A Marriage Without Regrets: No matter where you are or where you've been, you can have…

by Kay Arthur

"This book isn't about how to have a perfect marriage, or to change our spouses," says Kay. "It's about having the kind of marriage where you can stand before God and say, 'Lord, I was all that You intended me to be.' Only when we make that kind of commitment can we truly have a marriage without regrets!" Speaking candidly about her first marriage, her conversion to Christianity, and her longtime marriage to Jack, Kay offers practical advice on effective communication, security and significance, difficult relationships, parenting, and God's guidelines for divorce and remarriage. Readers will discover what the Bible says about... This rerelease with a fresh new cover (more than 110,000 copies sold) contains the marriage-building and life-changing material Kay has presented to enthusiastic audiences worldwide—helping thousands of people in many countries experience supportive, Christ-centered marriages.

Genres: Marriage, Christian, Nonfiction, Christian Living, Faith, Christian Non Fiction, Spirituality

256 pages, Paperback

First published January 1, 2000

About the author

Kay Lee Arthur was an American Christian author, Bible teacher, and co-founder of Precept Ministries International. Renowned for her accessible and inductive approach to Bible study, she helped millions engage deeply with Scripture. Arthur began her ministry informally, teaching teenagers in her living room alongside her second husband, Jack Arthur. Their work soon grew into a global outreach, headquartered in Chattanooga, Tennessee, under the name Precept Ministries International. She hosted the daily Bible teaching program Precepts for Life and became a respected voice in evangelical circles. Arthur authored numerous books and was a four-time winner of the ECPA Christian Book Award for titles such as A Marriage Without Regrets and The New Inductive Study Bible. Her ministry was rooted in a personal reawakening to faith in the early 1960s, following a divorce and a return to religious life. She and Jack also served briefly as missionaries in Mexico before founding their ministry. Arthur remained active in public faith-based initiatives into her later years and was known for her firm stances on social issues. She passed away on 2025 leaving behind a lasting legacy in Christian education and publishing.

Reviews

[Heather · Rating 4 out of 5]

I really enjoyed this book. It has a great overview of different areas of marriage. I think many couples overlook some of the subjects she touches on. She's not afraid to talk about what God says a man and woman's role is and it's not that women should just stay at home. She also discusses communication, raising children, and sex. All very important subjects to discuss in marriage.
If you're married and want to read more about what God has to say about marriage in not much time (a little over 200 pages) then this is a great book for you.

[Gladys Landing-Corretjer · Rating 5 out of 5]

I believe we all should prayerfully read this book. It is a blessing!

[Stephanie · Rating 4 out of 5]

Kay gives some practical tips, but more importantly keeps bringing your focus back to honoring Christ and reminding the reader what Scripture teaches. Not a book for those who simply regret being in a marriage for whatever the reason; a practical guide for any married person for reminding them that marriage is NOT about your glory, but Gods.

[Ernie · Rating 5 out of 5]

I think everyone should read this book! Men and women. Many people get married and just learn “on the job”. How much better is it to go into a marriage knowing what God expects of you instead of learning as you go. Obviously you will learn as you go on, but learning key aspects of a biblical marriage I believe are foundational. Kay Arthur really hits it home with this one.
If you plan on getting married or know someone getting married, gift them this book. How great would our marriages be if we knew what God expects of us before we get married. He wants us to have a marriage without regrets.

[Jodie · Rating 4 out of 5]

Great Read!

Biblical principles well and plainly written with scripture reference. A very good and reflective read, no matter your current situation in life. Practical advice for a Godly marriage, family, and life. Thank you Kay for your obedience in writing on such a controversial subject as biblical marriage.

[Dina Koble · Rating 4 out of 5]

I read a book on Christian marriage at least once a year. This one has many good reminders. It touches the surface of several areas of marriage. As I reviewed my notes and highlights, it will be easy to revisit some of the good ideas.

[Kristen Jane · Rating 5 out of 5]

So excellent; highly recommend.

[Don]

Bought March 24, 2023 at Mission Store, Newmarket

[Benjamin Cornwell · Rating 2 out of 5]

Decent biblical based advice but she still managed to lace In plenty of her old lady wisdom which I can take it leave.

[Jessica Walton · Rating 4 out of 5]

This is the third book of read by the author I really enjoy her writing style. It’s evident that she’s done a lot of research and is indeed a Bible teacher. 10/10 recommend!

[Patricia Richardson · Rating 4 out of 5]

A good book to have in library; addresses marriage challenges and scripture applications.

[Adrienna · Rating 4 out of 5]

I received a free copy from north highland library. It was a pretty good read, even though some of the logic was dated.

[Raquel · Rating 5 out of 5]

Best Book for restoring your marriage. Clearly explains why you feel the way you do, how God's love and Word can help you through your marriage and restore your life... Helped me clarify questions about loneliness, kids, divorce, My husband role and my role. It also helped me begin to work towards healing of my strive! Love it!!!! Easy read you will be blessed!

[Matt · Rating 2 out of 5]

Kay Arthur definitely has some sound and sage advice for the pre-marital stage, but when it comes to Christian or practical paradigms, she and I are probably night and day. It is worth the read simply to get one thinking on different issues, but ultimately is a dated and biased text.

[Karen · Rating 5 out of 5]

This is the best book written for marriages! If you marriage is in trouble or not read it. Written in a very transparent way Miss Kay writes with a solid Biblical perspective on God's design for marriage. I recommend for all marriages! POWERFUL!!!!

[Cheryl · Rating 3 out of 5]

Duke and I did this study as marriage counseling at Melonie Park before we got married.

[Michael D'Offay · Rating 4 out of 5]

Clearly written and full of sound wisdom. Great foundational book for any married couple especially someone newly married.

[Mickey Eastin · Rating 4 out of 5]

Very good BS. I bet the actual book would have been wonderful too, but enjoyed her study. I like that it wasn't as dry (missing commentary) as her precepts studies.

[Hope · Rating 3 out of 5]

This book covers the basics of marriage well. Some might be offended if they don't believe in traditional roles for men and women.

[Lisa]

Marriage

[Sara · Rating 2 out of 5]

I had picked this book up at a women's event, and just expected great things. I'd had this in a drawer for over a year just waiting for me to get around to it. there is nothing extraordinary about this book. Her theology seems to be pretty on point, but some of the practical advice is appalling to me and can definitely lead down the wrong path.

[Jen · Rating 5 out of 5]

She tells it like it is. In our wishy washy, politically correct day and age, her frank advice is just what my soul was craving.