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Did You Hear Me Crying: The Moving Story of Survival Through 45 Years of Sexual, Physical and Emotional Abuse
This is the Book That Should Never Have Had To Be Written Let Alone Experienced Every child and human being has a fundamental right to a life free from humiliation, fear and violence. Yet the World Health Organisation estimates that up to 40 million children are abused every year and according to Women's Aid, 1 in 3 women has been beaten, coerced into sex or otherwise abused in her lifetime. In this shocking memoir, Cassie Moore gives a very open and honest description of how she suffered and survived a lifetime of abuse. She • The sexual, physical and emotional abuse she suffered at the hands of her Stepfather and Mother, who then sold her into marriage at the age of 16 • The heartbreak she suffered when she naively left her 22 month old baby behind when she fled to London with the man she fell in love with, only to be abused by him for a further 23 years • The self-loathing, depression and despair she felt during those lonely years • The enormous sacrifices she had to make to save herself and start a new life "After reading 'Did You Hear Me Crying?' you will not ask why Cassie did not leave but rather where on earth did she find the strength and determination to survive? Her tenacity helped her rebuild her life after child abuse and 25 years of domestic violence. She shows us that it is never too late to speak up and that it is possible to move on and find love, happiness and joy in life." Margaret Martin, Director, Women's Aid. "An incredibly honest - heart-breaking account of a childhood blighted by neglect and abuse." Barnados Ireland
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210 pages, Paperback
First published November 25, 2012
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March 12, 2019
Just a mess... Find an editor
Although, I feel bad for the abuse this author suffered as a child. After abandoning her first child to run off with a guy she knew for 10 days, I started to lose my compassion. Once she had baby number 3 I just quit reading... It was the late 1980's birth control would have been available!
Although, I feel bad for the abuse this author suffered as a child. After abandoning her first child to run off with a guy she knew for 10 days, I started to lose my compassion. Once she had baby number 3 I just quit reading... It was the late 1980's birth control would have been available!
August 24, 2016
heartbreaking story, I found it hard to read at times but the strength this woman has shown is truly amazing, to go through so much pain for so long and survive is unbelievable. I really hope people read this and realise they too can survive and there is help out there
April 15, 2018
So Heartbreaking yet so Inspiring!
If I could I would have given this book unlimited Stars! This was so uplifting. Cassie went through so much starting at a very young age. I admire her and the struggles she endured and persevered. I myself was raped by my biological father and also physically and emotionally along with sexual abuse. I ran away at the age 14 because he was getting more aggressive. I eventually after a few other horrible relationships I ended up marrying a man 8 years older than me and I only did it to get away from my father. I was with him for almost 25 years and we had five beautiful children, the oldest wasn't his and I finally got him to leave when he was cheating on me and wanted to shack up with for a while but he said he was coming back. I just agreed with whatever he said to get him out. It was hard but eventually I was able to get a protection order against him and he is terrified to go to jail so I am somewhat safe. He doesn't make any attempts to see the kids, when he first left he would come to see them and than he would sleep on my couch and ignore the kids the whole time. He hasn't seen the kids in almost 3 years and the kids don't have any desire to see him. He was mean to them toward the end and that is what gave me the strength to stay strong. We are still married because I don't have the money and he won't even pay child support so No help there. I am sorry I made this about my story but I just wanted to let you know you are not alone and you are admired. Also, I totally understand that the love of a mother for her children is unbreakable and we would do everything to make them happy. For me my children are my life and I am very lucky that I have them. Anyway, i recommend this book to everyone because it is a story everyone needs to know to help them understand what some go through everyday, to make the world aware of the abuse going on through the world. Cassie is an amazing writer and person.
