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Frank Cascio pisze w przedmowie do swojej książki o Michaelu Jacksonie: Kiedy się spotkaliśmy w 1985 roku, miałem 5 lat. Stał się dla mnie kimś w rodzaju ojca, czasami starszego brata, dobrego kumpla i mentora. Niewiele brakowało do moich osiemnastych urodzin, gdy zacząłem dla niego pracować w charakterze asystenta. Dwa lata później zostałem jego menedżerem. Byłem pomysłodawcą specjalnego programu telewizyjnego, który uhonorował trzydziestolecie jego kariery w show-biznesie...

Frank Cascio, biznesmen i producent – kompetentny zarówno w dziedzinie finansów, jak i w sferze muzyki rozrywkowej – zaprzyjaźnił się z Michaelem Jacksonem w 1984 roku, gdy był zaledwie kilkuletnim chłopcem. Gdy skończył osiemnaście lat, Jackson zatrudnił go jako osobistego asystenta, a z czasem awansował na swojego menedżera.

Cascio wyprodukował film The Michael Jackson Interview: The Footage You Were Never Meant to See („Wywiad z Michaelem Jacksonem: materiał, który nie miał ujrzeć światła dziennego”), był także konsultantem i jednym z producentów materiału Michael Jackson’s Private Home Movies („Filmy z prywatnej kolekcji Michaela Jacksona”), który w 2003 roku wyemitowała stacja telewizyjna Fox. Cascio dzieli swój czas pomiędzy Nowy Jork i Europę, zwłaszcza Niemcy i Włochy, w których czuje się jak w domu.

Frank Cascio był bliskim przyjacielem Jacksona przez ponad 25 lat. W książce My Friend Michael („Mój przyjaciel Michael”) Cascio prezentuje głęboko osobisty, „zakulisowy” wizerunek gwiazdora. Pełen nigdy wcześniej nie przytaczanych historyjek i intymnych szczegółów, nieprzemilczający niczego My Friend Michael to najbardziej poruszający portret „króla popu”, jaki kiedykolwiek powstał. Autorowi udało się przedstawić ikonę amerykańskiej muzyki pop w sposób rzetelny i zarazem pełen miłości; jest to jednocześnie zapis niezwykłej przyjaźni, która przetrwała – Cascio towarzyszył Jacksonowi w chwilach tryumfu i porażki, trwał przy nim, gdy Michael był niekwestionowanym królem sceny, i wówczas, gdy był obiektem niewybrednych ataków.

Frank Cascio zdradzi nam tysiące nigdy wcześniej niepublikowanych szczegółów z życia gwiazdy popu, opowie nam o Michaelu, jakiego nie znamy, o tym, co lubił, a czego nie, o jego przyjaźniach i fascynacjach, o pobycie w ośrodku odwykowym, zdradzi nam tajemnice jego obydwu małżeństw, opowie, jak Madonna usiłowała go uwieść i dlaczego pokłócił się z Liz Taylor, o atakach płaczu, gdy traktowano go jak kuriozum, o kulisach tras koncertowych, o tym, jak u księcia Alawaleeda grał z Jacksonem w ping-ponga na złotym stole, jak w szkockim zamku zobaczyli ducha kobiety w białej sukni, o Jacksonie – Piotrusiu Panu – i jego marzeniach, żeby być wiecznie młodym, o skrytym uczuciu, jakim darzył księżną Dianę, a także przytoczy wiele anegdot i pokaże nigdy niepublikowane zdjęcia Jacksona.

W książce pojawią się także: Mariah Carey, Andrea Bocelli, Marlon Brando, Chris Tucker, Britney Spears, Slash, Boyz II Men, Cindy Crawford, Prince, Tatum O`Neal i wiele innych znanych osobistości.

352 pages, Paperback

First published November 15, 2011

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Author 37 books368 followers
June 17, 2012
I think by now everybody on planet earth knows that there was more to Michael Jackson than what was presented in the media. In fact, the media pretty much hammered and hounded him into seclusion, which although he was responsible for some of the media circus, he can never be blamed for the cruelty that was exacted on his personal integrity in the name of shock value. Frank Cascio, a kid who grew up with Michael and went on to become his business manager - but ultimately a literal brother to Michael - tells his story of growing up with the most famous entertainer in history.

