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Wisdom to Know
Is there sin that love can't cover?
Lydia Brown has taken just about every wrong turn she could find. When an abortion leaves her overwhelmed by guilt, she turns to drugs to escape her pain. After a single car accident lands her in the hospital facing DUI charges, Lydia is forced to reevaluate her choices.
Kevin McGregor has been biding his time since high school when he heard God tell him that Lydia Brown was the woman he would marry. In the aftermath of Lydia's accident, Kevin must come to grips with the truth about her secret life.
While Kevin works to convince himself and God that loving Lydia is a mistake, Lydia struggles to accept the feelings she has for Kevin, though she fears her sin may be too much for anyone to forgive.
Lydia Brown has taken just about every wrong turn she could find. When an abortion leaves her overwhelmed by guilt, she turns to drugs to escape her pain. After a single car accident lands her in the hospital facing DUI charges, Lydia is forced to reevaluate her choices.
Kevin McGregor has been biding his time since high school when he heard God tell him that Lydia Brown was the woman he would marry. In the aftermath of Lydia's accident, Kevin must come to grips with the truth about her secret life.
While Kevin works to convince himself and God that loving Lydia is a mistake, Lydia struggles to accept the feelings she has for Kevin, though she fears her sin may be too much for anyone to forgive.
252 pages, Paperback
First published January 8, 2013
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Elizabeth Maddrey
69 books250 followersUSA Today bestselling author Elizabeth Maddrey is a semi-reformed computer geek and homeschooling mother of two who lives in the suburbs of Washington D.C. When she isn’t writing, Elizabeth is a voracious consumer of books. She loves to write about Christians who struggle through their lives, dealing with sin and receiving God’s grace on their way to their own romantic happily ever after.
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January 28, 2015
Wisdom To Know by Elizabeth Maddrey is a gritty Christian story that doesn't shy away from the world and it's problems, and I was blessed to receive a copy.
Lydia is the daughter of a pastor. She has three perfect sisters and parents who love her. Kevin is her best friend and he has loved Lydia for years. Lydia has never felt herself 'good enough' for Kevin.
Lydia has had a series of boyfriends. Brad, her latest, has let her believe that they will be engaged when he can afford a ring. Then Lydia finds out that Brad is cheating on her. Worse follows, she is pregnant. Lydia tries to deal with her 'problem' alone, and following an abortion, Lydia's life enters a downward spiral. In case you think that I have just revealed the plot - I haven't - as all this happens in the first few pages and there are two hundred more pages to follow! More information than this can be found by reading the blurb on the back of the novel.
Elizabeth Maddrey is fast becoming my favourite author. She writes about real, flawed people, who make mistakes and have to deal with the consequences. And her leading characters, inspite of their flaws are always likeable, and I find myself rooting for them to overcome their problems.
One of the themes of the book is self reliance and isolation. As Lydia tries to deal with her 'mistake' alone, so her life spins out of control. She believes that her sin separates her from God, and she has totally forgotten about grace.
God's grace is a theme running throughout the novel. Lydia is not the only character in need of God's grace. The novel reminds the reader that we all need His grace, and that sin is sin. There is no such thing as 'big' sin or 'little' sin. If we are out of line with God's standard, then it is all sin.
The novel shows the importance of families - both the blood family and the wider Christian family. In times of crisis, families must pull together. Love is what ultimately unites us all. And whilst reading Wisdom To Know, the reader cannot help but recall 1 Corinthians 13, which talks about the power of love and how it 'endures all things.'
Whilst reading the novel I was also reminded of Jesus' words, 'let him who is without sin, cast the first stone.' And this links together with the theme of forgiveness, which must be given out. To withhold forgiveness is damaging to the individual, and we must forgive because Jesus forgives us. Lydia in the early part of the novel seems to be stoning the face in the mirror. She must learn to forgive herself and accept God's forgiveness, or she will crumble under the weight of her own condemnation.
Wisdom To Know is an incredibly powerful book, dealing with a difficult subject sensitively. To say that I 'enjoyed' reading it, seems to make light of the subject. So I won't say that - but I will say that I do love Elizabeth Maddrey's novels, as she does not shy away from difficult subjects that have the power to damage lives. I always find that once I pick up one of her novels, I become totally engrossed, and just cannot put it down!
Lydia is the daughter of a pastor. She has three perfect sisters and parents who love her. Kevin is her best friend and he has loved Lydia for years. Lydia has never felt herself 'good enough' for Kevin.
Lydia has had a series of boyfriends. Brad, her latest, has let her believe that they will be engaged when he can afford a ring. Then Lydia finds out that Brad is cheating on her. Worse follows, she is pregnant. Lydia tries to deal with her 'problem' alone, and following an abortion, Lydia's life enters a downward spiral. In case you think that I have just revealed the plot - I haven't - as all this happens in the first few pages and there are two hundred more pages to follow! More information than this can be found by reading the blurb on the back of the novel.
Elizabeth Maddrey is fast becoming my favourite author. She writes about real, flawed people, who make mistakes and have to deal with the consequences. And her leading characters, inspite of their flaws are always likeable, and I find myself rooting for them to overcome their problems.
One of the themes of the book is self reliance and isolation. As Lydia tries to deal with her 'mistake' alone, so her life spins out of control. She believes that her sin separates her from God, and she has totally forgotten about grace.
God's grace is a theme running throughout the novel. Lydia is not the only character in need of God's grace. The novel reminds the reader that we all need His grace, and that sin is sin. There is no such thing as 'big' sin or 'little' sin. If we are out of line with God's standard, then it is all sin.
The novel shows the importance of families - both the blood family and the wider Christian family. In times of crisis, families must pull together. Love is what ultimately unites us all. And whilst reading Wisdom To Know, the reader cannot help but recall 1 Corinthians 13, which talks about the power of love and how it 'endures all things.'
Whilst reading the novel I was also reminded of Jesus' words, 'let him who is without sin, cast the first stone.' And this links together with the theme of forgiveness, which must be given out. To withhold forgiveness is damaging to the individual, and we must forgive because Jesus forgives us. Lydia in the early part of the novel seems to be stoning the face in the mirror. She must learn to forgive herself and accept God's forgiveness, or she will crumble under the weight of her own condemnation.
