new family for the holidays?!? I definitely had fun reading this novel and it definitely made me appreciate my crazy family more during the holiday season. In addition to a good laugh here and there, this book is also heartwarming and I definitely found Jaime's journey to forgiveness sweet and charming. Overall, this book is a great read, especially for those people who have a hard time with their own family during the holiday season.
I was immediately hooked when I read this: "WANTED: a whole new family to share holidays with. Please have a good heart and be a thoughtful, polite person. No sociopaths, no pedophiles, no fans of the Kardashians. We're not weirdos, I promise. I love old Steve Martin movies, new Steve Martin banjo tunes, Indian food, and reruns of Bob Ross painting happy little trees. So if you're looking for something other than the typical family dysfunction this Christmas, drop us a line." After losing her dear mom to cancer, Jaime realizes that her death has not brought her and her siblings any closer, it only makes her realize that they don't actually like each other. So, in lieu of being able to spend time with her family for Christmas, she decides to post an ad on CraigsList asking for a new family. But, will Jaime actually get what she is looking for?
I found this novel surprisingly funny. I mean, what does Jaime expect to happen when she solicits a new family for the holidays?!? I definitely had fun reading this novel and it definitely made me appreciate my crazy family more during the holiday season. In addition to a good laugh here and there, this book is also heartwarming and I definitely found Jaime's journey to forgiveness sweet and charming. Overall, this book is a great read, especially for those people who have a hard time with their own family during the holiday season.
April 17, 2013
WOW! I simply loved this book, all the characters and the messages folded in between the words and actions. I absolutely could not put this book down..Riley's unique writing ability had me crying, laughing, and even mad at times. It allows us to understand that with family, you can love them with all your heart and Not like them at all. This writing is full of siblings and spouses and everything in between, each with their own personality, thoughts and emotions. I found I was able to relate to each and every one of them, even the ones I didn’t like at all.
Some of the issues dealt with are Jamie’s childless marriage but a wonderful understanding husband, the death of their mother, the selling of her house, blame from her siblings and herself, another aged parent suffering with Alzheimers, siblings quick to voice their opinions and thoughts and the feeling of a disconnected family. Thanksgiving celebration was anything but family love and understanding. She simply advertises for a different family to celebrate Christmas with and she has responses.
This writer quickly became one of my very favorites and I am looking forward to more. Her ability to bring you humor so funny you find yourself laughing so hard tears roll down your face. Her skill in being able to bring heart ache within your own heart, brings tears of a different kind and an exceptional understanding. This family was so real and true to life, you wish the tale went own. The ending might have seemed a bit vague but families and life doesn’t always end in a perfect figured out way but there is always hope.
Some of the issues dealt with are Jamie’s childless marriage but a wonderful understanding husband, the death of their mother, the selling of her house, blame from her siblings and herself, another aged parent suffering with Alzheimers, siblings quick to voice their opinions and thoughts and the feeling of a disconnected family. Thanksgiving celebration was anything but family love and understanding. She simply advertises for a different family to celebrate Christmas with and she has responses.
This writer quickly became one of my very favorites and I am looking forward to more. Her ability to bring you humor so funny you find yourself laughing so hard tears roll down your face. Her skill in being able to bring heart ache within your own heart, brings tears of a different kind and an exceptional understanding. This family was so real and true to life, you wish the tale went own. The ending might have seemed a bit vague but families and life doesn’t always end in a perfect figured out way but there is always hope.
September 9, 2013
Jaime is pissed off with her brother Clint with whom she had a really close bond until they grew up. Now her treats her with contempt and is sometimes just downright cruel. Her sister Gwen is distant and snobby and Jaime never hears from her. After recently losing her mother (with whom she was really close) to cancer Jaime feels even more alone despite seeming to be in a good marriage with Erik.
At Thanksgiving dinner that year, Jaime has finally had enough of her brother’s rudeness and walks out in the middle of the dinner after having flung a serving of mashed potatoes at Clint which unfortunately lands on Clint’s eleven year old daughter Hannah instead. That is when she decides to advertise for a new family with whom to spend Christmas.
Surprisingly, she gets quite a response and after much sifting and vetting chooses four people who look as if they might fit in with what Jaime is looking for in a family. Erik watches from the side-lines as Jaime becomes more involved in her new family than with what he feels comfortable. One notable observation that Jaime makes is that in any relationship there is always one person who loves their partner more and in her case it is Erik who loves more.
Jess Riley has a writing style that is captivating and funny even as she addresses serious issues that we all grapple with at some stage. I look forward to reading more of her work.
At Thanksgiving dinner that year, Jaime has finally had enough of her brother’s rudeness and walks out in the middle of the dinner after having flung a serving of mashed potatoes at Clint which unfortunately lands on Clint’s eleven year old daughter Hannah instead. That is when she decides to advertise for a new family with whom to spend Christmas.