First off, I want to say that I think it was a big mistake to begin the book with the acknowledgment that he was a "white liar' or had a tendency to omit the truth or, as he said it, 'choose my words carefully.' That right away made me think, 'great. another book about Michael Jackson in which we wonder if the author is telling the truth or not.' But I was wrong. This Frank Cascio seems like an honest, decent guy who really cared about Michael and he did not, in any way, exploit his friendship with the man or defame him. He talked about Michael's positivity, his commitment, his ability to be a wonderful father and of course, their amazing friendship that endured for over 20 years. Frank was a man whose entire world revolved around Michael Jackson from the time he was 4 years old. And while this might be deemed unhealthy in some people's eyes, I would venture to say that Frank Cascio learned far more about life by living, by traveling the world, by dealing with difficult problems up front at an early age, than by doing anything else. Michael Jackson gave him a marvelous gift. Frank Cascio learned a lot from him...and I think we can ALL learn from Michael. While he may have had his eccentricities and certainly his share of problems, it would do the world a lot of good to bring the same kind of creativity, vision and empathy to our lives that he did. The world would be a better place.
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599 reviews14 followers
February 7, 2012
The Cascio family certainly had unprecedented access to Michael Jackson throughout his career, and Frank Cascio was there for a lot of the events that created problems for Michael. At the same time, some of his accounts vary in detail from those told by others, so once again it is left to the individual reader to decide whose memory of events is more accurate. Some variations in details are explainable due to the passage of time and different perspectives, while others remain completely at odds with what we have previously been led to believe.

I do wish that Frank had dwelt more on the good times he and his family spent with Michael, either on tour or at Neverland, or in the Cascio home, and less on the problems Michael, and Frank as both a friend and close associate, had to deal with. But then those problems did have an enormous impact on their lives, to the detriment of the health of both men, and, at times, to their longstanding friendship. Happily it survived, despite Michael's understandable paranoia (about people wanting to take advantage of him - as so many did) and some sibling rivalry between Frank and his brother Eddie.

I'm just not convinced that this book lives up to the promise made on its cover 'An Ordinary Friendship with an Extraordinary Man'- there was little that was 'ordinary' about Michael and Frank's friendship, certainly not once Frank was old enough to be fully aware of Michael's celebrity. And I don't really think Frank succeeds here in adequately conveying the 'extraordinary' nature of Michael Jackson, as is his stated intention. In trying to convey the ups and downs of their long association, the good times and bad (which could be very bad) the puzzling, perplexing and frustrating aspects of dealing with such a creative genius, in the end Frank Cascio probably tells us more about himself than he does about Michael.

The great tragedy here is that Michael is not here to confirm, deny or otherwise comment on what has been written about him. And to be honest, Frank's account of his personality would leave us wondering if Michael was telling us what really happened, or what he wanted us to believe had happened; or perhaps what he had convinced himself had happened.

I found the impact of this book to be a depressing one. And while Frank relates his dismay at how Michael at times believed ill of his long-time friend, fans can be excused for asking if, in the publication of this book, Frank Cascio hasn't inadvertently proven Michael's paranoia about him to be justified. THAT, I find, to be the saddest thing of all about this book.

As fans, we must continue to trust our own instincts on what we know of MJ based not just on one or a number of (conflicting) books, but on the sum total of his life and work and dedication to his family and his fans.
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2,208 reviews10 followers
May 17, 2016
Funny, Heartwarming, Charming, Insightful, Real & Compelling! An Amazing Read! I Loved It!
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417 reviews45 followers
November 16, 2015
I thought this was a pretty decent book. If your a die-hard MJ fan and been following him for years and years like I have... You know half of this stuff..maybe even more than half already! lol So nothing really surprised me. I still love him with all my heart & soul always and respect him. All and all I liked the book. It shows more of who Michael was as a MAN. Off stage & when no cameras are around. I like the funny lil stories like faking crying at the ugly museum LOL He seemed so playful & fun. It also had some sad moments with the prescriptions and everything. My heart breaks for him over and over knowing he was in such pain in multiple ways sometimes mentally, emotionally, physically. He went through so much when he was here. I hope now he's found the peace & tranquility he so deserves. Love you MJ! Rest in peace.