If I could I would have given this book unlimited Stars! This was so uplifting. Cassie went through so much starting at a very young age. I admire her and the struggles she endured and persevered. I myself was raped by my biological father and also physically and emotionally along with sexual abuse. I ran away at the age 14 because he was getting more aggressive. I eventually after a few other horrible relationships I ended up marrying a man 8 years older than me and I only did it to get away from my father. I was with him for almost 25 years and we had five beautiful children, the oldest wasn't his and I finally got him to leave when he was cheating on me and wanted to shack up with for a while but he said he was coming back. I just agreed with whatever he said to get him out. It was hard but eventually I was able to get a protection order against him and he is terrified to go to jail so I am somewhat safe. He doesn't make any attempts to see the kids, when he first left he would come to see them and than he would sleep on my couch and ignore the kids the whole time. He hasn't seen the kids in almost 3 years and the kids don't have any desire to see him. He was mean to them toward the end and that is what gave me the strength to stay strong. We are still married because I don't have the money and he won't even pay child support so No help there. I am sorry I made this about my story but I just wanted to let you know you are not alone and you are admired. Also, I totally understand that the love of a mother for her children is unbreakable and we would do everything to make them happy. For me my children are my life and I am very lucky that I have them. Anyway, i recommend this book to everyone because it is a story everyone needs to know to help them understand what some go through everyday, to make the world aware of the abuse going on through the world. Cassie is an amazing writer and person.
February 20, 2025
Definitely a sad life story, but I don't think I particularly liked how it was written. Felt like I was missing out on information, and things didn't flow how I felt it should have.
February 26, 2013
Today's Review is on Did You Hear Me Crying by Cassie Moore
Have you ever read a book based on someone's life that hit's you so hard that you need a little time to mull it over before moving on to another? This book did just that.
A sometimes horrific record of mental, sexual, verbal, and physical abuse, Did You Hear Me Crying will touch your heart as well as your very soul.
Cassie's story begins with the animosity that her mother feels towards her and the verbal and physical abuse she inflicted upon her. She then goes on to talk about the sexual abuse she had suffered at the hands of her stepfather who repeated the offense for years.
More times than not, children that are subjected to what Cassie had at a young age tend to latch onto the first person that shows them love and affection as a teen or young adult, and that's exactly what she did. Sadly though, this first love was just as bad as the parents that abused her. But life goes on and as such Cassie was able to find love once again and of course everything seemed well until he began controlling her, berating her, and beating her.
Finally hitting bottom, Cassie reached out for help and slowly but surely has broken free from the cycle of abuse, but at a great cost. She has no relationship with her mother and stepfather; which I think is actually a good thing, no relationship with her sisters, and her children deserted her.
Now, after 46 years of abuse she is finally in control of her life and is abuse free. Her children have opened the lines of communication, and she has finally found true love and more importantly, she has begun to heal.
A moving story of one woman's struggle that will leave you wanting to reach out to the author. To tell her to keep strong, and to tell her she is loved.
5 of 5 stars
Available at Amazon
Have you ever read a book based on someone's life that hit's you so hard that you need a little time to mull it over before moving on to another? This book did just that.
A sometimes horrific record of mental, sexual, verbal, and physical abuse, Did You Hear Me Crying will touch your heart as well as your very soul.
Cassie's story begins with the animosity that her mother feels towards her and the verbal and physical abuse she inflicted upon her. She then goes on to talk about the sexual abuse she had suffered at the hands of her stepfather who repeated the offense for years.
More times than not, children that are subjected to what Cassie had at a young age tend to latch onto the first person that shows them love and affection as a teen or young adult, and that's exactly what she did. Sadly though, this first love was just as bad as the parents that abused her. But life goes on and as such Cassie was able to find love once again and of course everything seemed well until he began controlling her, berating her, and beating her.
Finally hitting bottom, Cassie reached out for help and slowly but surely has broken free from the cycle of abuse, but at a great cost. She has no relationship with her mother and stepfather; which I think is actually a good thing, no relationship with her sisters, and her children deserted her.
Now, after 46 years of abuse she is finally in control of her life and is abuse free. Her children have opened the lines of communication, and she has finally found true love and more importantly, she has begun to heal.
A moving story of one woman's struggle that will leave you wanting to reach out to the author. To tell her to keep strong, and to tell her she is loved.
5 of 5 stars
Available at Amazon
December 14, 2012
This book deserves so much more than the 5 stars I can give it on here. It is closer to a 100 stars. The book was not only well written but written with true depth,meaning and emotion so strong and courages that if I did not know it to be true I would have thought the author was a mastermind in laying down the bare facts without actually having gone through any of it.