Wisdom To Know is an incredibly powerful book, dealing with a difficult subject sensitively. To say that I 'enjoyed' reading it, seems to make light of the subject. So I won't say that - but I will say that I do love Elizabeth Maddrey's novels, as she does not shy away from difficult subjects that have the power to damage lives. I always find that once I pick up one of her novels, I become totally engrossed, and just cannot put it down!
March 28, 2013
*Possible Spoiler near the end!*
Lydia Brown is the classic preacher's daughter daughter gone wrong. She's pretty much made every terrible choice she could possibly make, and now her life is out of control. A single car accident brings everything down around her.
Kevin McGregor has been in love with Lydia since high school and truly believes that she is the woman God has for him. Now he has to deal with all of her secrets, and he's not sure he can forgive them all.
This book deals with a myriad of issues from inappropriate relationships, to drug abuse to abortion. I wasn't sure about the book in the beginning, but it drew me in and I began to care for the characters and what happened to them. It was good to see characters that weren't perfect--that didn't always have the right reactions or words to say--but people that were trying to live for God and do what they should.
There were a couple of negatives to the book. It was never explained why Lydia felt she never measured up in her parents eyes to her sisters. When she realizes she is pregnant, she feels she can't tell her parents as there would be yelling, tears and looks of disappointment. Okay, the last two make sense, but the way her parents are portrayed throughout the book, she had to know they wouldn't yell at her. I'm not sure if that was just an excuse to not tell them, or a mistake by the author. *POSSIBLE SPOILER*!!! Finally, the last few pages felt rushed. From not talking to each other to marriage in 12 pages was a bit much. The book was only 237 pages long, so it's not like it was a terribly long book that had to be rushed. I wish the author would have taken a bit more time with that aspect of the book.
All in all, I felt this was a good book dealing with sensitive issues, and I would recommend it. I realize some thought the abortion was glossed over with no description of her decision, thoughts, doubts, etc. but I felt that was covered quite well when Lydia talks with Becky in the hospital. All she was thinking of was that she couldn't hide the pregnancy, she couldn't marry quickly as she was no longer with the father, disappointing her parents and best friend, so she did it quickly--on purpose--before she could think about it too much and change her mind. Unfortunately, I'm afraid so many do the same thing, rushing into it without letting themselves think about it hardly at all. That felt pretty realistic to me.
I received a copy of this book from Hope Springs Books through BookCrash.com for an honest review. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
Lydia Brown is the classic preacher's daughter daughter gone wrong. She's pretty much made every terrible choice she could possibly make, and now her life is out of control. A single car accident brings everything down around her.
Kevin McGregor has been in love with Lydia since high school and truly believes that she is the woman God has for him. Now he has to deal with all of her secrets, and he's not sure he can forgive them all.
This book deals with a myriad of issues from inappropriate relationships, to drug abuse to abortion. I wasn't sure about the book in the beginning, but it drew me in and I began to care for the characters and what happened to them. It was good to see characters that weren't perfect--that didn't always have the right reactions or words to say--but people that were trying to live for God and do what they should.
There were a couple of negatives to the book. It was never explained why Lydia felt she never measured up in her parents eyes to her sisters. When she realizes she is pregnant, she feels she can't tell her parents as there would be yelling, tears and looks of disappointment. Okay, the last two make sense, but the way her parents are portrayed throughout the book, she had to know they wouldn't yell at her. I'm not sure if that was just an excuse to not tell them, or a mistake by the author. *POSSIBLE SPOILER*!!! Finally, the last few pages felt rushed. From not talking to each other to marriage in 12 pages was a bit much. The book was only 237 pages long, so it's not like it was a terribly long book that had to be rushed. I wish the author would have taken a bit more time with that aspect of the book.
All in all, I felt this was a good book dealing with sensitive issues, and I would recommend it. I realize some thought the abortion was glossed over with no description of her decision, thoughts, doubts, etc. but I felt that was covered quite well when Lydia talks with Becky in the hospital. All she was thinking of was that she couldn't hide the pregnancy, she couldn't marry quickly as she was no longer with the father, disappointing her parents and best friend, so she did it quickly--on purpose--before she could think about it too much and change her mind. Unfortunately, I'm afraid so many do the same thing, rushing into it without letting themselves think about it hardly at all. That felt pretty realistic to me.
I received a copy of this book from Hope Springs Books through BookCrash.com for an honest review. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
December 27, 2017
Wow, such a hard topic and so well presented
I can’t even say how emotional and yet completely sensitive and heartfelt this story is. It brings to light the void the church so often leaves in recognizing the pain and shame both women and men feel regarding abortion. Maddrey sheds light on the pressures and feelings of perfectionism that the church can also often place on the people who grow up within its walls. For all of the love and freedom Christ brings, we humans sure mess things up so badly—both from good intentions and from fear.
I completely appreciated the way she presented the entire story, honest with readers as Lydia descends in her rapid downward spiral and the hopelessness that results. We can cheer for her when she finally begins to heal and sets on her uphill journey—a constant, emotionally polarized journey. But in this we are also given Kevin’s perspective, a man on a path so like the prophet Hosea, who hadn’t led even close to a similar life, and yet God showed him his own shortcomings and that He doesn’t classify sin, period.
I do wish we had been given just a little bit more there at the end, but otherwise this was a beautifully written story that grips you from the get go. Be forewarned, though. It is hard hitting and doesn’t shy away from exactly what needs to be brought to light. But it’s all positive and restorative and...God is so good.
I can’t even say how emotional and yet completely sensitive and heartfelt this story is. It brings to light the void the church so often leaves in recognizing the pain and shame both women and men feel regarding abortion. Maddrey sheds light on the pressures and feelings of perfectionism that the church can also often place on the people who grow up within its walls. For all of the love and freedom Christ brings, we humans sure mess things up so badly—both from good intentions and from fear.
I completely appreciated the way she presented the entire story, honest with readers as Lydia descends in her rapid downward spiral and the hopelessness that results. We can cheer for her when she finally begins to heal and sets on her uphill journey—a constant, emotionally polarized journey. But in this we are also given Kevin’s perspective, a man on a path so like the prophet Hosea, who hadn’t led even close to a similar life, and yet God showed him his own shortcomings and that He doesn’t classify sin, period.