Surprisingly, she gets quite a response and after much sifting and vetting chooses four people who look as if they might fit in with what Jaime is looking for in a family. Erik watches from the side-lines as Jaime becomes more involved in her new family than with what he feels comfortable. One notable observation that Jaime makes is that in any relationship there is always one person who loves their partner more and in her case it is Erik who loves more.
Jess Riley has a writing style that is captivating and funny even as she addresses serious issues that we all grapple with at some stage. I look forward to reading more of her work.
September 7, 2014
I was looking for some light, entertaining reading between semesters and went to one of our local libraries and found this on the Newcomer's wall. I'm not sure why I picked it up, maybe because of the title relating it to a Beatle's song, but I am so glad I did. I have to say it's been nearly a year since I read it but it has definitely stayed with me. (I won't give a synopsis. You can read what the others have to say.) I told my friend about it and she couldn't believe from the title that it would be funny but after I read a couple of excerpts from it, she lol'd with me. I thought it was very touching, very funny when you needed it to be, quirky as hell (I need some of her friends to help keep me real) and sometimes difficult since I had just battled ovarian cancer. I love her character development and thought she nailed all of them as I wasn't wanting for more. If you are looking for something to read over a long weekend (because you won't be able to put it down but you should probably eat, take a shower, brush your teeth, and call your mom), I absolutely recommend this book. It will give you a new appreciation for all the wonderful, quirky, loving and horrid people you have in your life.
January 25, 2016
ALL THE LONELY PEOPLE is a modern day look at what many people would do if they had the chance: replace their family members with new people whose past is not intertwined with yours. Jaime (remember the spelling!) Collins is in her late thirties, married but childless, and is going through a major change in life after the death of her mother (whom she cared for in sickness). She does not have very good relationships with her siblings, so when Christmas approaches, she runs an ad on Craigslist for "new" family members to share Christmas with. Of course, she meets a hodge-podge of mismatched people who do becomes friends, but as the story goes on, she learns forgiveness and how life is a process and what is needed to move on to the next phase.
I enjoy the writing style of Jess Riley. This book is tagged "humor". While some of the situations are not all that funny, the story is narrated by Jaime, who throws in humorous thoughts to the conversations. Some parts made me laugh, and some parts just made me happy that this author, well, "gets it". She really gets the ins and outs of a dysfunctional family.
I enjoy the writing style of Jess Riley. This book is tagged "humor". While some of the situations are not all that funny, the story is narrated by Jaime, who throws in humorous thoughts to the conversations. Some parts made me laugh, and some parts just made me happy that this author, well, "gets it". She really gets the ins and outs of a dysfunctional family.
June 8, 2013
After losing her mother to ovarian cancer, Jaime has a falling out with her brother and doesn't get along with her sister. On a whim, she decides to take out an ad on craigslist seeking a new family. Four diverse and quirky individuals make the cut.
Overall, I liked this book very much. I enjoyed the author's witty and observant writing style, and I especially loved the ending. Jaime's new "family" members could've used more character development. Sometimes I couldn't tell what made them tick. And somewhere in the middle, Jaime started to seem a negative and whiny person, especially toward her husband. I do think that may be what the author intended a little bit, as she redeems herself at the end. As a Wisconsinite, the descriptions of Madison, a city I love, were a treat for me.
Overall, I liked this book very much. I enjoyed the author's witty and observant writing style, and I especially loved the ending. Jaime's new "family" members could've used more character development. Sometimes I couldn't tell what made them tick. And somewhere in the middle, Jaime started to seem a negative and whiny person, especially toward her husband. I do think that may be what the author intended a little bit, as she redeems herself at the end. As a Wisconsinite, the descriptions of Madison, a city I love, were a treat for me.
August 4, 2013
Light, very funny, heartwarming. initial premise - narrator has had it with her cruel brother and cold sister and 6 months after her mother's death from cancer she places an ad on Craig's list for a "new family". She ges four promising responses and she & her husband spent Christmas dinner in a restaurant with 4 interesting and unique individuals. The rest of the novel follows Jaime through the next 6 months as she navigates her rocky life, comes to terms with her family, and her mother's death while learning more about herself as she absorbs this new family into her life. The author is great with a funny turn of phrase. And in spite of this being Chic Light it was a fun and heartwarming read.
November 30, 2012
I truly enjoyed this book. I always call books like this picture books, because it gives you a snapshot into someone's life for a period of time.
Jaime is just caustic enough to be funny, without being hurtful. Her ability to touch on hard truth's with a small bite but still have a caring heart while doing so is fun to read, because it is easy to relate too. Especially her take on marriage.
I just felt like something was missing. I can't put my finger on it but I wish something else was there. If I figure it out I will come back and update this review.
This is the first book I have read by Jess Riley and I plan on reading more. :)
Jaime is just caustic enough to be funny, without being hurtful. Her ability to touch on hard truth's with a small bite but still have a caring heart while doing so is fun to read, because it is easy to relate too. Especially her take on marriage.
I just felt like something was missing. I can't put my finger on it but I wish something else was there. If I figure it out I will come back and update this review.
This is the first book I have read by Jess Riley and I plan on reading more. :)
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