My heart goes out to the author and the true horror she had to endure, finding the courage to write about it is one of the most courages things I have ever heard about. The book was so well written that I could actually pick up on the horror,emotions,upsets and heartbreak the author had to endure.
I was rooting for her all the way to the end as I really wanted this stunning,courages,absolute gem of a woman to find her way out of a life of horror. And in the end she made it and I could not be happier. I have always cried when reading a good book but this time I cried my eyes out and I at one stage got so upset at what I was reading that I had to put the book down to gather myself but could not resit going back for more to see what happens.
This is definitely the most emotional read ever and I for one recommend it to all woman having to suffer through abuse.
Excellent work Cassie,your a gem and I wish you only the best for the future!
My heart goes out to the author and the true horror she had to endure, finding the courage to write about it is one of the most courages things I have ever heard about. The book was so well written that I could actually pick up on the horror,emotions,upsets and heartbreak the author had to endure.
I was rooting for her all the way to the end as I really wanted this stunning,courages,absolute gem of a woman to find her way out of a life of horror. And in the end she made it and I could not be happier. I have always cried when reading a good book but this time I cried my eyes out and I at one stage got so upset at what I was reading that I had to put the book down to gather myself but could not resit going back for more to see what happens.
This is definitely the most emotional read ever and I for one recommend it to all woman having to suffer through abuse.
Excellent work Cassie,your a gem and I wish you only the best for the future!
October 30, 2022
This book will be a tough one to read for most people. This subject matter is dark, raw, horrifying, sad.... I could go on and on with adjectives that describe this read. But most importantly, this story is similar to what so many children have to face on a daily basis.....way too often unfortunately. It's heartbreaking and terrifying.
The author did a great job putting their story into words. This is a memoir afterall, so this poor woman went through absolute hell in her life..... a hell that followed her into her adult years as well.
My ONLY complaint, which may even sound judgemental, is that she left her child behind at one point. I do understand trauma effects us all so differently, so take that with a grain of salt.
As a victim of SA myself, my heart hurt for her. Life is insanely unfair to so many.
The author did a great job putting their story into words. This is a memoir afterall, so this poor woman went through absolute hell in her life..... a hell that followed her into her adult years as well.
My ONLY complaint, which may even sound judgemental, is that she left her child behind at one point. I do understand trauma effects us all so differently, so take that with a grain of salt.
As a victim of SA myself, my heart hurt for her. Life is insanely unfair to so many.
January 14, 2019
I cannot understand how a grown woman chose to stay in an abusive relationship for 25 years, exposing her children to an abusive environment and not protecting them? She had so many chances to get out of the relationship but she kept going back to it. I was disappointed that after she lost all of her children, she got some sense to leave the monster.
November 2, 2020
This story should have never been written, but as a parent I drew many lessons on how predators feed on a kids' innocence and give them a broken view of the world, which affects their entire future. It is so important to arm our children with knowledge and power. Thank you for sharing your painful experiences to help many other children.
January 13, 2013
Unbelievable what this woman went through. Makes me so thankful for the loving family I was born into.
January 5, 2019
Heartbreaking
This book is a good read, but not for the empath. I took on So many horrible emotions as I read this book, I felt like I became Cassie. It was very well written, making it easy to take on those emotions. If you are someone who can read a book without taking in the emotions and characteristics of the person you are reading about, then I highly recommend this book. If you are an empath, find something with less pain to read. I almost couldn't handle it, and I feel that i handle my empathetic abilities very well.
This book is a good read, but not for the empath. I took on So many horrible emotions as I read this book, I felt like I became Cassie. It was very well written, making it easy to take on those emotions. If you are someone who can read a book without taking in the emotions and characteristics of the person you are reading about, then I highly recommend this book. If you are an empath, find something with less pain to read. I almost couldn't handle it, and I feel that i handle my empathetic abilities very well.
June 13, 2019
Inspiring!
Coming from someone who dealt with her fair share of abuse over the years, this book was a magnificent read. The story was hard to read at times because this poor girl was put through hell, but I couldn’t put it down once I picked it up. My heart aches for Cassie, and what she went through. Amazing job on the book! My prayers go out to you for a continued healing and my utmost respect for your bravery!