I do wish we had been given just a little bit more there at the end, but otherwise this was a beautifully written story that grips you from the get go. Be forewarned, though. It is hard hitting and doesn’t shy away from exactly what needs to be brought to light. But it’s all positive and restorative and...God is so good.
September 10, 2018
If you are looking for a fluffy entertaining read this isn’t for you, as this book has depth and realism that has you thinking. It deals with the very tough subject of abortion and the downward spiral that is an after affect of bad choices. It is also a book of grace and forgiveness. Finding self worth and forgiving yourself is Lydia’s greatest obstacles, but through Christ we can be restored. It is the perfect example of God having a plan for her life. When we mess up plan A and seek His forgiveness then He has a Plan B.
Even though it can be heartbreaking to read it is thought provoking and gives you a deeper understanding and more compassion for women who have made this choice.
I received a complimentary copy from the author. The honest review and opinions are my own and were not required.
Even though it can be heartbreaking to read it is thought provoking and gives you a deeper understanding and more compassion for women who have made this choice.
I received a complimentary copy from the author. The honest review and opinions are my own and were not required.
October 20, 2018
If you've ever had an abortion either voluntarily or by nature, or if someone you know has then you will be able to relate to Lydia Brown. Lydia was raised in a Christian family but she's done everything wrong. Lydia is involved in an accident, with DUI charges and knows she has to make changes to her life. Kevin has been in love with her since high school but he didn't approve of her fast lane life style. Then meet Kevin's "Moms". Yep, plural. They are best friends with his mother and have all adopted him as their son. They are funny, quirky, nosy, try to run Kevin's life and into everything.
Lydia has a lot of struggles and obstacles to overcome but with these quirky ladies help she finds t she's not as deplorable as she thinks. Kevin finds out about Lydia and her secrets and has to come to terms with them and can he live with some of her decisions.
I don't normally read this type of book but I received it from Elizabeth Maddrey to read. This is the first book I've read by her and it definitely won't be my last. She truly touched my heart, my emotions, even a few chuckles. I miscarried my first baby and even though its been decades I still feel the sorrow. It helped me look at the circumstances in the book and even helped a little with the healing. If you or anyone you know has dealt with these conditions I highly recommend Wisdom To Know. Even if you haven't, it might help you understand others that have. I thoroughly enjoyed this book and highly recommend it. No one asked me to leave a complimentary review - all opinions are my own and I'm looking forward to the other books in this "Grant Us Grace" series.
Lydia has a lot of struggles and obstacles to overcome but with these quirky ladies help she finds t she's not as deplorable as she thinks. Kevin finds out about Lydia and her secrets and has to come to terms with them and can he live with some of her decisions.
I don't normally read this type of book but I received it from Elizabeth Maddrey to read. This is the first book I've read by her and it definitely won't be my last. She truly touched my heart, my emotions, even a few chuckles. I miscarried my first baby and even though its been decades I still feel the sorrow. It helped me look at the circumstances in the book and even helped a little with the healing. If you or anyone you know has dealt with these conditions I highly recommend Wisdom To Know. Even if you haven't, it might help you understand others that have. I thoroughly enjoyed this book and highly recommend it. No one asked me to leave a complimentary review - all opinions are my own and I'm looking forward to the other books in this "Grant Us Grace" series.
March 22, 2025
There are times in life when we often make the wrong choices, and that always has a ripple effect. Lydia realized this when she made an extremely bad choice, and now she is fighting to get back the life she lost. Kevin knew many of her wrong choices and had been her friend through it all, but this last one might end their friendship.
Wow! Elizabeth Maddrey doesn’t pull punches with this story. She presents an honest portrait of the messes people can make and the consequences that can happen in life. But she also brings God’s hope and love into this story.
Elizabeth Maddrey is truly a gifted author. I’ve read a few of her books and series, and they always tug at my heart. She has a unique skill for blending words, and the depth of this story blew me away.
It amazed me how each character had something I could identify with and take to heart. The story was exquisitely written and flowed smoothly, so smoothly that at the end, my heart was tumbling all over the place.
One word of warning: you might need tissues while reading this book!
The author also does a wonderful job of weaving God’s truth so that it isn’t fake; it’s real.
I highly recommend you pick this book up. Now, I'm going on to find the rest of the books in this series.
Wow! Elizabeth Maddrey doesn’t pull punches with this story. She presents an honest portrait of the messes people can make and the consequences that can happen in life. But she also brings God’s hope and love into this story.
Elizabeth Maddrey is truly a gifted author. I’ve read a few of her books and series, and they always tug at my heart. She has a unique skill for blending words, and the depth of this story blew me away.
It amazed me how each character had something I could identify with and take to heart. The story was exquisitely written and flowed smoothly, so smoothly that at the end, my heart was tumbling all over the place.
One word of warning: you might need tissues while reading this book!
The author also does a wonderful job of weaving God’s truth so that it isn’t fake; it’s real.
I highly recommend you pick this book up. Now, I'm going on to find the rest of the books in this series.
July 3, 2021
Lydia seemed to have the perfect life from the outside but things were going terribly wrong from the inside. Her boyfriend, Brad, was a cheater and manipulator of the worst kind. Once the relationship fell apart Lydia found herself in a situation she had no way of explaining to her father, who was a pastor, and her mother. When things got out of control her friend since childhood, Kevin, dropped from her life and she spun completely out of control. But when she almost killed herself things seemed to reroute themselves to another plain of consciousness. Lydia found her faith again and realized that she loved Kevin but at this point even Kevin didn’t seem to want to be around Lydia. Life had a way of showing these two people that obstacles are put in your way to let you know that you are not alone and that everyone has to learn how to forgive.
May 1, 2020
Elizabeth Maddrey crafts compelling stories with intriguing characters, twist and turn plot, contemporary issues, use of aphorisms, and a believable resolution. Love bears all things between Lydians Brown and Kevin McGregor. Strong fences make good neighbors. My favorite: Coffee always tastes better when it's brewed by someone who loves you. The contemporary issue of heartbreak caused by an abortion and drug abuse. A page turner.