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62 reviews1 follower
January 30, 2012
Omg one of the worst books I have read in a long time. This book was not my choice to read as it was chosen by my BFF who is a Michael fan as I am. Me being a big fan of Michael did not save this book.

First of all, the book was poorly written and wasn't as cohesive and flowing as I like for books to be. Secondly, I felt slightly disturbed by the overall content of the book, but it was the same level of disturbance I felt about Michael when he was still alive. I never believed him to be a child molester, just a seriously developmentally stunted individual who was a product of not having a childhood and being exposed to too much as a child.

The only saving grace for this book was the glimpse into Michael as a humanitarian and how much he truly loved the world - but much of this, most people knew if they payed any attention to his music and life separate from the legal battles. With that said, Mr. Cascio, I did not enjoy having you reiterate this every third paragraph.

On to the next one...
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8 reviews11 followers
August 24, 2021
This is not another Michael Jackson biography. It is a memoir from a young man who had the good fortune to have grown up in Michael’s inner circle and as a young adult became one of Michael’s closest aides.

As a literary genre, memoirs are useful documents; they are first-hand accounts which allow the reader to gain a particular perspective on their chosen topic of study. Michael Jackson is the topic of study for the reader of this book and there is plenty that has been written about him. Since his untimely death in 2009 there have been numerous memoirs and biographies written by colleagues, family members, music journalists, cultural critics, and biographers. However, the value of this memoir lies in Frank Cascio’s outsider status; he is not a writer, he is not a family member, he was neither a peer nor worked in an artistic capacity with Michael.

Frank Cascio’s memoir offers us a glimpse through the French doors of the hotel balcony, behind the blackened window of the SUV, behind the gates of Neverland and because of the mystery that surrounded the artist’s public persona, the reader will find this book compelling. Cascio’s youthful yet fragmented memories of visiting Michael on tour, at home or of Michael spending time at the Cascio family home in New York, allow the seasoned MJ reader to corroborate much of what they already knew about the artist’s private persona. According to Cascio, Michael was a practical joker, extremely generous, well read, and had strong moral convictions which made him a great mentor and role model for the Cascio children and other young people he spent time with. For the everyday reader, Cascio does an excellent job of humanising a superstar and provides a glowing character reference for the often-misunderstood artist.

Cascio is one of many young people Michael befriended but he is the only one (so far) to have written a memoir about his experience. This adds further value to the book because understanding Michael’s affinity with children, teenagers and young adults has grown in importance since its publication in 2011. Cascio’s memoir offers an important counter-narrative to correct the media distortion that followed Robson and Safechuck’s failed civil-suit. For those readers who have absorbed this damaging narrative, reading ‘My Friend Michael’ will certainly restore their faith in Michael’s reputation as an outstanding role model to young people.

All this aside, memoirs do have limitations as primary sources for the researcher. Firstly, they are one person’s interpretation of a time-period, context, or event. Michael Jackson’s life was multi-faceted, complex and unlike no-one else’s life in history. One person’s memoir will not be able to adequately capture this. For the reader hoping to gain a biographical or creative overview of Michael’s life; they would be better served by other books. Equally, in the final chapters of the book that deal with Frank and Michael’s relationship as employee / employer, the narrative is more about Frank making sense of his own changing relationship with a friend which may leave the reader frustrated.

In summary, I recommend this book to fans and non-fans due to its unique nature. It is interesting, easy to read and available in hardback, e-book and audio book formats.