Coming from someone who dealt with her fair share of abuse over the years, this book was a magnificent read. The story was hard to read at times because this poor girl was put through hell, but I couldn’t put it down once I picked it up. My heart aches for Cassie, and what she went through. Amazing job on the book! My prayers go out to you for a continued healing and my utmost respect for your bravery!
November 16, 2019
Dad story, ultimately uplifting
The author spent her childhood being abused and neglected in every which way possible. She then ends up marrying an older man who continues the cycle of abuse. It's amazing how much the author was able to overcome in order to find peace after only knowing hurt for forty five years. I hope her children will see that they have been manipulated by a master and will come back into their mother's life someday.
The author spent her childhood being abused and neglected in every which way possible. She then ends up marrying an older man who continues the cycle of abuse. It's amazing how much the author was able to overcome in order to find peace after only knowing hurt for forty five years. I hope her children will see that they have been manipulated by a master and will come back into their mother's life someday.
June 21, 2017
Fear, pain, neglect. Sexual and domestic abuse. These are just some of the things one person suffered throughout her life. It makes you wonder how anyone can survive such horrors.
This is Cassie's story.
A very emotional and tear-jerking read which I not only enjoyed but would recommend.
A full five stars from me.
This is Cassie's story.
A very emotional and tear-jerking read which I not only enjoyed but would recommend.
A full five stars from me.
December 1, 2017
Heart breaking story by a wonderful author
Cassie I'm so glad you wrote your story down on paper,I hope it helps hundreds of women to speak out, what you went through was hell and back,but for you to come out strong ,and to loose you children for a time,bless you,bless your new life and I'm happy your happy now
Cassie I'm so glad you wrote your story down on paper,I hope it helps hundreds of women to speak out, what you went through was hell and back,but for you to come out strong ,and to loose you children for a time,bless you,bless your new life and I'm happy your happy now
June 28, 2018
A must-read
A story of a woman who suffered through many forms of abusive violence from childhood throughout her adulthood and somehow survived. This book should be required reading for females in school so they can see the dangers that may be right in front of them before it is too late.
A story of a woman who suffered through many forms of abusive violence from childhood throughout her adulthood and somehow survived. This book should be required reading for females in school so they can see the dangers that may be right in front of them before it is too late.
June 30, 2018
Cassie
Reading cassies story made me so sad for what she went through first as a child then as an adult , she had no support from her mother of you could call her that she was just an evil vindictive person my heart go out to cassie and I only hope she does get reunited with her children this book deserves10 STARS but I'm on!y allowed to give 5 STARS .
Reading cassies story made me so sad for what she went through first as a child then as an adult , she had no support from her mother of you could call her that she was just an evil vindictive person my heart go out to cassie and I only hope she does get reunited with her children this book deserves10 STARS but I'm on!y allowed to give 5 STARS .
August 18, 2018
Heart breaking
Reading this book was a sad experience and made me think of my own childhood. I wish her the best and hope she reconciles with her children . My oldest son has not talked to me over 20 years after my husband died i realized how much his father poisoned him against me. I too don't give up as life is so short. May the peace of our Lord lift is up
Reading this book was a sad experience and made me think of my own childhood. I wish her the best and hope she reconciles with her children . My oldest son has not talked to me over 20 years after my husband died i realized how much his father poisoned him against me. I too don't give up as life is so short. May the peace of our Lord lift is up
August 27, 2018
Very touching heartbreaking story
This is greaT book anyone going through the things cassie has to help other people out there that there is help , been there to by abusive husband left him also came to be very independent women and stand on my own and speak my mind there hope for anyone if they want a change
This is greaT book anyone going through the things cassie has to help other people out there that there is help , been there to by abusive husband left him also came to be very independent women and stand on my own and speak my mind there hope for anyone if they want a change
January 8, 2019
A brave and inspiring story
What can I say it's 1am but I could not stop reading. Such a harrowing life that nobody should have to endure. How cassie managed to stay with that monster is beyond my comprehension..... Except of course for the love of the children. Amazing to see a happier ending. Here's where life really can begin for you cassie.😊
What can I say it's 1am but I could not stop reading. Such a harrowing life that nobody should have to endure. How cassie managed to stay with that monster is beyond my comprehension..... Except of course for the love of the children. Amazing to see a happier ending. Here's where life really can begin for you cassie.😊
June 17, 2019
Abuse? Why?😿
Every woman or man that is abused should read this book! Very well written! I was beaten frequently by my adopted father. My mother occasionally hit me, because she was not taught any better way to discipline.