July 11, 2018
Finding Forgiveness
This is an excellent book! Finding God's redeeming love is a journey we all face during our lives. Sometimes it's harder and takes longer for some than others but it is there for everyone.
This is an excellent book! Finding God's redeeming love is a journey we all face during our lives. Sometimes it's harder and takes longer for some than others but it is there for everyone.
February 7, 2019
Very enjoyable book
Good story lines. Great characters. Unclear why it took so long to tell us what Lydia's profession was. Never 100% figured out Kevin's profession. Really liked the book and plan to read more from this author
Good story lines. Great characters. Unclear why it took so long to tell us what Lydia's profession was. Never 100% figured out Kevin's profession. Really liked the book and plan to read more from this author
February 10, 2023
Wisdom to Know
Great story about a Lydia and Kevin. Lydia did what she knew was wrong, but she felt that she just had to make Brad her own. Kevin had loved her for years but she just couldn’t see this. Rocky road ahead for Lydia, jus enjoy her finding her redemption in God.
Great story about a Lydia and Kevin. Lydia did what she knew was wrong, but she felt that she just had to make Brad her own. Kevin had loved her for years but she just couldn’t see this. Rocky road ahead for Lydia, jus enjoy her finding her redemption in God.
March 17, 2018
WONDERFUL
April 23, 2018
This was a tough book, I will be honest with you, but wow, so powerful! Amazing, sad, hopeful and forgiving....made me cry
June 14, 2018
great Christian romance
August 29, 2018
Lydia Brown has taken just about every wrong turn she could find. When an abortion leaves her overwhelmed by guilt, she turns to drugs to escape her pain.
January 19, 2019
WOW! The grace of GOD is beyond measure and still helps us out. Action packed story of how quick decisions without GOD in the situation can and does go wrong. Live and learn strongly with GOD.
February 9, 2019
Quick read. Ending seemed abrupt. Characters could have used some development
December 8, 2021
I always enjoy this authors books. She knows how to tell a story where she weaves in great storytelling without preaching at you, but with a lesson.
December 15, 2023
More good books!
October 18, 2019
Wow! This book's themes of abortion and drugs don't make it a light read. Especially since the author puts us as readers right in Lydia's shoes, experiencing the depth of emotion right along with her.
But just because it's not an easy read doesn't mean it's one you should skip. Courage to Change was thought-provoking and challenging. I also couldn't put it down!
But just because it's not an easy read doesn't mean it's one you should skip. Courage to Change was thought-provoking and challenging. I also couldn't put it down!
July 27, 2016
"Wisdom to Know," a novel by Elizabeth Maddrey, is the story about Lydia Brown, a preacher's kid who falls from grace by getting pregnant outside of marriage. She had given herself to a man who she thought would marry her, but it became apparent that he had no intention in doing so after she slept with him. Pride, shame, and fear prevent her from revealing the truth to her parents and her friends. She decides to get an abortion to cover up her mistake. However, guilt over her actions drives her into drug use to escape the emotional and spiritual fallout of her decision. Lydia also prostitutes herself in order to finance her drug habit.
Kevin McGregor has been in love with Lydia forever, and sincerely believes that the Lord has told him that Lydia is the woman that he's going to marry. However, he has been repeatedly friend-zoned by Lydia. He is overjoyed at the breakup between Lydia and her latest boyfriend, but senses, along with others in Lydia's family and circle of friends, that she is hiding something important from them. Although he suspects that Lydia has been physically intimate with her previous boyfriend, he is still open to a future with her. However, the certainty he feels about God intending him to be with Lydia is tested when he finds out the entirety of the depths that Lydia has fallen.
Kevin also doesn't get to discover the entire truth at once; it is unfolded to him gradually over many months while God is working to heal Lydia of the pain in her life. Lydia isn't willing to tell the people closest to her about what she has done because of her fear of seeing their disappointment in her. She also fears being rejected by them. By the time Kevin finds out about the abortion, he has had enough; he feels betrayed beyond what he can bear. Since Lydia has repeatedly acted against the Lord's will, what is it if he rejects the Lord's will over whether he will take Lydia to be his wife?
"Wisdom to Know" is a story that alludes to the life of Hosea, a prophet who repeatedly took back an unfaithful wife. This is confirmed when Kevin tells the Lord that he is not strong enough to be like the Old Testament prophet, about a third of the way into the novel. I admire Elizabeth Maddrey for writing this story; I don't believe that it is easy to write about the topics that she has covered in this novel. To me, the plot was quite well planned out and developed. She certainly makes the focus of the novel center on the receiving and giving of grace. Lydia struggles to accept grace in light of the mistakes that she has made, and Kevin is challenged to give grace, even when it is difficult for him to do so.
There were a couple of things that didn't work for me about "Wisdom to Know" which may not matter to other readers. I had a few "show, instead of tell," moments while reading the novel, but those are a matter of preference. Also, there were sections where I found myself stumbling over the dialogue, but I recognize that this could be just my own personal expectations about how people should speak.
On the whole, I was quite impressed with the message of grace in "Wisdom to Know." I could understand why Lydia did what she did, and I could also understand the anger and betrayal that Kevin felt when he discovered what Lydia had done. I liked how, in the plot, the Lord prepared Kevin for finding out Lydia's secrets regarding the abortion, because, sometimes, I think that the Lord does this in real life. He'll show His children something so enlightening and absolutely mind-blowing that raises them to the heights, and then they are challenged to actually live it out when they leave the mountain top experiences. In Kevin's case, God showed him the need for ministering to those who have been adversely affected by abortion, and then it became extremely personal when Kevin found out that Lydia was one of those in need. Will Kevin be able to grant Lydia grace so that they can have a future together?
"Wisdom to Know" is the first novel belonging to the "Grant Us Grace Series," which also includes the novels, "Courage to Change," and "Serenity to Accept."
This review also appears on my blog at:
http://whatiscbreading.blogspot.ca
Kevin McGregor has been in love with Lydia forever, and sincerely believes that the Lord has told him that Lydia is the woman that he's going to marry. However, he has been repeatedly friend-zoned by Lydia. He is overjoyed at the breakup between Lydia and her latest boyfriend, but senses, along with others in Lydia's family and circle of friends, that she is hiding something important from them. Although he suspects that Lydia has been physically intimate with her previous boyfriend, he is still open to a future with her. However, the certainty he feels about God intending him to be with Lydia is tested when he finds out the entirety of the depths that Lydia has fallen.
