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The Single Sister Experiment: What Happens When Single Women Stop Having Sex
Discovering that she is not living life according to God's standards, Joan Dallas participates in an experiment that calls into question the sexual choices she has made. Original.
- GenresFiction
300 pages, Paperback
First published August 1, 2005
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March 25, 2008
This story has a great concept and is a good read. If you are fine living in sin, this book is not for you because you will be convicted and want to do better.
October 3, 2017
It's a work of fiction, but I think every single and married woman should read this book! Every young woman should be required to read it!
August 10, 2021
This book had me praising God at the end...He dealt with me in such a way...the Spirit definitely was ushered in for me by the end!!!! GREAT BOOK and ministry!!!!
September 22, 2022
An absolute favorite! When I tell you this one here is a must read, believe me! It was so good and realistic. I loved it times two!
August 19, 2014
I received an autographed copy from the author via contest win a few years ago. The title grabs my curiosity and the concept of single women following the standards of God in the Bible to flee from fornication in which most women cannot stop meeting their fleshly desires even though we are to be committed believers.
Joan had to tackle some difficult internal issues in her past; although some of us do not want to face or go back there and move forward but we have to deal with those things before we can actually go forward in life and relationships. I did like how MiMi Jefferson showed some of these internal, subconscious problems Joan had to face with her eyes wide open, journal to see her feelings on paper, and see how her relationship with her father and mother had something to do with her intimate relations and parenting. I was pulling for this sister to get her life right, get Jesus back in, and search for her rubies (see her value like God does!).
However it could be unbelievable for a woman to place these ladies in a dark auditorium to take on the challenge: single sister experiment and also keeps a watch on them closely, especially Joan to make sure they keep on track and abide to the Word of God (Bible). Yet it was good to see Joan search the scriptures and buy manuals to help with her seeking. Another concept that is flawed is when Joan got her physical annually automatically get checked for STDs/HIV testing. I've been to doctors, clinics, and Planned Parenthood, and you are asked if you would like to have this administered not automatically done even with a physical exam. And usually with HIV testing, you have to sign your approval to have this done as well. Just a thought while reading.
We can relate to these ladies stories in some form or fashion, or can be reluctant as well because of past issues unresolved.
What I loved most is the sister's connection at a church event, sharing their intimate stories and men problems, seeking resolved outcomes, learning godly vs. worldly views on man-woman relationships, and able to share openly without condemning but may get conviction (Holy Spirit). We usually have the "crab mentality" or "can do without u", completeness is better than competing.
*I was teary-eyed at the ending with the "washing of feet" practice.
Adrienna Turner
Dream4More Reviewer, www.dream4more.org
Author of 10 novels and books.
Joan had to tackle some difficult internal issues in her past; although some of us do not want to face or go back there and move forward but we have to deal with those things before we can actually go forward in life and relationships. I did like how MiMi Jefferson showed some of these internal, subconscious problems Joan had to face with her eyes wide open, journal to see her feelings on paper, and see how her relationship with her father and mother had something to do with her intimate relations and parenting. I was pulling for this sister to get her life right, get Jesus back in, and search for her rubies (see her value like God does!).
However it could be unbelievable for a woman to place these ladies in a dark auditorium to take on the challenge: single sister experiment and also keeps a watch on them closely, especially Joan to make sure they keep on track and abide to the Word of God (Bible). Yet it was good to see Joan search the scriptures and buy manuals to help with her seeking. Another concept that is flawed is when Joan got her physical annually automatically get checked for STDs/HIV testing. I've been to doctors, clinics, and Planned Parenthood, and you are asked if you would like to have this administered not automatically done even with a physical exam. And usually with HIV testing, you have to sign your approval to have this done as well. Just a thought while reading.
We can relate to these ladies stories in some form or fashion, or can be reluctant as well because of past issues unresolved.
What I loved most is the sister's connection at a church event, sharing their intimate stories and men problems, seeking resolved outcomes, learning godly vs. worldly views on man-woman relationships, and able to share openly without condemning but may get conviction (Holy Spirit). We usually have the "crab mentality" or "can do without u", completeness is better than competing.
*I was teary-eyed at the ending with the "washing of feet" practice.
Adrienna Turner
Dream4More Reviewer, www.dream4more.org
Author of 10 novels and books.
June 11, 2012
I was initially looking for the next Yada Yada book and when the library didn't have it I found this and the second one (the bride experiment) and I must say - I'm so glad I did. Very well written and the characters were very well developed. While the auditorium was a bit unbelievable the woman there was speaking nothing but the TRUTH! As other reviews have stated, this book has the ability to convict you. And if you are willing to get to the heart of the book - you are a woman with POWER! And when you tap into that power, your life will change in the most amazing ways! I highly recommend it! There are a lot of Christian Fiction books that sugar coat real life and the ways that life can and will change when you truly decide to give your life to Christ and not only talk the talk but walk the walk. It isn't always easy, but it is always worth it.
December 31, 2012
Honestly I loved this book. I thought the scenes with the women all in the auditorium was something else! Can you imagine if God put us all together for just a few minutes of our day and said Listen - you are my children, my princesses and frankly it's time you act like it! Quit begging a man to love you, quit giving away all your love to a man who doesn't deserve you, quit acting like ever other woman is out to get you or your man! And if someone watched you and encouraged you as you studied HIS word how many of us would have more intimate knowledge about our God and the relationship HE wants for us. I recommend this book to all women single or married.
September 23, 2014
This book started off great...but immediately went the other way with the "auditorium" scene (and other unbelievable scenes). Although I understand what the author was trying to convey throughout, this book became kinda "preach-y." It would've been more effective (for me) if the author could've used writing skills to bring about change or conviction. ..in lieu of the book being "church-y." Although the "lady" got on my nerves talking to the main characters throughout the story, they (main characters) balanced it out because they were so colorful and intriguing. Overall...it was worth the time to read it...
October 8, 2009
When I began this book, I found it hard to put it down. Not only is it well written, but it speaks of women today with their urban lifestyles and how we put God on the back burner. Once I finished the book, I wished I had read it years ago and made a concrete decision to follow God. It's truly not that hard, but we make it hard when we want to keep one foot in the world and the other in God's footprint.
February 2, 2010
Great book ! It really makes you think.
February 2, 2015
amaaaaazing!!!
March 8, 2016
This was very different...I thought it was so thought-provoking that I made it the book club selection for the women in my Christian meetup. Must read!
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