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1,439 reviews18 followers
November 4, 2023
4,25⭐️

Bardzo wielobiegunowa a zarazem autentyczna w tym, jak przekazuje się myśli do osób bliskich, oraz jak będąc szczerym czasem trudno nam nawet w dosadnosci i pewności że tak powiem wskazać podłoże tego, co buzuje w naszej głowie....Bardzo wartościowa lektura
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2 reviews3 followers
December 23, 2011
Of all the biographies out there on Michael Jackson this one definitely feels the most honest. Many biographies tend to be marred with exact dates, footnotes, endnotes, quotes from third parties and opinions from the biographer who never knew his subject. Most biographers view the people they are writing about as subjects or meal tickets. There isn't much heart that goes into writing and as a result their work becomes stale and textbook.

Frank Cascio, a close assistant, adviser, and friend, managed to write from his heart about Michael Jackson the person and not Michael Jackson the pop icon. It is very clear from the first few pages in this book that the story ahead will be blunt and honest. I can't say with 100 percent certainty that everything he writes is the way everything happened ( I didn't know MJ personally, you're shocked), but I have no reason or proof to suggest otherwise. This book spans the entire life of Frank Cascio up until the present and Michael Jackson's life from just after he created "Bad" and began working on "Dangerous".

The book details how Michael was a second father, mentor, and best friend to Frank. Michael taught him important life and business lessons. When Frank became older he became Michael's personal assistant and most trusted advisor. Frank's life was Michael's life. Any questions you have ever had about Michael Jackson's drug use, kids, wives, sexuality, proposed pedophilia, or eccentric behavior are answered in this book.

At it's core this a Thank You letter to a best friend.

If you are a fan you will L.O.V.E. this book. If you are someone on the fence about Michael you will Love this book. If you like lists with three things in them, then this book is for you.
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January 2, 2025
This book was a tough read, there are so many moments that you can see the red flags in Michael's behavior, someone else's review on here commented that the book was full of enabling and I do agree but I also understand why, it was 2011 when it was published, probably written a bit before that, and Michael's passing was still fresh.

Michael played a lot of mind games, he was incredibly paranoid and basically in a prison of his own design because he was a deeply troubled person who caused harm to others. It's a shame that people don't see that.

This book was deeply revealing and it was very obvious how much Frank cared about Michael and how much he sacrificed to protect him even when it never should have been his job to do that, at the age of 13 years old and onward he became the protector of this grown adult, even without anything else, that's abusive.

So many people don't believe it, or see it or care, but this book is indicative of Michael as a person, why did he need his 22 year old assistant to sleep in a room with him and two children? Why did he need this? What would he have been afraid of if the allegations were never true?

Reading this book was rough because I recognize so many of the excuses and enabling, I did them myself in my own life.
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56 reviews67 followers
December 25, 2012
Being a firm beLIEver , I find this books to be very hoax-related .
Frank did a good job by writing this book about Mike , but I don't think that his aim was as pure as I picture it to be .. Anyways , I loved all the stories about the MAN , how he thinkS , jokeS , treatS his kids and all .
I don't know about everyone else , but I was emotionally moved by the moments that Frank reminisced . I sometimes grew tired of Frank talking about himself being Mike's back-protector , I mean I knew beforehand that Frank was of a great importance in MJ's life .. But Frank talking about himself as if he was the God-of-getting-things-done -for-MJ .. come on ! I also hated it when he kept on talking about his family backing up Michael and all .. GOSH ! he's too lucky he wasn't in front of me ..

What I loved about teh book is that it focused on Michael the person , the human being , and not on Michael the artist , performer and entertainer .

I LOVED the pictures ! <3
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147 reviews
December 9, 2024
Book Review: My Friend Michael by Frank Cassio

Frank Cassio’s My Friend Michael is a deeply moving and intimate memoir that offers an unparalleled glimpse into the life of one of the world’s greatest entertainers. As a lifelong fan of Michael, I thought I knew everything there was to know about him—but this book took my understanding and appreciation to a whole new level.

Reading My Friend Michael with a close friend was an unforgettable experience. We took turns diving into each chapter, pausing to reflect on the heartfelt anecdotes and fascinating details that Cassio shares. It felt like we were discovering new dimensions of Michael together—his kindness, his wit, and his relentless drive for perfection. The warmth and admiration with which Cassio describes his friendship with Michael made us both feel like we were part of that extraordinary connection.