Kevin also doesn't get to discover the entire truth at once; it is unfolded to him gradually over many months while God is working to heal Lydia of the pain in her life. Lydia isn't willing to tell the people closest to her about what she has done because of her fear of seeing their disappointment in her. She also fears being rejected by them. By the time Kevin finds out about the abortion, he has had enough; he feels betrayed beyond what he can bear. Since Lydia has repeatedly acted against the Lord's will, what is it if he rejects the Lord's will over whether he will take Lydia to be his wife?
"Wisdom to Know" is a story that alludes to the life of Hosea, a prophet who repeatedly took back an unfaithful wife. This is confirmed when Kevin tells the Lord that he is not strong enough to be like the Old Testament prophet, about a third of the way into the novel. I admire Elizabeth Maddrey for writing this story; I don't believe that it is easy to write about the topics that she has covered in this novel. To me, the plot was quite well planned out and developed. She certainly makes the focus of the novel center on the receiving and giving of grace. Lydia struggles to accept grace in light of the mistakes that she has made, and Kevin is challenged to give grace, even when it is difficult for him to do so.
There were a couple of things that didn't work for me about "Wisdom to Know" which may not matter to other readers. I had a few "show, instead of tell," moments while reading the novel, but those are a matter of preference. Also, there were sections where I found myself stumbling over the dialogue, but I recognize that this could be just my own personal expectations about how people should speak.
On the whole, I was quite impressed with the message of grace in "Wisdom to Know." I could understand why Lydia did what she did, and I could also understand the anger and betrayal that Kevin felt when he discovered what Lydia had done. I liked how, in the plot, the Lord prepared Kevin for finding out Lydia's secrets regarding the abortion, because, sometimes, I think that the Lord does this in real life. He'll show His children something so enlightening and absolutely mind-blowing that raises them to the heights, and then they are challenged to actually live it out when they leave the mountain top experiences. In Kevin's case, God showed him the need for ministering to those who have been adversely affected by abortion, and then it became extremely personal when Kevin found out that Lydia was one of those in need. Will Kevin be able to grant Lydia grace so that they can have a future together?
"Wisdom to Know" is the first novel belonging to the "Grant Us Grace Series," which also includes the novels, "Courage to Change," and "Serenity to Accept."
This review also appears on my blog at:
http://whatiscbreading.blogspot.ca
August 9, 2014
I found that Elizabeth Maddrey portrayed a true and accurate account of one of today's main hot topics. Even though she did not shy from writing about the consequences of this sin and how grace saves us, the book's topic alone was not enough to warrant more than an "okay".
I felt as though the author needed to show how the decision to abort the baby came about. Lydia had no argument, no self-doubt. One sentence and the decision was done. Afterwards, two paragraphs were all that showed of her regrets. What was needed was for the reader to see the character arguments, her despair, her feeling of hopelessness, then her fall from faith and into the dark world of drugs and prostitution. Instead, the reader is left with a "this is it just accept what I tell you" type of story. This caused the book to flow in a jarring and disjointed manner.
How did Lydia truly feel? How did she decide to make those decisions? There were no connections with this character at all.
As for Kevin...this character was slotted into the "prefect man" category. The only flaw with him was his inability to accept the reality of what Lydia had done. While perfectly normal, his character still came across as two-dimensional.
As for secondary characters, they detracted from the story more than added.
There were also a few writing flaws, i.e., what the writing world would call "disembodied body parts" and "head hopping".
Wisdom to Know could have used a few more critiques and edits to strengthen the story into a dynamic book. If Elizabeth Maddrey had created three-dimensional characters that drew you into the story, that caused the reader to feel exactly how they felt, and to show the horror of the sin and the joy of forgiveness, then this book would have been exceptional. Instead, it seemed as though the author shied from delving too deep into the sin of abortion.
The book did well in telling about aborting and the subsequent downfall. It did well in telling about the heartache and eventual forgiveness of those affected. What the book needed, though, was to show this. I would recommend this book for teenagers; but, not for serious and dedicated readers.
***I received this book from BookCrash and the publisher in exchange of an honest and fair review***
Betty Sue Tutor's review of Wisdom to Know (posted on Facebook and copied with her permission):
"Wisdom to Know by Elizabeth Maddrey: Could'nt put it down. Would recommend to everyone aged 15 and above. Even [if] you never had an abortion or don't know anyone who did, it gives insight to the anger, guilt, and turmoil that follows expecially if that person is a Christian, teenager, or somewhere between. It shows those of us who never experienced this dark side how to understand those who have so we can help them get past the guilt, anger, hurt, depression,etc., and repair their relationship with Christ."
I felt as though the author needed to show how the decision to abort the baby came about. Lydia had no argument, no self-doubt. One sentence and the decision was done. Afterwards, two paragraphs were all that showed of her regrets. What was needed was for the reader to see the character arguments, her despair, her feeling of hopelessness, then her fall from faith and into the dark world of drugs and prostitution. Instead, the reader is left with a "this is it just accept what I tell you" type of story. This caused the book to flow in a jarring and disjointed manner.
How did Lydia truly feel? How did she decide to make those decisions? There were no connections with this character at all.
As for Kevin...this character was slotted into the "prefect man" category. The only flaw with him was his inability to accept the reality of what Lydia had done. While perfectly normal, his character still came across as two-dimensional.
As for secondary characters, they detracted from the story more than added.
There were also a few writing flaws, i.e., what the writing world would call "disembodied body parts" and "head hopping".
Wisdom to Know could have used a few more critiques and edits to strengthen the story into a dynamic book. If Elizabeth Maddrey had created three-dimensional characters that drew you into the story, that caused the reader to feel exactly how they felt, and to show the horror of the sin and the joy of forgiveness, then this book would have been exceptional. Instead, it seemed as though the author shied from delving too deep into the sin of abortion.
The book did well in telling about aborting and the subsequent downfall. It did well in telling about the heartache and eventual forgiveness of those affected. What the book needed, though, was to show this. I would recommend this book for teenagers; but, not for serious and dedicated readers.
