Uprooted: A Guide for Homesick Christians

by Rebecca van Doodewaard

In today's world, we relocate for many reasons, and can be multiple times over the years. While this is often adventurous and exciting, we're all vulnerable to a host of human feelings in the midst of the new and unfamiliar. And homesickness sets in. From the well of her own life experiences, Rebecca VanDoodewaard offers practical guidance for those going through these life-changing experiences. Rebecca learnt that these times were often a catalyst for spiritual growth and reminded her of spiritual realities. It was an opportunity to meet new people, help others, practice hospitality and embrace new cultures. Special sections address the unique needs of children, single adults and pastors' families affected by moving and also how you can help someone experiencing homesickness.

Genres: Christian Living, Travel, Nonfiction

111 pages, Paperback

First published January 1, 2012

About the author

Rebecca VanDoodewaard is a freelance editor. Her husband William VanDoodewaard is ordained in the Associate Reformed Presbyterian Church in Grand Rapids, Michigan. They blog together at thechristianpundit.org

Reviews

[Sarah Fowler Wolfe · Rating 4 out of 5]

I am so thankful a friend recommended this book. Not only is it theologically solid but imminently practical. The author knows of what she speaks, she sympathizes; but in addition to encouragement there is convicting spurring-on. Highly, highly, highly recommended. It's a quick read and the final chapter is about how best to serve someone who is homesick, so it's one everyone should read!

[Arlley · Rating 5 out of 5]

Muito encorajador, com conselhos práticos e realmente úteis para cristãos que se mudaram (ou que estão pensando em se mudar) para longe de casa. Útil também para quem deseja acolher pessoas que vieram de longe.

[Bethany Hansen · Rating 5 out of 5]

I stumbled on this book accidentally and decided to read it proactively as I anticipate moving to another culture soon. I was pleasantly surprised at the wisdom in this book. Super quick read and at times felt almost a little harsh but it’s 0% fluff and 100% truth so I fully expect I will read this again when needed (although I’m trying NOT to allow homesickness to be a self-fulfilling prophecy)

I liked that this book had sections on what to do before moving and also that it specifically talked about homesickness while being single, as well as other scenarios like homesickness while having kids or being a pastor or pastor’s wife. It was very direct and applicable!

[April · Rating 5 out of 5]

This is the first book I have ever read where I keep finding myself thinking, “I really need to write this author a thank-you-note for writing this.” It was just the BEST book for my heart. We moved across the country about 6 months ago and at this point, I am just ready to pack up our family and cut-our-losses and head back to where we came from. A missionary friend said adjustment to a new culture is the very hardest at 6 months. Praise the Lord for this book. If you appreciate theologically solid Reformed books, you will soak this one up like a sponge…I could not put it down. If you are used to a more therapeutic or pragmatic approach to Christianity, some of this book may be lost on you - but I pray it helps grow your depth and knowledge of God. It is so comforting that He is sovereign and at work everywhere - especially in us especially when we move.

[Andy Dollahite · Rating 3 out of 5]

Written with compassion from personal experience. Strongest in its exhortations and encouragements to cling to the ordinary means of grace in any trial of homesickness. One cannot be reminded often enough to pray, read the scriptures, and fellowship with God’s people. Scattered about are biographical excerpts and wisdom from saints who tread this path.

The greatest tension (challenge?) comes at the intersection of granting the true goodness of deep roots among a particular people in a particular place while also pointing our hearts towards our Heavenly home. It is true Christians have our ultimate citizenship in the New Jerusalem, but homesickness is not merely a longing for that reality, and addressing it is not simply suppressing the ache of earthly loss.

[Rachel Carl · Rating 5 out of 5]

Wonderful little book on the reminders of how we as Christians can heal as we move on to new and distant, or lonely places.

[Laura McCarter · Rating 5 out of 5]

Excellent, biblical and practical for the homesick. Compassionate and realistic. Definitely worth the short time it takes to read.

[Cheyenne · Rating 4 out of 5]

I highly enjoyed this book! It’s a quick read, and is something anyone should read who wants encouragement as they persevere in this world.

[Ashley McKnight · Rating 4 out of 5]

Very helpful. I love that she points out not only the pitfalls and temptations of homesickness but also what it is ultimately pointing us to. I found her references to the struggles of saints now in glory to be a real comfort as that is a side of their expeditions we do not often hear of. Great practical insight which can be meditated on when homesickness rears its head!

[Keri Folmar · Rating 5 out of 5]

Such a helpful book to read before you move.