What sets this memoir apart is its authenticity. Cassio doesn’t just recount events; he brings Michael to life through stories that reveal his humanity and vulnerability. Whether it’s tales of Michael’s humor during quiet moments or his unwavering generosity toward others, Cassio paints a portrait of a man who was much more than his iconic status.

As someone who has always admired Michael, I didn’t think my opinion of him could be elevated further—but it was. Cassio’s account highlights the depth of Michael’s character, showing him as not just a musical genius but also a deeply compassionate and loyal friend.

My friend and I found ourselves even more in awe of Michael’s legacy after reading this book. The way Cassio captures the essence of their friendship made us laugh, cry, and cherish every word. By the end, we both agreed that My Friend Michael is not just a book; it’s a celebration of a life that continues to inspire millions.

If you’re a fan of Michael—or even just curious about the man behind the legend—My Friend Michael is a must-read. It’s heartfelt, insightful, and unforgettable, offering a perspective that will deepen your admiration for the King of Pop. Frank Cassio’s tribute is a testament to the power of true friendship and the enduring legacy of one extraordinary individual.
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31 reviews37 followers
May 23, 2024
I went back and forth on my thoughts on this book. Certainly, the Cascio family's vehement defense of the character of Michael in the midst of false child abuse allegations is excellent. Frank Cascio's account of his extensive friendship and business relationship with Michael sheds light on the private life of a very private man. While a good amount of his account has plenty of basis and can be backed up from other sources (which are devoid of the self-promotion readily available here), there were other moments which made me wonder if Frank may not have wanted to add some ancillary details to their friendship to give himself a certain image. Furthermore, I do not know why certain details about personal arguments or Michael's internal battles had to be published, as these make it read more like a gossip column.

For example, MJ certainly had a number of moments in his life in which substance use was an issue. However, some of Frank's portrayal of this issue seems contrived. Another seeming contrivance is in the latter half of the book, particularly when Frank recounts Michael using vulgar language. Nearly every one of his friends, colleagues, and family members will attest that Michael Jackson never really cussed, but that is not the idea you would get from one Frank Cascio's account. It also seemed like Frank placed most of the blame for Michael's and LMP's marriage failure on Michael, despite LMP reneging on her promise to have children with MJ and her being married four times and being engaged to even more men. It seems unfair to place the blame on Michael when her life showed that her success in relationships has not been great.

Still, the biggest eyebrow-raiser for me is what we know of Frank's involvement in Michael-related endeavors between Michael's death and the publishing of this book. The "Cascio tracks" from the posthumous album "Michael" especially calls into question whether there was an angle of Frank, not Michael, trying to be pushed here. That album, of course, has since been shown to include songs with vocals from another singer, though when this accusation first came out the Cascio family insisted that this was Michael Jackson's voice; could it be a conflict of interest? His involvement in that album means that he would benefit monetarily from its success.

Also, Michael very clearly had a well-publicized negative break in relationship from Rabbi Shmuley Boteach (who has been an opportunist since Michael's death and obfuscated the truth for money), though Frank's account only paints the relationship positively, even defending Boteach.

"I've never been motivated by greed," Cascio posits, and yet this whole book seemed more of a puff piece for him than anything. I think that his staunch defense of Michael's innocence, while legitimate, can be grasped from a myriad of better and more credible sources without subjecting yourself to what is, at best, an ego stroke. Frank is certainly the hero in his story. Overall, I think Frank inadvertently proved to readers why Michael became suspicious of him in the end.
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72 reviews
February 22, 2024
"Have a drink, enjoy yourself, but if you can’t walk out of a place on your own two feet, you’re a bum."

"If I gave you a million dollars right now, would you take it? Or would you want to have the knowledge of how to make that million on your own?"

I have mixed feelings about this book. The writing style isn't one that I typically enjoy, but this is a memoir so I'll let it pass.