***I received this book from BookCrash and the publisher in exchange of an honest and fair review***
Betty Sue Tutor's review of Wisdom to Know (posted on Facebook and copied with her permission):
"Wisdom to Know by Elizabeth Maddrey: Could'nt put it down. Would recommend to everyone aged 15 and above. Even [if] you never had an abortion or don't know anyone who did, it gives insight to the anger, guilt, and turmoil that follows expecially if that person is a Christian, teenager, or somewhere between. It shows those of us who never experienced this dark side how to understand those who have so we can help them get past the guilt, anger, hurt, depression,etc., and repair their relationship with Christ."
January 14, 2013
We need more reality fiction in the Christian marketplace: books that are true to life and its messiness and true to Scripture and the truth. Elizabeth Maddrey's debut novel, Wisdom to Know fits that description, and is engaging and enjoyable reading.
Lydia Brown is a pastor's daughter with perfect sisters, living by a standard she'll never measure up to no matter how hard she tries. When she chooses to compromise and sleep with her almost fiance, life teaches her a hard lesson: he moves on, leaving her with the pieces of a broken heart and broken commitment. Can life get any more complicated?
Ummm...yes. Unexpected pregnancy, catastrophic choices, and a spiral down a path Lydia never would have envisioned have her running from everyone who loves her...including Kevin McGregor, her longtime friend and the man who has loved Lydia in secret for years.
Faith, forgiveness, consequences...all themes in Elizabeth's powerful novel. I loved the reality of the story...but, even more, I loved the people of the story. From the first pages I felt connected to Lydia and Kevin, and I deeply cared about what happened to these imaginary people. I would rage at the hurt and the pain, and found myself praying for Lydia...and she wasn't real!
Even the 'background' characters were engaging. Laura and Matt were funny and faithful, their daughter was a hoot, and I ached for Lydia's mom and dad. Allison made me nervous until I got to know her, then I was eager to know more about her story (which is in the second book to come).
I think the only characters I didn't grow attached to were Brad and his new lady love...those two I had a hard time feeling anything close to good or compassionate. But even those two need the love of Jesus...it will just take a novel or two for me to get there!
Elizabeth Maddrey has earned a spot on my 'must read' list, and I'm eager for the second book in her 'Grant Us Grace' series. She's able to be bold about the truth without becoming preachy or cliche, and real enough that any reader can relate to the story. My hope is that God uses her writing for both entertainment and ministry...you'll find powerful healing in these pages.
It would be so cool to be friends with these characters in real life...well, maybe not Brad. But we could minister to him--eventually.
The Wordsmith Journal strives to guide readers to books of personal interest, with the understanding and respect that what appeals to some may not appeal to others. Therefore we attempt to keep our reviews focused on content, genre and style. The rating is necessary to make use of Goodreads and Amazon. It reflects the reviewer’s own level of enjoyment, but the review is intended to be informative for the benefit of all readers.
Lydia Brown is a pastor's daughter with perfect sisters, living by a standard she'll never measure up to no matter how hard she tries. When she chooses to compromise and sleep with her almost fiance, life teaches her a hard lesson: he moves on, leaving her with the pieces of a broken heart and broken commitment. Can life get any more complicated?
Ummm...yes. Unexpected pregnancy, catastrophic choices, and a spiral down a path Lydia never would have envisioned have her running from everyone who loves her...including Kevin McGregor, her longtime friend and the man who has loved Lydia in secret for years.
Faith, forgiveness, consequences...all themes in Elizabeth's powerful novel. I loved the reality of the story...but, even more, I loved the people of the story. From the first pages I felt connected to Lydia and Kevin, and I deeply cared about what happened to these imaginary people. I would rage at the hurt and the pain, and found myself praying for Lydia...and she wasn't real!
Even the 'background' characters were engaging. Laura and Matt were funny and faithful, their daughter was a hoot, and I ached for Lydia's mom and dad. Allison made me nervous until I got to know her, then I was eager to know more about her story (which is in the second book to come).
I think the only characters I didn't grow attached to were Brad and his new lady love...those two I had a hard time feeling anything close to good or compassionate. But even those two need the love of Jesus...it will just take a novel or two for me to get there!
Elizabeth Maddrey has earned a spot on my 'must read' list, and I'm eager for the second book in her 'Grant Us Grace' series. She's able to be bold about the truth without becoming preachy or cliche, and real enough that any reader can relate to the story. My hope is that God uses her writing for both entertainment and ministry...you'll find powerful healing in these pages.
It would be so cool to be friends with these characters in real life...well, maybe not Brad. But we could minister to him--eventually.
The Wordsmith Journal strives to guide readers to books of personal interest, with the understanding and respect that what appeals to some may not appeal to others. Therefore we attempt to keep our reviews focused on content, genre and style. The rating is necessary to make use of Goodreads and Amazon. It reflects the reviewer’s own level of enjoyment, but the review is intended to be informative for the benefit of all readers.
September 24, 2013
I have to be honest- when I initially read the first few chapters of this book, I was not too engaged. I really don’t know what it was; I think it was the theme of ‘sex before marriage’, the consequent abortion and the drug use, especially in Christian Fiction; however I don’t wish to speculate. So I left the book for a couple months, coming back to it when I felt guilty for not having it completed. So I continued….
And am I glad I did, because I found the book to gradually get engaging, especially towards the end when the ‘real’ Lydia was found. The chemistry between her and Kevin was then so evident, my heart just went out to them both, whose situations and reactions were completely humanized. It is this aspect that I really have to applaud Elizabeth Maddrey for, her courage to tackle these touchy topics, personal to some and yet completely distant for others. All aspects just seemed really applicable in the society in which we now live, including the recovery and pain experienced; reminding me that it is a real problem. She really humanized the issues!!
Yet I have rated this book 3.5/5, and as much as I wish to focus on the positive, I should point out the negative to gain your understanding. Firstly, because of Kevin’s love he had for Lydia right from the beginning. Despite her rejection, he seemed to willingly be content in remaining her best friend, living with the knowledge of her sinful nature. To me it just seemed like he was blindly following her around, making himself available to be used whenever Lydia needed someone to talk to. He seemed to lack individuality and a life, a mind of his own. The reason why I like the ending so much is because it felt like he was going on a mission of self-discovery as I was able to see that he had a job and friends, that his life doesn’t have to revolve around Lydia, the way she has always had it. Secondly, well there is none, apart from the beginning which made it hard for me to be engaged with.
