As a fan of the Philadelphia 76ers at the time when Dr. J played for the team, I was excited to receive this book in a First Reads giveaway. I have long admired Erving for his athletic abilities, as well as for his leadership off the basketball court.
With a previous understanding that he is not without personal flaws, I was very curious as to how complete this autobiography would be. In fact, Erving leaves out nothing. Not just a story of his professional accomplishments, the book also details his personal life as a young boy growing up on Long Island, his devotion to his family, his lack of connection to his father, and the personal indiscretions that strained his private life.
As the middle child of a single mother, Erving grew up trying to keep up with his older sister, as well as being a role model for his younger brother. He recognized at a very young age that basketball was one area in which he could excel, developing his considerable skills in playground games and, as a middle-school student, as one of the first two African Americans on a Salvation Army team that travelled throughout the New York City area. Even then, people were amazed at what he could do on the court. Later, as a high school standout, he was recruited heavily, and eventually chose to attend UMass. Seeing this as an opportunity to earn his degree in business and go on to a job, it took him a while to realize that he would have a career as a professional basketball player.
He describes the life of a player in the defunct ABA in detail, with glimpses of the challenges of playing for a team and league struggling to stay in business, as well as the temptations faced by professional athletes. The book pulls no punches; Erving acknowledges the times he succumbed to those temptations, and admits that his attitude toward women (essentially, they are either worthy of keeping in your life or worthy of using for a night) was unhealthy. It is near the end of the ABA and the beginning of his time in Philadelphia that he meets Turquoise, a single mother of an infant son who will become Dr. J's wife.
Erving details many of his seasons in the NBA, and speaks of his competitors with respect for their talents, while also recognizing that he himself was among the elite of the league. He relates the disappointment of reaching the conference and league finals, yet failing to win a championship. And he describes the joy of finally reaching the pinnacle in 1983, giving significant credit to his teammates, particularly Moses Malone, for that win.
Erving also discusses his business ventures following his basketball career, some of which made him far wealthier than basketball did, while others were much less successful. This is definitely NOT a gloss-over-the bad-parts retrospective.
In a life that generated such public acclaim and adoration, one that saw a young boy from a poor family rise to elite status and enormous wealth, it might have been tempting to omit certain parts of the story. To his credit, Erving chose to discuss those parts that have been painful and/or embarrassing to him. He describes the tensions in his marriage with Turquoise. He relates learning of the daughter he fathered with a sports journalist, the strain that put on his marriage, and the terms demanded by his wife for handling his obligation to his daughter. He also acknowledges having fathered another child with his current wife while still in his first marriage. He also speaks candidly of the pain inflicted by the deaths of his brother at age 16, his sister at 37, and others in his family that were taken too soon, particularly the devastation of losing one of his sons.
Most impressive to me were his thoughts on the difficulty of raising his children. As a father whose career demanded substantial time away from his family, he regrets those lost moments as milestones were reached without him. He also voices concerns about the pitfalls of raising children in privileged circumstances, as opposed to the meager resources he knew as a child. He is most eloquent when speaking of his love and devotion for his children.
All in all, I found Dr. J: The Autobiography to be an honest appraisal of a life lived in extremes. At times humorous, at others deeply introspective, Erving lives up to his promise to tell the whole story. And at the end, you feel as though you know the man almost as well as you know the legend. I would consider this a must-read for anyone who is a fan of basketball, or any professional sport for that matter. It should also be required reading for anyone who aspires to be a leader in sports, because whatever his personal failings, Julius Erving will always stand as a leader on the court.