The stories Frank told in this book either gave me a couple of chuckles (I will never get over the pranks at the museum and on David Gest) or almost made me shed a tear (I say "almost" because I don't really cry on any literary or entertainment works). The middle to near-end parts where saddest because this is where Frank gives us a glimpse on MJ's lowest points. Some fans may not like how Michael's addiction to prescription drugs was portrayed but that just shows that he's human: he makes mistakes, he has emotional breakingpoints. This book is a must-read if you barely know or want to know more about Michael Jackson, especially with regards to the child molestation accusations.

Review aside (possible spoilers ahead), there is this particular part about Michael being told that they want to change his appearance for "You Rock My World" and I can't get it out of my head:

"When I arrived, I heard Michael inside the bathroom, freaking out and throwing stuff around ..."

"...Finally I heard him bang something with such force that I got worried. I started trying to break down the door."

"... He was sitting on the floor. He’d been in the middle of having his hair cut when he heard the news, so his hair was half long, half short. He was holding his hands over his face, sobbing."

I've been wondering if this explains the hairstyle he wore in 2001 (Invincible era, the same hairstyle he wore during the 30th anniversary concert). If so, then I can never look at that hairstyle the same way anymore.
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38 reviews6 followers
February 2, 2017
I happened to come upon this book at the library as I always like to browse the Biography section and just grab whatever speaks to me. I have never been a fan of Michael Jacksons, but I wasn't not a fan either. I just really didn't know much about him. I knew him to be an artist that a lot of my teen pop idols looked up to (my teens were in the early 2000s) and enjoyed a lot of his songs, often being shocked when a song would come on the radio and would find out it was Michael Jackson. Throughout my much younger years I did hear a lot of the eccentric things Michael did or was accused of, from hearing my mother gossip of the tabloid stories to others, although the sweet women that she is who sees the good and understanding in people, always defended him and always had an idea of where the blame should be placed or how to validate the things he did. So from hearing the gossip adult-versions of Lisa Marie, Debbie Rowe, Michael's skin condition, Neverland, his relationship with children, the disguises, dangling his baby over the balcony, etc. I wanted to hear the true story from someone who spent their childhood and young adults years with Michael. Frank Casico did an amazing job writing a tell-all book, not seeming to leave much out (if any) at all, without being nasty and exploiting anyone. You cannot read this book without finding a respect for Michael, the work he did, and company he kept, and the short-lived life he lived.
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169 reviews3 followers
December 13, 2022
Here's my review from my bookstagram @peacewithbooks

I finished this audiobook today and man, what a heartbreaker 😭. I had a heavy heart throughout the whole journey.

Frank Cascio was first introduced to Michael when he was only five years old and was around Michael his whole life, until Michael died in 2009. Frank takes us through the happy moments, but also through the sad moments. Like when Michael started to develop an addiction for painkillers and how it turned for the worse in the early 2000s.

Frank takes us through the times when him and his family came to Neverland multiple times and how it basically became his home when he started to work for Michael when he got older. Neverland sounds like a fun place, a place I would've enjoyed and with me many others. It's a shame the media made him feel unsafe at a place where he was supposed to feel safe.

The last part of the book zooms into the heavy allegations against Michael around 2004/2005. It's a shame how Michael started to lose trust in people, even that he started to believe the lies people made up about Frank. People within Michael's team made stories up about Frank, which Michael believed, and how Frank had to do everything in his power to defend himself.

It's a book that makes you cry, but love Michael at the same time. You also start to understand Michael through Frank's eyes.