I hope this review wasn’t too degrading!! When I first read the blurb I had a completely different idea of what the book was going to be about, which may explain my reaction. I feel like I’ve been rambling, so I will stop now.
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And am I glad I did, because I found the book to gradually get engaging, especially towards the end when the ‘real’ Lydia was found. The chemistry between her and Kevin was then so evident, my heart just went out to them both, whose situations and reactions were completely humanized. It is this aspect that I really have to applaud Elizabeth Maddrey for, her courage to tackle these touchy topics, personal to some and yet completely distant for others. All aspects just seemed really applicable in the society in which we now live, including the recovery and pain experienced; reminding me that it is a real problem. She really humanized the issues!!
Yet I have rated this book 3.5/5, and as much as I wish to focus on the positive, I should point out the negative to gain your understanding. Firstly, because of Kevin’s love he had for Lydia right from the beginning. Despite her rejection, he seemed to willingly be content in remaining her best friend, living with the knowledge of her sinful nature. To me it just seemed like he was blindly following her around, making himself available to be used whenever Lydia needed someone to talk to. He seemed to lack individuality and a life, a mind of his own. The reason why I like the ending so much is because it felt like he was going on a mission of self-discovery as I was able to see that he had a job and friends, that his life doesn’t have to revolve around Lydia, the way she has always had it. Secondly, well there is none, apart from the beginning which made it hard for me to be engaged with.
I hope this review wasn’t too degrading!! When I first read the blurb I had a completely different idea of what the book was going to be about, which may explain my reaction. I feel like I’ve been rambling, so I will stop now.
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July 4, 2016
Great story of courage and love!
This is the first time I've read a book by Elizabeth Maddrey and it will not be the last! I think sometimes it is hard for Christian authors to write about difficult topics, just like in the real world some Christians pretend these situations do not apply to other Christians. Elizabeth provided us a great example about how even we as Christians can fail. We can have times where we turn away from God and the things we've been taught. I appreciated such a honest and realistic storyline, with an underlying message about how God is always there for us, as is His forgiveness.
I felt so bad for Lydia. She felt she had to live up to these unrealistic expectations that though she claimed were set by her parents, I think they had really been set by herself. With her quote, "perfect sisters" to live up to, Lydia tended to go with how things looked on the outside rather then relying on what counts on the inside. I enjoyed reading every aspect of her story and felt the author wrote it at just the right tempo. I was hoping that there would be some resistance to change, to come clean. I wanted to see a realistic growth in this character, not one helped along with an authors pen, and I think Elizabeth portrayed it perfectly.
I also enjoyed watching Kevin's struggle and growth throughout the book. When he found himself stuck in a seminar that seemed to be awkward for him at the time, it reminded me of the times God has stuck my in an awkward situation which down the road led to His path for me. We don't always see it during the process, but looking back we can give God the credit and the thanks for putting us at the right places at exactly the right times. Kevin's actions were much like any normal person when reacting to what had happened in Lydia's life. And again, I felt the author did such a wonderful job portraying this in a realistic time frame that it felt I was reading a biographical story!
If you are looking for a story about love, forgiveness, and inner struggle, I highly recommend you give this book a shot. I promise you will not regret it!
This is the first time I've read a book by Elizabeth Maddrey and it will not be the last! I think sometimes it is hard for Christian authors to write about difficult topics, just like in the real world some Christians pretend these situations do not apply to other Christians. Elizabeth provided us a great example about how even we as Christians can fail. We can have times where we turn away from God and the things we've been taught. I appreciated such a honest and realistic storyline, with an underlying message about how God is always there for us, as is His forgiveness.
I felt so bad for Lydia. She felt she had to live up to these unrealistic expectations that though she claimed were set by her parents, I think they had really been set by herself. With her quote, "perfect sisters" to live up to, Lydia tended to go with how things looked on the outside rather then relying on what counts on the inside. I enjoyed reading every aspect of her story and felt the author wrote it at just the right tempo. I was hoping that there would be some resistance to change, to come clean. I wanted to see a realistic growth in this character, not one helped along with an authors pen, and I think Elizabeth portrayed it perfectly.
I also enjoyed watching Kevin's struggle and growth throughout the book. When he found himself stuck in a seminar that seemed to be awkward for him at the time, it reminded me of the times God has stuck my in an awkward situation which down the road led to His path for me. We don't always see it during the process, but looking back we can give God the credit and the thanks for putting us at the right places at exactly the right times. Kevin's actions were much like any normal person when reacting to what had happened in Lydia's life. And again, I felt the author did such a wonderful job portraying this in a realistic time frame that it felt I was reading a biographical story!
If you are looking for a story about love, forgiveness, and inner struggle, I highly recommend you give this book a shot. I promise you will not regret it!
June 6, 2013
In this contemporary Christian romance book the author does a wonderful job of tackling a really tough issue with Christians-abortion. Lydia is a stubborn, insecure women who feels this deep desire to prove herself to the world and in the process makes some really bad choices that will effect her and the people who love her for the rest of her life. You see real development of the main character's as they wrestle with forgiveness and what that loks like and how to really apply it to others and themselves.
This was a heart wrenching book to read that left me in tears. I can see parts of myself in the story and it takes me back to a time in my life before I trusted in Christ that I wish with all my heart I could change.The characters are wrote in a way that makes you feel yu are walking beside them in their journey, encouraging them and warning them alike. The author did a wonderful job of not just putting a band aide fix on the healing process Lydia had to go through, but instead it was real, painstaking and time consuming, but all the while you see the grace and redemption of God. This book will challenge your faith and make you see things from a different light. It is easy to judge those when you have not walked in their shoes. This book gives you a chance to do just that.
I would highly recommend this book to anyone struggling with abortion, forgiveness, addiction or Gods redemptive powers for your life.