I went on to marry three abusive husbands. Two I finally divorced and the last one passed away 14 years ago. Now I'm free.💕
Every woman or man that is abused should read this book! Very well written! I was beaten frequently by my adopted father. My mother occasionally hit me, because she was not taught any better way to discipline.
I went on to marry three abusive husbands. Two I finally divorced and the last one passed away 14 years ago. Now I'm free.💕
June 2, 2020
Brilliant
Mental abuse is worse than physical abuse this is a story of a woman's fight to get her life back. You think why doesn't she just leave him. Our family suffered my sister was a victim of domestic abuse she said when they say if you leave I will kill you, you believe it. Women's Aid are a marvellous organisation don't get the recognition they deserve.
Mental abuse is worse than physical abuse this is a story of a woman's fight to get her life back. You think why doesn't she just leave him. Our family suffered my sister was a victim of domestic abuse she said when they say if you leave I will kill you, you believe it. Women's Aid are a marvellous organisation don't get the recognition they deserve.
August 3, 2017
Heartbreaking and inspiring
An amazing story of a woman who suffered years of abuse starting at a very young age from the hands of those who are suppose to protect her, moving on to abusive relationships and finally finding the courage to escape.
An amazing story of a woman who suffered years of abuse starting at a very young age from the hands of those who are suppose to protect her, moving on to abusive relationships and finally finding the courage to escape.
December 28, 2017
Truly heart breaking
This book is terribly sad. It's hard to rate this kind of book. I can't say I enjoyed the book because truly it is terrible that the author had to live through these horrors. I'm glad she was able to overcome all of the adversity she faced though.
This book is terribly sad. It's hard to rate this kind of book. I can't say I enjoyed the book because truly it is terrible that the author had to live through these horrors. I'm glad she was able to overcome all of the adversity she faced though.
January 16, 2018
Horrible writing.
This book skipped over anything worth hearing about and was filled with whining and excuses and the entire thing has a 'pity me' theme. She was not empowering whatsoever. It was a very annoying story.
This book skipped over anything worth hearing about and was filled with whining and excuses and the entire thing has a 'pity me' theme. She was not empowering whatsoever. It was a very annoying story.
January 25, 2018
Just cant imagine her life in these conditions
I felt compassion and fear as I read thus story. I am reminded that this does happen and its probably more than I realize. True strength and determination is found here.
I felt compassion and fear as I read thus story. I am reminded that this does happen and its probably more than I realize. True strength and determination is found here.
February 9, 2018
Heartbreaking to read
I've nothing but respect for Cassie and wish her well on her journey she's came so far and is a strong loving women and mother and only wish she had her children with her she's been threw a hell of a lot and came threw it heartbreaking to read
I've nothing but respect for Cassie and wish her well on her journey she's came so far and is a strong loving women and mother and only wish she had her children with her she's been threw a hell of a lot and came threw it heartbreaking to read
May 20, 2018
Reader Comments
This book is highly recommend to survivors of child abuse and domestic violence. Reading what happened to Cassie Moore helped me to better understand the child abuse I endured and to heal.
This book is highly recommend to survivors of child abuse and domestic violence. Reading what happened to Cassie Moore helped me to better understand the child abuse I endured and to heal.
September 18, 2018
Heart wrenching but well written.
This story broke my heart but to understand the determination and courage displayed by Cassie was incredible. A very brave woman who should be so proud of herself.
This story broke my heart but to understand the determination and courage displayed by Cassie was incredible. A very brave woman who should be so proud of herself.
November 12, 2018
AMAZING
Read it in 1 sitting, can only describe it as empowering and and an outstanding portrayal of a young woman who will do anything to survive. A woman who will live the unhappiness of lives for the sake of her children. Beautifully weitten. AMAZING
Read it in 1 sitting, can only describe it as empowering and and an outstanding portrayal of a young woman who will do anything to survive. A woman who will live the unhappiness of lives for the sake of her children. Beautifully weitten. AMAZING
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