I knew I was up for a ride, I just wasn't aware it would be this heavy 😭😭😭
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7 reviews1 follower
April 19, 2023
I genuinely loved this book. I love MJ, so perhaps I’m a bit biased, haha. However, what I loved most about it was how blunt and authentic it was. It didn’t just cast Michael as an untouchable and perfect person, nor was it meant to slander Michael. It showcased him in his most honest form— as a human like any one of us. This book humanized him so well and did so flawlessly. You hear about his flaws, as well as his positive traits. You also hear about how his friendships with children were like through Frank’s friendship with him, which makes it all the more understandable (as his friendships were often misunderstood by outsiders). All in all, it made me learn more about how Michael was like through the eyes of someone who got to know him very well. In truth, this book made me love him even more— if that were even possible! Definitely a book I’d recommend to MJ fans who’d like to get to know him better, as well as to people who would like to get to know more about the dynamic of Michael’s friendships (as long as they are willing to understand with an open heart and open mind). Overall, 10/10!!
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20 reviews1 follower
June 17, 2021
I have mixed reviews about this book. Woudn't recommend it as the first source concernign accounts about who Michael was! I'd say the most relaible sources as to who he was would be his own work and his own words. So first listen to his music, watch his shortfilms, watch his interviews, listen to his speeches, read his autobiography Moonwalker and his other inspiring book Dancing The Dream, then later read this book and make your own judgement about the accounts, I can't deny there are some interesting, funny and lovely stories in here, but at the same time there're some dubious ones - not saying they're not true, but I'd be suspecious of the veracity of everything told in this book. We're talking about someone who had to deal with false claims being made about his persona throughtout the majority of his life. So I'd be careful! Search for yourself, see the full context of Michael's life, search people's reputation that were involved during his lifetime and draw your own conclusions!
10 reviews
August 31, 2018
My Friend Michael

I always like Michael Jackson... have for many years. I seemed to have had some understanding of what his life may have been like growing up having missed his childhood. To me, it made sense. Some child actors grow up having drug and alcohol problems. Michael had morals and he shared his love with children... the ones he couldn't grow up and play with. With his popularity, he built his own world be could safely live in and enjoy watching and interacting with children. I never looked at Michael as a pedophile... nothing close. He was fulfilling his needs of his inside child. Sadly so many people didn't understand him. I love his music, watching his performances when I can. I love and will always miss him. I'm happy to have read the author's first hand experiences and relationships along with his own family with Michael. Thank you, Frank.
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110 reviews
July 14, 2018
I never really knew much about Michael Jackson the man besides the typical media headlines and hype that surrounded him in the 1990s and beyond. But my husband and I went to the Michael Jackson Cirque du Soleil show in Las Vegas and it made me super interested to learn more about him. So I got this book and was sooooo happy I did! I really appreciated that Frank Cascio shared such precious memories of someone so dear to his heart and allowed us an insider’s look into what Michael Jackson was really like as a person. I learned that he was kind, fascinating, misunderstood, and an extraordinary human being. I also loved finding out what Neverland Ranch was really like. I know I’m a little late getting on the band wagon, but I am such a big Michael Jackson fan now!
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October 22, 2024
300 pages of enabling and explaining things away.
frank carries a ridiculous level of delusion about him and none of what he says about the arvizo children is trustworthy. it's WEIRD AND CREEPY that they were looking at explicit images with those boys, and it's weird they were sleeping in michael's room, and i don't doubt that cascio whitewashed the story (no pun intended) for publication.
for being a supposed friend, michael also plays ridiculous mindgames with frank and treats him like dirt, but the lack of self-awareness frank has makes the book tiring. even in moments where he says he's "putting himself first" he abandons everything two seconds later because mj asks him to.
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8 reviews1 follower
April 2, 2013
It was a good book, but I am just not sure what to make of it. After the whole fake songs thing, just got to wonder what is true and isn't in this book.
2 reviews2 followers
February 24, 2018
Wasn’t a big fan of this book. Just was kind of dull and did not shed light on anything more than we already knew.
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68 reviews1 follower
September 6, 2019
There’s something about Michael Jackson, like an inexplicable magic or a curious fascination. There’s the man and his music but then there’s also this mess of stories, truth, and lies. There’s a cultural narrative here that even 10+ years after his death seems relevant. There’s something both expansive and intimate at the same time. It’s like a groundless reality of art, wonder, and joy equally mixed with disillusionment, pain, and paranoia.