Disclaimer: I received this book free from the publisher through the BookCrash.com book review program, which requires an honest, though not necessarily positive, review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s CFR Title 16, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”
This was a heart wrenching book to read that left me in tears. I can see parts of myself in the story and it takes me back to a time in my life before I trusted in Christ that I wish with all my heart I could change.The characters are wrote in a way that makes you feel yu are walking beside them in their journey, encouraging them and warning them alike. The author did a wonderful job of not just putting a band aide fix on the healing process Lydia had to go through, but instead it was real, painstaking and time consuming, but all the while you see the grace and redemption of God. This book will challenge your faith and make you see things from a different light. It is easy to judge those when you have not walked in their shoes. This book gives you a chance to do just that.
I would highly recommend this book to anyone struggling with abortion, forgiveness, addiction or Gods redemptive powers for your life.
Disclaimer: I received this book free from the publisher through the BookCrash.com book review program, which requires an honest, though not necessarily positive, review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s CFR Title 16, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”
January 8, 2013
Elizabeth Maddrey's debut novel is full on snappy dialogue and real situations. I enjoyed reading Wisdom to Know and getting my hands on a Christian book that deals with some very real, but tough, issues. As much as we might not want to believe there are people sitting in our congregations who have had abortions the truth is there are women who are hurting, just like Lydia in this book.
This book touched me personally as my sister lived a life very much like Lydia and I had no idea for years. Prostitution, drug abuse and two abortions mark my sister's story. Lydia's story is very much the same. I love that Elizabeth shows us the healing Lydia walked through and that it wasn't a quick fix, but took time. I also like the real reaction of Kevin when he finds out that Lydia had an abortion and how he struggled, like so many of us would, with forgiveness.
As I writer I struggled with the confusion if this book was intentionaly omniscient or if that was just not caught in edits. If not, there was some definite head-popping but if it was intentional than it was spot on. I think most readers wouldn't even notice that.
If you know someone who has dealt with abortion and has yet to heal this book would be a great launching pad for them. They will see Jesus all over this book and see there is hope.
This book touched me personally as my sister lived a life very much like Lydia and I had no idea for years. Prostitution, drug abuse and two abortions mark my sister's story. Lydia's story is very much the same. I love that Elizabeth shows us the healing Lydia walked through and that it wasn't a quick fix, but took time. I also like the real reaction of Kevin when he finds out that Lydia had an abortion and how he struggled, like so many of us would, with forgiveness.
As I writer I struggled with the confusion if this book was intentionaly omniscient or if that was just not caught in edits. If not, there was some definite head-popping but if it was intentional than it was spot on. I think most readers wouldn't even notice that.
If you know someone who has dealt with abortion and has yet to heal this book would be a great launching pad for them. They will see Jesus all over this book and see there is hope.
May 27, 2013
Wisdom to Know by Elizabeth Maddrey is a contemporary Christian romance that broaches real life issues that real people experience. Tough subjects like abortion, relational rejection, unanswered prayer, and finding one's way in this life. While many of today's Christian writers touch on these topics, the traditional publishing trend for inspirational novels has been to refer to them "off screen" and in the past tense. That is, many contemporary Christian writers pen stories that acknowledge a Christian's struggle with sin, but not typically in the present tense, up close, and personal.
Maddrey isn't afraid to address these themes while focusing on the redemptive power of God's love. Plus, her novels (she's written two in this series) are character- and story-driven rather than a platform for some political or social agenda. She simply writes about life - in all of its glorious and traumatic ups and downs - and tells a moving story in the process. I'm not an avid fan of romance, but I do enjoy novels where relationships take center stage - and Wisdom to Know is just such a novel. Clean, appropriately romantic, but for mature readers due to subject matter.
Maddrey isn't afraid to address these themes while focusing on the redemptive power of God's love. Plus, her novels (she's written two in this series) are character- and story-driven rather than a platform for some political or social agenda. She simply writes about life - in all of its glorious and traumatic ups and downs - and tells a moving story in the process. I'm not an avid fan of romance, but I do enjoy novels where relationships take center stage - and Wisdom to Know is just such a novel. Clean, appropriately romantic, but for mature readers due to subject matter.
July 24, 2016
The first book in the Grant Us Grace Series, this is a heartbreaking story of trials by fire told from a Christian point of view. Raised with very specific morals and standards, Lydia’s downward spiral into shame and despair is painful to read. As illustrated through Lydia’s life, women today face a perilous path fraught with temptation and trials. Maddrey’s wisdom and insight create a book of hope, healing and forgiveness. This is an honest, raw and emotional book. While this story deals with abortion, drug abuse, and sexual situations, it is a clean read. Lydia’s story broke my heart again and again. Sometimes the hardest trial in life is finding a way to forgive ourselves. “Besides, it may be that the old Lydia, the one untouched by fire, would never have been in a position to understand the gift that God is offering her…” I really related to the Kevin and his heartbreak. I could feel his pain and anguish. As much as I loved this book and its message of hope and forgiveness, I wish the ending had been more fully developed with Lydia and Kevin talking through things. I recommend this book for older teens as it deals with many sensitive topics.
May 23, 2013
Elizabeth Maddrey has done a wonderful job with this book. This is a book that is very easy to read book and it pulls the reader in from the first page! I love her writing style and the story is very true to life and happens very often in our fast and changing world. Elizabeth has woven a story that could help others that are faced with similar challenges in life.
Lydia makes some wrong choices in her life and she learns through faith, forgiveness and consequences to work through the choices that she has made. Lydia and Kevin both learn that love can heal all wounds. Life is not always easy with all the challenges and choices that we face, but with the help of our Heavenly Father we can work through the bumps that happen along the way. Our Father in Heaven is truly there for each of us, we are all his children and he can help us learn and heal from our challenges.
I’m excited to read the next book in the Grant Us Grace Series. I’m excited to have found a new Christian author and a new series to read!
Lydia makes some wrong choices in her life and she learns through faith, forgiveness and consequences to work through the choices that she has made. Lydia and Kevin both learn that love can heal all wounds. Life is not always easy with all the challenges and choices that we face, but with the help of our Heavenly Father we can work through the bumps that happen along the way. Our Father in Heaven is truly there for each of us, we are all his children and he can help us learn and heal from our challenges.
I’m excited to read the next book in the Grant Us Grace Series. I’m excited to have found a new Christian author and a new series to read!
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