Frank’s book is all of this. There’s something so raw and human. You can feel the intensity and veracity of Frank’s relationship with MJ. You feel the magic and enchantment alongside the very real pain and devastation. However, there are wisps of moments that felt untrue. I don’t know if it matters, but there’s just the smallest hesitation in my mind that this is all exactly as Frank says it is. I’m not sure if it’s Frank himself or just the genre of MJ biography that makes me feel suspicious. Regardless, this feels like a real glimpse into the wounded genius—the imperfect human—that was Michael Jackson by someone whom genuinely cared for him.
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Author 9 books7 followers
November 28, 2025
Good book, but don’t buy it.

The first half of the book is a bit repetitive, however the description of Michael’s behavior seemed very believable to me, both when it came to his light and darkness.
The reason of my “don’t buy it” follows.
This book tries to legitimate songs contained in the posthumous album “Michael”, which were later proved in a courtroom to have not been sung by Michael himself.
Worst of all: three hundred pages spent saying over and over how wonderful Michael was, how ridiculous the accusations against him are, and how disgusting the people who used him and betrayed him are, just for me to find out – while I was finishing the book – that the author and his family are currently threatening the Jackson establishment to release more accusations if they won’t get the money they’re asking for.
If nothing else: at least this proves how deeply shameless Michael’s accusers are in lying to everybody’s faces.
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7 reviews1 follower
January 12, 2019
This book is full of inside jokes, pranks, odd nicknames and other fun Michael Jackson shared with Frank Cascio. Much of it doesn't necessarily have anything to do with him being a superstar - this book gives you an inside view at Michael Jackson the human being. At times I was laughing out loud at the silly jokes Michael came up with.

Having said that, Frank was also around for the darker times in Michael's life. He tells the story from a friend's point of view: the accusations, the addiction to propofol, the plastic surgery, as well as Michael's tendency to both trust and distrust the wrong people.

While I still have my doubts about a few things mentioned later in the book, such as the authenticity of the "Cascio tracks", I'm very happy I read this book. It's a great read for anyone interested in the "man behind the mask".
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226 reviews2 followers
May 1, 2025
MJ, The Musical is touring right now. It's great. I read this book AFTER seeing the Broadway Show (thanks to my daughter for finding this title!). Whether or not you have the chance to see the show, I recommend the book. This is an incredibly personal and intimate portrait of the man, Michael Jackson -- not the superstar. He was justifiably paranoid, but not quite paranoid enough to adequately guard successfully against exploitation. The life vignettes are engaging, interesting and enlightening. Who knew he was prone to pranking & went out in disguise so he could personally shop for his extensive collectibles, and that he was a candy-a-holic?! The costs and trade-offs of being an eccentric, talented, artistic genuis are extraordinary. I loved the book; glad I listened to it even though it left me a little sad.
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16 reviews
February 10, 2022
I did really love this book! It's really hard to find a book about Michael Jackson that tells his story from this point of view. Usually, it's written by a family member or someone who didn't know him at all, and it's really refreshing to see this side of Michael, although his long time fans most likely already know this side slightly.
I did find it puzzling though, that Frank decided it was a good idea to introduce Michael to pot, eventhough he knew his battles with addiction in other areas. Maybe it's just me.

Some other good books to read, that might provide a rounded perspective on Michael life and personality are:
"You Are Not Alone" by Jermaine Jackson
"The Michael Jackson Conspiracy" by Aprodite Jones, and
"Starting Over" by LaToya Jackson.
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72 reviews
April 4, 2019
Surprising. That's how I could describe in one word how I find this book. A friend of Michael Jackson wrote a kind of a diary showing MJ not only as a star, but mostly as a living, breathing person whom most of us has never really known. Eccentric, yes, but was he crazy? If you want to hear more than what the tabloids say and see the other side of the coin, this book is going to give it to you.
It's also a nice lecture for someone who has not been a devoted MJ fan but likes an interesting story.
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21 reviews16 followers
August 3, 2022
Intimate & Insightful Look at Michael

The writing is not the best I've encountered,but he tells the story in an endearingly authenticated way. I like the fact we see what he was like behind the public persona and bad traits and all, disproving the notion that all MJ supporters view him like he's an untouchable god. The more I read about him, the more I'm convinced the media (hungry for their next celebrity victim and scoop) and racist LAPD/Sneddon totally set him up and had it in for him.
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